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[QUOTE=JimRob;3241756]Just to add about my experience with the sb. I'm shocked and horrified out of the 4 girls I saw, 3 or them would have went bare back like it was normal. I had to tell them I like condoms because they help me last, but goddamn what is wrong with these women.[/QUOTE]I agree need to be vigilant on safety many are too care free.
Though new to this whole SA thing I thought a thread titled SA 101 may be appropriate. So just what ta hell is a Sugar Daddy or Sugar baby??
Huffington Post commented: Some women in college have turned to a new kind of job to pay for school. It's safe to say many sugar babies aren't reporting this income to the Internal Revenue Service, making them part of what a University of Wisconsin study estimates is a $2 trillion underground economy.
From the SA site "Sugar Baby Perks".
Financial Stability: Unpaid bills no longer have to be a concern.
Find a Mentor: Established Sugar Daddies offer valuable guidance for long-term stability.
Date Experienced Men: Start dating gentlemen who leave the dating games alone.
Be Pampered: Indulge in shopping sprees, expensive dinners, and exotic travels.
We provide Relationships on Your Terms.
Where Sugar Babies enjoy a life of luxury by being pampered with fine dinners, exotic trips and allowances. In turn, Sugar Daddies or Mommas find beautiful members to accompany them at all times.
What-is-an-arrangement. Mutually Beneficial Arrangements.
Every successful relationship is an arrangement between two parties. In business, partners sign business agreements that outline their objectives and expectations. Likewise, romantic relationships can only work if two people agree on what they expect, and what they can give and receive from each other.
Sugar Daddy Webester: well-to-do usually older man who supports or spends lavishly on a mistress, girlfriend, or boyfriend: a generous benefactor of a cause or undertaking.
Sugar Daddy [URL]http://www.urbandictionary.com[/URL]: Like a genie. He may be a little old, but if a girl rubs his lamp, he'll grant her wishes. She uses her sugar daddy for his money, but he sure gets some service in return!
So as I see it, a "Sugar Daddy" provides some form of financial incentive to a "Sugar Baby" to spend time with him. I've seen the posts "I don't spend a dime" or "I want it for free" so be it for you all, great you have found what you seek. For the rest of us, as advertised by the SA site, Webster, Huffington Post & Wikipedia a Sugar Daddy trades cash for a Sugar Babies time.
I consider myself fortunate in that I've only been on the site less than a month & have met 6 Sugar babies. Five of which have led to great after dinner entertainment.
In my profile my public pic I post an image of me. Granted due to angle & content of the image a 10 Man / Woman lineup would have a tough time nailing me however it is me. This image is part of your profile & all the Sugar Babies can see it. I post several "Private" images which are also me, more revealing that my public image however no naked or posed crap, just me.
The initial exchange with SB's: From what I have experienced many are young & intimidated so to ease the tension for first time meetings I offer lunch / dinner meet & greet, if we hit it off, we move to phase two, if not I pick up the tab & give her a hug goodbye. I've had one hug goodbye experience and that may just lead to other fun times. Place is of her choosing within the area we define up front. Now I don't offer Ruth Chris or the Chart House, but mid-placed nice restaurants, don't pick McD's or KFC, come on now. During one dinner my last SB she mentioned her previous date with a SD who opened the conversation with "OK so we have a $50 budget, do you want to just get a couple drinks or an appetizer?" Really dude; wholly crap. Granted this is not "e-friggin-harmony" and we are not looking for a life time relationship, but really?
In messages exchanges I'm respectful honest & direct, no bull shitting. I've had my share of those who are looking for a really big catch, I simply wish them luck as I'm not that guy. I've had some who offered to see me several times a week for a reduced cost. Have had others who inform me we'll need to go to dinner several times before even thinking about anything else, those I wish well also.
On Monday I have a three-way planned where I only pay for one. So how did this occur?? So I meet SB #4 a hot young thing who is really into sex. We sit through dinner & she shares her desires damn easy to see this little 22 year old LOVES sex. So we retire to a more private adventure where an hour later we both are completely worn out. I mention to her she should be in movies. She told me next time remind her to bring a camera as we can film it.
On to conquest #5, we meet at a local diner she explained I'm only her 2nd SD & she is nervous as hell. As we sit though dinner she drinks several white wines she was nervous but excited at the same time. She wanted to know of any of my other encounters so I shared my most interesting with this 22 YO who had fantasies of filing us. By the time we left the diner she was relaxed & excited. We retired to a more private location. After the activities she tells me that she would like to meet SB #4. So I txt SB #4 and explain I have a gal who wants to join us, would she would be cool with that. Her response: "Yeah I'm good with that if she allows me to fuck her with my strap-on". SB #5 says that sounds fun. So on Monday I have a 3 way.
You are a SD so be prepared to spend a couple $ on food / drinks and of course the SB. If you are looking for a free adventure try the local bar, e-Harmony or some other venue.
I would greatly appreciate others commenting on this thread.
[QUOTE=WillyHost;3250068]Though new to this whole SA thing I thought a thread titled SA 101 may be appropriate. So just what ta hell is a Sugar Daddy or Sugar baby??
Huffington Post commented: Some women in college have turned to a new kind of job to pay for school. It's safe to say many sugar babies aren't reporting this income to the Internal Revenue Service, making them part of what a University of Wisconsin study estimates is a $2 trillion underground economy.
From the SA site "Sugar Baby Perks".
Financial Stability: Unpaid bills no longer have to be a concern.
Find a Mentor: Established Sugar Daddies offer valuable guidance for long-term stability.
Date Experienced Men: Start dating gentlemen who leave the dating games alone.
Be Pampered: Indulge in shopping sprees, expensive dinners, and exotic travels.
We provide Relationships on Your Terms.
Where Sugar Babies enjoy a life of luxury by being pampered with fine dinners, exotic trips and allowances. In turn, Sugar Daddies or Mommas find beautiful members to accompany them at all times.
What-is-an-arrangement. Mutually Beneficial Arrangements.
Every successful relationship is an arrangement between two parties. In business, partners sign business agreements that outline their objectives and expectations. Likewise, romantic relationships can only work if two people agree on what they expect, and what they can give and receive from each other.
Sugar Daddy Webester: well-to-do usually older man who supports or spends lavishly on a mistress, girlfriend, or boyfriend: a generous benefactor of a cause or undertaking.
Sugar Daddy [URL]http://www.urbandictionary.com[/URL]: Like a genie. He may be a little old, but if a girl rubs his lamp, he'll grant her wishes. She uses her sugar daddy for his money, but he sure gets some service in return!
So as I see it, a "Sugar Daddy" provides some form of financial incentive to a "Sugar Baby" to spend time with him. I've seen the posts "I don't spend a dime" or "I want it for free" so be it for you all, great you have found what you seek. For the rest of us, as advertised by the SA site, Webster, Huffington Post & Wikipedia a Sugar Daddy trades cash for a Sugar Babies time.
I consider myself fortunate in that I've only been on the site less than a month & have met 6 Sugar babies. Five of which have led to great after dinner entertainment.
In my profile my public pic I post an image of me. Granted due to angle & content of the image a 10 Man / Woman lineup would have a tough time nailing me however it is me. This image is part of your profile & all the Sugar Babies can see it. I post several "Private" images which are also me, more revealing that my public image however no naked or posed crap, just me.
The initial exchange with SB's: From what I have experienced many are young & intimidated so to ease the tension for first time meetings I offer lunch / dinner meet & greet, if we hit it off, we move to phase two, if not I pick up the tab & give her a hug goodbye. I've had one hug goodbye experience and that may just lead to other fun times. Place is of her choosing within the area we define up front. Now I don't offer Ruth Chris or the Chart House, but mid-placed nice restaurants, don't pick McD's or KFC, come on now. During one dinner my last SB she mentioned her previous date with a SD who opened the conversation with "OK so we have a $50 budget, do you want to just get a couple drinks or an appetizer?" Really dude; wholly crap. Granted this is not "e-friggin-harmony" and we are not looking for a life time relationship, but really?
In messages exchanges I'm respectful honest & direct, no bull shitting. I've had my share of those who are looking for a really big catch, I simply wish them luck as I'm not that guy. I've had some who offered to see me several times a week for a reduced cost. Have had others who inform me we'll need to go to dinner several times before even thinking about anything else, those I wish well also.
On Monday I have a three-way planned where I only pay for one. So how did this occur?? So I meet SB #4 a hot young thing who is really into sex. We sit through dinner & she shares her desires damn easy to see this little 22 year old LOVES sex. So we retire to a more private adventure where an hour later we both are completely worn out. I mention to her she should be in movies. She told me next time remind her to bring a camera as we can film it.
On to conquest #5, we meet at a local diner she explained I'm only her 2nd SD & she is nervous as hell. As we sit though dinner she drinks several white wines she was nervous but excited at the same time. She wanted to know of any of my other encounters so I shared my most interesting with this 22 YO who had fantasies of filing us. By the time we left the diner she was relaxed & excited. We retired to a more private location. After the activities she tells me that she would like to meet SB #4. So I txt SB #4 and explain I have a gal who wants to join us, would she would be cool with that. Her response: "Yeah I'm good with that if she allows me to fuck her with my strap-on". SB #5 says that sounds fun. So on Monday I have a 3 way.
You are a SD so be prepared to spend a couple $ on food / drinks and of course the SB. If you are looking for a free adventure try the local bar, e-Harmony or some other venue.
I would greatly appreciate others commenting on this thread.[/QUOTE]My comment is post links to profiles. Makes stories more believable. There are plenty of good story tellers on the forum that could write for penthouse. Post links, not sb1. Sb2, and etc. Guys for some reason just have problems linking a story to a profile. First guys have to be paid members to contact them and second if the profile us up they are open for business. As fsr as nrw people in the bowl go to the Richmond thread and read the thousands of pages posted for SB101. Anyway good luck, have fun and keep the stories flowing.
Is there any benefit to the site if you don't pay the $70 a month membership? I've been on it for a little while but there doesn't seem to be much action if you don't pay for premium.
[QUOTE=Pathfinder04;3250860]Is there any benefit to the site if you don't pay the $70 a month membership? I've been on it for a little while but there doesn't seem to be much action if you don't pay for premium.[/QUOTE]I was on arrangement seekers and finding arrangements. I got a couple emails here and there, but could never close the deal. Those sites make it impossible to communicate unless you are a paying member. Also,
I noticed that on one site, I would get emails and new interest suspiciously only once I logged in. I asked a friend of mine that used to do phone sex and she works some of those sites and she says that they have robo-ladies or paid responders just like phone sex that will email you to pique your interests and get you to pay, but they are not the girl in the picture and they are never ever going to meet you.
[QUOTE=Pathfinder04;3250860]Is there any benefit to the site if you don't pay the $70 a month membership? I've been on it for a little while but there doesn't seem to be much action if you don't pay for premium.[/QUOTE]If your talki g about SA there is no benefit at all. If you have friends that are a paying member they might share a pro or utr girl from the site that has asked to be shared. Otherwise no benefit at all.
Absolutely no benefit if you don't pay.
My strategy has been to sign up, scope the profiles for a week or two and then SA offers me a discounted month for $20 off or so.
Once I pay the $50, I go after all the talent I have scouted and in the month I have access I ALWAYS find at least 5-6 "SA's" that are open to at least a weekly meet at a VERY affordable rate. After the month expires, I delete the account and work that talent for minimum 3-6 months. That fizzles, I repeat the same process. The $50 is a cheap investment towards the talent I find. I don't go in looking to be an SA that's giving big allowances, taking on dates, etc. I'm looking to find UTR women who are reasonable and need help with a bill or two. There are plenty of those.
[QUOTE=Pathfinder04;3250860]Is there any benefit to the site if you don't pay the $70 a month membership? I've been on it for a little while but there doesn't seem to be much action if you don't pay for premium.[/QUOTE]
She might've be a keeper. We got along so well that I'm thinking about just fucking her, but of course this sb I fucked last week wants to fuck again, plus I got two others that are ready to go that I haven't met yet. Very hard to keep up with this and not be flat broke. Renting rooms is costly and adds a whole new dynamic to this. Years ago I had a sb that use to come to my office to fuck, but I haven't met someone I trust yet with that.
Also in keeping with my early post about sb. They hate condoms. Now out of 5, 4 of them wanted to fuck raw . Smh.
All from SA?
[QUOTE=JimRob;3252052]She might've be a keeper. We got along so well that I'm thinking about just fucking her, but of course this sb I fucked last week wants to fuck again, plus I got two others that are ready to go that I haven't met yet. Very hard to keep up with this and not be flat broke. Renting rooms is costly and adds a whole new dynamic to this. Years ago I had a sb that use to come to my office to fuck, but I haven't met someone I trust yet with that.
Also in keeping with my early post about sb. They hate condoms. Now out of 5, 4 of them wanted to fuck raw . Smh.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;3254887]All from SA?[/QUOTE]Yes from sa.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/68424d44-f333-fd6c-fa7d-8801dc5548c0[/URL]
Anyone had any experience with this one. Been talking to her seems pricey, but open to anything.
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;3251686]Absolutely no benefit if you don't pay.
My strategy has been to sign up, scope the profiles for a week or two and then SA offers me a discounted month for $20 off or so.
Once I pay the $50, I go after all the talent I have scouted and in the month I have access I ALWAYS find at least 5-6 "SA's" that are open to at least a weekly meet at a VERY affordable rate. After the month expires, I delete the account and work that talent for minimum 3-6 months. That fizzles, I repeat the same process. The $50 is a cheap investment towards the talent I find. I don't go in looking to be an SA that's giving big allowances, taking on dates, etc. I'm looking to find UTR women who are reasonable and need help with a bill or two. There are plenty of those.[/QUOTE]Great post Booker. Do you have a typical criteria search on SA Luke age race location and lifestyle? Also what do you typically pay?
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;3251686]Absolutely no benefit if you don't pay.
My strategy has been to sign up, scope the profiles for a week or two and then SA offers me a discounted month for $20 off or so.
Once I pay the $50, I go after all the talent I have scouted and in the month I have access I ALWAYS find at least 5-6 "SA's" that are open to at least a weekly meet at a VERY affordable rate. After the month expires, I delete the account and work that talent for minimum 3-6 months. That fizzles, I repeat the same process. The $50 is a cheap investment towards the talent I find. I don't go in looking to be an SA that's giving big allowances, taking on dates, etc. I'm looking to find UTR women who are reasonable and need help with a bill or two. There are plenty of those.[/QUOTE]Not sure how your getting that price on SA. I've been a member for 3 years and only found a discount code one time. Birthday discount code the price was $60 for one month. The one month cost now is $80 which they went to back last fall. I have let my membership lapse for as long as two months and never received a discount offer. I have some discount codes for the three and six month membership.
When your membership lapses, do you delete your account? Once the membership runs out, I start a brand new account as it's essentially worthless for me. I've done this 3 x over the past 2 years. They always offer the discount when I've started a brand new account and haven't upgraded in the first 3 months.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3281512]Not sure how your getting that price on SA. I've been a member for 3 years and only found a discount code one time. Birthday discount code the price was $60 for one month. The one month cost now is $80 which they went to back last fall. I have let my membership lapse for as long as two months and never received a discount offer. I have some discount codes for the three and six month membership.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sfrancis118;3281481]Great post Booker. Do you have a typical criteria search on SA Luke age race location and lifestyle? Also what do you typically pay?[/QUOTE]18-22. And 27-32 are the two age ranges I search (for different reasons). Location varies but more expensive areas have gems, as well as the pretty far edges of suburbia (no real research, I've just found success in those areas). Race doesn't matter much, although I like AA.
Now, what I pay? That varies a lot. I always let them throw the first number and work it from there. Currently I have a very beautiful AA that I simply pay her car note and we meet 2 x per week (car note is $315). I have another AA at GMU that I meet weekly for a car blow job and I give her 80 per.
In the past year, I've had some that I gave $200 per week for weekly meets, others I kept them looking nice (nails, hair, etc) and that ran me around 600 per month. Really quick side note, I'm a younger guy than most on SA so I get away with it feeling like a normal hook up.