Hello, I'm not a time traveler, but I have been here, been a long time a few years
I have been off the SG for a few years. A lot gong on. Never stopped with the SB sites, just never had the time to get on here or interact as life happens. I had deleted my old profile years ago, so have this one now. I have though been very busy on the sites, mainly seeking. Wow has it morphed. Not in a good way either. I could or should write a book at this point as the stories I have are what legends are made of. I do have one quick post I must include. I have been scammed once on that site and it was over a decade ago until recently. And I never get scammed so she was good. I will not divulge what occurred, and I am still debating if I want to post about her. I did report her to Seeking, m but as of now they have taken no action which does not surprise me. I do have some amazing stories I can share of encounters over the last few years. I too am older, not that old, but I have been fucking the finest pussy that is available, and some just for fun times and a dance not breaking or even touching the bank so to speak. I had a few regulars and some totally off the hook Pornhub type encounters. I has been amazing, I will say though it has changed a lot now. I almost wish I would have held on to some of them, but as they say. There are plenty of fish in the sea. I just wanted to make a quick post and say I am glad to be back. But there has been a question I see posted some that I will answer. So, " are guys really paying for. Or giving that much sugar?. Answer is. Yes, they are. It makes it hard on everybody that they do. But I connect with my encounters on a different level and they basically tell me everything. One sb told me her daddy had a "micro dick" honest to god truth, I never knew this existed. I about shit my pants when she told me that story, He paid her 300 per meet to just lay in best an cuddle he would have internal ejaculation she said, but they never had sex. Ever! Of course she wanted as much for doing nothing as that is what she was used to. It always amazed me how. "well he had to move away" story is told every time. But I met some Off the hook women that are insatiable too. Hope that nugget was good, but it is an amazing world for sure. I need to read a bit and get the feel again before I am comfortable to share more details. Just give me time.
SeekingWhit: a probable rinser
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9dc8bd4c-8d8f-4382-b01e-e77938a462c9[/URL]
This one just wants to get you to agree to a $100 MnG. She makes clear from the outset that this first $100 meeting is "no sex". She makes the request almost as soon as you start talking to her. (She goes right to text.).
This one seems to be a meet and greet rinser. It's easy to see how an SB could net a tax-free $500 per week with this little scam, without ever putting out.
I will never pay for a MnG, beyond reasonable travel expenses if someone is driving a long distance to my neck of the woods. This one wants to be paid for drinking coffee or having lunch with you.
Hard pass.
If this is who I think it is.
[QUOTE=ToddCincy;6221032][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9dc8bd4c-8d8f-4382-b01e-e77938a462c9[/URL]
This one just wants to get you to agree to a $100 MnG. She makes clear from the outset that this first $100 meeting is "no sex". She makes the request almost as soon as you start talking to her. (She goes right to text.).
This one seems to be a meet and greet rinser. It's easy to see how an SB could net a tax-free $500 per week with this little scam, without ever putting out.
I will never pay for a MnG, beyond reasonable travel expenses if someone is driving a long distance to my neck of the woods. This one wants to be paid for drinking coffee or having lunch with you.
Hard pass.[/QUOTE]She always uses Asian profiles, claims to work in an office downtown, with an age of around 25, asks for $50-100 for the MnG.
Her fav place for the MnG is the Panera on Paxton, you're blocked before she even walks in the door.
Rinsing scams exist in all online dating (Seeking Whit, etc.)
We've had a lot of posts about rinsers of late, including the one I mentioned, SeekingWhit.
Here's some additional perspective on the timeworn rinsing game, and a final tip for outsmarting the rinsers.
I haven't vanilla dated for quite some time. But some years ago I read an article about single women in Chicago, LA, and NYC who would use Match to get free dinners every night from different guys, using Match as their hunting ground.
In other words, rinsing is ubiquitous in the online dating world, not just on sugar sites.
Rinsing also existed prior to the Internet. One of my old female acquaintances (now in her 50's) was a hot young thing in NYC in the early 1990's. She told me that when she went to bars, she never took her wallet, because she knew that guys would be buying her drinks. (Today, at 54, she would have difficulty pulling that off, of course.) She wasn't gloating; but she admitted to accepting drinks from guys who had *zero* chance of getting in her pants.
We should therefore not be surprised that rinse scammers proliferate on Seeking like dandelions on a suburban lawn in May.
The moral is: always break off communication when a Seeking SB asks for an upfront fee at the MnG. There is a 99.999% that you will be immediately blocked, and lose your $100.
The *only* exception is when you ask a girl to come to your neck of the woods, and *you* offer *her* a reasonable travel fee.
For example: I live in the Beechmont / Amelia area. I am going to ask a girl who lives in West Chester to drive to meet me at a Starbucks on Beechmont. I will probably offer her $20 to $30 for driving down here. I've done that before. Last winter I offered a girl $30 to drive out of her way to meet me on the east side.
But that's different. $20 or $30 isn't enough for a scammer to turn into a business model. $100 is an amount that adds up quickly. And $150 certainly is.
One final tip: If you are comfortable doing so, use the videochat feature for as much pre-screening as you can.
Scammers will always avoid videochats, because they don't want to be seen. SeekingWhit used every excuse she could think of to dodge a videochat. This was because she knew that she couldn't charge for it.
Interesting take on the "best" SB criteria
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?18813-Sugarbabies-and-Arrangements&p=6220762&viewfull=1#post6220762
