Safe Sex Information and Advice

When I first started out in this I got a few BBBJ's from questionable girls, because I was dumb at the time and figured bbbjs have basically no risk because its so common. I turned out to be fine though. Got tested a few times since then, and that was over 2 years ago I think.

Its probably hard to say how risky it can be. But its proabbly pretty low risk if its a clean looking girl, no hard drugs, marks, how her teeth look, etc.

It always shocked me that there are some people that do BBFS with providers they don't know really well. Now that is risky.

Recently got a nude massage body 2 body, her bottom half touched me a few times on my butt didn't think much of it just curious if there's any std risk in that? I know it sounds dumb but paranoia kicks in sometimes.

[QUOTE=NBboy25;3168786]Recently got a nude massage body 2 body, her bottom half touched me a few times on my butt didn't think much of it just curious if there's any std risk in that? I know it sounds dumb but paranoia kicks in sometimes.[/QUOTE]Not judging but you may want to reconsider your taking part of this hobby.

[QUOTE=NBboy25;3168786]Recently got a nude massage body 2 body, her bottom half touched me a few times on my butt didn't think much of it just curious if there's any std risk in that? I know it sounds dumb but paranoia kicks in sometimes.[/QUOTE]And I quote.

"IF you have not heard of MRSA (methicillin resistant staphylococcus aureus) yet, you will very soon. MRSA (it is generally verbalized as mersa) used to be found only in hospitals. But as a result of 50 years of prescribing penicillin-related antibiotics for infections, the bacteria that cause staph infections have mutated and grown resistant to common antibiotics. Those resistant bacteria, MRSA, have presented themselves in the form of a new "super bug" that has moved quickly into the general public. And it's a super bug that's much more difficult to kill than previous staph bacteria. ".

I occasionally have taken some of the antibiotics neccasary to kill some of these STD's that atre out there but not in high doses they mention so I'm not sure where this came from but I had a nasty case of it on my lower groin from skin contact from, and this is the only place I can think of, fuking a a street walker, body contact. Finally had to go see my PC to clear it up. An immediate shot in the ass of penicillin then high doses of anti biotics for a couple weeks. You think a UTR or chlymidia are nastyConsider this the new "STD". And I continue to have a linger case on my body which is in remission but flairs up once in a while.

So even with that condom on your dick theres still other diseases you can catch.

[QUOTE=Renagade;3169471]And I quote.

"IF you have not heard of MRSA (methicillin resistant staphylococcus aureus) yet, you will very soon. MRSA (it is generally verbalized as mersa) used to be found only in hospitals. But as a result of 50 years of prescribing penicillin-related antibiotics for infections, the bacteria that cause staph infections have mutated and grown resistant to common antibiotics. Those resistant bacteria, MRSA, have presented themselves in the form of a new "super bug" that has moved quickly into the general public. And it's a super bug that's much more difficult to kill than previous staph bacteria. ".

I occasionally have taken some of the antibiotics neccasary to kill some of these STD's that atre out there but not in high doses they mention so I'm not sure where this came from but I had a nasty case of it on my lower groin from skin contact from, and this is the only place I can think of, fuking a a street walker, body contact. Finally had to go see my PC to clear it up. An immediate shot in the ass of penicillin then high doses of anti biotics for a couple weeks. You think a UTR or chlymidia are nastyConsider this the new "STD". And I continue to have a linger case on my body which is in remission but flairs up once in a while.

So even with that condom on your dick theres still other diseases you can catch.[/QUOTE]MRSA and VRE (which doesn't get as much publicity for some reason) are very common in the prisons, so if the girl has been to jail there's a good chance she's been exposed to them. Anyone who's ever worked in the medical field has certainly been exposed to them as well. It is possible to carry them for years without ever actually having an infection yourself. Many people are very likely exposed to them daily, but never have any issues. Shower, use antibacterial soap, and you'll probably be fine. Shaving on the day of any sexual encounters can increase your chances of infections. So will brushing your teeth or using mouthwash containing alcohol, if you're engaging in any oral activities.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

[QUOTE=HoHunter328;3170209]MRSA and VRE (which doesn't get as much publicity for some reason) are very common in the prisons, so if the girl has been to jail there's a good chance she's been exposed to them. Anyone who's ever worked in the medical field has certainly been exposed to them as well. It is possible to carry them for years without ever actually having an infection yourself. Many people are very likely exposed to them daily, but never have any issues. Shower, use antibacterial soap, and you'll probably be fine. Shaving on the day of any sexual encounters can increase your chances of infections. So will brushing your teeth or using mouthwash containing alcohol, if you're engaging in any oral activities.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Everytime I have an encounter I get home wash up and wash again with chlorhexidine gluconate.

Does anyone know if there is any risk of getting HIV from a BBBJ?

[QUOTE=JDapper;3170587]Does anyone know if there is any risk of getting HIV from a BBBJ?[/QUOTE]Unless blood somehow came into the act there's no meaningful risk from getting a BJ. Def a risk for catching other stuff though.

[QUOTE=HoHunter328;3170209]MRSA and VRE (which doesn't get as much publicity for some reason) are very common in the prisons, so if the girl has been to jail there's a good chance she's been exposed to them. Anyone who's ever worked in the medical field has certainly been exposed to them as well. It is possible to carry them for years without ever actually having an infection yourself. Many people are very likely exposed to them daily, but never have any issues. Shower, use antibacterial soap, and you'll probably be fine. Shaving on the day of any sexual encounters can increase your chances of infections. So will brushing your teeth or using mouthwash containing alcohol, if you're engaging in any oral activities.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Have talked to many a ho out of jail that complains of getting "spider bites" while incarcerated (as well as many others.) Pretty sure every case is a staff infection.

I first want to make sure I don't want any names, but more of a "something to keep in mind" type of response. I'm fairly new at this, the last couple of times I've dreamt of providers I dreamt about BB Greek, from girls who have been mentioned on this site. Overall, are most girls clean? Part of me would say yes because they know how to be more wary than some random girl at a club would be. But then the other part is the high volume. I always ask if they're clean and they always respond yes. But who knows if they mean it or not just to make a few bucks you know? What are your thoughts on BB anything?

[QUOTE=JetSweep49;3178584]I first want to make sure I don't want any names, but more of a "something to keep in mind" type of response. I'm fairly new at this, the last couple of times I've dreamt of providers I dreamt about BB Greek, from girls who have been mentioned on this site. Overall, are most girls clean? Part of me would say yes because they know how to be more wary than some random girl at a club would be. But then the other part is the high volume. I always ask if they're clean and they always respond yes. But who knows if they mean it or not just to make a few bucks you know? What are your thoughts on BB anything?[/QUOTE]I guess it's a sensitive subject around some circles -- I got a swat on the hand from an admin on another thread for asking that very last question a while back, or maybe it was just the way I asked it. Was told it was none of my business what anyone else chooses in that regard. It was then that I realized, although it seems like we're all here for generally the same thing on the surface most level, our motivations are actually all very different. As tempted as I am to write an essay on the subject, I'll just say that although it's very tempting to BB everything when I read some of the hot reviews in which others have done it, the big head ultimately rules me, and I don't do anything uncovered except BBBJ, which still has risks. I also recognize that I am ultimately responsible for myself, my choices, and results of them, no matter what I am offered or what anyone else is doing.

[QUOTE=JetSweep49;3178584]I first want to make sure I don't want any names, but more of a "something to keep in mind" type of response. I'm fairly new at this, the last couple of times I've dreamt of providers I dreamt about BB Greek, from girls who have been mentioned on this site. Overall, are most girls clean? Part of me would say yes because they know how to be more wary than some random girl at a club would be. But then the other part is the high volume. I always ask if they're clean and they always respond yes. But who knows if they mean it or not just to make a few bucks you know? What are your thoughts on BB anything?[/QUOTE]If you believe a single word a provider tells you. You're already setting yourself up for failure. I personally would never bb with a backpage girl, even if she's telling you she's low volume it's probably not the case. You need to understand one golden concept. You are not special. If she says "I only do this for you". It means she does it with plenty others. If the risk is worth it to you go ahead but a lot of guys like myself stop seeing providers who go no glove on the regular.

[QUOTE=JetSweep49;3178584]I first want to make sure I don't want any names, but more of a "something to keep in mind" type of response. I'm fairly new at this, the last couple of times I've dreamt of providers I dreamt about BB Greek, from girls who have been mentioned on this site. Overall, are most girls clean? Part of me would say yes because they know how to be more wary than some random girl at a club would be. But then the other part is the high volume. I always ask if they're clean and they always respond yes. But who knows if they mean it or not just to make a few bucks you know? What are your thoughts on BB anything?[/QUOTE]I'd say you might as well play Russian Roulette. Most of the girls doing this has a habit and therefore has no care in the world. They will lie, cheat, steal, whatever is needed to seal the deal and get the money for the next fix. It would be hard to convince me they know more about being clean than a club girl since most just don't care.

[QUOTE=SH5027;3178998]If you believe a single word a provider tells you. You're already setting yourself up for failure. I personally would never bb with a backpage girl, even if she's telling you she's low volume it's probably not the case. You need to understand one golden concept. You are not special. If she says "I only do this for you". It means she does it with plenty others. If the risk is worth it to you go ahead but a lot of guys like myself stop seeing providers who go no glove on the regular.[/QUOTE]Frankly, the epidemiology does not support that bareback sex is particularly dangerous. The risk of pregnancy can, of course, be high. I have the opportunity to read quite a few studies in my course of work. I've posted a rough summary to the following image.

[URL]https://postimg.org/image/rsowbglr5/[/URL]

Most of the figures I present I adapted from a fairly good summary by Dr Constantin (she doesn't prevent the data very clearly):

Primary source: [URL]https://srconstantin.wordpress.com/2015/04/30/std-statistics/[/URL].

The only real risk for lifetime issues from this hobby. Is having to deal with genital warts from HPV and herpes. This is a factor more of the quantity of sex partners and is not because of condom use. Unfortunately, neither of these viruses are particularly well prevented with condom use. Skin on skin contact in the genital area outside of the coverage of the condom is where much of the transmission occurs. The bacteria infections are fairly well prevented with a condom, but they are also easily cured with common antibiotics. HIV and Hepatitus are very, very rarely passed through heterosexual oral or vaginal sex.

Anal sex is another animal altogether. It ALWAYS causes some rupture of small blood vessels in the anus. This is true even if there is no blood visible. The most danger is to the receiver, but there is a much higher incidence of transmission to the giver. HIV and Hepatitis are very fragile viruses. But they flourish in a bloody anus. Blood from vaginal sex is almost always from the uterine lining and poses a much much lower risk to both partners. I would advise against BB anal sex. To each there own though.

[QUOTE=FooteRoger;3179369]Frankly, the epidemiology does not support that bareback sex is particularly dangerous. The risk of pregnancy can, of course, be high. I have the opportunity to read quite a few studies in my course of work. I've posted a rough summary to the following image.

[URL]https://postimg.org/image/rsowbglr5/[/URL]

Most of the figures I present I adapted from a fairly good summary by Dr Constantin (she doesn't prevent the data very clearly):

Primary source: [URL]https://srconstantin.wordpress.com/2015/04/30/std-statistics/[/URL].

[b]Anal sex is another animal altogether. It ALWAYS causes some rupture of small blood vessels in the anus. This is true even if there is no blood visible. The most danger is to the receiver, but there is a much higher incidence of transmission to the giver. HIV and Hepatitis are very fragile viruses. But they flourish in a bloody anus. Blood from vaginal sex is almost always from the uterine lining and poses a much much lower risk to both partners. I would advise against BB anal sex. [/b] To each there own though.[/QUOTE]Good stuff there! What this all boils down to is RISK MANAGEMENT! There are things one can do to lower risk, like use a condom every time.

But for the most part humans are pretty bad at evaluating risk and managing it in a rational way. It doesn't help that, faced with an epidemic (HIV), that gubmint went on a scare tactic "public service" mission to scare everyone onto believing BBFS = death sentence. People get that in their heads and it becomes a "belief" like religion and they will never change it regardless of the evidence presented.

As FooteRoger's links point out, the transmission rate from female to male is VERY LOW! That is if the skin on your junk is 100% intact! But if you have a cut, open sore or maybe even raw, chaffed skin the transmission rate increases.

Add that to several other facts:

1) There is nothing out there right now that will kill you, with proper medical treatment.

2) The rate of incidence of "people living with HIV" is generally less than 2% meaning 98% do not have HIV.

Now all of that said, I do agree that BBFS anally is NOT a good idea. The risk of transmission is significantly higher!