General Reports

[QUOTE=PaiMei;5128367]Some good insight into secret benefits in the sugarbaby thread back in July (and general forum search). Seem like a big waste of time and cash.[/QUOTE]Fwiw, I did get three legitimate hits -- women who texted my number so I could communicate further -- out of the most basic spending option a few months back. It wouldn't be that bad, except then the cost to renew was even higher. It did seem to me like a different group than what I've seen at Seeking Arrangements. The search function is a little clunky though. But, like I said, I realized I already got as many as I can handle now so what's the point, other than curiosity? I only texted back to one of the three, and that didn't go anywhere. If I were more into the SB thing, I probably would go back, but probably not going to. I have not informed the mom of the 13/14 yo daughter on there. I'm debating that one, but not sure how to bring it up. There doesn't seem to be a function on the site where you can inform management that there's an underage poster there, which is a problem.

[QUOTE=LurkinGround;5144448]Since this is a hobby after all, just like stamp / coin collecting, etc, LOL.

Just wondered if anyone keeps track of their excursions. I've thought about making a spreadsheet while I still have my memories but would have to bury it deep someplace or code it in case my S / O would ever find it. For now, I am going on memory and I'm sure I don't remember everyone.

Does anyone else keep a tab of how many providers they have seen in the hobby? From the ones I remember, I am over 200 but I've been doing this for almost 30 years. LOL.[/QUOTE]I think in the 250-300 range over 15 years.

[QUOTE=LurkinGround;5144448]Since this is a hobby after all, just like stamp / coin collecting, etc, LOL.

Just wondered if anyone keeps track of their excursions. I've thought about making a spreadsheet while I still have my memories but would have to bury it deep someplace or code it in case my S / O would ever find it. For now, I am going on memory and I'm sure I don't remember everyone.

Does anyone else keep a tab of how many providers they have seen in the hobby? From the ones I remember, I am over 200 but I've been doing this for almost 30 years. LOL.[/QUOTE]I kept track and then got spooked and deleted my spreadsheet. I was bored one day so I recreated it. Pretty good memory if I might add. I have had at least 17 threesomes. I love statistics!

[QUOTE=LurkinGround;5144448]Since this is a hobby after all, just like stamp / coin collecting, etc, LOL.

Just wondered if anyone keeps track of their excursions. I've thought about making a spreadsheet while I still have my memories but would have to bury it deep someplace or code it in case my S / O would ever find it. For now, I am going on memory and I'm sure I don't remember everyone.

Does anyone else keep a tab of how many providers they have seen in the hobby? From the ones I remember, I am over 200 but I've been doing this for almost 30 years. LOL.[/QUOTE]Do I collect and hold evidence against myself. No.

[QUOTE=KidKuddi;5143401]Your paying $150 for a hhr a week?

Damn that's a lot.[/QUOTE]Probably trying to get an hour for 150. That's tough to do and get a good performer.

[QUOTE=LurkinGround;5144448]Since this is a hobby after all, just like stamp / coin collecting, etc, LOL.

Just wondered if anyone keeps track of their excursions. I've thought about making a spreadsheet while I still have my memories but would have to bury it deep someplace or code it in case my S / O would ever find it. For now, I am going on memory and I'm sure I don't remember everyone.

Does anyone else keep a tab of how many providers they have seen in the hobby? From the ones I remember, I am over 200 but I've been doing this for almost 30 years. LOL.[/QUOTE]I don't track but I average probably 1. 5 a month. Over the last 5 years. So 90 but maybe 30 different ladies. Always nice to drive by a place and remember one you have forgotten always bad when you drive by a place and wish you didn't remember. Stay safe.

[QUOTE=KidKuddi;5143401]Your paying $150 for a hhr a week?

Damn that's a lot.[/QUOTE]It is for a half hour but after they become a regular they end up staying longer anyway and not care about how long they've been with me in a good way.

[QUOTE=WhereDreamsGo;5145332]I think in the 250-300 range over 15 years.[/QUOTE]I'm in that same range here, other states, AMPs and I'm europe. Like another post likely around 10 threesomes. All in past 15 years. Scary when you think about it.

Been doing this since about 1998, back before the internet and Backpage. All we had was the newspaper and list serve threads.

This post caused me to look at my TER account to get an idea about how many reviews I had. Since 2001 I have had almost 200 reviews. Since TER won't allow you to review a woman more than once (unless there is a major change in her services) I have no real idea how many women I have paid to service me.

Looking back through some of the older reviews I discovered that the rates haven't really gotten cheaper or more expensive. $150 to $200 an hour was common. One big difference is that women did only 1 HR dates. They also didn't advertise their exact services as openly. No one offered BBFS but it was around. Few offered anal. Also a woman in her mid-30's was almost the norm. But Heroin, Meth, Crack and Cocaine were just starting to take over for weed and alcohol so there were far fewer addicts.

All I know is that if I hadn't spent my money on pussy I would be a lot richer.

[QUOTE=LurkinGround;5144448]Since this is a hobby after all, just like stamp / coin collecting, etc, LOL.

Just wondered if anyone keeps track of their excursions. I've thought about making a spreadsheet while I still have my memories but would have to bury it deep someplace or code it in case my S / O would ever find it. For now, I am going on memory and I'm sure I don't remember everyone.

Does anyone else keep a tab of how many providers they have seen in the hobby? From the ones I remember, I am over 200 but I've been doing this for almost 30 years. LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WanderingMan;5145876]Do I collect and hold evidence against myself. No.[/QUOTE]I think this is the correct answer for anyone with a SO. I don't have one, but I just tend to grab some pics / vids and move on. I tuck those away somewhere, but eventually I just delete them since it's not something I sit around and watch. Ok. There's a couple that I keep.

You guys with the spreadsheets, sex acts and dates. That is work and reminds me why serial killers get convicted. Trophies.

Yeah, I was paying 120 in North Carolina 25 years ago. No internet, just an established relationship with someone who owned an agency and knew what I liked.

[QUOTE=BTBear;5145989]Been doing this since about 1998, back before the internet and Backpage. All we had was the newspaper and list serve threads.

This post caused me to look at my TER account to get an idea about how many reviews I had. Since 2001 I have had almost 200 reviews. Since TER won't allow you to review a woman more than once (unless there is a major change in her services) I have no real idea how many women I have paid to service me.

Looking back through some of the older reviews I discovered that the rates haven't really gotten cheaper or more expensive. $150 to $200 an hour was common. One big difference is that women did only 1 HR dates. They also didn't advertise their exact services as openly. No one offered BBFS but it was around. Few offered anal. Also a woman in her mid-30's was almost the norm. But Heroin, Meth, Crack and Cocaine were just starting to take over for weed and alcohol so there were far fewer addicts.

All I know is that if I hadn't spent my money on pussy I would be a lot richer.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LurkinGround;5144448]Since this is a hobby after all, just like stamp / coin collecting, etc, LOL.

Just wondered if anyone keeps track of their excursions. I've thought about making a spreadsheet while I still have my memories but would have to bury it deep someplace or code it in case my S / O would ever find it. For now, I am going on memory and I'm sure I don't remember everyone.

Does anyone else keep a tab of how many providers they have seen in the hobby? From the ones I remember, I am over 200 but I've been doing this for almost 30 years. LOL.[/QUOTE]I have a private Google website only viewable to me when logged in. I have an list, in the order I met them, and each page has a pic or two and a few sentences. LOL. I'm only up to 30, but I haven't been in the game as long as you!

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;5146488]I have a private Google website only viewable to me when logged in. I have an list, in the order I met them, and each page has a pic or two and a few sentences. LOL. I'm only up to 30, but I haven't been in the game as long as you![/QUOTE]I bet this forum is full of guys that would love to take a peek at that page!

Sort of a list. Mostly on my notebook app. Race and, place. Mostly Romanians. I was trying to hit a girl from every member of the European Union. Last EU member was a French SW in Paris about a train stop from the Arch. 50€'s for a back alley Blow and Bang. While in Paris I knocked out Russia too. Yeah not on the list but she was 18 and gorgeous. And only 150€/ hhr for GFE!!

Up to 46 right now. Trying to hit 50. But sure I'll keep going.

[QUOTE=LurkinGround;5144448]Since this is a hobby after all, just like stamp / coin collecting, etc, LOL.

Just wondered if anyone keeps track of their excursions. I've thought about making a spreadsheet while I still have my memories but would have to bury it deep someplace or code it in case my S / O would ever find it. For now, I am going on memory and I'm sure I don't remember everyone.

Does anyone else keep a tab of how many providers they have seen in the hobby? From the ones I remember, I am over 200 but I've been doing this for almost 30 years. LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WhereDreamsGo;5145332]I think in the 250-300 range over 15 years.[/QUOTE]Started in 1993 using the Columbus Dispatch classified ads. Many were just rub and tugs. Pre internet it was a crapshoot as to who might show up which was part of the adrenaline rush. Some gems some not so gems. The other thing columbus had and they had a lot were non AMP massage places. And by massage I mean HE joints. All over and right in the middle of well traveled places in some instances. I'm guessing a couple hundred liaisons before I moved to cincy and used citybeat initially then the various alphabet websites that popped up. I don't want to think about the dough I spent rather than putting it in the stock market. I'd be retired and on an island somewhere!