I agree, don't send selfies
[QUOTE=HiloBoy;5511236]Have not posted in long while. Hope this is the correct forum cannot find a scam forum to post. Have heard about several who are on Snap as well as other dating sites and paying fee for meetups. After they send money to cash app or other bank apps they are given a location plus asked to send an I'd and nude photo for the providers safety. When they arrive at the location they are asked pressured for additional fees. Now they have paid $300 plus an add on fee of $250 or more. After they have paid all this they are threatened with blackmail for even bigger amounts. I have heard of several professional married guys being totally freaked out and paying 5 k or more in blackmail after paying like $700 upfront. BE AWARE.[/QUOTE]You're right. A lot of providers are asking for a selfie before the meet "for their safety" but that text string with your selfie could be pretty damaging to a job and or career (or even a future significant other years later), if it was posted somewhere. Even if the girl is not a blackmailer her phone might get hacked. The girls don't send us pictures or a selfie holding their I'd so we should follow their lead. The problem is a lot of guys will do this (probably dumb and young), but anything on the internet is forever so it can come back to you days or months or years later. "send me a p picture of a selfie with a finger in your mouth" so it can't be just any old picture. Hard to deny that text string if that picture of you shows up at the end in response to a specific request for a unusual pose. Think of all the problems congressman Anthony Weiner ran into for sexting. Lost his wife, his job, and the respect of the country.