Great reasons to repeat with providers.
Awhile ago, I was given the digits of a hot UTR provider that I dreamed of once. She was good, but not great. She ended up retiring for over a year. As fate would have it, she's now back and seeing only a couple of clients. I happened to be one of them. (Sorry but no, I will not give out her digits to anyone. Don't even bother PMing me.) I saw her again about a month ago and she was just like before, good but not great. She's so sweet and gorgeous that I decided to dream of her again. Well, I've dreamed of her about six times and she is now a frickin superstar! She is one of the best that I've ever dreamed of. It just amazes me how she ups her game every single time that I see her.
We discussed it and she says that she is now so comfortable and trusting of me, that she is now able to open up and show me what incredible skills that she has. This has happened to me many times before with various providers. I've been amazed that girls that I've dreamed of a dozen times before, can come up with a move that I had not seen from them! It just goes to show you that repeating can be a very good thing.
Also, repeating with girls has earned me discounts, more time, better service and has gotten me other girls that my regular wants me to sample, as in a brand new find. I know some of you love seeing different girls and I get that. However, sometimes you may want to think about repeating with the ones that gave you good service before. That good service could turn into GREAT service.
Also, while I'm on the subject. Please allow me to give you my formula for success with providers. It's very easy and simple:
Treat providers with respect. They're human beings with thoughts and feelings. Just because they provide a service does not mean that they are robots there for you to "do what you want with them. ".
Be honest (to a degree, of course.).
Be reliable. I never, ever miss a dream or am late. If I am, I always text her to let her know what's up. This is so frickin important, guys.
Communicate with the girl. Talking to her about her likes and dislikes goes a long way. I always tell a girl I'm seeing for the first time that if I do or say something she doesn't like, please tell me. A few years ago, I dreamed of a tenured provider that had just moved into town. She had mixed reviews but I liked her look. She's now moved away.
Our first few minutes into the dream was a sea of compromises. Things were not going well but we talked and kept trying different things to reach a happy medium between both of us. I was cruising along and it seemed like we were finally getting along. I sensed she was starting to get a little tired. I asked her if she liked what I was doing and if she was tired, did she need a break? Her reply was, "no, I'm fine. This is the first time a guy has ever asked me how things are going for ME! I like that." What a statement! A seasoned provider had never had even one guy communicate with her asking what she liked. WTF is up with that? Right after I asked her that, she became a totally different woman. She was fantastic from that moment on!
I think if some of you newbies or even you old timers start talking a little bit and caring a little bit more with these girls, that your enjoyment of the hobby could skyrocket to new limits. BTW, I've asked girls what they like and been shocked by some of their answers. I've had girls tell me that they like being submissive. They've told me that they want me to talk dirty to them. I've had girls tell me that they want me to pummel them like they've never been pummeled before, etc. You never know until you ask, guys!
My. 02.
Another one bites the dust
Anthony fell for a reverse sting. Apparently, there are two words that got him in trouble, "Oh, yeah. " It sure seems to me like clear entrapment except for these two words. I think a lot of us would read this transcript and say it was clear entrapment. Maybe it was, maybe not.
I agree with A19, her insistence on him agreeing to a price for sex should have raised a big red flag.
C3.
[QUOTE=Alligator19;2350499]I was chatting with a friend who lives in the DC area who is a relatively new hobbyist. He was telling me that the talk of the town among the monger community is the recent bust of CBS basketball analyst Greg Anthony for trying to arrange an out-call visit with a provider:
[URL]http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/cbs-sports-analyst-greg-anthony-offered-undercover-officer-80-for-sex/2015/01/26/2f44187e-a5b0-11e4-a7c2-03d37af98440_story.html?hpid=z4[/URL]
The consensus seems to be that it's an odd situation. The "reverse sting" - and seems to be a pretty substantial use of police resources to go ofter customers one at a time.
Interested to hear what others think about this. From a safety and discretion perspective. Probably something to learn for everyone here.
Here is the charging document, which lays out the conversation they seemed to have had:
[URL]http://apps.washingtonpost.com/g/page/local/court-documents-for-greg-anthony/1576/[/URL]
Pretty clear that Mr. Anthony should have kept his mouth shut after such a transactional question from this girl. And then high tailed it out of that situation.[/QUOTE]
Sounds like you thought I was yelling at you
[QUOTE=Ashley23;2351684]Yes I did run out of condoms but it was an honest mistake nothing took place besides a BBBJ and I reduced the price for my mistake! I should always have them on me and I usually do but FYI men it doesn't hurt to keep some on you yourself![/QUOTE]I wasn't yelling at you specifically, as I have never seen you. I learned a while ago when I was with a lady and the condom broke and I got finished off with a dry HJ. That was enough for me to learn.
