Cool Concept, but I'm not sold
[QUOTE=UOnlyLiveOnce;3010020]At least for me, the whole idea is to get my needs met without getting caught. The fewer people that know about this particular addiction of mine, the better. I'm lucky I've gone this long in the game without ever getting caught, though I did have a close call once (a provider saw me someplace where, if she'd wanted to, could have figured out my identity and caused me trouble).[/QUOTE]I like the idea of having a group of people you could meet up with and have some drinks watch a football game and potentially have some hot women there to have some fun with. May be an afternoon of no charges for the girls that would then potentially lead to future steady income from regulars. A buffet of sorts to see and experience the girls personalities (for those interested in that) or potentially a service that you realize you can no longer live without in the future.
I also like the idea of potentially meeting some other seniors to swap stories and glories from past and present.
What stops me is like another monger on here mentioned is the fact that I have been at this for a number of years, never been caught because of keeping things UTR. That alone is what would keep me from most likely not attending an event like this.
What if I show up and one of you are family (Father, Son, Uncle, Nephew) or someone that I know or a family friend that can't keep their mouth shut?
As much as I would like to get to know some of you on a friendlier basis, I don't anticipate putting myself at that risk at this current time.
I prefer to make my own decisions
[QUOTE=DickHerDown;3008998]Anytime this happens, every member on here should agree never to see said provider. That's the only way the low life providers will stop pulling this kind of BS.[/QUOTE]I respect the sentiment here, but I reserve the right to review the posted information and decide for myself. It's just too easy for an incomplete story, a misunderstanding, a he said / she said situation, or even a malicious falsehood from a BF or unsatisfied customer to get blown out of proportion. Its in the interest of all us guys to keep quality providers working, not drive them out of business.
A few weeks ago it was Cristin Cremes who had a misunderstanding about how her time was to be used and lost a lot of customers before it got straightened out. If you feel you have been ripped off PLEASE report it promptly, but with enough information that everyone can make a judgment for themselves. For example, today I reviewed the report to see if it seemed fishy, checked the posts of the two reporters, looked back at the review history on the provider in question and made a decision about whether or how to proceed. In this case I went ahead with caution, had a good meeting, and from talking with Luscious Lips it sounds more like a miscommunication issue than a true ripoff.
Keep sharing info, that's what makes it all work, not telling everyone else what to do.
Keeping your good clients
This is more of a rant than advice, but thankful nonetheless for the platform.
Note to the Ladies:
If you want to keep the clients that are zero drama, are decent looking fit gentry, and don't try to negotiate your rate, then may I suggest the following.
[B]Do NOT take drugs just prior to my visit and then pass out upon my arrival.[/B]
This is very bad form, especially when you contact me first to visit you; and I've rearranged my schedule to make it happen ([i]usually equating to making my following day being more f'd than normal[/i]).
Ah, now that is off my chest I can have closure =)
TGM
p.s. Respectfully, I will not be naming names. However, if this behavior continues, I am certain I will not be the only one discussing it on these boards herein.
Glad you enjoyed you visit.
[QUOTE=Smilesallround;3010662]I respect the sentiment here, but I reserve the right to review the posted information and decide for myself. It's just too easy for an incomplete story, a misunderstanding, a he said / she said situation, or even a malicious falsehood from a BF or unsatisfied customer to get blown out of proportion. Its in the interest of all us guys to keep quality providers working, not drive them out of business.
A few weeks ago it was Cristin Cremes who had a misunderstanding about how her time was to be used and lost a lot of customers before it got straightened out. If you feel you have been ripped off PLEASE report it promptly, but with enough information that everyone can make a judgment for themselves. For example, today I reviewed the report to see if it seemed fishy, checked the posts of the two reporters, looked back at the review history on the provider in question and made a decision about whether or how to proceed. In this case I went ahead with caution, had a good meeting, and from talking with Luscious Lips it sounds more like a miscommunication issue than a true ripoff.
Keep sharing info, that's what makes it all work, not telling everyone else what to do.[/QUOTE]There was no miscommunication at all. The meeting was set up more the 24 hrs in advance. Verified the night before. And a check-in was done an hour prior. All of this and discovering someone else hiding in the room, being led out of the room under the pretense of going to another room, only to have her close the door behind me. And then refusing to answer any attempt to call or text. Nope, no miscommunication at all. I understood her message very clearly. Thanks for the money and fuck off.
But everyone can make their onw choices. She had been good to me in the past, figured this would have been no different. Wasted several hours that morning on one of my few trips I get back to The Cincy area.
Sorry to rant on, but I don't want her to try to spin this off as anything but what it was. A ripoff, flat and simple.
If something doesn't make sense
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3011022]K I just don't get this so maybe someone can explain. Have seen and read reviews and rants on this but never understood it.
I can see where a monger can be upset and pissed about being ripped off by providers who book them for first time and have know idea that they are drug users.
What I don't understand is the mongers that seem to insert themselves into these drug using womens lives, knowing that they are users and get pissed because they get ripped off or appointments go wrong. Is it because they thought that they were so close they wouldn't do it to them or are they truly expecting stellar sessions from a druggie. This is something I've never understood so anyone, monger or provider that wants to explain feel free to chime in.[/QUOTE]Understandable judgement on your part. If something doesn't make sense, in my experience it usually means I am missing some information.
For the record, of the prior times we met, I had never experienced any type of drugs or drug induced state. Just took me by surprise. On the other hand, if I'm going back to see a girl that is emaciated with a dozen or so bruises all over (shame of me), I definitely would not have been surprised. Make no mistake, I own up to my decisions. And that particular day, I decided to get out of bed ;)
TGM
Not sure really, but I'll try.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3011022]K I just don't get this so maybe someone can explain. Have seen and read reviews and rants on this but never understood it.
I can see where a monger can be upset and pissed about being ripped off by providers who book them for first time and have know idea that they are drug users.
What I don't understand is the mongers that seem to insert themselves into these drug using womens lives, knowing that they are users and get pissed because they get ripped off or appointments go wrong. Is it because they thought that they were so close they wouldn't do it to them or are they truly expecting stellar sessions from a druggie. This is something I've never understood so anyone, monger or provider that wants to explain feel free to chime in.[/QUOTE]Can't speak for others, as eveyone is different. But I guess I got too relaxed with that fact that previous meetings had been good. Let my guard down I suppose. This was the first time I have ever had anything of this level done to me and I got really pissed about it. Now that being said, I should have known better and I realize that now. I'll just chaulk it up as a learning experience and move on.
Ever used rubbing alcohol after suspect woman??
I found this article the other day and wanted to share with you all and curious if any of you have ever tried rubbing alcohol on your member after messing around with a woman you suspect may have some kind of disease or saw evidence while doing the deed? I found this article from 2012 and thought I'd share. I gave it a try last night just to see how it felt and it didn't burn my dick but definitely felt warm on my nuts as it soaked in. On a side note, I got a massage and happy ending I posted about on Backpage forum (Doterra) a number of weeks back, and that provider actually had a spray bottle with water mixed with rubbing alcohol. She used it to spray down my naked body in her bathroom after the massage to help break down the oil she used so I wasn't a grease ball (or grease balls!) when I left. I may make a little travel bag to take in with me to providers moving forward and begin to wash my member before leaving their place in the future. Stay safe!!
BTW, if any of you have any further knowledge on the subject, please share your experience.
[URL]http://www.winonadailynews.com/news/local/features/dr-frank-bures-simple-rubbing-alcohol-reason-to-be-thankful/article_7bc21024-3029-11e2-b509-001a4bcf887a.html[/URL]
