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[QUOTE=CrimsonMan;5055100][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/852f06f7-2392-455a-a20e-21cc17684807[/URL]
This one is just my type, always online, has read my messages but never responds. Has anyone had any luck?[/QUOTE]I think this is why she doesn't respond to potential Daddies. "Men 18-35", SA isn't Tinder Sweetie. Good luck!
[QUOTE=MacSpazSpam;5055670]What was the best way to connect with her?[/QUOTE]I have her number and we were supposed to meet this week however she claims to of had a bad experience with the only guy she met from seeking. Claims she was naive and allowed him to pay her by check because his Debit card was lost and the check bounced and cost her a lot of money. Who knows the legitimacy of this but that's what's she's telling me.
[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;5056053]I have her number and we were supposed to meet this week however she claims to of had a bad experience with the only guy she met from seeking. Claims she was naive and allowed him to pay her by check because his Debit card was lost and the check bounced and cost her a lot of money. Who knows the legitimacy of this but that's what's she's telling me.[/QUOTE]LOL, sounds like I may not have marked it first. She was a pretty eager beaver though.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;5056133]LOL, sounds like I may not have marked it first. She was a pretty eager beaver though.[/QUOTE]Did you write her a bad check?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a1bd41b2-72a4-409e-a740-362b4a51da3c[/URL]
Cool, laid-back and DTF, up for pretty much anything including BBFS. Great head game but a fair amount thicker than her photos and more so than I prefer. Sweet girl though, cannot host unfortunately. I gave her 1. 5 ppm.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/15378436-33d0-4a72-9845-bce4c9b7b784[/URL]
Spinner, great body with maybe a little extra plastic surgery here and there but still good. I did 300 ppm for a couple of BBFS rounds over a couple of hours, pretty much everything on the table so I'm thinking with her that's a YMMV.
Super sweet, I think she gets to Virginia Beach every now and then so definitely through Richmond on occasion, treat her right 👍127995;.
[QUOTE=RavensFan2012;5056564]Did you write her a bad check?[/QUOTE]No. Check? I'm not a fossil.
However, any hooker who accepts checks after they get railed. Doesn't get a lot of empathy from me.
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So every time I get on my Peloton I'm blown away by some of the profile pics of the other riders in my class. Even in that tiny thumbnail there are some obvious hotties.
Peloton lets you "high five" other riders in your class — usually for hitting a milestone ride — but I set the filter to show only Females in my ride and see if there are any pretty faces in the feed. The profiles also often list a location and other info, usually something about profession or interests.
So each ride I high five a bunch of babes, usually in Virginia.
So far I've seen one gal I chatted with on SA about a year ago, and usually a dozen or so babes each ride. Since its not a dating site like SA, many of them list user names that would be easy to find on google, facebook or linked in.
Such was the case on Monday when I spotted and exchanged high fives with a brunette babe in Blacksburg with enoug of her first an last name that I made note.
After the ride, googled the name clues and found her pic and bio on the VT athletics site as a grad student in the athletic training program. It even gave me her email.
So I sent her an email simply stating "saw you on todays ride, and you looked really cute with your dog. You should check out [URL]seeking.com[/URL] and email me back if that is something you are interested in".
Tuesday AM got a reply and exchanged a few messages and then moved to text. Before election night was out, she sent me two videos on snapchat. Told her if she made a road trip to Cville, would happily put $300 towards her housing expenses each time she visited and she was exstatic at the prospects.
She can't anytime soon — ACC limits exposure of athletes and staff outside their bubble, but she is totally DTF, has an ass that would stop traffic and likes it being the main event in her sexual adventures.
Just thought I d share a creative approach.
[QUOTE=ErnestLl;5056711]
Just thought I d share a creative approach.[/QUOTE]Very creative. Impressive! Can I ask why you referred her to SA? Since you hooked her in the wild, why did you want to show her that? I would have thought it makes you look less spontaneous, and just points her towards a lot of your competition. Don't take this the wrong way, my hat's off to you.
[QUOTE=DogBert77;5056799]Very creative. Impressive! Can I ask why you referred her to SA? Since you hooked her in the wild, why did you want to show her that? I would have thought it makes you look less spontaneous, and just points her towards a lot of your competition. Don't take this the wrong way, my hat's off to you.[/QUOTE]Knew nothing about her when I emailed her, other than her name, and job.
Told her to check out the site, and if that kind of thing was of interest to her, to let me know. Figured that was easier then going through the whole process of educating her on being an SB. She just as well might have not replied at all or told me to fuck off.
Local TV sports babe got laid off during Covid, and I found her civvy email and sent her a similar message. Might be a little stalky, but figured I let them check it out and leave the next move up to them.
[QUOTE=RavensFan2012;5056564]Did you write her a bad check?[/QUOTE]Would not be for the first guy to leave without paying.
I always want it to end on a positive note. I had 3 different times where I had girls trying to hook me up with their friends. I pass on 1st two. One was Asia, I am not into Asian girls. Other was 18th, but the girl was too big for my taste. I have a old SB who just hit me up to do a 3 some with her GF. Her GF isn't my preference, but she cute. Hopefully 3 some in the books for me.
Don't ask me about the about any of the girls I'm talking about. 1st two are no longer on Seeking, after I posted reviews on NOVA and Baltimore forums. The guys up there will drive girls off the site after a review. Sorry, I don't share information on girls I'm currently seeing, so that would include my 3some girls.
[QUOTE=Zerry;5056940]Would not be for the first guy to leave without paying.[/QUOTE]
I totally agree with this. I've had girls tell me horror stories about being mentioned on this forum. The girl I'm seeing now was mentioned here, from a guy she hadn't even hooked up with. Her profile blew up with all kinds of rude messages, and now she's off the site. I have sometimes posted offering to privately put people in touch with girls who are looking for other SDs, but in general I respect their privacy, and don't mention names or link to profiles.
[QUOTE=Lobsid;5057427]Don't ask me about the about any of the girls I'm talking about. 1st two are no longer on Seeking, after I posted reviews on NOVA and Baltimore forums. The guys up there will drive girls off the site after a review. Sorry, I don't share information on girls I'm currently seeing, so that would include my 3some girls.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DogBert77;5056799]Very creative. Impressive! Can I ask why you referred her to SA? Since you hooked her in the wild, why did you want to show her that? I would have thought it makes you look less spontaneous, and just points her towards a lot of your competition. Don't take this the wrong way, my hat's off to you.[/QUOTE]I have been on Match for a while, $50 for 3 months. Most of the women are older (me too), and some of them quite hot, but of course most civvy dating. I have approached some young ones w / a general inquiry, 'a discrete relationship w / a much older man', none have taken the bait thus far to even reply.
[QUOTE=VAvet;5056583][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a1bd41b2-72a4-409e-a740-362b4a51da3c[/URL]
Cool, laid-back and DTF, up for pretty much anything including BBFS. Great head game but a fair amount thicker than her photos and more so than I prefer. Sweet girl though, cannot host unfortunately. I gave her 1. 5 ppm.[/QUOTE]I saw her last spring and can confirm she's chill and good fun but she definitely uses the skinny filter on those pics.
[QUOTE=Zerry;5056940]Would not be for the first guy to leave without paying.[/QUOTE]Yep. And those guys are ass%oles.
There's a girl that's been reviewed on here that told me a SM on here scammed her. Not only was he abusive mentally and physically, but he locked her out of the room after they were done without paying her. She had to get the hotel manager involved just so she could get her car keys back. I know who it is but I'm not going to start anything by calling them out. They know who they are.
[QUOTE=Lobsid;5057427]
Don't ask me about the about any of the girls I'm talking about. 1st two are no longer on Seeking, after I posted reviews on NOVA and Baltimore forums. The guys up there will drive girls off the site after a review. Sorry, I don't share information on girls I'm currently seeing, so that would include my 3some girls.[/QUOTE]I personally never understood the sharing of info or a review on a girl that you're still actively seeing. If you had your fun but still hit her up occasionally, sure but if you're in an active "arrangement" then I'm not sure why you would share info or details.
[QUOTE=RavensFan2012;5058024]There's a girl that's been reviewed on here that told me a SM on here scammed her. Not only was he abusive mentally and physically, but he locked her out of the room after they were done without paying her. She had to get the hotel manager involved just so she could get her car keys back. I know who it is but I'm not going to start anything by calling them out. They know who they are.[/QUOTE]I'm 90% sure I know who that was also, but I'm sure that there is more than one dude like that. There are some real Dennis Raider types. It's amazing what some dudes who pay for sex have to say about women. Funny and scary at the same time. I've earned the title of "some SB (hooker)" on this forum for being too much of a white knight I guess. Darn.
Makes sense to me, but every time I post half of a review. I get a handful of DMs asking for information on the girls I'm seeing. I BBFS my SBs why would I want to share them with some random guy on the forum. I even had one guy last week get upset with me for not sharing. To me the main point of this forum is to help weed out the scammers, and help figure out what the avg cost of a SB.
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;5058866]I personally never understood the sharing of info or a review on a girl that you're still actively seeing. If you had your fun but still hit her up occasionally, sure but if you're in an active "arrangement" then I'm not sure why you would share info or details.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Lobsid;5058914]Makes sense to me, but every time I post half of a review. I get a handful of DMs asking for information on the girls I'm seeing. I BBFS my SBs why would I want to share them with some random guy on the forum. I even had one guy last week get upset with me for not sharing. To me the main point of this forum is to help weed out the scammers, and help figure out what the avg cost of a SB.[/QUOTE]The even bigger issue is the occasional rat who would show a SB that she's been reviewed here. The reviewer usually catches a pile of shit from the girl and she disappears from SA anyway so the review doesn't do anyone any good.
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;5058866]I personally never understood the sharing of info or a review on a girl that you're still actively seeing. If you had your fun but still hit her up occasionally, sure but if you're in an active "arrangement" then I'm not sure why you would share info or details.[/QUOTE]I share once I'm done with them and I only share intel and a SA profile link. I get so many pm's when I post a review begging for phone numbers and I just won't do it. The girls I choose are all low to no volume girls just trying to make some extra money. I don't talk to a girl that's been on the site for over a month or two. My current sb is from the tidewater area. She's 19 and I hit her up on her first day on the site. We had great conversation and in Williamsburg (halfway between us) two days later. I paid her enough for her to leave the site. We've seen each other three times now and she's amazing. The perfect mix of young and innocent yet eager to please.
Hey guys,
I'm getting a big end of the year bonus this year and I've decided to spend it all in one night haha. I've got a work trip to Richmond the second week of December and think this will be the perfect time and place to do it!
Here is what I'm thinking.
- a couple of youngish fit guys from this forum.
- a group of hot, freaky, young sugar babies.
- a nice spacious hotel.
- alcohol.
That's what I've thought of so far.
Not living in Richmond I need some help getting the right girls. I'm willing to spend some serious cash on this event. Let me know if you want to be a part of this and help get the right girls involved.
I'm on SA and am currently talking to several girls there that might be a good fit.
[QUOTE=MikeoDamerika;5060544]Hey guys,
I'm getting a big end of the year bonus this year and I've decided to spend it all in one night haha. I've got a work trip to Richmond the second week of December and think this will be the perfect time and place to do it!
Here is what I'm thinking.
- a couple of youngish fit guys from this forum.
- a group of hot, freaky, young sugar babies.
- a nice spacious hotel.
- alcohol.
That's what I've thought of so far.
Not living in Richmond I need some help getting the right girls. I'm willing to spend some serious cash on this event. Let me know if you want to be a part of this and help get the right girls involved.
I'm on SA and am currently talking to several girls there that might be a good fit.[/QUOTE]Sure regular member, what's the best way to give you my hoelodex? Do you want every hot, freaky, young sugar babe I have digits for or just a few?
[QUOTE=MikeoDamerika;5060544]Hey guys,
I'm getting a big end of the year bonus this year and I've decided to spend it all in one night haha. I've got a work trip to Richmond the second week of December and think this will be the perfect time and place to do it!
Here is what I'm thinking.
- a couple of youngish fit guys from this forum.
- a group of hot, freaky, young sugar babies.
- a nice spacious hotel.
- alcohol.
That's what I've thought of so far.
Not living in Richmond I need some help getting the right girls. I'm willing to spend some serious cash on this event. Let me know if you want to be a part of this and help get the right girls involved.
I'm on SA and am currently talking to several girls there that might be a good fit.[/QUOTE]Good luck with convincing the "young, freaky, hot, fit" girls to meet a bunch of guys in a hotel for a orgy. It's hard enough convincing them to meet one guy for basic ass sex.
I have 3 SBs that would be up for it, but why would I. I rather just setup my own party with them. This request is odd. All the guys here have some money. Most of us aren't looking for financial benefits. The guy making the request isn't even a senior member. Just too many red flags here.
[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;5061091]Good luck with convincing the "young, freaky, hot, fit" girls to meet a bunch of guys in a hotel for a orgy. It's hard enough convincing them to meet one guy for basic ass sex.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Zerry;5058879]I'm 90% sure I know who that was also, but I'm sure that there is more than one dude like that. There are some real Dennis Raider types. It's amazing what some dudes who pay for sex have to say about women. Funny and scary at the same time. I've earned the title of "some SB (hooker)" on this forum for being too much of a white knight I guess. Darn.[/QUOTE]I'm obviously not everyone's cup of team but I've never had a woman tell me I didn't treat them with respect and kindness.
[QUOTE=MikeoDamerika;5060544]Hey guys,
I'm getting a big end of the year bonus this year and I've decided to spend it all in one night haha. I've got a work trip to Richmond the second week of December and think this will be the perfect time and place to do it!
Here is what I'm thinking.
- a couple of youngish fit guys from this forum.
- a group of hot, freaky, young sugar babies.
- a nice spacious hotel.
- alcohol.
That's what I've thought of so far.
Not living in Richmond I need some help getting the right girls. I'm willing to spend some serious cash on this event. Let me know if you want to be a part of this and help get the right girls involved.
I'm on SA and am currently talking to several girls there that might be a good fit.[/QUOTE]And just how much of a sight-unseen donation would you be asking from us guys looking to participate to send to you, a complete unknown? LOL good luck with this scam.
[QUOTE=CrimsonMan;5061172]And just how much of a sight-unseen donation would you be asking from us guys looking to participate to send to you, a complete unknown? LOL good luck with this scam.[/QUOTE]I'm not asking for any financial help in this. I just ask that you pay for my gas to get there. 😂.
1. Women on SA wanting to "start off online".
2. Not putting platonic in their profile, then finding out through text that they want platonic.
3. Putting Virginia, Virginia or Downtown, Virginia as their location.
4. Women on SA wanting me to make a deposit to "show I'm serious" like I got Boo Boo The Fool written on my forehead.
5. Women who are clearly not even a solid 7 with GPS, asking for 500+ per meet.
Feel free to add to this list, but I had to vent.
[QUOTE=GeechieDan;5062077]1. Women on SA wanting to "start off online".
2. Not putting platonic in their profile, then finding out through text that they want platonic.
3. Putting Virginia, Virginia or Downtown, Virginia as their location.
4. Women on SA wanting me to make a deposit to "show I'm serious" like I got Boo Boo The Fool written on my forehead.
5. Women who are clearly not even a solid 7 with GPS, asking for 500+ per meet.
Feel free to add to this list, but I had to vent.[/QUOTE]I tried the whole SB years ago and it was way too much work. There were way to many more cons than pros. It took more of my time and energy to find that one. And to hear the bitching and complaining. It was like being in a real relationship at times. I do not want to snuggle and hear your problems LOL. I found it was better to just pay the 200 or so and find a escort and be done with it. Time is something I have little of and to waste it with some of the sugar babies aka con artists with an eye on your money and that's about all. I came across so many fakes that were like, oh I want to hook up twice a week and just take care of me became a struggle to see them once a month and all you hear is my rent is due, my car is broken my insurance is late.
I enjoy cuddling, and listening to my SBs day and problems. It makes the whole experience more personal to me. Banging a girl and not knowing anything about her was in my 20's. Like my binge drinking days. Try to just drink as much as possible, but not fully trying to enjoy the experience. Now I like to slowly enjoy, and taking in the whole experience of being with that person. Like slowly sipping a single malt or red wine.
All my SBs don't bother me about rent or car payments. I quickly drop SBs that hit me up for money and gifts outside what we already agree. We all have different preferences. SB might not be for you, but I really enjoy it. Just tried of the scammers, but you deal with that with escorts too.
[QUOTE=Ibtreborz;5062272]I tried the whole SB years ago and it was way too much work. There were way to many more cons than pros. It took more of my time and energy to find that one. And to hear the bitching and complaining. It was like being in a real relationship at times. I do not want to snuggle and hear your problems LOL. I found it was better to just pay the 200 or so and find a escort and be done with it. Time is something I have little of and to waste it with some of the sugar babies aka con artists with an eye on your money and that's about all. I came across so many fakes that were like, oh I want to hook up twice a week and just take care of me became a struggle to see them once a month and all you hear is my rent is due, my car is broken my insurance is late.[/QUOTE]
Stay far, far away from this one. She is crazier than a loon and will lie about everything and nickle and dime you to death.
[QUOTE=Ibtreborz;5062272]I tried the whole SB years ago and it was way too much work. There were way to many more cons than pros. It took more of my time and energy to find that one. And to hear the bitching and complaining. It was like being in a real relationship at times. I do not want to snuggle and hear your problems LOL. I found it was better to just pay the 200 or so and find a escort and be done with it. Time is something I have little of and to waste it with some of the sugar babies aka con artists with an eye on your money and that's about all. I came across so many fakes that were like, oh I want to hook up twice a week and just take care of me became a struggle to see them once a month and all you hear is my rent is due, my car is broken my insurance is late.[/QUOTE]That was years ago, the game is much different today.
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;5062815]That was years ago, the game is much different today.[/QUOTE]Once again, the experience in the sugar dating scene is highly dependent on your preference in sugar babies. If you don't mind the "semi pro" sb's then you really can have a pretty simple transactional experience without all the drama and bs. The ones that are harder to get and require more time and effort are the younger new babies. In my experience, the new young ones need the arrangement t feel more like a relationship which means you're going to hear all about their personal lives and the drama that typical 18-22 yo's deal with on a daily basis. There is a lot more work (read headache) involved in consistently getting them to the fc. For me personally, the chase is half the fun as long as I always see the target in the distance. My biggest gripe is the ones that pretend they are really looking for a sd and spend days / weeks talking to you only to disappear without any explanation.
[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;5063074]Once again, the experience in the sugar dating scene is highly dependent on your preference in sugar babies. If you don't mind the "semi pro" sb's then you really can have a pretty simple transactional experience without all the drama and bs. The ones that are harder to get and require more time and effort are the younger new babies. In my experience, the new young ones need the arrangement t feel more like a relationship which means you're going to hear all about their personal lives and the drama that typical 18-22 yo's deal with on a daily basis. There is a lot more work (read headache) involved in consistently getting them to the fc. For me personally, the chase is half the fun as long as I always see the target in the distance. My biggest gripe is the ones that pretend they are really looking for a sd and spend days / weeks talking to you only to disappear without any explanation.[/QUOTE]More dependent on your approach as a consumer. The younger new babies are easy for me to get to the FC. But unlike many guys here, this is solely about sex to me. I couldn't care less about the girls, their problems, or their lives outside of my FC. That vibe comes through, and I don't hear much about their problems (although they clearly are pretty comfortable with me.) I don't do dates before the FC, except for the occasional coffee with a really green 18 yo. Never done a dinner, never will.
SB's are just h*okers that want to maintain the fiction they aren't. As long as they can maintain that delusion, they are usually happy to behave pretty much exactly like ho*kers.
[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;5063074]Once again, the experience in the sugar dating scene is highly dependent on your preference in sugar babies. If you don't mind the "semi pro" sb's then you really can have a pretty simple transactional experience without all the drama and bs. The ones that are harder to get and require more time and effort are the younger new babies. In my experience, the new young ones need the arrangement t feel more like a relationship which means you're going to hear all about their personal lives and the drama that typical 18-22 yo's deal with on a daily basis. There is a lot more work (read headache) involved in consistently getting them to the fc. For me personally, the chase is half the fun as long as I always see the target in the distance. My biggest gripe is the ones that pretend they are really looking for a sd and spend days / weeks talking to you only to disappear without any explanation.[/QUOTE]Again, It's highly dependent on YOU.
I'm not on there looking for semi pro's at all. I also don't seem to have the same workload or issues getting 18-22 why / o, 9's and 10's that are new or very low volume to the FC that is constantly spoken about on here. In 2020, if they're on the site then they know what it entails but they're always looking for an easy buck without spreading their legs. If they're pretending with you then they probably think they can turn you into an easy ATM run somewhere down the line.
I look at it differently. I see it like when you are a hammer, everything looks like a nail.
If you approach profiles like hookers, that is all you will find. Women looking for more of a relationship will be scared off. If approach profiles like a normal dating relationship, women looking for a sugar relationship will be all you find and you will scare away the hookers.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;5063117]More dependent on your approach as a consumer. The younger new babies are easy for me to get to the FC. But unlike many guys here, this is solely about sex to me. I couldn't care less about the girls, their problems, or their lives outside of my FC. That vibe comes through, and I don't hear much about their problems (although they clearly are pretty comfortable with me.) I don't do dates before the FC, except for the occasional coffee with a really green 18 yo. Never done a dinner, never will.
SB's are just h*okers that want to maintain the fiction they aren't. As long as they can maintain that delusion, they are usually happy to behave pretty much exactly like ho*kers.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;5063349]Again, It's highly dependent on YOU.
I'm not on there looking for semi pro's at all. I also don't seem to have the same workload or issues getting 18-22 why / o, 9's and 10's that are new or very low volume to the FC that is constantly spoken about on here. In 2020, if they're on the site then they know what it entails but they're always looking for an easy buck without spreading their legs. If they're pretending with you then they probably think they can turn you into an easy ATM run somewhere down the line.[/QUOTE]Maybe I'm just more particular and our ideas of what's a 9 or 10 are different. I'm a relatively decent looking and in shape guy and have no problem throwing more money at these girls than they probably deserve yet it's still virtually impossible to get them to commit to FC.
My search criteria is
18-22
White or Asian
Slim or Athletic
Up to 250 miles from my location.