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Just want to know why you guys tip. It doesn't get you more time any perks with the women. You also know you don't have to. Is it for self to say your a tipper. Myself think it's a little Naive to tip any of these girls BP, SW, massage parlor non pro or whatever you want to call these hoes. Help me understand the method to this foolishness.
[QUOTE=AceKing88;2775859]Just want to know why you guys tip. It doesn't get you more time any perks with the women. You also know you don't have to. Is it for self to say your a tipper. Myself think it's a little Naive to tip any of these girls BP, SW, massage parlor non pro or whatever you want to call these hoes. Help me understand the method to this foolishness.[/QUOTE]I do not tip in all situations but for some it is expected. I do not tip SW or BP / CL unless I expect to repeat service and can count on them remembering. As for massage, do you mean an additional tip after the door fee? That's how it works. Not sure if you mean an additional tip after. But in some cases I will for phenomenal service. I do not give tips to make myself feel better, but rather so I can count on a great experience next time.
[QUOTE=AceKing88;2775859]Just want to know why you guys tip. It doesn't get you more time any perks with the women. You also know you don't have to. Is it for self to say your a tipper. Myself think it's a little Naive to tip any of these girls BP, SW, massage parlor non pro or whatever you want to call these hoes. Help me understand the method to this foolishness.[/QUOTE]I don't tip as a general practice (although I may give small gifts).
When I see see that my 30 minute session went for 90 minutes, the girl broke a sweat giving me a real massage, and the session included an uncovered deposit in one of her portals, I'm inclined to give her extra to reward the effort. It usually works out that I give extra to girls I've been seeing for a longer time, to show appreciation for an extended GF-like relationship.
[QUOTE=BunkerBuster;2776246]I don't tip as a general practice (although I may give small gifts).
When I see see that my 30 minute session went for 90 minutes, the girl broke a sweat giving me a real massage, and the session included an uncovered deposit in one of her portals, I'm inclined to give her extra to reward the effort. It usually works out that I give extra to girls I've been seeing for a longer time, to show appreciation for an extended GF-like relationship.[/QUOTE]You must be VIP getting a 90 minute massage for 30 minute prices some guys have all the luck LOL!
[QUOTE=AceKing88;2775859]Just want to know why you guys tip. It doesn't get you more time any perks with the women. You also know you don't have to. Is it for self to say your a tipper. Myself think it's a little Naive to tip any of these girls BP, SW, massage parlor non pro or whatever you want to call these hoes. Help me understand the method to this foolishness.[/QUOTE]I only do it when service is above and beyond the standard. I do it to let the girl know that I appreciated her good service and to get easier access to her for future sessions. It does make a difference in the future. Recently I've used AMPs and Chinese Condos exclusively. Years ago I applied the same principles to streetwalkers and escorts.
[QUOTE=AceKing88;2777715]You must be VIP getting a 90 minute massage for 30 minute prices some guys have all the luck LOL![/QUOTE]It tends to happen with semi-UTR girls who post sporadically on BP, so they're not as assembly line, all business as girls who post all the time and see a bunch of guys every day.
[QUOTE=Horsetrader;2778211]I only do it when service is above and beyond the standard. I do it to let the girl know that I appreciated her good service and to get easier access to her for future sessions. It does make a difference in the future. Recently I've used AMPs and Chinese Condos exclusively. Years ago I applied the same principles to streetwalkers and escorts.[/QUOTE]Ok but you do know us mongers out here are getting the same service if not better without a tip the ladies know who to work out here The consensus is most men are very gullible and green that not much has to be done on the ladies part in will still be paid top dollar in tips, because men are so desperate ask any chic they will tell you that. All in all its your money go for it. Just saying you don't have to do it nothing a requirement by any stretch of the imagination!
I probably agree with you for hookers / escorts in general. Although, I did tip a Chinese agency girl an extra $50 in Vegas once and it more than paid off. With AMPs there are no extras unless a tip is agreed upon and expected.
[QUOTE=AceKing88;2780936]Ok but you do know us mongers out here are getting the same service if not better without a tip the ladies know who to work out here The consensus is most men are very gullible and green that not much has to be done on the ladies part in will still be paid top dollar in tips, because men are so desperate ask any chic they will tell you that. All in all its your money go for it. Just saying you don't have to do it nothing a requirement by any stretch of the imagination![/QUOTE]
I guess this would be the section to answer some dumb ass questions. First why would I say pm me for info about any of my friends if their info was on BP? And why ask for info if you don't plan on seeing them. Especially the guys that ask for all my friends at once.
[QUOTE=JWelsh;2855298]Nikki messaged me asking who told me this. I thought about it and can remember reading it in a forum somewhere but can't remember specifics. She was working with another provider at the time but my memory is failing me as to the provider's name. It's something I read somewhere and I don't have any reason to trust or not trust the source.[/QUOTE]So are you standing by what you said or not? Either you knew her then or not. So she sends you a message and now you remember that you don't really remember?
Did she threaten you or something? WTF?
[QUOTE=Ebdawgg;2856564]So are you standing by what you said or not? Either you knew her then or not. So she sends you a message and now you remember that you don't really remember?
Did she threaten you or something? WTF?[/QUOTE]My two statements don't actually contradict each other. You might need to read them again but I don't dispute at all that I knew her back in the day. In my second statement, I just stated that this was something I read a couple of years ago. After she messaged me, I went looking for the post to give her but I couldn't find it again and can't speak to whether or not it was true. She did not threaten me.
So, I'm kind of a noob at this whole hobby, and I'm wondering how risky it is to have a girl host from her own motel room. I've made contact with a few girls from CL, looking for one who can host (I don't like car dates), and they always seem to be hosting from a motel over in the Rosedale / Middle River area. I've been lurking on this site for a few years, and I see regular reports of mongers getting robbed at motels. The whole idea seems like bad news to me. I simply CAN'T afford to get robbed (or worse) and have to somehow explain that to the Mrs. How hard is it to find girls who host in their own homes, and is that really any safer?
[QUOTE=Ghoul;2870043]So, I'm kind of a noob at this whole hobby, and I'm wondering how risky it is to have a girl host from her own motel room. I've made contact with a few girls from CL, looking for one who can host (I don't like car dates), and they always seem to be hosting from a motel over in the Rosedale / Middle River area. I've been lurking on this site for a few years, and I see regular reports of mongers getting robbed at motels. The whole idea seems like bad news to me. I simply CAN'T afford to get robbed (or worse) and have to somehow explain that to the Mrs. How hard is it to find girls who host in their own homes, and is that really any safer?[/QUOTE]Providers who have and work out of their own home are rare and even they travel and use hotels / motels from time to time. I can't imagine most providers being happy to work where they live. Your best bet is simply to read the forums and find out who has the best reputation, is getting business etc. The robbers don't advertise for long so that should give you a clue. The providers who stop here or nearby and then move on to the next city also don't want to rob as they want repeat business. The robbers advertise, get a few suckers and then move on. It's hard to rob when you're in the same place pulling the same scam over and over. It's hard to do continual business if you rob so, like I said, look for someone with a good reputation and has had some visits from long time mongers and you should be OK. Most issues in this hobby are overcome with a lot of homework. Do yours and you'll be fine.
[QUOTE=Ghoul;2870043]So, I'm kind of a noob at this whole hobby, and I'm wondering how risky it is to have a girl host from her own motel room. I've made contact with a few girls from CL, looking for one who can host (I don't like car dates), and they always seem to be hosting from a motel over in the Rosedale / Middle River area. I've been lurking on this site for a few years, and I see regular reports of mongers getting robbed at motels. The whole idea seems like bad news to me. I simply CAN'T afford to get robbed (or worse) and have to somehow explain that to the Mrs. How hard is it to find girls who host in their own homes, and is that really any safer?[/QUOTE]There are a few who host in their own homes, but tend to post in the body rub section. I can give you a few links if you want to PM me. I try to stick to nicer hotels and have been successful. People who want to just rob you aren't going to be as concerned about the quality of the room. Also beware if they give away the address too easily. Another telltale sign.
Of course Monogamous Relationships can't get it from sex (Because married people don't have Sex AT least not with each other! Unless you consider the Hallway sex (where when you see them in the hallway you say FUCK YOU!
[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;2925460]I would be happier if the author said "Hep C is not [I][u]usually[/u][/I] passed by sexual contact. " The absolute statement appears to be false. Low risk is NOT equal to no risk. Risk levels however are quantified in the research cited below. With the EXACT facts one can make a decision on the risk and how much risk wants to take. And of course, how to manage one's risk.
From the Centers for Disease Control (CDC):
[I][b]Can Hepatitis C be spread through sexual contact?[/b]
Yes, but the risk of transmission from sexual contact is believed to be low. The risk increases for those who have multiple sex partners, have a sexually transmitted disease, engage in rough sex, or are infected with HIV. More research is needed to better understand how and when Hepatitis C can be spread through sexual contact.
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[URL]http://www.cdc.gov/hepatitis/hcv/cfaq.htm[/URL]
[I][b]How is Hepatitis C spread?[/b]
Hepatitis C is usually spread when blood from a person infected with the Hepatitis C virus enters the body of someone who is not infected. Today, most people become infected with the Hepatitis C virus by sharing needles or other equipment to inject drugs. Before 1992, when widespread screening of the blood supply began in the United States, Hepatitis C was also commonly spread through blood transfusions and organ transplants.
People can become infected with the Hepatitis C virus during such activities as
Sharing needles, syringes, or other equipment to inject drugs
Needlestick injuries in health care settings
Being born to a mother who has Hepatitis C
Less commonly, a person can also get Hepatitis C virus infection through
Sharing personal care items that may have come in contact with another persons blood, such as razors or toothbrushes
Having sexual contact with a person infected with the Hepatitis C virus
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One study found:
The maximum incidence rate of HCV transmission by sex was 0. 07% per year (95% confidence interval, 0. 01-0. 13) or approximately one per 190,000 sexual contacts. No specific sexual practices were related to HCV positivity among couples.
The results of this study provide quantifiable risk information for counseling long-term monogamous heterosexual couples in which one partner has chronic HCV infection. In addition to the extremely low estimated risk for HCV infection in sexual partners, the lack of association with specific sexual practices provides unambiguous and reassuring counseling messages.
[URL]http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4384338/[/URL][/QUOTE]