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[QUOTE=ChefSolo;6282658]This chick makes it seem like she's down. Dresses the part, sends you nudes, talks about having fun. Got a room in Venice and when it comes time to have "fun" she offers a massage and hand job and says next time more can be done. [/QUOTE]After reading a few reviews about tantric girls I think tantric is just code for scammer.
Sweetpetite.
Attractive.
Fun.
Sexual.
Stripper.
Few rules.
No car.
Decent communicator.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/416f6195-9098-465a-91a4-ab1627eb140c[/URL]
Had my fill. Enjoy!
Don't ask me about $, that's up to you.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0fac855c-0ff7-41ea-a169-052f00cc8375[/URL]
I spent a whole months membership messaging w / her on the site, never got her # or any indication she was too interested.
Not going to ask your financial arrangement. But I do find interesting in her bio she says "I know my worth. " I've always seen that phrase and related phrases as red flags. More or less the equivalent of "I'm holding out for the biggest spenders and willing to swat away guys till I get them. ".
Did you find that to be the case?
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6285686]Sweetpetite.
Attractive.
Fun.
Sexual.
Stripper.
Few rules.
No car.
Decent communicator.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/416f6195-9098-465a-91a4-ab1627eb140c[/URL]
Had my fill. Enjoy!
Don't ask me about $, that's up to you.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Murrican;6290910]Not going to ask your financial arrangement. But I do find interesting in her bio she says "I know my worth. " I've always seen that phrase and related phrases as red flags. More or less the equivalent of "I'm holding out for the biggest spenders and willing to swat away guys till I get them. ".
Did you find that to be the case?[/QUOTE]Agreed it can be a red flag. . . I usually attribute it to being utr / pro, which is the case here. But, she accepted my first offer.
Could use some expert help here. I'm a longtime Seeker. I have great experiences in Europe and South America and I do it regularly. I can't believe the experiences I've had. I no longer go sightseeing when I travel. I just bang younger girls.
Tried to bring this closer to home in LA. I have had zero luck. Nada.
I'm a mid 40's guy, solid looking, sending out to 20-25 year olds.
Because I don't want to waste time, I don't say I'm looking for PPM but I do open by explaining I'm looking for someone to go to dinner with and spend time with after for an arrangement.
Already that has gotten me so few write backs. Like 5 percent. Whereas abroad it's like 25 percent.
Then when those who do write back say hi, I suggest 500 dollars.
And then I'm ghosted.
I asked one girl for feedback. She said she thinks I'm just looking for sex and she's looking for a relationship. Ok fair.
But anyways. Am I so off base here in LA looking for one night recurring meetings for 500? I'm surprised this is going so badly.
Anyone have a better formula?
[QUOTE=Murrican;6295638]Could use some expert help here. I'm a longtime Seeker. I have great experiences in Europe and South America and I do it regularly. I can't believe the experiences I've had. I no longer go sightseeing when I travel. I just bang younger girls.
Tried to bring this closer to home in LA. I have had zero luck. Nada.
I'm a mid 40's guy, solid looking, sending out to 20-25 year olds.
Because I don't want to waste time, I don't say I'm looking for PPM but I do open by explaining I'm looking for someone to go to dinner with and spend time with after for an arrangement.
Already that has gotten me so few write backs. Like 5 percent. Whereas abroad it's like 25 percent.
Then when those who do write back say hi, I suggest 500 dollars.
And then I'm ghosted.
I asked one girl for feedback. She said she thinks I'm just looking for sex and she's looking for a relationship. Ok fair.[/QUOTE]Keep doing just what you're doing.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6295638]Could use some expert help here. I'm a longtime Seeker. I have great experiences in Europe and South America and I do it regularly. I can't believe the experiences I've had. I no longer go sightseeing when I travel. I just bang younger girls.
Tried to bring this closer to home in LA. I have had zero luck. Nada.
I'm a mid 40's guy, solid looking, sending out to 20-25 year olds.
Because I don't want to waste time, I don't say I'm looking for PPM but I do open by explaining I'm looking for someone to go to dinner with and spend time with after for an arrangement.
Already that has gotten me so few write backs. Like 5 percent. Whereas abroad it's like 25 percent.
Then when those who do write back say hi, I suggest 500 dollars.
And then I'm ghosted.
I asked one girl for feedback. She said she thinks I'm just looking for sex and she's looking for a relationship. Ok fair.
But anyways. Am I so off base here in LA looking for one night recurring meetings for 500? I'm surprised this is going so badly.
Anyone have a better formula?[/QUOTE]25 percent replies is what I'm getting. Out of that, half I could get their numbers to text. 500 is pretty good and you should be able to get quite a few to agree to it unless you're going after the really hot girls.
[QUOTE=OcasianBoy;6296204]25 percent replies is what I'm getting. Out of that, half I could get their numbers to text. 500 is pretty good and you should be able to get quite a few to agree to it unless you're going after the really hot girls.[/QUOTE]Yeah I'm surprised this isn't working better.
I have only 1 photo and it's blurred face so that might be it.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6297196]Yeah I'm surprised this isn't working better.
I have only 1 photo and it's blurred face so that might be it.[/QUOTE]I don't think that's it. I have one photo with face blurred, and I'm getting very good results. I have more than I can handle at the moment, they're all wondering why I'm so busy all the time.
If you like, PM me your opening messages and I'll give a critique.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6297196]Yeah I'm surprised this isn't working better.
I have only 1 photo and it's blurred face so that might be it.[/QUOTE]I have 2 photos, and 1 of them has me wearing a mask. Both are private so they have no idea what I look like when we start messaging. I'm mid-forties, but typically go for the 18-24 yr olds and have more numbers than I can follow up with. My profile is very to-the-point and leaves no room for confusion. For example, my headline is "The Seeder" and I message them first by telling them they have a sexy body, or complimenting their looks. After viewing my profile, they know exactly what I want and why I'm there. I started trying this direct approach about 4 years ago and have gotten far more interest from the girls with this profile than I had with my previous profile which was less direct and I *think* confused the girls into thinking I wanted to date. Remember: besides the sugar, a lot of those girls on Seeking are there to fuck too!
Also I'm down in OC, but I have just as much success with the LA girls with this approach.
Those of you have been doing this for a while, how much would you say the average meeting costs for a hot mid 20's girl?
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6297353]I don't think that's it. I have one photo with face blurred, and I'm getting very good results. I have more than I can handle at the moment, they're all wondering why I'm so busy all the time.
If you like, PM me your opening messages and I'll give a critique.[/QUOTE]Done. And thanks.
Started browsing SA and notice girls can do videos. Has this helped the site filter out the scammers or still quite a lot?
[QUOTE=CreamFire;6298517]Started browsing SA and notice girls can do videos. Has this helped the site filter out the scammers or still quite a lot?[/QUOTE]I see little use of that video feature. There are still many scammers, I am amazed by these: there are a huge # of profiles in the city "Roosevelt", there is no such place, and when you look at the profile, you can see they are fake - 1 photo, none or just a 1-sentence profile, etc.