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10000%.
There's no breaking through to them you don't mean s* to them you're just there to give them money for whatever they need. I wouldn't waste time with a 20 year old girl they're too stupid to realize how ridiculous they are.
There's basically two kinds of girls on this site. There's the young naive girls that have this fantasy of an older man to take care of them and show them nice places and buy them nice things. Quickly they find out that this is nothing but a fantasy and they will leave the site. You'll be lucky to have one encounter with them before they realize this isn't the lifestyle they actually want.
The rest of them the only difference between these girls and skip the games is a crippling drug addiction. Both are lazy entitled pathological lying broken individuals that can't / won't do anything else for income or are so fixated on a lifestyle that is above their pay grade they have no problem selling themselves for the monetary gain.
Don't fall into that trap or extend yourself too far for one of these girls cuz you're just going to fall on your face.
[QUOTE=Style20;6194251]Don't ever be believe any stories these girls tell you. They will tell you all kind of pathetic a hit to make you believed so you could feel sorry and send them or buy them stuff. Like the guy Lennox65 said, they are on the site to sell pussy and you are there to lease it for couple hours and another guys will hear the same sad story she just told you and same thing over and over.[/QUOTE]
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99%
Mostly true. I did meet one 21 yo girl who just wanted to hang out. She never asked me for money. I bought her food, clothes, booze, cigs (not all on the same day and nothing extravagant). We went to places or just shot the shit at her home (parents' home). And, of course, we had lots of naked fun. I've also found several cuties of all ages who are just lonely and don't count the hours as long as they have something to show for it.
Many of the more naive girls on the site want the courting first and the romance after. It doesn't work that way for me. I like to get the romance out of the way first, and if that goes well then I'm interested in courting (movies, dinner).
And actually there are men out there whose junk don't work who just want to be seen with a hot 20 yo at parties and ball games in front of their friends. Not sure how big that demographic is. But I'm guessing not very big.
But for the most part, you're right. A big chunk of the girls on the site have heard the myth of the easy sugar baby lifestyle and want to be part of it. But only a few get to enjoy the jet setting lifestyle because unless the guy is impotent (see above) he will eventually want some fun. And if you got all of the greed and none of the skills you'll be thrown off the boat in a nanosecond. So a lot of them come back to earth real fast and either reduce their expectations or find a real job. This is why their join date is a very important data point.
[QUOTE=FairPlay;6195107]10000%.
There's no breaking through to them you don't mean s* to them you're just there to give them money for whatever they need. I wouldn't waste time with a 20 year old girl they're too stupid to realize how ridiculous they are.
There's basically two kinds of girls on this site. There's the young naive girls that have this fantasy of an older man to take care of them and show them nice places and buy them nice things. Quickly they find out that this is nothing but a fantasy and they will leave the site. You'll be lucky to have one encounter with them before they realize this isn't the lifestyle they actually want.
The rest of them the only difference between these girls and skip the games is a crippling drug addiction. Both are lazy entitled pathological lying broken individuals that can't / won't do anything else for income or are so fixated on a lifestyle that is above their pay grade they have no problem selling themselves for the monetary gain.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6193431]Okay, I've been noticing a conglomerate of 18 - 20-year-olds on Seeking. They "seem" DTF, or have some agenda or "plan in mind". I've noticed through many social media apps that Seeking's Ad targeting is strong. So, a friend of a friend is whispering in these younglins' ears, ya know.
But, my point is, they're here. Might as well go after them. The problem I'm coming across is how to break through to them. Then once we break through, what can we do?
I mean, everywhere I go, most of the clubs are 21+, they can't step foot into the casinos. There's only so many times, you can go out to eat.
Breaking Through: So far I've noticed, these chicks got mad issues. Whether in school, or their current job, or living situation, there's one crazy story after another. Then the other issue is trying to break through to get them over their "entitlement". They're thinking they should be charging $1 k /$2 k and seem to want to be a clock-watcher as well, on top of buying them books, shoes & jewelry. On top of that, there expect to be seen at least on a weekly basis or sometimes twice per week. It's just not realistic or sustainable.
For example, one girl I spoke w / lives all the way down at the Cape. So hard for her to travel, especially w / no car. Her story was she left school because of bullying. She smokes & grows weed, & these bullies threaten her because she gets good grades, and smokes weed. They threatened her life & the school wouldn't do anything. Now she does online school.
What to do & where to go:
So, what do you all do for fun w / the 18 - 20's? You can't bring them to the casino. How do you make things consistent, enticing & exciting so they keep coming back for more? And of course, keeping things within a low-cost range for that consistent & long-term options. I mean, there are only so many times you can go out to eat at a nice restaurant & keep people motivated.
Can we get a list of ideas?[/QUOTE]Not sure why you are looking to date these girls? After a casual meet and greet I set the arrangement up as a meet up for sex with that "gift" after the deed is done. Do you really want to hang out with the girls? The most time I ever ever spent with any girl was either a casual dinner the back to a room for sex or just a couple hours at her place or mine for drinks, small talk then sex. Then kiss then goodnight until the next time. You may want to try actual dating sites if you are looking for ladies to take out regularly. The girls that want anything beyond $400 are quickly dropped from the contact list. Take a trip to Montreal and practice with the gorgeous girls there. 1-2 k will get you lots of satisfaction with many girls.
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[QUOTE=Tribeca67;6194642]Any information?[/QUOTE]Yea, I chatted with her the other night I was at Encore Casino. I was trying to find someone all day (literally from 5 am in the morning until 11 Pm at night. I only literally played about 3 hours at the casino, won about $300, ate food by myself, and ended up falling asleep.
But I chatter w / her that day. Here's how it went. Our word for word conversation (added a bit of commentary). Also, attached are her photos.
ME.
It's 10/27 - are you not free right now? If not how come?
Okay, so this might be crazy, & I don't know how spontaneous you are.
Would you be interested in hanging out tonight? I mean, like right now? I'm currently at Encore Casino (Everett).
Just doing a bit of Netflix & chilling after playing some tables games. So, rather than flip the profiles here, why not come & hang out?
Let's connect, if your interested.
HER.
Sorry LOL wasn't available.
ME.
That's okay. I fell asleep early anyway. LOL. It was literally a last minute, spontaneous chance. Good morning! How are you today? You're up & welcoming the day. No time to waste eh? LOL.
HER.
Haha exactly.
ME.
What kind of trouble you getting into today?
HER.
Not sure yet.
ME.
Where are you located /.
HER.
Cambridge on weekends.
ME.
Is today considered a weekend? Where are you during the week?
HER.
I mean I can come there tonight if it was worth it LOL.
I wouldn't come tonight for less than 1 k.
ME.
What do you even look like?
I mean, 1 pic, doesn't really help.
(NOTE: This was when she only had 1 picture up).
(she then sent me 2 pictures).
Me.
If no one has told you today or ever. You are Mother Fucking Beautiful. No need to hide it. By the way, that tan looks super natural. Amazing.
Her.
Thank you so much.
ME.
So, if you stay in Cambridge or where you are now, is it more "worth it" being there all day versus doing something different?
HER.
I can't be there until night I am busy today.
ME.
Ahhh, I got it. So, if you are in Cambridge on Weekends, where are you during the week days?
=== That was the end of our conversation at that time.
Assessment:
Okay, what could I have done better? What did I do good on?
NOTE: I do still talk to her right now, haven't gone anywhere yet, just trying to set something up & get the number. For some reason, she has hidden "all" her pics. Not sure why.
But I still got the ones she sent via email. Also, understand, I was able to reach her early in the morning, when I had just got my room at Encore, & I was kinda getting setup for the day. But ended up chatting with a bunch of women trying to get at least one of them there that night. I failed. HAHAH. The last one I was working on, I was got the phone number & snap chat, but by then, the club had let out & it was almost 2 am. And she didn't want to drive from Seakonk. She said she would have done it for $400, but, I was greedy & said you can come for $300. This was her: Funbaby95 -- [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/81c86848-3d37-4f14-9246-8b7d3ab8a389[/URL] - I got her SNAP, that's where we do most discussing. But I go back & forth.
She had another profile, either got deleted or something. But, she still sends me snaps & stays connected. Haven't hit it yet. I think it may be promising. But tons of women that day were coming online, staying for about 30 minutes to an 1 hour and then going off line. Yep, I was tracking that shit. So I was hoping to catch a break. But my ass was on that computer all damn day. So I didn't have a promising time overall. Oh & yes, I had to do all of this, because I did get stood up by one of the Young Ducklings I had mentioned about. It was all planned, but, flaked.
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[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6195095]I'm blocked from viewing the profile. So that tells you something. I have seen many, many gals on that site and only a handful of psychos have blocked me. I never block anyone. Her handle "No time to waste" also tells you something. I do not predict a positive sugar baby experience.[/QUOTE]I accidentally clicked on upload report & forgot to add the 2 images to my post.
But here they are.
So, yea, these are the image of no time to waste [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/38b957a6-806f-40e9-b1c2-06de3fe95e39?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL].
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[QUOTE=PaulRew;6194781]You'll probably get more information if you put the link in your ISO.
For those interested here's the link to the reference picture.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/38b957a6-806f-40e9-b1c2-06de3fe95e39[/URL][/QUOTE]Yes, I also put the pictures up for our fellow mongers who got blocked if they have any information.
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[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6195464]Yea, I chatted with her the other night I was at Encore Casino. I was trying to find someone all day (literally from 5 am in the morning until 11 Pm at night. I only literally played about 3 hours at the casino, won about $300, ate food by myself, and ended up falling asleep.
But I chatter w / her that day. Here's how it went. Our word for word conversation (added a bit of commentary). Also, attached are her photos.
=== That was the end of our conversation at that time.
Assessment:
Okay, what could I have done better? What did I do good on?
[/QUOTE]Overall a solid interaction / messaging. She just wasn't that interested in what was a pretty good offer. We can argue all night long about why (doesn't find you that attractive, was just finishing with another dude, was just chatting out of boredom, anything really.) but ultimately it's irrelevant. The key is 1) make yourself interesting, 2) call to action, 3) hit a dozen+ girls (it always, always is a numbers game). Seems you covered the bases well. Reach out to her like this 2 or 3 times at most and if she keeps wavering drop her, she'll never come through and is not worth the hassle. Girls have no problem telling you if they're interested. It becomes an automatic yes to anything. And quoting you 1 k pretty much gives the game away, that's a price for someone that doesn't care is she sees you or not. For 1k she will literally see anyone and everyone.
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Funbaby
Thanks for the story. Funbaby gets a thumbs down from me.
[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6195464]Yea, I chatted with her the other night I was at Encore Casino. I was trying to find someone all day (literally from 5 am in the morning until 11 Pm at night. I only literally played about 3 hours at the casino, won about $300, ate food by myself, and ended up falling asleep.
But I chatter w / her that day. Here's how it went. Our word for word conversation (added a bit of commentary). Also, attached are her photos.
ME.
It's 10/27 - are you not free right now? If not how come?[/QUOTE]
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Funbaby 95
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6196189]Thanks for the story. Funbaby gets a thumbs down from me.[/QUOTE]We texted and she said Randolph I remember a bad vibe from a while back so I did a search on this thread.
I am pretty sure Funbaby 95 and Cassandra are the same Bad News search this thread for Randolph.
Be safe.
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Funbaby
Cassandra / Casey / Kayce is North Shore I think. Or used to be. Yes, bad news.
Funbaby had an earlier profile as Naughty something. Girls who keep changing profiles -- bad news.
[QUOTE=CandyMan555;6196523]We texted and she said Randolph I remember a bad vibe from a while back so I did a search on this thread.
I am pretty sure Funbaby 95 and Cassandra are the same Bad News search this thread for Randolph.
Be safe.[/QUOTE]
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Funbaby
Met her twice once in a hotel off 95 in providence, got a BBBJ for 100, it was average and got the job done. About 8 months ago I met her in Randolph at the dunkies across from Vincents. Didn't realize that she was the same girl, she was totally junked out and I told her I thought so and she was not happy but got out of my car without an incident. She has 100's of different pictures where she looks healthy and puts new ones up in her profiles all the time.
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[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/528fa2ea-2d17-47cb-a02d-aed3b05c2f37[/URL]
First message was asking to pay to get her nails done, says she wants PPM but nothing physical LOL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0919eef2-689f-401b-806c-fac8dc144e82[/URL]
Pretty to the point with her messages and got her #, said she wants 800+ PPM at least a few times a month. Kind of seems like she might be a scam with those pics though.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/954d1bdf-5cf5-44d3-8389-8b07deac8287[/URL]
Not PRO but is on OF and is from Brazil, social media checks out that the pics are real and looking for 3-400 ready to meet whenever pretty much.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0ee0436c-d3c9-490c-876a-0b4717731a90[/URL]
Almost to a T what I'm looking for. But is very sporadic with responding, says she is up here helping her grandparents and can only meet later in the evening and on Sundays. Apparently got scammed by some guy so maybe she's being extra cautious idk. I actually bought her something off her wishlist which I never do and she never accepted it so I got my 50 refunded.
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Hidden Languages
Title: LittleLoveBug.
Profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/67a42c08-54ec-49b9-9a81-bec8b0723fca[/URL].
I've come across the "same" statements a lot with multiple women.
After an introductory "contact me" message. I been getting the following type of replies:
My initial or 2nd message outgoing statement simply says: "What's your schedule like during a full week? Would like to know what days are best for us to meet up, if your interested."
Their replies:
"Hey, you might not like how I do things when it comes to meet love" -- from liittlelovebug.
Others.
"You wouldn't like how I do things".
Or.
"I do things a certain way. You wouldn't like that."
This has been over a period of months.
Any insight into these statements?
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[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6199718]Title: LittleLoveBug.
Profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/67a42c08-54ec-49b9-9a81-bec8b0723fca[/URL].
I've come across the "same" statements a lot with multiple women.
After an introductory "contact me" message. I been getting the following type of replies:
My initial or 2nd message outgoing statement simply says: "What's your schedule like during a full week? Would like to know what days are best for us to meet up, if your interested."
Their replies:
"Hey, you might not like how I do things when it comes to meet love" -- from liittlelovebug.
Others.
"You wouldn't like how I do things".
Or.
"I do things a certain way. You wouldn't like that."
This has been over a period of months.
Any insight into these statements?[/QUOTE]My insight is. Don't waste your time after you see the messages.
A lot of girls on there think that They are the ones who are supposed to be calling the shots like it's a real relationship. Any girl on there that is too demanding or says anything like that is most likely going to be GPS, online only, or have some crazy unreasonable expectations.