Sugar Daddy Sites

Haven't been on in a couple years. I still fuck one that I met through the site and now there is no donation ever. We just spent a weekend in Palm Springs with an amazing fuck fest. She is up for going to swing clubs, Strip clubs and more. What I notice when I went on the site tonight was that there were very few women who were signed up to receive messages and lots of prompting to get the up grade so that all the girls who aren't forking out the money can send and receive mail. I don't remember having to to that last time and I thought it would open me up to a lot of spam. Any advice on this would be appreciated.

[QUOTE=LargeEss;2562513]Haven't been on in a couple years. I still fuck one that I met through the site and now there is no donation ever. We just spent a weekend in Palm Springs with an amazing fuck fest. She is up for going to swing clubs, Strip clubs and more. What I notice when I went on the site tonight was that there were very few women who were signed up to receive messages and lots of prompting to get the up grade so that all the girls who aren't forking out the money can send and receive mail. I don't remember having to to that last time and I thought it would open me up to a lot of spam. Any advice on this would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]Just sign up. I don't get any spam.

I'm new to the SD thing but not to the pay per play thing. I usually go to Tijuana about every 3 weeks I joined SA a month ago and met 10 girls which I had FC with 6 of them after meeting them for coffee and talking to them for an hour. The other 4, I was not interested in 2 of them after the meeting, they either were not my type or they did not look like their photos. The third thought that she was going to get paid for just going on a date with me and when I told her expect sex, she got offended. The fourth was a total Pro that wanted $600 for FC even though my profile states that I'm not looking for an escort type of a girl. My criteria is a girl who has a regular job but needs a little extra to make ends meet.

It started very slow for me, either I didn't get a response or they wanted at least $500 per meeting. I finally figured it out, when you send them a message don't offer them how much money you are going to give them! I started messaging them about meeting for coffee to see if we like each other before discussing any arrangement. And when I met them I dressed up and acted like I was on a regular date. I tried to make them comfortable with me and talk to them like you would talk to a regular girl on a date. I never mentioned money or how much they wanted. After an hour or so I asked them if they wanted to go to my place or somewhere that we can be alone and they all said yes. I usually spend about 3 hours with them and have sex twice in that period. After I'm done I put $200 in their bag, never handed them the money directly. I had one stayed with me the whole night and I left $250 in her bag. She happens to be an aerobics instructor at a gym with an amazing body.

The sex is incredible with all of them, I even did a stupid thing and did 3 of them without protection. CITM or face or tits or on the ass, 2 of them swallow. Everything except anal is available. Some promised anal in the future. . One of them is 18 years and 2 weeks old (I asked to see her I'd) and has to sneak out of her bedroom window while her parents are asleep. They all are texting me about the next meeting. I am meeting 2 new girls on Friday, 1 on Saturday and 1 on Sunday. Now I'm at a point where I can afford to be very picky. I also have to mention that I'm 52 in a good shape and look younger than my age. I dress up all the time and drive a nice car and live in a nice house in a good neighborhood.

My question is am I paying too much? And any advice would be appreciated.

[QUOTE=jendabaze;2571861]My question is am I paying too much? And any advice would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]You pay what you can afford to pay. You decide what is too much. Everyone on this board swears you should pay 100. If you have quality women and have the funds, then pay what you believe them to be worth. If you want to pay less just give them less, and if they get mad just let them know that's all you have on you at that moment or that's all you want to pay.

[QUOTE=jendabaze;2571861] did a stupid thing and did 3 of them without protection.
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question is am I paying too much? And any advice would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]I do all of them without protection, and I let them know ahead of time that I am going to cum inside them.

200 a meeting seems fair to me, as that is what I pay most of mine (and have for a decade). I expect at least an hour or a few, and sex at least twice. For overnights I'll go up to 300 and dinner.

I'll go up to 300 one time only for a known pornstar, as long as it is BBFS.

For a half hour quicky, 100 to 120 max.

These rates are fair and reasonable IMO, though some guys will negotiate for less.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2565819]Just sign up. I don't get any spam.[/QUOTE]Sugar daddy for me didn't seem to cause much of a spam increase.

Joining Seeking arrangement caused a huge flood of spam.

I have my own mail server, so I used different accounts for each, so I know for a fact that SA sold my email to massive spammers. Asshats.

[QUOTE=jendabaze;2571861]I'm new to the SD thing but not to the pay per play thing. I usually go to Tijuana about every 3 weeks I joined SA a month ago and met 10 girls which I had FC with 6 of them after meeting them for coffee and talking to them for an hour. The other 4, I was not interested in 2 of them after the meeting, they either were not my type or they did not look like their photos. The third thought that she was going to get paid for just going on a date with me and when I told her expect sex, she got offended. The fourth was a total Pro that wanted $600 for FC even though my profile states that I'm not looking for an escort type of a girl. My criteria is a girl who has a regular job but needs a little extra to make ends meet.

It started very slow for me, either I didn't get a response or they wanted at least $500 per meeting. I finally figured it out, when you send them a message don't offer them how much money you are going to give them! I started messaging them about meeting for coffee to see if we like each other before discussing any arrangement. And when I met them I dressed up and acted like I was on a regular date. I tried to make them comfortable with me and talk to them like you would talk to a regular girl on a date. I never mentioned money or how much they wanted. After an hour or so I asked them if they wanted to go to my place or somewhere that we can be alone and they all said yes. I usually spend about 3 hours with them and have sex twice in that period. After I'm done I put $200 in their bag, never handed them the money directly. I had one stayed with me the whole night and I left $250 in her bag. She happens to be an aerobics instructor at a gym with an amazing body.

The sex is incredible with all of them, I even did a stupid thing and did 3 of them without protection. CITM or face or tits or on the ass, 2 of them swallow. Everything except anal is available. Some promised anal in the future. . One of them is 18 years and 2 weeks old (I asked to see her I'd) and has to sneak out of her bedroom window while her parents are asleep. They all are texting me about the next meeting. I am meeting 2 new girls on Friday, 1 on Saturday and 1 on Sunday. Now I'm at a point where I can afford to be very picky. I also have to mention that I'm 52 in a good shape and look younger than my age. I dress up all the time and drive a nice car and live in a nice house in a good neighborhood.

My question is am I paying too much? And any advice would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]You are not paying too much. You did a smart thing and filled up your pipeline. But truthfully you can have any girl you want for $$. So if your budget allows, then no problem. My budget does not allow, so I only date $ girls. It takes more time, but there is really no shortage of girls.

Also if you see any girl regularly, the unexpected expenses start to roll in. So even my $ with a long term girl is going to creep up. If it creeps past $.5 I start to lose interest. But these are long term girls .. meaning I have banged them at least 50 times. A shorter term girl I will allow to creep up to $.3 meaning about 10 dates or so.

But I start them all at a $ as I know the expenses will creep in one way or another eventually. And you cant deny a girl like that. If you keep seeing those $$ girls it will start to creep to something higher than that at some point. But only you know your budget and ultimate end game. Keep up the good work. And post pics when you can, as they are very much appreciated.

A recent example is this virgin I posted about on the richmond SD thread. I went straight to $$ a date. Then the sex stopped completely as the girl began to absorb my multi-girl lifestyle (which I did not hide from her). But she is actually living with me, so its a totally different scenario. Anyway the sex and the sugar have both come to an end, but she is still staying here and staying out of my way when I have a date. So there are a myriad of possibilities.

[QUOTE=CreamyBare;2572351]Sugar daddy for me didn't seem to cause much of a spam increase.

Joining Seeking arrangement caused a huge flood of spam.

I have my own mail server, so I used different accounts for each, so I know for a fact that SA sold my email to massive spammers. Asshats.[/QUOTE]Its weird that I don't get any spam. None. And I have a dedicated account for both SA and SD4M, so it would be obvious to me if it was coming from them.

Has any one had any experience with the girls who on their profile have budget expectation of High, Substantial, Moderate and Practical?

How much did they accept? I only contacted the Negotiable and Minimal expectation girls.

[QUOTE=jendabaze;2576122]Has any one had any experience with the girls who on their profile have budget expectation of High, Substantial, Moderate and Practical?

How much did they accept? I only contacted the Negotiable and Minimal expectation girls.[/QUOTE]I mostly disregard that part of their profile. But the ones that say "negotiable" are usually the best prospects.

1. An 18 year old virgin when I met her that I have had sex with almost 10 times that is living with me for the summer. She will be gone in a week.

2. My ATF the black barbie fucking machine. Fucked her for 2.5 hours last night.
(we daddy / daughter role play. It's hot.)

3. My "church girl". A freak on the DL.

4. My X the stripper. A 10 in looks and a 9 in bed.

5. My new pixie from the hood. 4'11" and 95 lbs. She identifies as "little".
(if you know what that means).

They are all AA. Thats all I really want because they are the best in bed IMHO.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2590801]1. An 18 year old virgin when I met her that I have had sex with almost 10 times that is living with me for the summer. She will be gone in a week.

2. My ATF the black barbie fucking machine. Fucked her for 2.5 hours last night.
(we daddy / daughter role play. It's hot.)

3. My "church girl". A freak on the DL.

4. My X the stripper. A 10 in looks and a 9 in bed.

5. My new pixie from the hood. 4'11" and 95 lbs. She identifies as "little".
(if you know what that means).

They are all AA. Thats all I really want because they are the best in bed IMHO.[/QUOTE]Yeah, and so few of them are pros.

I bet they target these sites.

[QUOTE=Hundred;2591231]Yeah, and so few of them are pros.[/QUOTE]Actually none of these girls are. The stripper shakes down guys at work but that's it. But after many years of doing this I got the real deal. You can believe it or not. Date a few hundred of them and you will find some gems/ A lot of work but well worth the reward.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2591282]Actually none of these girls are. The stripper shakes down guys at work but that's it. But after many years of doing this I got the real deal. You can believe it or not. Date a few hundred of them and you will find some gems/ A lot of work but well worth the reward.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I meet my civilian girlfriends on pay sites. This way I know they are nonpros.