Strip Club Reports

Thanks for the info guys. I look forward to testing the waters before too long. I was there on a Friday afternoon when I saw her. Is that her usual schedule?

[QUOTE=Tim P14]I actually saw her yesterday. I tell her everytime that she is my "favorite" and she probably is. We talk usually once a week. She works very hard at her job and I appreciate that. Once you establish yourself with her, the new $20 area with her at BBF with no one else in the room is incredible. The $10 dances are as good as it gets.

She doesn't have much upstairs as you say, but they are sensitive. Spending a little time gently pinching and twisting truly excites her.[/QUOTE]

I posted this over on the Cincy forum, since that's where I'm from, but wanted to post it here as well since this forum gets much more traffic.

I am a long time hobbyist but have never had take-out from a strip club. A few weeks back I was travelling for work and had a great lap dance. I had told the dancer that I was travelling, but that I make it back to that particular city every now and then. At the end of the dance she gave me her phone number and email address (without me asking for them) and told me to contact her the next time I'm in town so that we could get together.

About a week ago I told her that I have another trip to her city scheduled and asked if she was free. We traded a couple of emails and she seemed eager to see me again. Then, in my last email, I mentioned something about going to dinner with her when I get back into town, and her demeanor really changed; now she's saying that she might be busy that week and that I should just call her when I get into town.

So here's the question. When she gave me her contact info, was she expecting that this was going to be a pay-to-play type of arrangement? At this point I'm not sure if she genuinely wanted to see me, like 2 normal people, or if she was expecting to be reimbursed for whatever time and activity we spend together. I'm totally fine if the latter is the case - she was smoking hot and I would gladly oblige, but how do I bring this up to her without implying that she's a ***** or that I'm an idiot?

I'll give you my experience with strippers.

They are out there - they do exist, the strippers who will see you just to "hang out". But 99% of the time, unless you actually steal her heart - it's about the money.

But don't be offended by that, because 99% of the time for us - it's about the tits!

Having said that, simply say "instead of you working all night in that smokey bar for tips, spend a nice evening with me and I'll just tip you" or some such thing. Just be sure you don't tip til AFTER the evening ends! Some of them have been told they are soooo beautiful, they think just gracing her presence is worth $300!

Took the afternoon off yesterday and made a trip to HH and was very pleased to see some new "attractive" faces in the place. It's been a couple of months, so they may not be new, just new to me.

Of course I had my usual magnetic charm as the old familiars were attracted right off the bat. And me being the sucker I am, can't say no, so I obliged Danielle and Destiny in the back -

Renee is new and is young, tight hardbody - says she is only going to be there for another month or so - we'll see. Very very friendly and while I'm not sure about extras, she makes sure that the grinding is ongoing and frequent, even while just joining you at the table.

Also met Tina who is a nice "more experienced" lady with a great body, huge rack, and is just fun. Ran out of time before I could get in the back with her, but looking forward to a return trip.

Two other ladies caught my eye, one taller brunette who had some meat on her bones, in all the right ways. She was fantastic in the back room and I'm quite sure extras are available upon future trips. The other was a more petite cute little blonde girl. She is very new to dancing, but has a sparkling, engaging personality and I can't wait to get to know her a little better.

All in all - way overspent for the time I was there, but had a great time, even with the obligatory visits by some of the familiar faces. I wish there was a way without being a dick to just say that I'm not interested in their company today...

[QUOTE=Benrichards560]I posted this over on the Cincy forum, since that's where I'm from, but wanted to post it here as well since this forum gets much more traffic.

I am a long time hobbyist but have never had take-out from a strip club. A few weeks back I was travelling for work and had a great lap dance. I had told the dancer that I was travelling, but that I make it back to that particular city every now and then. At the end of the dance she gave me her phone number and email address (without me asking for them) and told me to contact her the next time I'm in town so that we could get together.

About a week ago I told her that I have another trip to her city scheduled and asked if she was free. We traded a couple of emails and she seemed eager to see me again. Then, in my last email, I mentioned something about going to dinner with her when I get back into town, and her demeanor really changed; now she's saying that she might be busy that week and that I should just call her when I get into town.

So here's the question. When she gave me her contact info, was she expecting that this was going to be a pay-to-play type of arrangement? At this point I'm not sure if she genuinely wanted to see me, like 2 normal people, or if she was expecting to be reimbursed for whatever time and activity we spend together. I'm totally fine if the latter is the case - she was smoking hot and I would gladly oblige, but how do I bring this up to her without implying that she's a ***** or that I'm an idiot?[/QUOTE]

Um...I'm think it was definitely pay for play. My thinking is "why would she try to date someone who's in town infrequently?" I think the trick is to let HER steer the conversation on what to do when you get in town. I don't know that I would bring up the pay aspect. Just let her do it if it gets to that moment and have a ceiling figure that you're willing to pay. If she's too high, then you've had the pleasure of her company and it only cost you your time.

Too bad she wasn't as forthright as the girl I had that did the same thing to me. She gave me the digits (unasked), then a few hours later whispered to me as I was leaving, "hope you like take out", then gave me a big smile.

[QUOTE=Power Tool]I wish there was a way without being a dick to just say that I'm not interested in their company today.[/QUOTE]I always just try to say something like, "You know, I really came in today hoping to spend time with Destiny. I will be hanging out for a while, so maybe we can hook up before I leave." Or "I promise next time I come in, we can hang out."

Then it is up to you whether to follow through or not. After several diversions, most are perceptive enough and will leave you alone. I don't think I come off as being a dick. Just my 2 cents.

Has anyone one manage to link up with a chocolate bootiful beauty that goes by "Naomi" she bout 5'6"/'7" with heels. Does she take field trips? Any info is appreciated

Does the word's "Glutton for punishment" mean anything to anyone...Well, made a return trip to HH on Friday for more of the same.

This time, upon entry, I was immediately joined at my table by Crystal and Star, which had its good and bad points. On the good side, they are both good company to sit and chat with, and a recent cat-fight at the bar had a couple of the others who I've referred to recently as "not my preferred company" avoiding my table. On the bad side is it prohibited me from spending some time with a few of the ladies I specifically came back to see, not to mention that I had to listen to Star drone on and on about a prominent member of the board who had come in on Tuesday and what a great guy he is - "blah, blah, blah..." How can I guy cock-block a buddy when he's not even in the room???

Had a few drinks (diet coke for me - for those who care) - bought a few drinks for them. Morgan joined us for a drink or two, and she seems like a real down to earth girl, but I did not have time to sample her dancing skills in the back. She did tell me that although some of the "extras" available by some are not with her that I would certainly leave a very happy man - I guess I'll have to go back now...Morgan and Crystal told a story of one of you lucky bastards who went back with both of them and in their words - they maybe got even more worked up and aroused than the guy did, and he left quite satisfied. Good on ya, mate!

Did get a chance to go back with Tina from the previous day. I swear that lady is something else. She also was quick to say that $20 wasn't enough for either of us to catch a disease by sticking fingers or other parts inside certain areas (not that either of us had the diseases), but that this wasn't the place for that...maybe another place might be. She assured me that I would leave with a smile on my face, and boy did I - almost as much from her personality and attitude as from the dance. This gal has her head on her shoulders and understands the game and how to play it. I swear, in or out of the club, she would be a blast to just hang with. I can totally see hanging out at a bar watching a game with her right there next to me, out for a night on the town, or just a night in...great chick!

Did find out that the brunette that I had such a good time with the other day is named Naudia, but didnt get much of a chance to share anything but a wave and a smile and my heart was broken that Renee chose to spend the entire day with probably the best looking dude I've ever seen in a strip club. I can say that knowing full well that it wasnt any of you ugly fargin iceholes. I guess dancers are just superficial and given the choice would rather hang out with a hot looking dude with a great body instead of an also-ran never-was like me, regardless of what a great personality I had. Can you believe she would treat me that way, after all the attention we paid each other yesterday...I'm feeling very sad now...

The absolute highlight of the day though was the number of ladies that came up for a "dollar-dance" only to talk about all the drama that I and my friend caused the day before between the dancers who were "promised" a dance but didn't get it in the time they expected to, nor in the order it was promised. Evidently there was quite the cat-fight. I need to come in with a sign next time that says "Calls NOT taken in the order they are received" - Does a guy's ego good to hear that women were fighting over him, even though I'm quite sure it was my wallet and not me they were fighting over...

Maybe I'll go back again today....

If you, or anyone else decides to go to one of the better clubs, post here. Its short notice by I and others may be up to joining up.

[QUOTE=Benrichards560]At the end of the dance she gave me her phone number and email address (without me asking for them) and told me to contact her the next time I'm in town so that we could get together.

About a week ago I told her that I have another trip to her city scheduled and asked if she was free. We traded a couple of emails and she seemed eager to see me again. Then, in my last email, I mentioned something about going to dinner with her when I get back into town, and her demeanor really changed; now she's saying that she might be busy that week and that I should just call her when I get into town.
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I have had many take out arrangements with strippers... they are all pay for play and that is understood. It is only after many pay for play do the friendships develop... drinking buddies, some freebee now and then, but still largely pay for play. You can get quite a bargin though because most will spend their entire shift with you for the right fee. In clubs that aren't real busy you can get several hours of GFE for about $$ or $$$. It usually works out to about .5 per hour. $.5 will usually get you an hour if that is all the time they want to give you.

They may not always be able to spend a lot of time with you. Most places require the gals work 2 or 3 days during the week in order to "qualify" to work the weekend when clubs are busiest. If you want long time, find out when their usual day off is.

Don't fool yourself, it's about the income for them... even if it progresses further, it is usually some kind of sugar daddy arrangement. Been there, done that too....

And if you think that you can reform them... well maybe if you are their gravy train. But also remember that most of these gals come with a lot of drama.

To clear it up, just talk to her and ask her if the offer to meet is still good, and how much she is looking for. Your dinner invitation scared her off because she isn't looking to give you a freebee for a dinner. She needs to pay the rent, or support her habit.

I would almost guarantee the young lady was suggesting a pay for play situation. Unless you are one of the Colts or a rock star the chances of her hooking up with you for free are slim to none. I have had many take outs at strip clubs and the girls have never been shy about the cash. I would just tell her you don't want her to lose money hanging out with you and I believe things will go well. If not, you are in no worse shape than you are at present. Best of luck.

[QUOTE=Assmanoh]If you, or anyone else decides to go to one of the better clubs, post here. Its short notice by I and others may be up to joining up.[/QUOTE]


Sorry - didn't get this till late - ended up not going tonight - but may make a return trip this week on Tue or Wed daytime if anyone is interested.

Spent Friday afternoon at HH, spent the entire time with a new girl named Renee, what a sweetheart. There are a few other new ones but I never got the chance to talk to them since I was with Renee the whole time, not that I minded of course, something about that girl, she is just plain gorgeous in my humble opinion. I do think I will try and get back there next week and see about some of the others.

[QUOTE=Ilapp]Spent Friday afternoon at HH, spent the entire time with a new girl named Renee, what a sweetheart. There are a few other new ones but I never got the chance to talk to them since I was with Renee the whole time, not that I minded of course, something about that girl, she is just plain gorgeous in my humble opinion. I do think I will try and get back there next week and see about some of the others.[/QUOTE]

I can't believe it - not only did I get CB'd by a fellow brother on the board, but even more - he's the hottest fricken dude I've ever seen in my life. Seriously, Ilapp, somebody that looks like you has no business being a monger. And if you do, change your name to Adonis or something. I mean, all you have to do is snap your fingers and you could have any dancer, provider, massage therapist, sugarbaby, and the list goes on and on...

If you are in this game, I might as well throw in the towel - I don't have a prayer in the world. But worst of all, I think I have a man-crush on you, if not even a little more...until we meet again...

[QUOTE=Power Tool]I can't believe it - not only did I get CB'd by a fellow brother on the board, but even more - he's the hottest fricken dude I've ever seen in my life. Seriously, Ilapp, somebody that looks like you has no business being a monger. And if you do, change your name to Adonis or something. I mean, all you have to do is snap your fingers and you could have any dancer, provider, massage therapist, sugarbaby, and the list goes on and on...

If you are in this game, I might as well throw in the towel - I don't have a prayer in the world. But worst of all, I think I have a man-crush on you, if not even a little more...until we meet again...[/QUOTE]

Am I on the right board here?