Sugarbabies and Arrangements

Tell us her SA name, we will try to make sure she never gets a dime from anyone again.

[QUOTE=ChadwicksDog;2948450]My next arrangement will be not my first rodeo. Yet, even the most cynical and experienced of us can be taken for a ride by a great con artist. Case in point, a girl on SA who literally conned me out of 900 flowers.

On Monday, we met up in a public place and she turned on the water works about an overdrawn bank account and not being able to make rent. She was providing a home for her two baby sisters and they were all going to be homeless unless she found a job right away. Or found a patron like yours truly. I was skeptical and suggested that we discuss these matters further at a local establishment with numbers on the doors. We did that and 200 Fritos fell on the table.

The next day, she calls crying and it turns out the bank account is in even worse shape than she imagined. First Merit was charging her $35 per day, plus $35 per transaction that went through while the account was in the red. Now, friends, I know that I'm preaching to the choir, but you can't just take a proto-professional at her word--and I certainly did not.

We met at a park and I asked her to bring her bank statements. She pulled out her phone and showed me the bank account transactions, including 200 Fritos that fell in there from our visit to the room with a number on the door. I was injured in our previous title about so I had to pass on a return visit, but I was convinced that this girl and her sisters were going to be homeless, so I gave her 200 Doritos to settle the account until the girl's final pay check from her old job was direct-deposited. She was so grateful and said that she wanted to date me without any bonuses because she really liked me and because nobody had offered to help her before without demanding her soul. We parted as friends.

On Wednesday afternoon my phone was vibrating fast and furious. A bunch of scheduled debits were hitting the girl's bank account and she was in the red again and the bank was off to the races with the fees and condemnation. She begged me to meet her. I was hesitant. I was still injured from Monday when we went without the slippery stuff and I had torn. We met at a local eatery and once again she showed me the phone with the bank transactions. Some things were not quite right and they were registering with me but not fast enough. For example, she never let me hold the phone, never let me scroll down on the phone, and when she said she had deposited all 400 potato chips that I had given her, I had only seen 200 among the transactions. Another vexing issue is that she could not close the account because it was technically in her grandma's name and her grandma refused to get on the phone so I could suggest some strategies on how to settle with the bank for less than what the bank was asking. The girl said her grandma was angry over the state of the account and would not cooperate with the girl until the girl "fixed" the account.

The girl said if I could not help she might have to return to the fertile fields of SA. Only she never said so much; she would say only, "I don't know what I'll do but I'll figure it out. " She knew that I knew what that meant.

Before long, I was taking my "girlfriend" to the ATM and resolving her bank account problems with 700 Snickers. She wiped her tears and talked about what we were going to do for the weekend and how she had told her sisters about me because she was excited about our relationship.

Two hours later, I casually texted her and a man called me back moments later. He asked me who I was and how I knew his girlfriend. I stammered something almost incoherent and hung up. Not two minutes later, the texts arrived in my phone. "Could you please tell my bf that we never hooked up? He's going to hurt me if you don't help me. ".

The next 10 minutes saw a series of texts back and forth in which I was asked to deny everything to this guy, all the while the girl was sending me furtive texts that said, "Please please, he'll beat me to death. Those bruises on my arm that you noticed? That I said were from moving boxes? They were from him hurting me. ".

Yeah, 1100 Scooby Snacks later, I'm not convinced that I ever got the truth before, during or after.

Don't trust any of them. Ever.[/QUOTE]

Tall & Chic: stood me up last year, went dark.

Reagannn: met her last year. Very nice in text. Cold and distant in person.

[QUOTE=ChadwicksDog;2948450]Yeah, 1100 Scooby Snacks later, I'm not convinced that I ever got the truth before, during or after.[/QUOTE]Hi Chadwick,

My account is overdrawn as well! I can prove it.

So how many times did you hook up with her? Just once from reading your post but that could have been lost in the post somewhere.

[QUOTE=EnzoAmore;2951339]Tell us her SA name, we will try to make sure she never gets a dime from anyone again.[/QUOTE]She's off the site for now anyway.

[QUOTE=ChadwicksDog;2949179]Actually my post was about somebody's habitual behavior, not any infections or diseases.

[blue]Are you suggesting perhaps that I lack the ability to understand my native language?

Perhaps, the lack of understanding is on your part, do you understand the difference between "stating" and "implying?" Allow me to give an example.

Statement: Chad, you are a fucking douchebag.

Implying: Chad all the guys I know that have put up posts like yours are fucking douchebags.

You implied, without proof, that a person was very likely to have a gift that kept on giving based on a physical description. This is not my first rodeo.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]I'm sorry; this was a misunderstanding because I didn't know if I could say that a person may be using drugs so I was trying to talk in "code" about it, but it seemed like I was talking about a disease, not drugs.

Just as an explanation, I met "Arizona" one time in person and I never hooked up with her. I have no vendetta against her. When I met her, she was frighteningly thin and her face looked ashen like the before / after photos for the anti-meth or anti-opioid ad campaign. We parted on good terms, though she was really disappointed that I didn't want her. I gave her $20 for the gas that she wasted driving to meet and I apologized that I couldn't establish a relationship with her. Recently, she texted me asking me if I knew where to score some drugs. I ignored the texts and then a guy called me repeatedly. The phone number matched a guy's name on FB that is friends with "Arizona. " The guy has been arrested on drug charges in the past. His dad happens to be a police officer.

The whole situation was not good in my view, and that's why I advised people to "avoid. " I really was NOT trying to say she has AIDS or HIV in my previous post. I'm sorry that I left that impression on anybody. I was trying to be too clever in my wording, when I should have just told this story. I didn't mean to piss off anybody and I hope you all accept my apology.

[QUOTE=ChadwicksDog;2948450]My next arrangement will be not my first rodeo. Yet, even the most cynical and experienced of us can be taken for a ride by a great con artist. Case in point, a girl on SA who literally conned me out of 900 flowers.

On Monday, we met up in a public place and she turned on the water works about an overdrawn bank account and not being able to make rent. She was providing a home for her two baby sisters and they were all going to be homeless unless she found a job right away. Or found a patron like yours truly. I was skeptical and suggested that we discuss these matters further at a local establishment with numbers on the doors. We did that and 200 Fritos fell on the table.

The next day, she calls crying and it turns out the bank account is in even worse shape than she imagined. First Merit was charging her $35 per day, plus $35 per transaction that went through while the account was in the red. Now, friends, I know that I'm preaching to the choir, but you can't just take a proto-professional at her word--and I certainly did not.

We met at a park and I asked her to bring her bank statements. She pulled out her phone and showed me the bank account transactions, including 200 Fritos that fell in there from our visit to the room with a number on the door. I was injured in our previous title about so I had to pass on a return visit, but I was convinced that this girl and her sisters were going to be homeless, so I gave her 200 Doritos to settle the account until the girl's final pay check from her old job was direct-deposited. She was so grateful and said that she wanted to date me without any bonuses because she really liked me and because nobody had offered to help her before without demanding her soul. We parted as friends.

On Wednesday afternoon my phone was vibrating fast and furious. A bunch of scheduled debits were hitting the girl's bank account and she was in the red again and the bank was off to the races with the fees and condemnation. She begged me to meet her. I was hesitant. I was still injured from Monday when we went without the slippery stuff and I had torn. We met at a local eatery and once again she showed me the phone with the bank transactions. Some things were not quite right and they were registering with me but not fast enough. For example, she never let me hold the phone, never let me scroll down on the phone, and when she said she had deposited all 400 potato chips that I had given her, I had only seen 200 among the transactions. Another vexing issue is that she could not close the account because it was technically in her grandma's name and her grandma refused to get on the phone so I could suggest some strategies on how to settle with the bank for less than what the bank was asking. The girl said her grandma was angry over the state of the account and would not cooperate with the girl until the girl "fixed" the account.

The girl said if I could not help she might have to return to the fertile fields of SA. Only she never said so much; she would say only, "I don't know what I'll do but I'll figure it out. " She knew that I knew what that meant.

Before long, I was taking my "girlfriend" to the ATM and resolving her bank account problems with 700 Snickers. She wiped her tears and talked about what we were going to do for the weekend and how she had told her sisters about me because she was excited about our relationship.

Two hours later, I casually texted her and a man called me back moments later. He asked me who I was and how I knew his girlfriend. I stammered something almost incoherent and hung up. Not two minutes later, the texts arrived in my phone. "Could you please tell my bf that we never hooked up? He's going to hurt me if you don't help me. ".

The next 10 minutes saw a series of texts back and forth in which I was asked to deny everything to this guy, all the while the girl was sending me furtive texts that said, "Please please, he'll beat me to death. Those bruises on my arm that you noticed? That I said were from moving boxes? They were from him hurting me. ".

Yeah, 1100 Scooby Snacks later, I'm not convinced that I ever got the truth before, during or after.

Don't trust any of them. Ever.[/QUOTE]My ass bleeds with you on this one. Before I hooked up with my current job that makes relationships impossible I met someone on a similar site that did exactly what happened to you. 2 k in the whole in 3 months. Then the boyfriend came back. He'll beat me, you've got to help me, I'll be dead. I knew I had been put on at that moment. After a pause I said give him your cell but call me on another line. When she did I ran a phone trace, got the address and then called the police saying there was an assault in progress. I called her cell with the guy still on and told him everything, but added the proverbial "you already knew that" line at the end. They were good on the phone, by the way it sounded he was beating the hell out of her. Convincing enough for the police to barge in.

I guess the moral is, junkies will always be junkies, you can't make a prostitute into a house wife, and be as hard and uncaring as possible when they tearfully beg for money.

[QUOTE=OldGamer;2957215]My ass bleeds with you on this one. Before I hooked up with my current job that makes relationships impossible I met someone on a similar site that did exactly what happened to you. 2 k in the whole in 3 months. Then the boyfriend came back. He'll beat me, you've got to help me, I'll be dead. I knew I had been put on at that moment. After a pause I said give him your cell but call me on another line. When she did I ran a phone trace, got the address and then called the police saying there was an assault in progress. I called her cell with the guy still on and told him everything, but added the proverbial "you already knew that" line at the end. They were good on the phone, by the way it sounded he was beating the hell out of her. Convincing enough for the police to barge in.

I guess the moral is, junkies will always be junkies, you can't make a prostitute into a house wife, and be as hard and uncaring as possible when they tearfully beg for money.[/QUOTE]Would be hilarious but sad if it was the same girl. Truth is, they all learn how to scam / be a con artist from each other. We're just patsies.

There are a surprising number of women on SA who are currently or who were formerly military po-po. Some of them are attractive, too. My buddy says the key word is po-po, and I agree, but it's a head scratcher. Either it's an operation or a bunch of girls who perhaps worked together all started using the site. Either way, I'm not interested, but be careful.

[QUOTE=RoadWarrior007;2939471]LucyxoLocke. Wants 450.

Kendra. W. Good convo then no response.

ElizaKat. Setup time / place, I paid for a nice room after confirmation that morning only to have NCNS.

ELrxa. Wants more than 300.

TheEngineer. Lots of PMs to setup a M&G but then no response.

Xtinaax100 - wants $ for M&G.

Allnamesused. Texted nice pic, wants 300 but doesn't drive or host.

Livvylou92 - Lots of PMs to setup a M&G but then no response.

Jess. Setup time / place but NCNS after confirmation.

KStark013016 - wants gifts up front to "prove you're real".[/QUOTE]I'll add my experiences:

Xtinaax100 (same as above) - wants $200 for M&G, $300 if she sends you "sexy" pics too. She recently had a kid and is married.

Meghan K - BBFS for $130, no CIP. She was odd. Called and texted non-stop after our first meet (that's not what was odd about her), including from other phone numbers. It got so bad I had to throw out my burner, but hey, that's what burners are for!

If they want money for a M&G, it's a set up. You're not going to get your carrot wet from a girl that wants $200 or $300 to have some coffee at Starbucks with you.

[QUOTE=RoadWarrior007;2939471]LucyxoLocke. Wants 450.

Kendra. W. Good convo then no response.

ElizaKat. Setup time / place, I paid for a nice room after confirmation that morning only to have NCNS.

ELrxa. Wants more than 300.

TheEngineer. Lots of PMs to setup a M&G but then no response.

Xtinaax100 - wants $ for M&G.

Allnamesused. Texted nice pic, wants 300 but doesn't drive or host.

Livvylou92 - Lots of PMs to setup a M&G but then no response.

Jess. Setup time / place but NCNS after confirmation.

KStark013016 - wants gifts up front to "prove you're real".[/QUOTE]I will add.

K2 rose 400.

Any Intel on Julia at 99 ? Wondering if she is a provider?

[QUOTE=OlderGent52;2972362]I will add.

K2 rose 400.

Any Intel on Julia at 99 ? Wondering if she is a provider?[/QUOTE]Julia has a pock marked face and has at least 1 heroin arrest. So caution.

K2 is a little chunkier than photos indicate and basically an UTR pro.

Seems with college letting out for the summer, there are lots of new girls, or returning ones.

Also seems like many need rent money at the end / start of the month.

Lots of choices out there and appreciate sharing intel.

Am also finding a LOT of profiles using other people's pix.

Be sure to use Google Image Search to find out.

[QUOTE=RoadWarrior007;2977916]Seems with college letting out for the summer, there are lots of new girls, or returning ones.

Also seems like many need rent money at the end / start of the month.

Lots of choices out there and appreciate sharing intel.[/QUOTE]

Been communicating with this young lady. So far seems ok. Any information on her would be helpful:

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b1389b25-05b1-464d-b8ae-79efc5e49c6f[/URL]

Regeann- Very erratic in her texting. Extremely hard to schedule.