Paying for M&G: no, as a rule, but
[QUOTE=Almighty;6294614]I have, on occasion, paid like 100 bucks for a m&g, depending on how the meeting goes (we discussed what we would be doing in private at later meets) and how hot she is.
It's definitely not a habit with me. I've probably done it lets say 6 or 8 times in 10 years. I'm about 50/50 on it paying off down the line, with a couple of them being multiple meeting SBs. One I even took for a weekend skiing a couple years ago. The 100 bucks I dumped on her m&g more than paid off that weekend.
Normally, I pay for the dinner / coffee / drinks, and throw them like 25 or so for gas, depending on how far they drive.[/QUOTE]I will not pay for a M&G.
I have, on occasion, paid reasonable travel expenses when a woman is driving a long way to meet me.
For example, prior to the holidays I asked a woman who lives in Mason to drive down and meet me in Eastgate (just for a MnG). I gave her $50. She was a student, and it was close to a one-hour drive.
But here's the important thing: the payment was my idea and my proposal. Not hers.
When a girl on Seeking asks me in the first or second round of questions, "Do you pay for MnG", that's an immediate block, as I know I'm dealing with a rinser.
I usually try to start with a videochat to narrow down the ones I'm compatible with, so I'm not giving gas money to every other yahoo on Seeking. And needless to say, you should *never* pay for a videochat.