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I remember the situation very well. Karmyn Banks made some comments about NV's ethnic background. She said something to the effect of, "black girls shouldn't describe themselves as French mixed with Cuban or Italian mixed with Caribbean. " I don't think she specifically named NV, but it was very obvious who she was referring to.
[QUOTE=NoelleVon;3020138]The Good Doctor.
Thank you for the kind words.
All I desire is to keep this choice in lifestyle safe and exciting. All the other stuff is unimportant. It benefits no one. We have the whole world against us choosing to partake in activities as such. We need to stick together & help one another. Women and men.[/QUOTE]AMEN! And in order to seal the peace process, I volunteer to mediate a peace and love duo with you, me and Silk!
Off to dream.
The good dr.
[QUOTE=DrDave39;3020404]AMEN! And in order to seal the peace process, I volunteer to mediate a peace and love duo with you, me and Silk!
Off to dream.
The good dr.[/QUOTE]You and Jimmy Carter dude! Makin' peace where-ever you go. Your selfless dedication to the peace (piece) process is simply breathtaking! LOL.
Thank you for giving me an insight as to what transpired as I never saw that post.
I understand there are ill feelings towards me from a certain individual. My door is open when they are ready to address whatever their situation may be. I won't hold my breath however.
I can not apologize for knowing and embracing my culture. I love conversing with a fellow Haitian immigrant and my Quinceanera was phenomenal.
I found I dislike the label Ebony. For some reason it has obtained a very bad meaning and attract the wrong people for me in this field. Therefore I choose not to use it when labeling myself. Those who care enough are welcome to disagree.
[QUOTE=TheGark;3020264]I remember the situation very well. Karmyn Banks made some comments about NV's ethnic background. She said something to the effect of, "black girls shouldn't describe themselves as French mixed with Cuban or Italian mixed with Caribbean. " I don't think she specifically named NV, but it was very obvious who she was referring to.[/QUOTE]
Once again, I have to commend Steve at EE. His average response time to each client reference request that I have ever sent to him is less than 100 seconds. A few years ago, Steve also acted as the 'middle-man' for me. I used to have a 'beef' with another reputable provider, and I would need to get client reference requests from her. I would send him the information, he would text her as if the reference was for him and the EE agency, and then relay that information back to me. I have been extremely busy in civvie life in the last few weeks, and I haven't been 'hobbying' much. As I was catching up on my emails this morning, Steve provided me with, and approved, 4 separate client reference requests for me in less than an hour. He deserves an award for that.
Guys, if you have been on the fence, or totally against, using an agency, or dealing with a male scheduler, there's no need to be. He's consistently professional, punctual, and isn't a bull-shitter.
Gals, if you are feeling overwhelmed by the scheduling and screening aspect of the hobby, give Steve a call. He can take care of all of that, and all you have to do is smile, show up on time, and bring home the bacon.
Kisses,
MD.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;3020606]You and Jimmy Carter dude! Makin' peace where-ever you go. Your selfless dedication to the peace (piece) process is simply breathtaking! LOL.[/QUOTE]My goal- The Nobel Piece Prize!
The good dr.
Spreading piece (s) and joy everywhere I go.
Not sure where to post this. Just a general question.
Do providers prefer to do incalls or outcalls??
I see a lot of ads on BP with "incall only". I am sure a lot has to do on the state of the girl and if she has a car or not.
[QUOTE=DrDave39;3020798]My goal- The Nobel Piece Prize!
The good dr.
Spreading piece (s) and joy everywhere I go.[/QUOTE]Or the Noelle Piece Prize. I know which one I'd like to award myself.
[QUOTE=NateTheGreat19;3024242]Not sure where to post this. Just a general question.
Do providers prefer to do incalls or outcalls??
I see a lot of ads on BP with "incall only". I am sure a lot has to do on the state of the girl and if she has a car or not.[/QUOTE]I think most girls like incalls better, because they have more control of the environment and feel safer that way. Or they are just not mobile / too lazy to go somewhere.
Outcall for me is fine if I'm in a hotel room and the girl has a great reputation. I've never invited a girl to my house, but guys are all different about that sort of thing. Some have a lot of trust for girls they've known a long time. But it's been my experience that everyone starts out seeming normal. Crazy chicks look a lot like non-crazy chicks, so I don't take chances.
Hope that's helpful.
[QUOTE=NateTheGreat19;3024242]Not sure where to post this. Just a general question.
Do providers prefer to do incalls or outcalls??
I see a lot of ads on BP with "incall only". I am sure a lot has to do on the state of the girl and if she has a car or not.[/QUOTE]I would think it comes down to a few factors, do they have transportation? Do they have someone to watch them for new clients? Being in a safe hotel has its advantage, she can watch the parking lot, she can watch you out the window, and change there mind after seeing you. Because you may be in the parking lot, but you still need a room number to meet. And if things go bad for her she can always make a lot of noise, because the last thing the John wants is trouble. And face it are you going to the front desk and complaine? Didn't think so. Myself I like incall, I have the choice to back out once seeing the girl, with nothing to lose but my time. And because no way I'm bringing them to my house. Have you seen risky bussines? They cleaned him out. LOL and I get tired of getting rooms and the girls late or no show and I waste $70. After 4 years of playing around with this stuff I've still not met one to bring home yet. Be safe OBR.
[QUOTE=BuyingSmiles;3007425]Couple years ago, Buda's girls had a party. I don't remember how many guys showed up. If my memory serves me right, it was Rebecca, Sasha & cupcake, maybe Jordan. Along with maybe five or mongers. The reviews can be found here. Sounded like the gents had a good time.[/QUOTE]I thought that Cat scooped up quite a bit of the income from that one, even though Rebecca did a lot of the fucking and upkeep on that party.
[QUOTE=Twisted69;3007522]Where do you get your facts? If there are any providers who can see 15-20 clients in a day, that would be less than 1% of providers. The schedule would have to be made well in advance. It would be a revolving door situation meaning clients running into clients at the door! And the provider would have to have great stamina to endure all that exercise! Not likely!! 8-10 maybe, but that would be pushing it.
2nd issue is your party. Not a good idea in these parts, especially since uncle is always watching and the legal ramifications that could be exaggerated out it would not be worth it. Doesn't matter if the charges stick, the fact they would make front page news would ruin most. Good luck if you do attempt it! Count me out!![/QUOTE]No way those numbers work. Sorry if I'm behind on these things, just catching up on some of these posts.
[QUOTE=DickHerDown;3008073]I know it can work because they have been done in the past, though I've never attended. It's very difficult for me to have a free night to myself. You should set it up though. Invite Amon and he can BB all the girls LOL.[/QUOTE]I know it can work as I have participated in more of them than I can count. Well over a dozen anyway. The first ones were organized through the Indypendent site forums and were strictly meet and greet events. High profile ladies did attend and met new friends for more intimate visits at a later time. As we became a closer group of friends, meetings were organized through back channel communications. New people were only invited if they were personally known, active participants in the hobby. Lots of sex occurred at these gatherings, mostly BCD, but in a couple of cases, what would be best described as orgies broke out. In the hot tub, on the patio furniture, in the kitchen. Exchange of money was always done BCD. No problems ever resulted from any of the activities. Staying safe requires a great deal of organization. Everyone attending should be known by face to face contact with the person vouching for them, not just board interaction. Just like being vouched for a session. I organized one of them myself and believe me, it's not easy to hold it together. I swore that was the last of my party organizing efforts. My thanks to Molly and Rhonda for making the trip to Indy and making that one a great day.
[QUOTE=MollyDaniels;3020755]Once again, I have to commend Steve at EE. His average response time to each client reference request that I have ever sent to him is less than 100 seconds. A few years ago, Steve also acted as the 'middle-man' for me. I used to have a 'beef' with another reputable provider, and I would need to get client reference requests from her. I would send him the information, he would text her as if the reference was for him and the EE agency, and then relay that information back to me. I have been extremely busy in civvie life in the last few weeks, and I haven't been 'hobbying' much. As I was catching up on my emails this morning, Steve provided me with, and approved, 4 separate client reference requests for me in less than an hour. He deserves an award for that.
Guys, if you have been on the fence, or totally against, using an agency, or dealing with a male scheduler, there's no need to be. He's consistently professional, punctual, and isn't a bull-shitter.
Gals, if you are feeling overwhelmed by the scheduling and screening aspect of the hobby, give Steve a call. He can take care of all of that, and all you have to do is smile, show up on time, and bring home the bacon.
Kisses,
MD.[/QUOTE]Not that I need nor ask for anyone to provide references very often but Steve has happily provided reference for me on a few occasions in the past. Very professional of him.
Likewise, Miss Molly is not only a fabulous Provider, she has also been a reference for me a few times. True professionalism, in addition to her other admirable assets and talents!
Hat's off to them both for understanding and valuing the importance of references in the biz!
Thank you!
CFG.
Just had to comment on the hilarity of some of these email-me-first ad's. The prose is just ridiculous, LOL.
[I]Pleases you to call me. I am an object of sharp pleasures to be implemented onto your sensation areas giving you long life in return for obstructing my orifices...[/I]
TGM