The Sugar Bowl (in Greensboro & Winston-Salem)

Hi Prof,

Just curious, do you offer this 50 to 100 to every girl you meet or only super hot ones? I did it when I was new to this, and quickly realized that it made no difference whether she agrees to an arrangement or not. Actually it was counter-productive. I don't do it at all now. Just curious how it works out for you.

Stay safe,

Dr. S.

[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;6093748]I tend to agree with this. My usual is 50 or 100 in bigger cities when the woman was SUPER HOT. Despite all the filters, food pictures, and photos of them on vacations, many of these chicks are BROKE. That 50 you toss her for the M&G could be her gas to get to her regular job for the week. It also helps establish that you're not the 'enemy'. So many dudes are antagonistic and rude to the women up until the point she's got her mouth wrapped around his junk. A small gesture will help her put her guard down.

On more than one occasion, I've had them reject the small amount for the M&G after they've decided to meet up with me another time for action. Just the gesture goes a long way.

It never hurts for a woman to see you in a positive light. I didn't say see you as a fool or gullible. Just not a jerk. Just my 2 c.

Happy hunting, gents.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HornyBum85;6094561]Does anyone have any experience with this one:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2985783d-f9ba-45fa-b59b-59b40188edb0[/URL]

Not sure why, but there is something about her pics. Seems sexually confident (and has what seems to be a nice body).

Not usually my type, but maybe.

Thanks![/QUOTE]Dude her profile hasn't been active on over two months. Don't waste your time. If she ever logs back in she will have 7 trillion messages in her in box.

[QUOTE=Banger12;6094914]Dude her profile hasn't been active on over two months. Don't waste your time. If she ever logs back in she will have 7 trillion messages in her in box.[/QUOTE]I noticed that (not logged in for two months). I usually ask. Because if I don't ask, then I for sure don't have an answer.

It was worth the try.

As with most interactions from SA, I feel it out. By far, most of them are down to meet if you offer to buy them lunch. Nothing more than that. However, when I monger in Vegas, which DOES have lots of traffic, high fuel costs, high parking costs and TONS of low paying jobs. If a woman tells me, 'It'll take me a while to get to the strip' or 'Where are you staying?' (Which in many cases means: How much is parking at your casino? I'll offer her a bit of something for the M&G.

If a hot chick in Vegas tells me that she usually asks for 1 K (I don't believe that, but whatever), I'll offer a c-note for a meet and greet because I know that I'm only going to offer her 5. That's worked for me in the past.

However, a few years back. And I'm sure you'll know what I mean by this. When you see some super hot, super cultured AND super educated women in the bowl passing through the site in a city like Winston or Greensboro, who you're CERTAIN won't be on the site for long after being exposed to some of SA's BS, I'll offer her 50 just to get her to sit in front of me. I'm usually good after that.

I don't enjoy pitting women against one another because it's misogynist, but the frequency of women in GSO / WS who can hold a candle to the likes of women in LA, ATL, NY, and Vegas is just so much lower here that I don't roll out the M&G gift unless I absolutely have to. There are a few exceptions in Chapel Hill and Charlotte, but it's very few.

Change your search settings to Vegas and have a look, then change it back to WS / GSO. You'll be angry for the rest of the day. I promise you.

[QUOTE=DrSummer;6094652]Hi Prof,

Just curious, do you offer this 50 to 100 to every girl you meet or only super hot ones? I did it when I was new to this, and quickly realized that it made no difference whether she agrees to an arrangement or not. Actually it was counter-productive. I don't do it at all now. Just curious how it works out for you.

Stay safe,

Dr. S.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HornyBum85;6094561]Does anyone have any experience with this one:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2985783d-f9ba-45fa-b59b-59b40188edb0[/URL]

Not sure why, but there is something about her pics. Seems sexually confident (and has what seems to be a nice body).

Not usually my type, but maybe.

Thanks![/QUOTE]She has not logged in to her account since June.

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6096057]She has not logged in to her account since June.[/QUOTE]Well aware of that. But thank you.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c0755f9d-8c1a-4e49-b3c9-52f25381425d[/URL]

Not sure if link will work as she has blocked me, of course. AstuteBabe, 25 Raleigh, 5'4" AA dark skin, long hair. Caption reads "Cute in the face".

We agreed on 250 for a few hours in my hotel between Raleigh and Greensboro. We were about an hour in drinking wine and making out with her half naked when she asked me to get a bottle water or Dr Pepper from lobby. I had my phone out playing music and left it.

Came back and find her gone having cash apped herself 1 K. I have my phone set for password required but use same passcode for Cash App. Guessing she caught me using passcode on phone and then thought to try it on my Cash App. Astute indeed.

Many fails here on my end. I also should have used a prepaid card with set amount for cash app rather than actual credit card. Maybe delete Cash App altogether. I am fortunate she did not take the phone with her.

I am an idiot. Don't be an idiot like me.

Is there a way to cancel the transaction with Cash App or call your bank and dispute the charge? Claiming that your phone was taken from you or that it was fraudulent?

[QUOTE=ProfessorVan;6096613][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c0755f9d-8c1a-4e49-b3c9-52f25381425d[/URL]

Not sure if link will work as she has blocked me, of course. AstuteBabe, 25 Raleigh, 5'4" AA dark skin, long hair. Caption reads "Cute in the face".

We agreed on 250 for a few hours in my hotel between Raleigh and Greensboro. We were about an hour in drinking wine and making out with her half naked when she asked me to get a bottle water or Dr Pepper from lobby. I had my phone out playing music and left it.

Came back and find her gone having cash apped herself 1 K. I have my phone set for password required but use same passcode for Cash App. Guessing she caught me using passcode on phone and then thought to try it on my Cash App. Astute indeed.

Many fails here on my end. I also should have used a prepaid card with set amount for cash app rather than actual credit card. Maybe delete Cash App altogether. I am fortunate she did not take the phone with her.

I am an idiot. Don't be an idiot like me.[/QUOTE]

It happens to even most careful in the moment of excitement. I have a set of rules that I follow in hotel rooms I don't deviate no matter how convincing the girl is (even if it is a repeat date). I would call cashapp and lodge a complaint, you may be able to get the cash back.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

[QUOTE=ProfessorVan;6096613][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c0755f9d-8c1a-4e49-b3c9-52f25381425d[/URL]

Not sure if link will work as she has blocked me, of course. AstuteBabe, 25 Raleigh, 5'4" AA dark skin, long hair. Caption reads "Cute in the face".

We agreed on 250 for a few hours in my hotel between Raleigh and Greensboro. We were about an hour in drinking wine and making out with her half naked when she asked me to get a bottle water or Dr Pepper from lobby. I had my phone out playing music and left it.

Came back and find her gone having cash apped herself 1 K. I have my phone set for password required but use same passcode for Cash App. Guessing she caught me using passcode on phone and then thought to try it on my Cash App. Astute indeed.

Many fails here on my end. I also should have used a prepaid card with set amount for cash app rather than actual credit card. Maybe delete Cash App altogether. I am fortunate she did not take the phone with her.

I am an idiot. Don't be an idiot like me.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ProfessorVan;6096613][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c0755f9d-8c1a-4e49-b3c9-52f25381425d[/URL]

Not sure if link will work as she has blocked me, of course. AstuteBabe, 25 Raleigh, 5'4" AA dark skin, long hair. Caption reads "Cute in the face".

We agreed on 250 for a few hours in my hotel between Raleigh and Greensboro. We were about an hour in drinking wine and making out with her half naked when she asked me to get a bottle water or Dr Pepper from lobby. I had my phone out playing music and left it.

Came back and find her gone having cash apped herself 1 K. I have my phone set for password required but use same passcode for Cash App. Guessing she caught me using passcode on phone and then thought to try it on my Cash App. Astute indeed.

Many fails here on my end. I also should have used a prepaid card with set amount for cash app rather than actual credit card. Maybe delete Cash App altogether. I am fortunate she did not take the phone with her.

I am an idiot. Don't be an idiot like me.[/QUOTE]Damn, sorry to hear that, what a piece of garbage skank. I'd be figuring out how to meet her again with a different name, number, etc and give her payback somehow. Even if it's just disabling or adding custom pin stripes to her vehicle, something!

[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;6096673]Is there a way to cancel the transaction with Cash App or call your bank and dispute the charge? Claiming that your phone was taken from you or that it was fraudulent?[/QUOTE]Cash App transactions themselves are instantaneous once PIN verified, and thus rarely can be canceled. I filed a fraud complaint with Cash App support as soon as I realized what had happened, but it is a clunky system of Q&A and I get impression I am communicating with bots. Skeptical of what success I have there.

I went to my bank yesterday morning and they are filing a fraud report for me. The lady that is helping me has been in banking quite awhile with healthy experience in this type electronic fraud. She is confident that while it will take a couple weeks, they should be able to get the funds back from Cash App.

I will update here as I get answers. Thanks for concern. Also as a warning to all, I was looking at Cash App settings last month when I signed up for SA premium for the first time since last year, and could not find a way to set spending limits. My thought at the time was to contact Cash App support and if I found I could not determine my daily limits then I would either replace my credit card with a prepaid card or drop the app altogether. But of course I never got around to it. Woulda Shoulda.

Anyone use Secret Benefits? I'm from the Carolinas but have been in Indiana half the year and these Notre Dame chicks seem to prefer SB. I'm about to return to Carolina and was surfing the WS board, and this one hit me up, seems ready to play. Anyone have the info on her? I don't know if you can see her pics but trust me she is a hot MILF.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d0a5f58bd42fe219[/URL]

[QUOTE=Crewzin;6100168]Anyone use Secret Benefits? I'm from the Carolinas but have been in Indiana half the year and these Notre Dame chicks seem to prefer SB. I'm about to return to Carolina and was surfing the WS board, and this one hit me up, seems ready to play. Anyone have the info on her? I don't know if you can see her pics but trust me she is a hot MILF.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d0a5f58bd42fe219[/URL][/QUOTE]I have never had luck with SB. Not closed with a single chick. I see some chicks who are also on SA that I have closed with, but that is about it.

[QUOTE=Crewzin;6100168]Anyone use Secret Benefits? I'm from the Carolinas but have been in Indiana half the year and these Notre Dame chicks seem to prefer SB. I'm about to return to Carolina and was surfing the WS board, and this one hit me up, seems ready to play. Anyone have the info on her? I don't know if you can see her pics but trust me she is a hot MILF.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d0a5f58bd42fe219[/URL][/QUOTE]I have had some success with SB. But it's few and far in between. SA is by far easier to meet with ladies.

Met with her after another SA ghosted our meet. I wish this one had ghosted me as well. She's bigger than in pic, but seemed a willing participany with promise. Gave her way too much and we started with DATY. Which she loved. I gave her three orgasms. We were covered in sweat. Then I asked for reciprocation. Nothing. She was tured and sore. No BJ, no HJ no nothing. Started typing on her phone as I stroked myself. I wanted to nut on her head in spite but was too pissed off. Got dressed and left. Pure amateur. You've been warned.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/289428f2-2470-4111-b0fb-005e3ae9ad03[/URL]