Saturday afternoon Follies
[QUOTE=PoonSlayer;3408637]Have used the site for many years, as I travel all over the world. Decided I needed to start contributing.
........[/QUOTE]P.S., Contributing you certainly did, you have a unique style of narrating, funny and interesting. Thanks!
Its all depend on your level of risk
[QUOTE=SubmissionSam;3408762]Thanks OZ. I'll try this next time. This brings me to a new question tho. I've seen a bunch of guys talk about getting head and THEN putting the rubber on for the action. One of my fears has been catching something if I did that, especially in black gay mecca where we have aids like sub-saharan africa. How do yall get over the fear of STD's? No disrespect, but do you not worry because you don't care if you get burned, or are yall already there? Or are yall just trusting the lady? Or should I just use a condom for head too until I've established as a regular and we both get tested or something? Advice or perspective from multiple parties would be helpful. Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]I am fine with CBJ and CFS. But I have had BBBJ with couple of BP providers. One that I still miss is Kami Michelle. I never ask for BBBJ but if its offered I usually don't turn it down especially if the girl got skills. If you are in a relationship better get a CBJ. I have never had a STD before and that's probably because I am always carefull. For me condom for full service is almost 100% safe if you use a lube and check the condom everytime you switch position. A condom used right with lube should not break. The only thing I worried about are BBBJ just because of the risk to catch something at some point in life especially when dealing with high risks groups.
Or, you could get hit by a bus
[QUOTE=SubmissionSam;3408762]Thanks OZ. I'll try this next time. This brings me to a new question tho. I've seen a bunch of guys talk about getting head and THEN putting the rubber on for the action. One of my fears has been catching something if I did that, especially in black gay mecca where we have aids like sub-saharan africa. How do yall get over the fear of STD's? No disrespect, but do you not worry because you don't care if you get burned, or are yall already there? Or are yall just trusting the lady? Or should I just use a condom for head too until I've established as a regular and we both get tested or something? Advice or perspective from multiple parties would be helpful. Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]Not trying to be harsh here, but the cold hard fact is, this is a dangerous hobby when it comes to STDs, getting shot by a pimp, or worse, if you are attached, getting caught by your S. O. It's part of the game, but it's up to you to be as safe as you want. Some folks just don't care and love the thrill of the danger they will go BB all the way and take their chances. Others want to wear a full body condom and jack off from across the room. It's a matter of choice and / or preference. This isn't about getting laid necessarily, it's about an individual's personal fetishes. Most of us have no problem getting laid, hell I'd bet at least half are married to a woman who is willing and able to do most things, I know I am. For some, it's about getting some PYT for and to get a nut, for others it's about getting a nasty trashy **** to do their bidding, others, hell the options are infinite. Every single fetish or preference comes with risks of STDs.
If you are in this hobby, you are at risk irrespective of the proclivities you may have, some risks are lower than others, but almost all have the risk of the more common annoyances like Herpes, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis etc. If you constantly worry about getting an STD, I recommend a different hobby. I understand stamp collecting is quite safe, provided you don't lick used stamps I suppose. Be as safe as you are comfortable with, just know that thot you see, has more than likely done BB with someone recently.
On the other hand, you could step out to cross the street and get hit by a bus. Then you did all that worrying for nothing!
Which has higher probability
[QUOTE=MrHobbyist;3410173]Not trying to be harsh here, but the cold hard fact is, this is a dangerous hobby when it comes to STDs, getting shot by a pimp, or worse, if you are attached, getting caught by your S. O. It's part of the game, but it's up to you to be as safe as you want. ...................
On the other hand, you could step out to cross the street and get hit by a bus. Then you did all that worrying for nothing![/QUOTE]Good reply MrH, well put. About getting hit by bus, that is like one in a million chance, whereas getting STD with unprotected sex with high risk group is more like one in a thousand or even one in hundred!