"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Told her I would offer $200 for weekly meet ups and didn't check my burner for two days. Came back to her asking for $300. When I checked my phone she changed het mind and agreed to $200. Anybody seen her! It's so hard to find women on SA of my standards.

[QUOTE=ThatSexyGuy;5161765]Told her I would offer $200 for weekly meet ups and didn't check my burner for two days. Came back to her asking for $300. When I checked my phone she changed het mind and agreed to $200. Anybody seen her! It's so hard to find women on SA of my standards.[/QUOTE]If she is real; What are you waiting for?

[QUOTE=FanRat;5161859]If she is real; What are you waiting for?[/QUOTE]She contacted me so I'm not willing to meet a sugar who is selling to multiple daddy's.

Edit: last girl I met made me rethink how I meet these women. I don’t want to meet anyone who is crazy like last white girl I met

[QUOTE=ThatSexyGuy;5161904]She contacted me so I'm not willing to meet a sugar who is selling to multiple daddy's.

Edit: last girl I met made me rethink how I meet these women. I dont want to meet anyone who is crazy like last white girl I met[/QUOTE]She looks familiar. If she's up around Ashland. Someone posted here about her. Maybe a couple of months ago.

I just got an email saying my payment failed and to click on the link to update my payment info. This is more than likely a scam as I have not had a paid membership in about a year.

[QUOTE=FigLeaf;5162348]I just got an email saying my payment failed and to click on the link to update my payment info. This is more than likely a scam as I have not had a paid membership in about a year.[/QUOTE]Even though the links and email addresses appear authentic. Just delete the email brothers.

A lot of us are getting this. I created an email to use for Seeking only. I have never given it out elsewhere. Nowhere. So the question is did Seeking get hacked? I always turn the auto-renew off the day after I sign up and pay them. This appears to actually be sent by them and was sent from their mailing list. Or they just doing this email blast to all to get us to rejoin?

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;5162371]Even though the links and email addresses appear authentic. Just delete the email brothers.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ThatSexyGuy;5161765]Told her I would offer $200 for weekly meet ups and didn't check my burner for two days. Came back to her asking for $300. When I checked my phone she changed het mind and agreed to $200. Anybody seen her! It's so hard to find women on SA of my standards.[/QUOTE]Could you share her username or post a link? I search regularly but have not noticed her profile. Thanks.

You're not going to find an exclusive SB for $200 per meet or week. I think it's safe to assume that they are juggling at least 2-3, maybe more.

[QUOTE=ThatSexyGuy;5161904]She contacted me so I'm not willing to meet a sugar who is selling to multiple daddy's.

Edit: last girl I met made me rethink how I meet these women. I dont want to meet anyone who is crazy like last white girl I met[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ThatSexyGuy;5161904]She contacted me so I'm not willing to meet a sugar who is selling to multiple daddy's.

Edit: last girl I met made me rethink how I meet these women. I dont want to meet anyone who is crazy like last white girl I met[/QUOTE]If she contacted you then the chances are 99.99% that's she's either fake, a scammer or wants to sell pics. An SB that looks like that legit would laugh at any offer below $400.

[QUOTE=ThatSexyGuy;5161765]Told her I would offer $200 for weekly meet ups and didn't check my burner for two days. Came back to her asking for $300. When I checked my phone she changed het mind and agreed to $200. Anybody seen her! It's so hard to find women on SA of my standards.[/QUOTE]There isn't a chance in hell a girl that looks like this is going to accept 200 per meeting. Unless things in Richmond are vastly different than in NoVa; a gilr like that up here would command 500 minimum but likely higher. Be careful brothers.

[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5162397]A lot of us are getting this. I created an email to use for Seeking only. I have never given it out elsewhere. Nowhere. So the question is did Seeking get hacked? I always turn the auto-renew off the day after I sign up and pay them. This appears to actually be sent by them and was sent from their mailing list. Or they just doing this email blast to all to get us to rejoin?[/QUOTE]On another app, Seeking posted that the email was sent in error (by Seeking). Assuming this is true, then the email is most likely not a scam or a hack, just someone who made a mistake.

Anyone have any experience with this one?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c04d5640-cc04-430c-baba-10628718053e[/URL]

[QUOTE=RappaHannock;5165319]Anyone have any experience with this one?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c04d5640-cc04-430c-baba-10628718053e[/URL][/QUOTE]Made contact with her several times, but seems to never be able to meet. Understand she is much bigger than any pictures indicate.

Fun to talk to, moved to text / Kik pretty quick. Wants 500 ppm.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e3ec2e72-a3ae-40e2-baae-b753184c5836[/URL]

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;5056827]Knew nothing about her when I emailed her, other than her name, and job.

Told her to check out the site, and if that kind of thing was of interest to her, to let me know. Figured that was easier then going through the whole process of educating her on being an SB. She just as well might have not replied at all or told me to fuck off.

Local TV sports babe got laid off during Covid, and I found her civvy email and sent her a similar message. Might be a little stalky, but figured I let them check it out and leave the next move up to them.[/QUOTE]Love it! Your approach is so creative. I want to get a Peloton too LOL. How did it go with both chicks?

[URL]https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/rachel-uchitel-tigers-ex-met-new-man-on-sugar-baby-site-seeking-arrangement.4297803/[/URL]

I have used up all my AOL email addresses my gmail and my hotmail / outlook email accounts. I use a Vanilla card but when I get to putting in my email address this is where I get hung up. Somehow these asses figure out it is me, I was banned about a year ago for no valid reason because I know better than to mention anything that will set them off and ban me. I now have to find an email address that will be acceptable. I think that is my downfall I don't use AOL to go on their site but Microsoft edge, Maybe that is compromised also I have a VPN account that supposedly hides my info.

Any help will be appreciated.

Thanks CM.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5177140]I have used up all my AOL email addresses my gmail and my hotmail / outlook email accounts. I use a Vanilla card but when I get to putting in my email address this is where I get hung up. Somehow these asses figure out it is me, I was banned about a year ago for no valid reason because I know better than to mention anything that will set them off and ban me. I now have to find an email address that will be acceptable. I think that is my downfall I don't use AOL to go on their site but Microsoft edge, Maybe that is compromised also I have a VPN account that supposedly hides my info.

Any help will be appreciated.

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]They are constantly updating their security measures. Some of the girls on SA who want to take down the men on USASG take screenshots of the tips-and-tricks on this forum and email them to SA directly. I talked to one SB that said they upgraded her to premium when she sent them info from this site. I'm surprised SA is still letting us use vanilla cards. I'm scared for the day SA bans them altogether. The Seeking IT-department reads this forum to help with security. Some of the tricks I used to use to hide my identity don't work anymore.

Everything new! Including the phone you're using to access the internet. Everything! Always browse in "incognito" mode. Always! Never connect through your wifi or router. I don't care if you're using a VPN. everything new!

If you ever manage to get a new account, never discuss arrangements on SA's messenger. Never reach out to old contacts, one of them surely started all this trouble.

Never engage in debate with a POT. If you don't get the answers you want, block and move on. You might win the argument, but sooner or later some spiteful ***** will report you again. It's not worth it.

Don't be afraid to charge back through your card issuer. Yes, they've got this policy that says they don't have to explain a ban to you, but when VISA calls, they listen. They don't want to get banned from VISA purchases.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5177140]I have used up all my AOL email addresses my gmail and my hotmail / outlook email accounts. I use a Vanilla card but when I get to putting in my email address this is where I get hung up. Somehow these asses figure out it is me, I was banned about a year ago for no valid reason because I know better than to mention anything that will set them off and ban me. I now have to find an email address that will be acceptable. I think that is my downfall I don't use AOL to go on their site but Microsoft edge, Maybe that is compromised also I have a VPN account that supposedly hides my info.

Any help will be appreciated.

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]

Brothers,

Just got an email use promo code SEEKINGCA33.

There is no way that the owners of the site are not well aware of how their site is being used. They perform just enough punitive actions to justify their legal defense claims if they face the legal scrutiny that befell the craigslist casuals section and backpage. They are not interested in banning because they actually want to stop the activity; If that were the case, the site wouldn't exist. Disallowing vanilla cards would crush their revenue stream. Obviously I am simply speculating but I'd be really surprised if they disallow abonymous payments any time soon.

[QUOTE=GoldJack;5177360]They are constantly updating their security measures. Some of the girls on SA who want to take down the men on USASG take screenshots of the tips-and-tricks on this forum and email them to SA directly. I talked to one SB that said they upgraded her to premium when she sent them info from this site. I'm surprised SA is still letting us use vanilla cards. I'm scared for the day SA bans them altogether. The Seeking IT-department reads this forum to help with security. Some of the tricks I used to use to hide my identity don't work anymore.[/QUOTE]

I'm guessing this one is fake - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fd37b0b0-4041-4c00-b4c4-d23aa22cd263[/URL] -- claims to be an ODU student with an equally hot, bi roommate.

Very pretty redhead - OK body - but seems wild and DTF. Sent some naughty vids for free. - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7928d169-5b50-46c3-b809-a49ac4ba1621[/URL].

Nice looking professional gal. Decided she's not interested in married men.[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a296620c-b089-4d7c-a4ea-b916ffcad5c8[/URL].

OK looking MILF, but nice body based on texted nudes. Very open minded and DTF. Newly divorced, making up for lost time - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5687625b-a101-40f2-b18b-e17ee6306ce2[/URL].

Serious GND action, and great private pics, but couldn't get her to text - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/06c7f2cc-4d2a-47b8-b916-ba25c5ed8f74[/URL].

[QUOTE=Rentahoo;5177668]There is no way that the owners of the site are not well aware of how their site is being used. They perform just enough punitive actions to justify their legal defense claims if they face the legal scrutiny that befell the craigslist casuals section and backpage. They are not interested in banning because they actually want to stop the activity; If that were the case, the site wouldn't exist. Disallowing vanilla cards would crush their revenue stream. Obviously I am simply speculating but I'd be really surprised if they disallow abonymous payments any time soon.[/QUOTE]Regarding privacy and security, do you guys upload pics that show the whole face? Or with mask on?

I hesitate to upload pics with my full face to [URL]SA.com[/URL] in case of an Ashley Madison-like incident. I am more comfortable sending pics through phone once I get to the SB better.

[QUOTE=Hal1957;5177483]Everything new! Including the phone you're using to access the internet. Everything! Always browse in "incognito" mode. Always! Never connect through your wifi or router. I don't care if you're using a VPN. everything new!

If you ever manage to get a new account, never discuss arrangements on SA's messenger. Never reach out to old contacts, one of them surely started all this trouble.

Never engage in debate with a POT. If you don't get the answers you want, block and move on. You might win the argument, but sooner or later some spiteful ***** will report you again. It's not worth it.

Don't be afraid to charge back through your card issuer. Yes, they've got this policy that says they don't have to explain a ban to you, but when VISA calls, they listen. They don't want to get banned from VISA purchases.[/QUOTE]Incognito mode only "protects" the local device. Yes, it removes cookies, temporary files, and browser history...Locally.

Anyone else get this? Any info on how long this promo lasts? Other details?

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;5177616]Brothers,

Just got an email use promo code SEEKINGCA33.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;5177616]Brothers,

Just got an email use promo code SEEKINGCA33.[/QUOTE]My understanding is that these Promo codes are only for First Time / New Users.

On an existing account. Upgrade Now. Does not have any way to enter a promo code.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5177140]...Maybe that is compromised also I have a VPN account that supposedly hides my info.

Any help will be appreciated.

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]Did you test your vpn to see if it truly anonymizes you on the internet? [URL]browserleaks.com[/URL].

Then create a new alias for your existing hotmail / microsoft account and try again. Hotmail is better for switching email addresses as you do not have to manage yet another email account the alias lets people email you with a new email address!

PrivateVPN and Torguard are affordable high quality VPNs.

Good luck bro. Post back with what finally worked. Try [URL]secretbenefits.com[/URL] if SA acts too stubborn!

I'm not an expert, maybe one who really understands this stuff will weigh in. However, when you're not using incognito mode, and you click on a link to go to SA, SA can see where you came from. If you came from a site that is known as a mongering site, well. There you go.

[QUOTE=HumanoidX7R;5177962]Incognito mode only "protects" the local device. Yes, it removes cookies, temporary files, and browser history...Locally.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hal1957;5179148]I'm not an expert, maybe one who really understands this stuff will weigh in. However, when you're not using incognito mode, and you click on a link to go to SA, SA can see where you came from. If you came from a site that is known as a mongering site, well. There you go.[/QUOTE]It does not matter if you are using the mode or not -- if you click a "link / advert" to SA in another website -- then SA will know what site you have clicked from.

However. If you are just clicking on your favorite link on your browser. Then SA has no idea.

Basically. If you want to be safest -- set your browser up to delete all every time you exit.

It is also not a bad idea to use say Chrome or Edge for general internet -- and keep one of the "safer" ones such as Firefox for all monger and porn stuff. And have IT setup to erase everything at exit. Also. Always turn off location discovery on any browser.

[QUOTE=SaTraveler;5179556]It does not matter if you are using the mode or not -- if you click a "link / advert" to SA in another website -- then SA will know what site you have clicked from.

However. If you are just clicking on your favorite link on your browser. Then SA has no idea.

Basically. If you want to be safest -- set your browser up to delete all every time you exit.

It is also not a bad idea to use say Chrome or Edge for general internet -- and keep one of the "safer" ones such as Firefox for all monger and porn stuff. And have IT setup to erase everything at exit. Also. Always turn off location discovery on any browser.[/QUOTE]How do you erase at exit?

Thanks CM.

Anyone used it? Does it include voice or just text? Would you use it for "fun" or just to get to know someone? Thanks in advance.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5182051]How do you erase at exit?

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]For firefox:

[URL]https://support.mozilla.org/en-US/kb/delete-browsing-search-download-history-firefox[/URL]

Just google "how to erase everything at exit on <browser_name " and there are tutorials -- another useful search is "firefox incognto" there are other names for private searching on other browsers.

Firefox is probably the best high use browser that you can setup to remove all evidence of your browsing activities with ease. All the others. Chrome, Safari, Edge have a vested interest in collating as much info as possible about you - and keep as MUCH of your browsing history as possible on your computer so they know you when you come back.

The downside is that you will have to enter full website addresses every time you visit them - and re-enter the I'd and password - but that is s good thing. Right?

I have used it a few times. Mostly to verify that we are both real. I never talk money or anything sexual when I do use it. Not a fan of it as much as a real M&G. I do better in person. I haven't had a person who did video chat pan out yet.

[QUOTE=BlueEyedMan58;5182179]Anyone used it? Does it include voice or just text? Would you use it for "fun" or just to get to know someone? Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BlueEyedMan58;5182179]Anyone used it? Does it include voice or just text? Would you use it for "fun" or just to get to know someone? Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]Unless you read the EULA, I'd not do anything you wouldn't want recorded on their app, but I've used it for basic chats. Prefer SnapChat or Zoom with a ghost identity.

Seems hot an DTF, not her first rodeo.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7f7b0fa9-cb01-4f50-9222-0e09e96a42b5[/URL]

[QUOTE=SaTraveler;5182555]For firefox:

[URL]https://support.mozilla.org/en-US/kb/delete-browsing-search-download-history-firefox[/URL]

Just google "how to erase everything at exit on <browser_name " and there are tutorials -- another useful search is "firefox incognto" there are other names for private searching on other browsers.

Firefox is probably the best high use browser that you can setup to remove all evidence of your browsing activities with ease. All the others. Chrome, Safari, Edge have a vested interest in collating as much info as possible about you - and keep as MUCH of your browsing history as possible on your computer so they know you when you come back.

The downside is that you will have to enter full website addresses every time you visit them - and re-enter the I'd and password - but that is s good thing. Right?[/QUOTE]These aren't safe browsers. The one's you'd like to go with are Tor and Epic. They 1) bounce your signal around through other servers or 2) have built-in VPN. There's a lot of discussion about this. Keeping yourself anonymous can also involve such simple things as changing the size of your browser window. These can be used to map you from different past uses.

I got a text recently from a young lady. She said we met on SA and her name is Mary. She gave me a south side address. Does anyone recognize her?

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;5184654]I got a text recently from a young lady. She said we met on SA and her name is Mary. She gave me a south side address. Does anyone recognize her?[/QUOTE]Looks like a straight spam to me try to Google the pictures.

[QUOTE=Va343;5184711]Looks like a straight spam to me try to Google the pictures.[/QUOTE]I ran the pics through [URL]Tineye.com[/URL] and came up with nothing.