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I appreciate your sharing that. It's a dimension of this game that goes undiscussed.

There's a saying that you should never love things because they can't love you back. The same can be said about people. Don't love people who can't or won't love you back. It's easier said than done of course. But you know it's true. If she is back on the site after a few days you are not having the same experience in the relationships as she is.

[QUOTE=RanManCan;6340780]I had a 3 yr SB, starting when she was 20.

At first, she was just one more in my little black book.

Over time, I basically fell for her to the point I would happily inject her with little RanMan's given the opportunity.

She says I'm the 3rd guy she's been with. . . I know I'm probably naive, but I actually believe her.

Over the last few months she started flaking, leaving early, showing up unshaved, and just generally not attentive.

I made clear that I felt it was on the wane and than I had other things that were working out better.

She did put in more effort, but I knew it was just to keep the arrangement going, so I let her go.

I was just too into her, and it wasn't reciprocated, and I just couldn't deal with that anymore.

She never once logged in during our entire time, now she's back with the same old profile (not too smart I think).

Seeing her back on the site a few days later kinda killing me.

Maybe she meets one of you wonderful gents, but I also know that site can be a bit rough on the ladies.

Not-so-secretly hoping she realizes it's fucked up out there and comes begging back . . . I know I'm kidding myself.

Anyone else been here?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Murrican;6341424]I appreciate your sharing that. It's a dimension of this game that goes undiscussed.

There's a saying that you should never love things because they can't love you back. The same can be said about people. Don't love people who can't or won't love you back. It's easier said than done of course. But you know it's true. If she is back on the site after a few days you are not having the same experience in the relationships as she is.[/QUOTE]For sure, you don't want to fall in love w / a SB. The fact a lot of us have SOs we are committed to, for whatever reason, tends to prevent that. You can use the excuse of catching feelings to ditch a SB also.

I have a theory about those guys who famously assert here that SBs are no different than hookers. It isn't too flattering, I'll just say. I don't fuck escorts, Korean apartment girls, masseuses, streetwalkers, etc. , but some of you see them as all the same. Too bad if so. I'd prefer those w / that attitude stay away from SA, because a John attitude is the largest risk to the continued existence of the site. I can only find what I want (high quality pussy, ongoing, and ideally an exclusive relationship) on SA, so I don't want anyone to mess it up. I want true NPs. Hard to find, great to keep.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6341369][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f9f6f90d-1583-47dc-9132-137a259c34b3[/URL]

HG, you have said every guy wants a GF who loves to fuck, until he actually gets a GF who loves to fuck.[/QUOTE]Well I hope she liked to titty fuck as well. Be a shame to see them go to waste. My new GF (met on tiktok) told me the other day that we needed to limit our fucking to 3 or 4 times a day. LOL.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6341462]For sure, you don't want to fall in love w / a SB. The fact a lot of us have SOs we are committed to, for whatever reason, tends to prevent that. You can use the excuse of catching feelings to ditch a SB also.

I have a theory about those guys who famously assert here that SBs are no different than hookers. It isn't too flattering, I'll just say. I don't fuck escorts, Korean apartment girls, masseuses, streetwalkers, etc. , but some of you see them as all the same. Too bad if so. I'd prefer those w / that attitude stay away from SA, because a John attitude is the largest risk to the continued existence of the site. I can only find what I want (high quality pussy, ongoing, and ideally an exclusive relationship) on SA, so I don't want anyone to mess it up. I want true NPs. Hard to find, great to keep.[/QUOTE]In 16 years of sugaring I have fallen in love 3 times. The first one was a true psycho. But she could only keep up her "normal girl" game for about 6 months. I had the LAPD remove her from my home 3 times after we broke up. She was exclusive to me for about a year and then non-exclusive for another year. Long story.

The second girl we were never a good match in the FC, so it was difficult but necessary to break up (although we are still together in an open relationship 10 years later). And we will always be a out of sync in the FC but I am grateful for what I do get and we do rely on each other emotionally quite a bit (facetime multiple times a day, everyday).

With the third one we had come to a crossroads between me and another guy and another girl she both almost married. She got engaged to the other two but eventually she chose the other guy, then came back to me two years later, but it just wasn't the same. She found her own path as people often do. I am actually still in love with her but my new GF is working very hard to make me forget her. As a single guy I will let myself go because I do not care about the inevitable pain that will pop up at some time in the future. It's just a part of life (mine anyways).

I did have at least 3 other girls that wanted to marry me but I was strictly in the booty call mindset with them. So no issues there. I know that at least two of them did marry right after leaving me, so that was their goal in life. I have never been super lucky in love and have never met my so called soul-mate. Although my second wife and the afore mentioned girls 2 & 3 I had high hopes for. Especially girl three. And my new GF is going all out but she has a couple of flaws I am going to have to accept to stay in the game.

Being a perfectionist in almost everything I do is a battle I have waged my entire life. And makes it especially difficult in relationships. Which is the main reason I have had multiple serious overlapping relationships over the years to try and fill in the gaps.

But to get to your point. These are not the type of relationships you would expect to have with a pro SB or whatever term you wish to use. I have a pro SB girl here in vegas. I tried to up the relationship but she basically laughed it off (more than once). I actually had to stop seeing her a while back as I just could not keep it professional. But we still chat and she is down for a $ anytime I want to see her.

Sidebar... Has anyone purchased Oxytocin online? I got some recently but have not used it yet. I only want to use it with girl 3 (who asked me to buy it) or my new GF when the time is right.

Hoping to draw on the collective wisdom of this board.

Are usually seek internationally. Just lined one up locally that I'm pretty stoked about.

Problem is she can't host and I can't have a local hotel on my credit card because I'm married.

Is there a way to stay at a hotel but not with a credit card? I thought about getting a prepaid card, but I'm pretty sure you can't use those for the incidentals run on your credit card.

[QUOTE=Murrican;6341720]Hoping to draw on the collective wisdom of this board.

Are usually seek internationally. Just lined one up locally that I'm pretty stoked about.

Problem is she can't host and I can't have a local hotel on my credit card because I'm married.

Is there a way to stay at a hotel but not with a credit card? I thought about getting a prepaid card, but I'm pretty sure you can't use those for the incidentals run on your credit card.[/QUOTE]Hotels still accept cash😇.

[QUOTE=ShowMeHow23;6338760]Have any of you CA guys gone to London and found success out there? Sorry, I get it, this is a SoCal board, but I'm going out there for work and will be there for several months. It seems everyone out there has "Passport ready" in their profile and probably messaged at least 100+ girls out there, and barely a nibble from anyone.

Any pointers for across to see potential?[/QUOTE]Shoot me DM. I went over there for a week and was kind of surprised how much success I had. I just shot a bunch of messages off saying I'm from LA and was coming to town for work with a 400 £ offer.

[QUOTE=Murrican;6341720]Hoping to draw on the collective wisdom of this board.

Are usually seek internationally. Just lined one up locally that I'm pretty stoked about.

Problem is she can't host and I can't have a local hotel on my credit card because I'm married.

Is there a way to stay at a hotel but not with a credit card? I thought about getting a prepaid card, but I'm pretty sure you can't use those for the incidentals run on your credit card.[/QUOTE]Casa Bella in DTLA. It's better than it looks and great for quick stays. Staff is totally cool. Debit cards accepted. Maybe a small deposit required. If you ask at the desk you can get 2 hours for $.5 . At least they used to do that. The regular rate is $1.1... I used to pay cash for the quick stays and I believe they take cash for any stay.

Or ask rodeway on Olympic near DTLA. New owners that would probably agree to anything. Very laid back

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6341823]Casa Bella in DTLA. It's better than it looks and great for quick stays. Staff is totally cool. Debit cards accepted. Maybe a small deposit required. If you ask at the desk you can get 2 hours for $.5 . At least they used to do that. The regular rate is $1.1... I used to pay cash for the quick stays and I believe they take cash for any stay.

Or ask rodeway on Olympic near DTLA. New owners that would probably agree to anything. Very laid back[/QUOTE]Those are in Westlake, not DTLA, but damn if they work they work.

I'm going to call them today and see if it's possible to check in without running a credit card. I'll sound like a total narco but I don't know how much choice I have.

Woops. I went MIA packing and taking care of loose ends around here. Thanks for the replies and info gents.

[QUOTE=Murrican;6342352]Those are in Westlake, not DTLA, but damn if they work they work.

I'm going to call them today and see if it's possible to check in without running a credit card. I'll sound like a total narco but I don't know how much choice I have.[/QUOTE]Well like 5 minutes from DTLA. I have stayed at both many many times without an issue. But when you get there just ask to see the room first as some are better than others. Don't just take the first one they give you if you don't like it. Although at Casa Bella if you do the short stay its going to be one of the smaller rooms across from the office (there won't be a choice).

Also at Casa Bella they will let you reserve a room with no credit card but not at rodeway. If you are just gonna pull up and do it right then and there, CB gets full on the weekends as it is very small and a known no-tel. Rodeway is much bigger but they do sell out as well. Check for any major events like sports or concerts or conventions as they always fill up at these times.

[QUOTE=PlutoKiller;6341771]Hotels still accept cash😇.[/QUOTE]This is absolutely not true. I have been in a couple of low level chain hotels in the Inland Empire over the past year, and they prominently post that they don't accept cash. I presume this was due to drug deals, etc. , being conducted there.

However, broadly, this is a way to handle payment to a hotel with the maximum security. To check in, you absolutely must have a credit card and a drivers license. So fake identity cards don't help. The best you can do is use your middle name, for anonymity. Anyway, many places, you can pay in cash upon checkout (and you MUST check out, you cannot just slink off into the night / day) and the charge against your card will be reversed. In my experience, it doesn't / didn't show up on my CC statements. However, this experience was several years back, so it might not still be true, and it might not be true with all credit cards.

Hotels might accept a debit card *if* your name is on it (I. E. , prepaids like we use to get SA membership will not work). Others say they buy [URL]hotels.com[/URL] gift cards and use those. Also, the amount of $ on the card has to be at least the room charge + the deposit, which is typically a ridiculous amount (like $250).

[QUOTE=RanManCan;5773823]Agreed, ValentinaRose is hot.

I messaged with her like a year ago, she wanted me to come to her in SGV for the M&G. Nope, babies come to me.[/QUOTE]PSA:

Buyer Beware.

I met this hot little number 6 months ago on SA.

The girl herself is amazing, but the drama with her booker / pimp / BF.

If you're texting 626-557-3x xx, you're talking to.

Her pimp / boyfriend / booker Randy, who lurks in the.

Background and uses recordings and texts for extortion / blackmail.

Purposes.

Protect yourself from being fucked over in a bad way. It's the.

Arrangement from hell, something you can't and won't forget!

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6343148]This is absolutely not true. I have been in a couple of low level chain hotels in the Inland Empire over the past year, and they prominently post that they don't accept cash. I presume this was due to drug deals, etc. , being conducted there.

However, broadly, this is a way to handle payment to a hotel with the maximum security. To check in, you absolutely must have a credit card and a drivers license. So fake identity cards don't help. The best you can do is use your middle name, for anonymity. Anyway, many places, you can pay in cash upon checkout (and you MUST check out, you cannot just slink off into the night / day) and the charge against your card will be reversed. In my experience, it doesn't / didn't show up on my CC statements. However, this experience was several years back, so it might not still be true, and it might not be true with all credit cards.

Hotels might accept a debit card *if* your name is on it (I. E. , prepaids like we use to get SA membership will not work). Others say they buy [URL]hotels.com[/URL] gift cards and use those. Also, the amount of $ on the card has to be at least the room charge + the deposit, which is typically a ridiculous amount (like $250).[/QUOTE]You are going to the wrong hotels / motels then. Avoid the chains and go to small no tells. You need an ID of course but never had an issue paying in cash for the 2-3 hours that I needed the room.

Holy crap what happened!

Being blackmailed is one of my biggest fears on this site.

[QUOTE=JollyJohnRoger;6343359]PSA:

Buyer Beware.

I met this hot little number 6 months ago on SA.

The girl herself is amazing, but the drama with her booker / pimp / BF.

If you're texting 626-557-3x xx, you're talking to.

Her pimp / boyfriend / booker Randy, who lurks in the.

Background and uses recordings and texts for extortion / blackmail.

Purposes.

Protect yourself from being fucked over in a bad way. It's the.

Arrangement from hell, something you can't and won't forget![/QUOTE]