[QUOTE=UncleThrax;4040416]I haven't been doing this for long, but I've been through quite a few porn stars in the short time I've been hobbying. This is what I've generally experienced. Here's my two cents on the subject:
Keep in mind that it's a bit trickier dealing with stars that don't manage themselves. Having to deal with an agent means that they may just shut you out even if she may have been willing to provide the service.
I typically try to avoid stars that don't answer their own emails, or solely go through an agency.
Adonia at TLC seems to be the exception to that rule.
There's also the possibility that they have an agent acting as them, but you really can't tell at that point anyway.
In any event, HOW you ask is more important than anything else.
It's important to be discreet but clear. What I usually do is mention that I'm D / D free and have recent tests to prove it and I also ask if they have and rules or requirements that I should know beforehand.
Most of the time, if they don't do BBFS or anything extra they'll immediately say something like "nothing uncovered" or "I don't provide GFE services". Many of them also usually say no Greek as well. Just my observation that those two responses tend to be paired up. If they do offer anything they'll tell you what it is and they'll tell you exactly what they require in terms of recent testing. I've never had them get so technical regarding the type of testing and what to test for, but many won't accept a test older than 5-10 days.
Once in a while, depending on your approach, if they like you they may backtrack on one or more of their "donts". But don't count on it and assume it's a hard no.
That's been what I've experienced so far.[/QUOTE]To add a few things:
- I've had some porn stars say that it has to be the DNA, PCR test. There's a recent for that. The DNA, PCR test will show HIV virus before the other test will and it's more accurate. It's the industry standard. Some porn stars assume when you say that you are tested, that you are getting the industry tests.
- I've had some porn stars refuse to do bareback even with the DNA, PCR test done by my personal doctor because it was not done by TTS. They trust TTS. They don't know or have any reason to trust my family doctor.
- I've had some porn stars refuse to do bareback no matter what.
- I've had reasonable success with showing up at the meet and discussing it with the porn star directly at the time. That way, I know I'm talking directly to her, and not to an agent. You have to be careful though because some will freak if you discuss services. So, I'll just show them the test, say something like "just so you know that I won't be leaving anything unwelcome behind" and / or something like "I prefer not using a condom for anything but I'm ok with whatever you decide" or something similar.
- Finally, I've even had some porn stars say that intercourse has to be covered and then pull off the condom in the middle and say "just don't come in me".
It's not always about disease, BTW. Some porn stars (or escorts) won't do bareback no matter the tests because they don't want to get pregnant.
There's no hard and fast rule and what works for one person, or with one porn star (or regular escort) won't necessarily work in all other cases. You have to just be willing to accept "no" as an answer.
