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[QUOTE=Bossanova86;3164094]I did not contact her to warn her, I honestly don't even know how to proceed forward other than to protect myself and warn others.[/QUOTE]You have to inform her because females can often have no symptoms or misdiagnosed as UTI from certain STIs and therefore unaware. Just inform her and she can get it taken care of as easily as you did.
[QUOTE=Grafenberg;3164442]You have to inform her because females can often have no symptoms or misdiagnosed as UTI from certain STIs and therefore unaware. Just inform her and she can get it taken care of as easily as you did.[/QUOTE]Definitely do that. If she's got the bug in her throat she won't get noticeable symptoms, especially considering she smokes anyway. You felt pain in your nether regions, but she's going to feel in it her purse as word gets out and $$$ stops coming in.
[QUOTE=DizkNutz;3164440]NOTE: This is for dreams are BBBJ-only... heed BarClamp's advice on not holding off cleaning until after FS.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BarClamp;3164245] if you happen to partake bareback, take a piss as soon as possibe after the deed. Uric acid apparently kills gonorrhea bacteria before it has a chance to take hold. Wait too long, like putting the hat on and going on your round-the-world trip before pissing may be too late.[/QUOTE]If I get 5 minutes of BBBJ, then put on the hat (without pissing / washing first) for 10 minutes of FS, then piss and soap up in a hot shower, how is that different from getting 15 minutes of BBBJ? The time between exposure to bacteria and washing is the same.
If anything, the extra 10 minutes of BBBJ gives more exposure time to introduce a critical mass of bacteria.
I definitely agree with taking a few big drinks of water, soda, or coffee beforehand to have a good piss on deck, and using soap and hot water within a few minutes of finishing. Alternating soaping and pissing is also good so you don't leave soap in the tract, which can be irritating. The shower is also better than the sink for this. LOL
[QUOTE=BunkerBuster;3165663]If I get 5 minutes of BBBJ, then put on the hat (without pissing / washing first) for 10 minutes of FS, then piss and soap up in a hot shower, how is that different from getting 15 minutes of BBBJ? The time between exposure to bacteria and washing is the same.
If anything, the extra 10 minutes of BBBJ gives more exposure time to introduce a critical mass of bacteria.
I definitely agree with taking a few big drinks of water, soda, or coffee beforehand to have a good piss on deck, and using soap and hot water within a few minutes of finishing. Alternating soaping and pissing is also good so you don't leave soap in the tract, which can be irritating. The shower is also better than the sink for this. LOL[/QUOTE]Does any of this work? So if I get BBBJ I should piss, then go on with the hat and then FS.
[QUOTE=DizkNutz;3164440]Roger. Here are a few other measures for before:
1. Drink lots of water beforehand (so you can take a good, long piss following; also 100% cranberry juice (find on google how its good for everyone's urinary tract and can prevent adherence of bacteria to the tract).
2. Pick up some hydrogen peroxide and ask your friend to gargle for at least 30 seconds and if there's any resistance lead by example and do it together (even if you have no intention of "going there"everyone wins.
During:
3. Avoid DT. The throat is where most of the bugs are hiding in numbers for a transfer. Does she have a phlegmy cough? If so, I reverse course on BBBJ. Even if not something that requires antibiotics, there could bugs in that phlegm / sputum that'll bring discomfort though your immunes will fight them off after a few days without assistance. Why take the chance?
IMMEDIATELY after:
4. Take that nice, long piss.
5. If you're able to get your hands on surgical-grade soap, lather up (especially the tip) and let it rest for at least 30 seconds.
6. Rinse the soap off and then grab your peroxide and do another rinse downstairs with lots of attention to the tip; get some of the peroxide into your tract even.
7. Leave her the peroxide and suggest she get into the habit of rinsing before and after--not only will she thank you, but so will the rest of the brethren.
Lots of points, but it really takes very little time at all, especially compared with trips to the doctor. Most important, these actions are no guarantee, neither singly nor altogether. This stuff comes down to risk and responsibility.
NOTE: This is for dreams are BBBJ-only... heed BarClamp's advice on not holding off cleaning until after FS.[/QUOTE]Where do I procure surgical grade soap?
[QUOTE=Kijimuna;3164299]I had a Master Chief tell me that it's a good idea to take a piss right after getting a blow job from a hooker. It hasn't let me down yet. I've been to some nasty blow job bars in Thailand before, where the girls often give 10+ BBBJCIM a day.[/QUOTE]I want to a Bar in Bangkok years ago and it was called Bar 1,2, free and it was the best. The seats are kind of elevated and awkward. I found out why later. The barmaids come by and your crotch is at shoulder level for them. Let the games begin. Wish we had this service around here.
[QUOTE=Bossanova86;3164094]I did not contact her to warn her, I honestly don't even know how to proceed forward other than to protect myself and warn others. I should clarify that I saw her two and a half weeks ago and the only thing that was skin to skin contact was the BBBJ. The issues arose fairly quickly, I wrote the review day of (after) and within 3 days did I had problems (saw her Thursday, had problems on Saturday, suffered Sunday, got treated Monday, cleared up same day the most painful symptoms, remainder of the week was left purging due to the antibiotics and fighting the flu.[/QUOTE]I hear it takes about 72 hours for the symptoms to become unbearable. Then once treated, about 72 hours for anti to clear it up and provide relief. Must be scary.
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There are a lot of providers who will do this for us. I admit to succumbing when I first started the hobby. It is splendid. However this risks are too great gentleman.
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I would be interested in hearing from others on how they address the issue.
[QUOTE=Miketastic69;3167348]Where do I procure surgical grade soap?[/QUOTE]Walgreens carries an antiseptic skin cleanser containing chlorhexidine. Less than $10 for an 8 oz bottle. Liquid soaps contain quaternay ammonium surfactants which have antibacterial properties, so you can also lather up really well and wash down why'alls dirty dicks.
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[QUOTE=OldBoomer;3167474]There are a lot of providers who will do this for us. I admit to succumbing when I first started the hobby. It is splendid. However this risks are too great gentleman.
I use Skyn polyisoprene condoms. Polyisoprene is the best IMHO for conveying heat and feel. No it is not a the same, but it is much safer. Keep several at the ready for a change in venue. Also, polyisoprene has no odor or flavor; a benefit for your provider.
I would be interested in hearing from others on how they address the issue.[/QUOTE]Some providers have performed BBBJ on me, whether alone or followed by CFS. (I've had only limited experience with BBFS in the hobby, typically when something unexpected or unplanned took place.) Thankfully I've never noticed any problems afterward, but I'm always careful to clean myself thoroughly once we're done. Somewhere along the way I heard the advice to take a piss after being intimate, whether the act was bareback or covered. That's something I've put into practice even when using protection.
[QUOTE=Miketastic69;3167360]I hear it takes about 72 hours for the symptoms to become unbearable. Then once treated, about 72 hours for anti to clear it up and provide relief. Must be scary.[/QUOTE]
It honestly wasn't as bad as movies or television shows have led me to believe. The burning feeling after awhile I eventually just became numb to. Something they don't tell you is that the stuff that leaks out during the process 'dries up' and tends to keep johnny stuck to the underwear and can be such a pain in the rear when having to adjust yourself (sleeping, walking etc). Think of it like having to pull off a band-aid that's adhesive has latched on to a few hairs, it stings a bit, now repeat that process 10+ times an hour and it becomes unbearable and 'raw' down there. I was so glad it cleared up after I was given that thick antibiotic shot in my ass. Anyways for those that have been following, I contacted her and just gave her a heads up. She took a day to respond, but she stated she went and got herself checked and stated she was "clean". I'm not trying to poison the pool here, that was legitimately the first time I've ever encountered such a thing and I've generally given myself the thorough piss and wash after seeing someone. This might have just been a fluke and / or the perfect storm that led to this (who knows?).
[QUOTE=Bossanova86;3167947]It honestly wasn't as bad as movies or television shows have led me to believe. The burning feeling after awhile I eventually just became numb to. Something they don't tell you is that the stuff that leaks out during the process 'dries up' and tends to keep johnny stuck to the underwear and can be such a pain in the rear when having to adjust yourself (sleeping, walking etc). Think of it like having to pull off a band-aid that's adhesive has latched on to a few hairs, it stings a bit, now repeat that process 10+ times an hour and it becomes unbearable and 'raw' down there. I was so glad it cleared up after I was given that thick antibiotic shot in my ass. Anyways for those that have been following, I contacted her and just gave her a heads up. She took a day to respond, but she stated she went and got herself checked and stated she was "clean". I'm not trying to poison the pool here, that was legitimately the first time I've ever encountered such a thing and I've generally given myself the thorough piss and wash after seeing someone. This might have just been a fluke and / or the perfect storm that led to this (who knows?).[/QUOTE]The doctor confirmed it was the drip? A UTI can have some of the same symptoms as a STD. Not doubting you, just putting that out there. Personally, I keep a stock of doxycycline on hand just in case.
[QUOTE=Bossanova86;3167947]It honestly wasn't as bad as movies or television shows have led me to believe. The burning feeling after awhile I eventually just became numb to. Something they don't tell you is that the stuff that leaks out during the process 'dries up' and tends to keep johnny stuck to the underwear and can be such a pain in the rear when having to adjust yourself (sleeping, walking etc). Think of it like having to pull off a band-aid that's adhesive has latched on to a few hairs, it stings a bit, now repeat that process 10+ times an hour and it becomes unbearable and 'raw' down there. I was so glad it cleared up after I was given that thick antibiotic shot in my ass. Anyways for those that have been following, I contacted her and just gave her a heads up. She took a day to respond, but she stated she went and got herself checked and stated she was "clean". I'm not trying to poison the pool here, that was legitimately the first time I've ever encountered such a thing and I've generally given myself the thorough piss and wash after seeing someone. This might have just been a fluke and / or the perfect storm that led to this (who knows?).[/QUOTE]Bossanova,
I got burnt by my very first piece back in the mid 80's, loss my V card to said young lady that I went to high school with (a year older than I), she was the cousin of my cousins boyfriend at the time so she set us up. She wanted wood and I had fresh, untainted at the time, wood to give, she was on the pill and took pride that she couldn't get pregnant. I rode my bike 2. 5 miles in the dark and we fucked like the school kids were were without protection for a week straight, in the pool, on the couch, in the car, you name it we did it any and every where while her parents were working or sleeping. Within a few days I began burning, couldn't sleep cause I had to piss all of the time stuck it out for another week and finally had to tell my pops who was pissed but took me to the doctor, got the shot and a months worth of pills that turned my urine a blaze orange, had to sit down to piss as standing at the floor urinals (the old school 3/4 body length type) splashed and stained my white kicks and white denim; did I mention it was the early 1980's? I haven't had anything like it since and don't ever plan on it, that experience really burned (pun intended) in to my head (pun intended as well). When we (my parents and I because I had just turned 16) confronted her and her parents in my childhood kitchen (awkward) she (they) denied that she was infected until she went to the doctor after infecting another young lad a few days later. Looking back, I am glad that I learned the lesson when I was MUCH younger.
Thanks for posting and keeping us all grounded to the realities of life and good luck on the recovery.
M.