Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=PhatDaty;2994888]I never much liked swan song post, but here I find myself making one.

My health has declined rapidly and it is time for me to do the safe thing and walk away. I can not imagine how horrifying it would be for a provider to have a client die during a session, so I am not going to even tempt that fate.

I have had wonderful times (many fond memories) with the ladies over the last few decades, and have no regrets (well maybe one: pissing Molly D off and never getting a chance to see just how wonderful she is given the plethora of awesome reviews.

I have enjoyed the kinship with mongers here, and even the ones I disagreed with or sparred with please know it was never personal: just shit talking and banter.

Take care everyone, have fun, and be safe.

--PH.

P.S.: A2 thanks for running a great board. I am looking around for how to cancel my account, but if you could expedite that I would appreciate it. I just don't want to even be tempted to log on peruse the board and tempt myself with the beautiful and sexy ladies in our community. To do so would be like a diabetic walking into a candy shop.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]So what will we do for drama on here without you? Just have a couple of ladies come to your place for some BBFS and tell them if you pass on. They should just wipe their fingerprints from the bedpost and leave out the front door. (all said in fun).

[QUOTE=NotYourAverage;2995005]I am not sure I would have admitted it (LOL), it is the worst fear of mine and I am sure many mongers.

There used to be a day when gender was obvious, but that is no longer the case. It seems like Backpage has a large number of them, and I am sure they all don't admit it upfront.

I shiver at the thought![/QUOTE]Saying that a girl was ugly. I never visited her or anything. Thanks for the concern though.

[QUOTE=PhatDaty;2994888]I never much liked swan song post, but here I find myself making one.

My health has declined rapidly and it is time for me to do the safe thing and walk away. I can not imagine how horrifying it would be for a provider to have a client die during a session, so I am not going to even tempt that fate.

I have had wonderful times (many fond memories) with the ladies over the last few decades, and have no regrets (well maybe one: pissing Molly D off and never getting a chance to see just how wonderful she is given the plethora of awesome reviews.

I have enjoyed the kinship with mongers here, and even the ones I disagreed with or sparred with please know it was never personal: just shit talking and banter.

Take care everyone, have fun, and be safe.

--PH.

P.S.: A2 thanks for running a great board. I am looking around for how to cancel my account, but if you could expedite that I would appreciate it. I just don't want to even be tempted to log on peruse the board and tempt myself with the beautiful and sexy ladies in our community. To do so would be like a diabetic walking into a candy shop.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]I wish you the very best. Haven't been around long enough to get to know everyone but I appreciate your advice. Take care.

[QUOTE=PhatDaty;2994888]I never much liked swan song post, but here I find myself making one.

My health has declined rapidly and it is time for me to do the safe thing and walk away. I can not imagine how horrifying it would be for a provider to have a client die during a session, so I am not going to even tempt that fate.

I have had wonderful times (many fond memories) with the ladies over the last few decades, and have no regrets (well maybe one: pissing Molly D off and never getting a chance to see just how wonderful she is given the plethora of awesome reviews.

I have enjoyed the kinship with mongers here, and even the ones I disagreed with or sparred with please know it was never personal: just shit talking and banter.

Take care everyone, have fun, and be safe.

--PH.

P.S.: A2 thanks for running a great board. I am looking around for how to cancel my account, but if you could expedite that I would appreciate it. I just don't want to even be tempted to log on peruse the board and tempt myself with the beautiful and sexy ladies in our community. To do so would be like a diabetic walking into a candy shop.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]I am glad I got to know you. You are a breath of fresh air. I enjoy our time together. I am sad to see you go but I know we will see each other. Take care of yourself sweetie.

Always,

VR.

[QUOTE=PhatDaty;2994888]

My health has declined rapidly and it is time for me to do the safe thing and walk away. I can not imagine how horrifying it would be for a provider to have a client die during a session, so I am not going to even tempt that fate.[/QUOTE]I wish you the best, but personally I disagree. I'm an atheist and all, so I pretty much don't care how horrifying it might be for someone else once I'm gone. It's not like I'll know or care. Just saying.

Good luck sir.

Well, considering I'm the only one who has reviewed Candace, I'm going to assume that you are calling me LEO and a mole. Unlike you, I've TOFTT plenty of times and I've shared plenty of information with well established seniors and it's worked out well for them. Just because you had a bad experience or her bf / pimp wants you to see his girl, doesn't mean I'm LEO.

[QUOTE=WorksAlot;2996480]Well, considering I'm the only one who has reviewed Candace, I'm going to assume that you are calling me LEO and a mole. Unlike you, I've TOFTT plenty of times and I've shared plenty of information with well established seniors and it's worked out well for them. Just because you had a bad experience or her bf / pimp wants you to see his girl, doesn't mean I'm LEO.[/QUOTE]I am not calling you LEO. There was another monger who recommended her and disappeared from my inbox. I would never call you LEO who has been on this board for a long time with 150 odd responses to your credit. There was another user with only 5 stars. I didn't remember his handle. Again I am not calling you LEO. You are misunderstanding.

[QUOTE=WorksAlot;2996480]Well, considering I'm the only one who has reviewed Candace, I'm going to assume that you are calling me LEO and a mole. Unlike you, I've TOFTT plenty of times and I've shared plenty of information with well established seniors and it's worked out well for them. Just because you had a bad experience or her bf / pimp wants you to see his girl, doesn't mean I'm LEO.[/QUOTE]As far as TOFTT-ing. I did Toftt a provider but never posted a review. Didn't have the time. By the time I wanted to someone had posted. I usually don't Toftt due to bad experience in the past. I go for safe and reviewed providers. Oh and I was going to Toftt a MILF but when she asked to come by her husband was lingering outside so I left. I did post this here. There is too much LEO activity in Cincy area making Tofft very very risky. I admire those who are doing it and for which I have showed my gratitude here many times.

This is absolutely DISGUSTING BEHAVIOR OF THE SOME OF. YOU, and you know who you are!! Let me say that I NEVER purposely ignore, blow off, not reply, or ANYTHING remotely rude or crude or arrogantly or anything bad heartidly, when [URL]it.com[/URL]es to my messages and phone calls and texts! I am one. Of the most kind hearted and understanding and genuine girls on here and I would swear my own life on it!! I DO NOT. Want to do wrong by ANYONE, EVER and I HATE DRAMA!! I just want to have a fun time with people when I. Can, and laugh and enjoy ALL the time I have ob this planet, PERIOD, POINT, BLANK!

SO. For the. Men being absolutely CRUEL and disgusting and HURTING my livelihood because, as one guy told me, you guys decided to hurt me because I ignored and decided. NOT. To. Answer your guys text. Messages and you felt I was blowing you guys off? IS THIS. FUCKING SERIOUS? YOU MEN SHOULD BE AS DISGUSTED AS I AM WOTH YOURSELVES! You are men!! I'm a woman. It is your job to protect and provide, not try and destroy because you THINK I am ignoring you guys when you want to cum! Think about it. You guys are costing me my livelihood because I do not respond to. You when you want to cum / nut / orgasm / whatever the hell term you prefer, on me!! All over a fucking nut, you guys are hurting me! Is this serious?? I still feel like. Its. Not real!

I. can. Say [URL]with.com[/URL]plete confidence that I am by FAR one of the BEST provider's on this site because I go out of my way to care about myself and my reputation and for some reason even all you guys, amd ANYONE who has seen me will agree! Even you FATBOY so. Go ahead with your shit. Talk (still you won't tell me WHY you started hating me and just talk endless. Shit) enjoyed yourself with me and. That is why you pretended to be someone else and get my address and SET up an. Appointment with me three days ago!! And fatboy if I find out you are the one fucking with me at my very own apartment. My own home. I will. Sit silent no more and I PROMISE YOU WILL BE SORRY!! If it is. NOT you, then I am sure you STILL have something to so with all this, and enough is enough!! I'm. NOT GOING ANYWHERE, I'm STILL GOING TO. BE AN AMAZING AND ONW OF THE TOP PROVIDERS, AND I AM STILL GOING TO KEEP DOING mY BEST SO ILL STILL BE TOO. BUSY TOO ANSWER SOME TEXTS. PROBABLY MULTIPLE TEXTS FROM THE SAME PERSON!! But its NOT purposely!

I HONESTLY thought you guys got this!! I am. Still in awe that MEN are doing this to me! I figured you guys knew that evwn five "are you available" messages may not be replied to! I have had plenty of guys tell me it took more then six messages, some two, some only one, to get to meet up!! Its all timing! That is it. Nothing MORE MAN. I'm so sick with hurt that you guys are hurting me on purpose! ANYONE that knows me, knows that all I do is try and be the best provider. I'm sorry I suck with communication but what's sad was this past. Week, after missing two weeks strait the beginning of the. Month with a deadly spider bite BTW, I. Had made a commitment with myself to REALLY work harder on my text responses with EVERYONE to be better for why'all!! Yes. I REALLY think like this!! I moved. To. Where I did for the hobby guys even!! And all of you thst have hurt me this week are so ridiculous. You didn't think like. Hey, this is my time to hook up finally. The timing aligned! Maybe she isn't a cruel ***** that ignores me!!

Whats the saddest is, I. NEVER missed an appointment woth any of you I'm sure! All. Just unanswer ed texts. And I bet you ALL have talked to me at least ONCE, just. Not enough times. And when. You wanted. To. Get laid! Well when. You guys don't get your appointments or providers don't show up, you guy's miss out on sex. WE MISS OUT ON MONEY AND ON OTHER APPOINTMENTS. REAL APPOINTMENTS! With REAL MONEY!! Do I mess with YOUR money? YOUR livelihoods?? DO I? I almost lost ky apartment BECAUSE you guys didjt ket me make any money to make my rent that was ALREADY late from this spider bite scare! Would that make you happy?? Ill be homeless again you sick assholes!! THIS is. NOT. OKAY BEHAVIOR at ALL!! Is it allowed because of what I do? I have no right to respect because. I provide so I must. Not count as a human being? I was FUCKING. Hungry because I couldn't make even five bucks. To eat, you heartless pigs! And late last. Night, one of you tried to drag me to a fake address in the middle of nowhere. What if I wrecked??

THIS HAS BECOME SO ABSOLUTELY. I DON'T EVEN. HAVE THE WORD FOR SOMETHING MORE THAN PATHETIC, EVIL, JUSY SHAMEFUL AND DISGRACEFUL AND FOUL AND DISGUSTING. I'm sorry I didn't ever reply. But you MEN are trying to HURT and SHIT on one of your BEST provider's. All becauae you couldn't cum when you wanted?? You DON'T deserve me. Or ANY good providers! I guess I am the absolute only provider who it took more than once to get a response from?? I hope the guys who did this have daughters and sisters and their wives all find out how you treated another WOMAN and see you for what you are. Which I don't even have a word for something so low and sad and pathetic! I may be a provider but I am an AMAZING girl. I really am. And you guys would be disgusted with yourselves if you evwr met me and seen who you crushed and hurt and just completely devastated. I'm heart broken ANY man would WANT me and try to CAUSE my to go hungry or homeless!

And whoever keeps knocking on my door and running away needs to FUCKING STOP! Next time it happens, ill catch you off gaurd and it WON'T be pretty. This is MY HOME, My security. You FUCK with it and I WILL make you sorry. If its you fayboy. Just LEAVE me ALONE and my name out of your mouth. We both know I NEVER have done you ANY WRONG for you to hate me. We used to have fun. What happened??

To the men who have actually been great to me I just wanted to thank you with all my heart you have no idea the complete disgust of others!! I hope this. Makes EVERYONE JUST FUCKING be good to each other because of what you assume it's probably never the real story. And provider or not, us woman are woman. Treat us like it you guys. Its your job to be good to us!! What happened to this rule? Why did you start wanting. Ro hurt us over such ridiculousness. Its crazy! Again. Sorry for my communication but I'm a great girl with a good heart. NOTHING is dobe out of spite!

[blue]This isn't breaking any rules because it's in the Octagon but this isn't gonna help you sugar.

A2[/blue]

[QUOTE=Glockman;2992976]He didn't claim it was original. He just posted it on his board. That was the first time I saw it. But I lead a very sheltered life! :D[/QUOTE]I'm sorry Glock. I didn't read his post crediting the original author.

[QUOTE=GraceMay;2996719]This is absolutely DISGUSTING BEHAVIOR OF THE SOME OF. YOU, and you know who you are!! Let me say that I NEVER purposely ignore, blow off, not reply, or ANYTHING remotely rude or crude or arrogantly or anything bad heartidly, when [URL]it.com[/URL]es to my messages and phone calls and texts! I am one. Of the most kind hearted and understanding and genuine girls on here and I would swear my own life on it!! I DO NOT. Want to do wrong by ANYONE, EVER and I HATE DRAMA!! I just want to have a fun time with people when I. Can, and laugh and enjoy ALL the time I have ob this planet, PERIOD, POINT, BLANK!

SO. For the. Men being absolutely CRUEL and disgusting and HURTING my livelihood because, as one guy told me, you guys decided to hurt me because I ignored and decided. NOT. To. Answer your guys text. Messages and you felt I was blowing you guys off? IS THIS. FUCKING SERIOUS? YOU MEN SHOULD BE AS DISGUSTED AS I AM WOTH YOURSELVES! You are men!! I'm a woman. It is your job to protect and provide, not try and destroy because you THINK I am ignoring you guys when you want to cum! Think about it. You guys are costing me my livelihood because I do not respond to. You when you want to cum / nut / orgasm / whatever the hell term you prefer, on me!! All over a fucking nut, you guys are hurting me! Is this serious?? I still feel like. Its. Not real!

I. can. Say [URL]with.com[/URL]plete confidence that I am by FAR one of the BEST provider's on this site because I go out of my way to care about myself and my reputation and for some reason even all you guys, amd ANYONE who has seen me will agree! Even you FATBOY so. Go ahead with your shit. Talk (still you won't tell me WHY you started hating me and just talk endless. Shit) enjoyed yourself with me and. That is why you pretended to be someone else and get my address and SET up an. Appointment with me three days ago!! And fatboy if I find out you are the one fucking with me at my very own apartment. My own home. I will. Sit silent no more and I PROMISE YOU WILL BE SORRY!! If it is. NOT you, then I am sure you STILL have something to so with all this, and enough is enough!! I'm. NOT GOING ANYWHERE, I'm STILL GOING TO. BE AN AMAZING AND ONW OF THE TOP PROVIDERS, AND I AM STILL GOING TO KEEP DOING mY BEST SO ILL STILL BE TOO. BUSY TOO ANSWER SOME TEXTS. PROBABLY MULTIPLE TEXTS FROM THE SAME PERSON!! But its NOT purposely!

I HONESTLY thought you guys got this!! I am. Still in awe that MEN are doing this to me! I figured you guys knew that evwn five "are you available" messages may not be replied to! I have had plenty of guys tell me it took more then six messages, some two, some only one, to get to meet up!! Its all timing! That is it. Nothing MORE MAN. I'm so sick with hurt that you guys are hurting me on purpose! ANYONE that knows me, knows that all I do is try and be the best provider. I'm sorry I suck with communication but what's sad was this past. Week, after missing two weeks strait the beginning of the. Month with a deadly spider bite BTW, I. Had made a commitment with myself to REALLY work harder on my text responses with EVERYONE to be better for why'all!! Yes. I REALLY think like this!! I moved. To. Where I did for the hobby guys even!! And all of you thst have hurt me this week are so ridiculous. You didn't think like. Hey, this is my time to hook up finally. The timing aligned! Maybe she isn't a cruel ***** that ignores me!!

Whats the saddest is, I. NEVER missed an appointment woth any of you I'm sure! All. Just unanswer ed texts. And I bet you ALL have talked to me at least ONCE, just. Not enough times. And when. You wanted. To. Get laid! Well when. You guys don't get your appointments or providers don't show up, you guy's miss out on sex. WE MISS OUT ON MONEY AND ON OTHER APPOINTMENTS. REAL APPOINTMENTS! With REAL MONEY!! Do I mess with YOUR money? YOUR livelihoods?? DO I? I almost lost ky apartment BECAUSE you guys didjt ket me make any money to make my rent that was ALREADY late from this spider bite scare! Would that make you happy?? Ill be homeless again you sick assholes!! THIS is. NOT. OKAY BEHAVIOR at ALL!! Is it allowed because of what I do? I have no right to respect because. I provide so I must. Not count as a human being? I was FUCKING. Hungry because I couldn't make even five bucks. To eat, you heartless pigs! And late last. Night, one of you tried to drag me to a fake address in the middle of nowhere. What if I wrecked??

THIS HAS BECOME SO ABSOLUTELY. I DON'T EVEN. HAVE THE WORD FOR SOMETHING MORE THAN PATHETIC, EVIL, JUSY SHAMEFUL AND DISGRACEFUL AND FOUL AND DISGUSTING. I'm sorry I didn't ever reply. But you MEN are trying to HURT and SHIT on one of your BEST provider's. All becauae you couldn't cum when you wanted?? You DON'T deserve me. Or ANY good providers! I guess I am the absolute only provider who it took more than once to get a response from?? I hope the guys who did this have daughters and sisters and their wives all find out how you treated another WOMAN and see you for what you are. Which I don't even have a word for something so low and sad and pathetic! I may be a provider but I am an AMAZING girl. I really am. And you guys would be disgusted with yourselves if you evwr met me and seen who you crushed and hurt and just completely devastated. I'm heart broken ANY man would WANT me and try to CAUSE my to go hungry or homeless!

And whoever keeps knocking on my door and running away needs to FUCKING STOP! Next time it happens, ill catch you off gaurd and it WON'T be pretty. This is MY HOME, My security. You FUCK with it and I WILL make you sorry. If its you fayboy. Just LEAVE me ALONE and my name out of your mouth. We both know I NEVER have done you ANY WRONG for you to hate me. We used to have fun. What happened??

To the men who have actually been great to me I just wanted to thank you with all my heart you have no idea the complete disgust of others!! I hope this. Makes EVERYONE JUST FUCKING be good to each other because of what you assume it's probably never the real story. And provider or not, us woman are woman. Treat us like it you guys. Its your job to be good to us!! What happened to this rule? Why did you start wanting. Ro hurt us over such ridiculousness. Its crazy! Again. Sorry for my communication but I'm a great girl with a good heart. NOTHING is dobe out of spite!

[blue]This isn't breaking any rules because it's in the Octagon but this isn't gonna help you sugar.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]Fatboy still up to his loser and lying ways? Must suck to be such a pathetic loser.

This chick is fucking nuts, or an addict, or both. I'm going to stay far, far away.

[QUOTE=GraceMay;2996719]This is absolutely DISGUSTING BEHAVIOR OF THE SOME OF. YOU, and you know who you are!! Let me say that I NEVER purposely ignore, blow off, not reply, or ANYTHING remotely rude or crude or arrogantly or anything bad heartidly, when [URL]it.com[/URL]es to my messages and phone calls and texts! I am one. Of the most kind hearted and understanding and genuine girls on here and I would swear my own life on it!! I DO NOT. Want to do wrong by ANYONE, EVER and I HATE DRAMA!! I just want to have a fun time with people when I. Can, and laugh and enjoy ALL the time I have ob this planet, PERIOD, POINT, BLANK!

SO. For the. Men being absolutely CRUEL and disgusting and HURTING my livelihood because, as one guy told me, you guys decided to hurt me because I ignored and decided. NOT. To. Answer your guys text. Messages and you felt I was blowing you guys off? IS THIS. FUCKING SERIOUS? YOU MEN SHOULD BE AS DISGUSTED AS I AM WOTH YOURSELVES! You are men!! I'm a woman. It is your job to protect and provide, not try and destroy because you THINK I am ignoring you guys when you want to cum! Think about it. You guys are costing me my livelihood because I do not respond to. You when you want to cum / nut / orgasm / whatever the hell term you prefer, on me!! All over a fucking nut, you guys are hurting me! Is this serious?? I still feel like. Its. Not real! [s]Blah blah blah[/s].[/QUOTE]

I apologize for all my horrible horrible grammar and spelling in that long drawn-out message if you would call it that, everyone knows my keyboard on my phone is horrible and as I was typing while I was more than a bit upset and did not bother to go back and read it or even check my. Grammar. Or. Spelling. I just want everybody to be more aware of how they treat one anoher and to try to be more understanding it's just disgusting nowadays like none of us have any compassion, or understanding, or sympathy, or empathy for one another or anybody that's not in our immediate lives.

And admin. I wasnt looking for that message to help me, I was letting these fucking dip shits know that they are doing this for NO reason. AT ALL BECAUSE my non communication. Was so. Far from on. Purpose. Completely unintentional and / or without ill will. I wrote that in hopes of helping them! Hopefully this. Helps them realize just how cruel and unnecessary their behavior really was, and TRULY I. Just want EVERYONE to. Open their eyes and STOP with all the mean remarks and reviews. And revenge! There is no. Call for. It! I hope everyone learns from. This. But these. Men. Well. I more than ANYTHING, hope they are ashamed. And. Embarrassed once they see I REALLY wasn't trying. To hurt them aa they were me! And I hope they learn to NEVER treat ANY. Woman. Like this again!

But you aee. Probably right. It will fall on deaf ears and I sure they. Could care fucking less! Thank. You. For. Posting it tho. Atleast maybe just ONE person will be touched and never allow themselves. This just Animal like behavior and that ill be happy with oh. Amd also for ANYONE who knows what is good. Too stay away from my. Home, if not invited!! THIS IS NO JOKE THIS IS A. THREAT!! I DID CALL POLICE STATION TO MAKE SURE I KNOW WHAT iS ALLOWED AND LEGAL, OF I FEEL THREATENED AND HAVE PROOF AS WHY I'm. THREATENED. AND. YES I HAVE MY CARRY AND CONCEAL AND GOT. IT TWO MONTHS AGO. FOR. THIS REASON AND. NO, I AM NOT A FELON YET SO YES I. CAN CAERY STILL!!

Thanks. Again admin!

[QUOTE=GraceMay;2996719] Whats the saddest is, I. NEVER missed an appointment woth any of you I'm sure! [/QUOTE]This definitely an untrue statement. I just never posted about it because it wasn't worth my time and at the end of the day, I feel like I dodged a bullet.

[QURogerOver;2996790]This chick is fucking nuts, or an addict, or both. I'm going to stay far, far away. [ / QUOTE].

At first this hurt me to read because I am truly none of these and don't know why you would want to say such mean and crude and things just to hurt me purpI sely?? But hun. You staying far away from me is TRULY your loss, cause I'm REALLY great and truly a pleasure! If your not. One of the guys doing these things to hurt me, then why'all should hook up! I think you guys will all get along great!! Ithemend them a message to look you up. Who knows, maybe you can actually answer their messages and be able to. Give them what they are so. Angrily missing out on! I mean,. You all seem. To. Love something about assholes!!