Rants, Raves, and Stupid Tinfoil Hat Wearing Conspiracy Bullshit

[QUOTE=Purple45;3278598]It really would be magic if this was reality but it's mostly not. How many John's have entered the room only to find that the woman is not so young or so lovely? Hopes of an intimate moment was just a fleeting thought once her eyes roll with the rules and the coldness in her attitude is revealed. Lets not forget the greediness of overbooking and the parking lot waiting hoping it really is just "5 more minutes". Then there is the passing of another John in the lobby and you arrive only to find that she skipped the shower, because she is more concerned about her phone or a quick smoke. It only gets worse from there with the messy room, the overflowing trash can, the friend in the bathroom, and most importantly the lack of service. Nateman is correct about most BP girls and we have all seen the change for the worse the longer these girls choose this business as way of life. The good ones you do find are A) the ones who are new to the business and haven't lost what innocence they still have left or B) the ones who live a double a life trying to separate the business from their personal life but sooner, rather then later, the lines become blurred. In the end, no matter how strong a girl is, she will lose something that she will never get back.

Two quotes from two different girls I know: "I am not worthy of love because I fuck everyone" and "I no longer have any emotions. I feel nothing because of all the men I've seen".[/QUOTE]I'm not sure whether it was a post or PM but I believe you told me once that you thought providers were being greedy for charging over a certain amount. From what it sounds like you see women who are lower cost and higher volume and I think that's the issue here. I know not everyone is the same and women who charge higher can have issues too but there is typically a huge difference between the women you see offering $60 qvs and and the women who charge more and work less. You all can complain about the rates of women who at least appear to have their shit together but then continue to see women who provide bad service and / or have drug addictions which causes the good ones to price themselves so they aren't seen as one of that lot. Burn out is a real thing and probably pretty common in those who are high volume. Of course sex work is going to be soul sucking if you are seeing a bunch of men in one day. Most of whom are likely to treat you as little more than a receptacle for their cum. I find it hard to believe women would say those things to you as a client anyways. Who would tell that to someone if that person is part of the issue?

[QUOTE=Purple45;3278598]Two quotes from two different girls I know: [b]"I am not worthy of love because I fuck everyone"[/b]and [b]"I no longer have any emotions. I feel nothing because of all the men I've seen"[/b].[/QUOTE]Seriously this is probably the most depressing shit I've ever read. For your own sanity, stay away from these girls. You're supposed to be enjoying yourself in the hobby not getting dragged down into hopelessness and despair.

[QUOTE=Dsrtp1;3278576]I respectfully disagree that higher education is required to better yourself. By the way, I got my bachelors degrees at the age of 20. Second, your comments assume ms Scorpio isn't saving her money and doesn't have a life plan. Obviously, you can't be a provider for life (although tonka toy from Charlotte may be the exception). She's smart and she'll be fine. Don't worry about her. By the way, I bet she's got more stacks saved than most guys on here.[/QUOTE]Most degrees are pretty useless unless you go for a STEM field and / or go to graduate school. Even then you have to compete with all the other graduates for the same pool of jobs when you have little to no experience in your field and pay off massive student loans. Most I know with a non STEM degree work in another field that's not even related to what they go to school for. It may be rare but some sex workers do save and start their own businesses or invest. It's sad that a bachelor's degree is the new high school diploma but that's what happens when college is pushed down everyone's throats and manufacturing jobs are moved to another country. Starting your own business is, and always has been, one of the few ways to get rich.

Good Response; you knocked that one out of the park.

S.

[QUOTE=InaraIncognito;3278229]"Honest wage"? I don't really see what's so dishonest about it. You pay us to provide a service. There is much more to it than laying on your back. Many of the same business and marketing principles used in "legit businesses" can can also be applied to sex work. I can't speak for anyone else, but I have to deal with the same kinds of issues a self employed family member does. While having a back up plan is good I don't think that anyone who is perfectly fine doing this is willing to forgo going from making hundreds in a day to $10-$15 an hour. Most of us net the same amount of money as an average college graduate does. Some even make as much as a doctor or stock broker. It would be quite a step down to go and get a normal job.

Unfortunately the majority of women in sex work do it to buy their next hit but MS is not one of those people. Sex work attracts many (but not all) of those who are living a rough life already. It may compound their problems but most of the time it's not the direct cause for addiction. You aren't looking at the bigger picture if you think the women who have died recently did so because they were involved in sex work.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Purple45;3278598]It really would be magic if this was reality but it's mostly not. How many John's have entered the room only to find that the woman is not so young or so lovely? Hopes of an intimate moment was just a fleeting thought once her eyes roll with the rules and the coldness in her attitude is revealed. Lets not forget the greediness of overbooking and the parking lot waiting hoping it really is just "5 more minutes". Then there is the passing of another John in the lobby and you arrive only to find that she skipped the shower, because she is more concerned about her phone or a quick smoke. It only gets worse from there with the messy room, the overflowing trash can, the friend in the bathroom, and most importantly the lack of service. Nateman is correct about most BP girls and we have all seen the change for the worse the longer these girls choose this business as way of life. The good ones you do find are A) the ones who are new to the business and haven't lost what innocence they still have left or B) the ones who live a double a life trying to separate the business from their personal life but sooner, rather then later, the lines become blurred. In the end, no matter how strong a girl is, she will lose something that she will never get back.

Two quotes from two different girls I know: "I am not worthy of love because I fuck everyone" and "I no longer have any emotions. I feel nothing because of all the men I've seen".[/QUOTE]Purple hit on something I've often wondered. There are several local Backpage girls who have been doing this since the age of 18. Some continuously for 4 5 even 6 or 7 years. Day in and out. I'm sure some can and will always bring up the fact they have made and make good money as a justification. But how do they look at themselves and what do they see and feel about the girl in the mirror. Coming off a day where they sacrificed their bodies to 5 6 or even 7 or 8 men a day every day. Fucking them in every way they can giving up thier mouth for head to different cocks all day and having men's junk shot all over them. Pretty descriptive but that's it no sugar coating. Will they ever be able to adjust to s meaningful relationship when dreams are filled with visions of numerous men they have been with. Kind of a sad picture in my mind. And what about when they go out with family or friend when you to have a good time constantly fearing your going to run in to clients. What a life. I give these women nothing but respect I'm not going to add to any fears or cause them to view themselves in anything. It a kind way. And finally most don't have any skill set but sex. Adjusting in to a legit world will take some time.

Purple,

Agreed most encounters are not the way I described. We seek out the good ones and hopefully a series of good ones who we get to repeat with here. Preserving the good ones in the A) or B) categories you described is what us hobbyist should be about. They all deserve some level of compassion from us hobbyist. Part of that compassion is leaving when we encounter the worst ones you described so that they are not funded to keep going and drag down themselves/the business. For those who are good, we should do what we can to make it a fun a safe experience for them as well. You expressed more compassion in your postings for Haze and Muneka than I gathered from the post below. Perhaps this was composed on a bad day. Although the reality can be bleak for many of the women in this business we should do what we can to make it good and rewarding for those A&B category ladies during their brief time in the hobby. Where we can, we should also work to keep any of them from ending like Haze or Muneka did.

[QUOTE=Purple45;3278598]It really would be magic if this was reality but it's mostly not. How many John's have entered the room only to find that the woman is not so young or so lovely? Hopes of an intimate moment was just a fleeting thought once her eyes roll with the rules and the coldness in her attitude is revealed. Lets not forget the greediness of overbooking and the parking lot waiting hoping it really is just "5 more minutes". Then there is the passing of another John in the lobby and you arrive only to find that she skipped the shower, because she is more concerned about her phone or a quick smoke. It only gets worse from there with the messy room, the overflowing trash can, the friend in the bathroom, and most importantly the lack of service. Nateman is correct about most BP girls and we have all seen the change for the worse the longer these girls choose this business as way of life. The good ones you do find are A) the ones who are new to the business and haven't lost what innocence they still have left or B) the ones who live a double a life trying to separate the business from their personal life but sooner, rather then later, the lines become blurred. In the end, no matter how strong a girl is, she will lose something that she will never get back.

Two quotes from two different girls I know: "I am not worthy of love because I fuck everyone" and "I no longer have any emotions. I feel nothing because of all the men I've seen".[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Nateman;3278156]That is commendable you have your own business and it would be great for a hooker to save her cash and eventually start a legit business of her own. The average shelf life of a BP gal just isn't that long and as we have seen this past year (with 3 gals dying), sometimes their physical life is not that long either. Many of these girls have demons, perhaps 70% or better? Many of them become jaded, abused, get arrested and wouldn't make for ideal wife material. I would be willing to bet a few of them even catch an STD or 2 along the way. I have nothing against mizzz scorpio but to me it is a turn off to see a working gal come here and prattle on presenting themselves as an intellectual. She may very well be a smart woman but my point towards the end of my original comment is that she would do better in life in the long term if she went legit. One way to do that is indeed via higher education or learning a legit life skill that pays an honest wage. Starting a legit business would be even better There will always be a call for working girls but the average one on BP isn't around for long.[/QUOTE]I don't claim to be an intellectual that's your personal perception of me. I don't have to take an IQ test to prove my aptitude to learn or go to a school to gain knowledge. I can speak how I want to and I can be understood clearly by everyone. I don't claim to be smarter or better than any dick in the room. I don't have to prove my worth to you in any way. LOL.

I carry myself as a Lady because I am one. I demand equal respect because I give it to those who deserve it. You fail to realize it's your narrow minded way of thinking that will be your own down fall. Your logic is irrational. Because I have a vagina I should not speak? Because you have a penis you should be the only person to benefit from words on a screen?

I have met many characters from all walks of life in my short time on this earth. Your kind has always made me laugh the hardest. The reason being is you have have no clue what real strength I'm you have no clue what real manhood is. So your balls dropped. Woopty fucking do! A real man gives respect. Something you highly lack. I feel sorry for any lady in your life including your mother. She must have had it hard dealing with your mind set. Honestly it has to be your issue with me stems from your issue with powerful women. Did you never learn from a female teacher? Have you ever had a sucessful girlfriend? You need to do some soul searching before you decide to take me on.

I am a highly skilled provider that's not dumb stupid or slow. I take pride in myself and I do it gracefully if I may say so LOL.

Like I have said before if your type is going and dumb I'm not your gal! But let me make one thing very clear to you, if you ever decide to see me be prepared. Admin said it correctly, before you get in the ring know how to box.

While the world was playing checkers, I will always be playing chess!!FYI I have a wonderful portfolio and I'm netting very nicely lmao LAME ASS!!

MZ.

[QUOTE=NotDesprt;3279214]Purple hit on something I've often wondered. There are several local Backpage girls who have been doing this since the age of 18. Some continuously for 4 5 even 6 or 7 years. Day in and out. I'm sure some can and will always bring up the fact they have made and make good money as a justification. But how do they look at themselves and what do they see and feel about the girl in the mirror. Coming off a day where they sacrificed their bodies to 5 6 or even 7 or 8 men a day every day. Fucking them in every way they can giving up thier mouth for head to different cocks all day and having men's junk shot all over them. Pretty descriptive but that's it no sugar coating. Will they ever be able to adjust to s meaningful relationship when dreams are filled with visions of numerous men they have been with. Kind of a sad picture in my mind. And what about when they go out with family or friend when you to have a good time constantly fearing your going to run in to clients. What a life. I give these women nothing but respect I'm not going to add to any fears or cause them to view themselves in anything. It a kind way. And finally most don't have any skill set but sex. Adjusting in to a legit world will take some time.[/QUOTE]You guys like making conjectures on how we feel about ourselves, our life and job skills, how many clients we see in a day, etc. Don't you? If you feel that way about us than what does that say about you if you are continuing to see us? Seriously. This may be true for some but not for all so please stop acting like you know what goes on in our heads and in our day to day lives. If you see us out in public leave us alone. Simple as that. You are likely to be with your wife and kids anyways.

[blue]It's pretty clear to me that he's transferring his feeling of self loathing to the chicks. Add the words "like me" to the 5, 6 or even 7 or 8 men" and there it is.

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[QUOTE=NotDesprt;3279214]Purple hit on something I've often wondered. There are several local Backpage girls who have been doing this since the age of 18. Some continuously for 4 5 even 6 or 7 years. Day in and out. I'm sure some can and will always bring up the fact they have made and make good money as a justification. But how do they look at themselves and what do they see and feel about the girl in the mirror. Coming off a day where they sacrificed their bodies to 5 6 or even 7 or 8 men a day every day. Fucking them in every way they can giving up thier mouth for head to different cocks all day and having men's junk shot all over them. Pretty descriptive but that's it no sugar coating. Will they ever be able to adjust to s meaningful relationship when dreams are filled with visions of numerous men they have been with. Kind of a sad picture in my mind. And what about when they go out with family or friend when you to have a good time constantly fearing your going to run in to clients. What a life. I give these women nothing but respect I'm not going to add to any fears or cause them to view themselves in anything. It a kind way. And finally most don't have any skill set but sex. Adjusting in to a legit world will take some time.[/QUOTE]Giving it too much thought. Just see a girl, get off, and move on with your life. It's supposed to be fun. A fantasy. Your fantasy. Don't turn the dream into a nightmare. The last thing on my mind is how many she saw before me. I don't fucking care about that. That's not my business. I'm there to handle my business and have fun doing it. You're not going to be able to get off with this type of mindset. That's just my perspective. You do what you want. It just doesn't seem like you guys are enjoying yourselves. Hobbying is supposed to be an escape from real life not an exercise in psychoanalysis of a provider. Snap out of it boys!

[QUOTE=NotDesprt;3279214]Purple hit on something I've often wondered. There are several local Backpage girls who have been doing this since the age of 18. Some continuously for 4 5 even 6 or 7 years. Day in and out. I'm sure some can and will always bring up the fact they have made and make good money as a justification. But how do they look at themselves and what do they see and feel about the girl in the mirror. Coming off a day where they sacrificed their bodies to 5 6 or even 7 or 8 men a day every day. Fucking them in every way they can giving up thier mouth for head to different cocks all day and having men's junk shot all over them. Pretty descriptive but that's it no sugar coating. Will they ever be able to adjust to s meaningful relationship when dreams are filled with visions of numerous men they have been with. Kind of a sad picture in my mind. And what about when they go out with family or friend when you to have a good time constantly fearing your going to run in to clients. What a life. I give these women nothing but respect I'm not going to add to any fears or cause them to view themselves in anything. It a kind way. And finally most don't have any skill set but sex. Adjusting in to a legit world will take some time.[/QUOTE]The girl in the mirror is more beautiful than the female you think us to be. We wash out some down the drain like the rest of the women who have one night stands, date, and are married to assholes. Lmfao! As far as fearing a client in public. Really it's simply this, you are more afraid of running into me than I'm afraid to run into you!

As far as mental state. What's yours? You buy a hole to cum in while you constantly tell yourself that that not lust, greed, and infadelity. So do your sins wash off? LOL No one on any forum has any right to judge or try to play psychiatrist. If you think we paint ourselves a bleak picture of judge ourselves for our choice, you paint yourself with the same brush. Choices are contious decisions we make. Everyone is responsible for what they choose to do and not do. So hold your own inventory. Make sure your side of the street is clean before you try to clean ours. BTW that will never happen so stay out of our lane.

We don't question how you sleep at night or how you have regular sex with your partner. It must take some serious acclimating to have fun without paying for it. LOL (serious sarcasm).

Get off our clits and I will promise not to ride your dicks. If you want to pass judgement realize every time you point at us there are three fingers pointed right back at you. Crazy thing is its deflection so what are you really worried about? It's not out choices it's your own.

MZ.

[QUOTE=GetControl;3279569]Giving it too much thought. Just see a girl, get off, and move on with your life. It's supposed to be fun. A fantasy. Your fantasy. Don't turn the dream into a nightmare. The last thing on my mind is how many she saw before me. I don't fucking care about that. That's not my business. I'm there to handle my business and have fun doing it. You're not going to be able to get off with this type of mindset. That's just my perspective. You do what you want. It just doesn't seem like you guys are enjoying yourselves. Hobbying is supposed to be an escape from real life not an exercise in psychoanalysis of a provider. Snap out of it boys![/QUOTE]Your right. Believe I will take a short break. Examine my motives and desires. Come back with a fresh outlook and remember why I got in to this hobby in the first place. That was to do exactly what Control described.

[QUOTE=InaraIncognito;3279501]You guys like making conjectures on how we feel about ourselves, our life and job skills, how many clients we see in a day, etc. Don't you? If you feel that way about us than what does that say about you if you are continuing to see us? Seriously. This may be true for some but not for all so please stop acting like you know what goes on in our heads and in our day to day lives. If you see us out in public leave us alone. Simple as that. You are likely to be with your wife and kids anyways.

[blue]It's pretty clear to me that he's transferring his feeling of self loathing to the chicks. Add the words "like me" to the 5, 6 or even 7 or 8 men" and there it is.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]OK I Digressed. Had a mental break with reality and fell in to a discussion of Freudian thought. Got to get back to the basics and I'll be coming home with a big smile once again. Thanks guys. Needed a slap upside my head to bring me back. Think I'll go get laid today it's been a while. Inara PM me a clue you seem like you got it together. I'll pay you a visit.

I have never known a SP, not on drugs, who didn't want to get out of this line of work. Their opinion is that women who are not drug addicts, who continue to have sex with multiple men for money, have serious mental issues. I tend to agree.

[QUOTE=InaraIncognito;3278229]While having a back up plan is good I don't think that anyone who is perfectly fine doing this is willing to forgo going from making hundreds in a day to $10-$15 an hour. Most of us net the same amount of money as an average college graduate does. Some even make as much as a doctor or stock broker. It would be quite a step down to go and get a normal job. n.[/QUOTE]

Yep, thus the mental instability I referred to. It's ubiquitous. No woman who remains in this profession for any length of time is mentally stable.

[QUOTE=Purple45;3278598]

Two quotes from two different girls I know: "I am not worthy of love because I fuck everyone" and "I no longer have any emotions. I feel nothing because of all the men I've seen".[/QUOTE]

Easy solution. Once interest rates rise to a certain point, cut a check for $65,000 to pay off the loan getting your MBA and watch your salary double. Think long term.

[QUOTE=InaraIncognito;3278703] and pay off massive student loans.[/QUOTE]