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Asked for 400, can't host. Anyone seen her?
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[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fb4085d6-8a84-4bcc-b224-1b9c923128d4[/URL]
Asked for 400, can't host. Anyone seen her?
An old man whose tools no longer work.
[QUOTE=OkWhatever;6144489]Is it worth messaging woman that have Platonic or Mentor? I mean, what man in his right min is going to give money to a woman to be his friend.
I've seen a few hot ones that have both.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=OkWhatever;6144489]Is it worth messaging woman that have Platonic or Mentor? I mean, what man in his right min is going to give money to a woman to be his friend.
I've seen a few hot ones that have both.[/QUOTE]Yes, absolutely. A lot of times that's just some BS they put in their profile so they won't come off as slutty or something (as if we'd care?
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6144667]An old man whose tools no longer work.[/QUOTE]I mean, that's the dream for these girls. Gifts and money without sex.
If we want to have a larger discussion on platonic, there can be many reasons why a girl might use that label:
A) they misunderstand what the word means, d'oh.
B) they want to come across as not slutty (to JCM's point), not to us mongers actually but to anyone in their personal circle who might run into their profile.
C) they really do want platonic (e. G. Older guys whose tools no longer work).
D) they mean to say that they're ok with both platonic and non-platonic (but they don't realize some guys are filtering them out because they said platonic. How dare you!
Bottom line is, as I've said before, use the profile as a guide but don't take it literally. If you really like the girl, give it a shot. She's probably long forgotten what she put in her profile LOL.
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6144699]Yes, absolutely. A lot of times that's just some BS they put in their profile so they won't come off as slutty or something (as if we'd care?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=NicosWave24;6098478][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/335570a0-4a6e-43c2-894b-3546787d6b7c[/URL]
Wanted to share a good one since nobody actually seems to do that here. She's a cool chick, totally down to earth with a bangin body. I've chilled at her place for pretty much the whole day before just gettin sweaty and kickin it. Only problem is she really isn't that great of a lay and head game is sorely lacking. I still find myself going back though because it's a safe spot and I really actually dig this chick. Anyways, if a safe spot and bangin bod is what you lookin for then here ya go.[/QUOTE]What did you give her? Covered or bare?
In the past I have paid for Seeking using a "Vanilla Gift" brand Visa gift card. As recently as a few months ago this brand of gift card worked on Seeking. Today I tried using a new gift card from Vanilla and it got rejected. Does anyone know if Vanilla Gift is no longer allowing purchases on Seeking? And if so does anyone have any other suggestions for anonymous payment?
This all makes sense. I don't care anymore. I'm messaging anyone that I like. Most of these women don't even know what they want.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6144755]If we want to have a larger discussion on platonic, there can be many reasons why a girl might use that label:
A) they misunderstand what the word means, d'oh.
B) they want to come across as not slutty (to JCM's point), not to us mongers actually but to anyone in their personal circle who might run into their profile.
C) they really do want platonic (e. G. Older guys whose tools no longer work).
D) they mean to say that they're ok with both platonic and non-platonic (but they don't realize some guys are filtering them out because they said platonic. How dare you!
Bottom line is, as I've said before, use the profile as a guide but don't take it literally. If you really like the girl, give it a shot. She's probably long forgotten what she put in her profile LOL.[/QUOTE]
I know its a long shot but does anyone know or has had success getting to do some good anal with a SB. I'm not talking just the head. Someone that seemed to really enjoy it. I know most girls on SB if they get comftable enough with you they would but lately I've found no one other then the rt1 strip club bartender that someone posted recently about. If anyone knows someone please reach out. Private messege me if you want. I'm willing to swap also. I'm not really looking for numbers directly. A seeking url would be fine as I can and will messege them myself to see if they are interested.
How are you guys negotiating so much bare with the girls you meet on Seeking?
This post will be about various unique activities that you can do, in order to do the following:
1. Reduce the cost of future engagements / arrangements.
2. Increase the likelihood of women communicating more, contacting more, and focused on going out versus there thought process of "show me the money".
3. Making the date / arrangement a bit more fun.
Backstory:
So I started chatting up a kind of a "hippy" style of a woman. She was into crystals, those emotional triggers, tantra, and all that jazz. The woman was in her 40's, therefore, I simply listened & took the info in. Yes, she had 1 kid, was single & never married. Yes, she had the whole "hippy" and "love" vibe, but also, through in the word of "finances" a lot (LOL). I did the Seeking video chat feature, in which we were both allowed to see each other. We continue to chat (wasn't able to meet up yet, due to other dates already pre-planned and her timeframe of having to take care of the kid in the morning, whereas, also, I work weekends. So our timing really sucked, but we still are in the stages of pre-planning). Anyway, she had started sending me these links to various quizzes, to I guess get to know me better as she wanted to know what she wanted to "do to me". Again, I listened. (nope, I didn't want to believe it. But.).
Action Plan:
So these links she shared with me (not sharing them all yet), since I didn't get a chance to put them into action on the hippy. I was able to put them into action on 3 other women, whereas, I already had dates aligned up w / them. Fortunately, these were 2nd dates for two, and 1st date for another one (curvy shaped woman). One at $300, and another at $400 - and the 3rd it was a discussion (see below). Typically, I like long types of experiences, spending hours on end. Hence, I enjoy going to the Casino, grabbing dinner, and pulling off some multiple hours of intimacy.
This time, I put the hippy's advice and a quiz into action. It was called the 5 Love Languages (.
[URL]https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language[/URL]). Now, it's important you don't just give the quiz to the woman and let her do it on her own. You need to be fully involved. As a sample of 2, thus far, the next steps needs to be followed:
1. Tell Her About the 5 Love Languages Quiz, so that we can be closer and to try & commit to the long term thing.
2. Give her the quiz. On her own phone or a laptop.
3. While she is doing the quiz, you must go down on her and eat that pussy like your life depended on it. Note: This is a kind of a long quiz, maybe even 30 or 40 minutes. So stretch you jaws in advance. Only do a little bit of fingering (don't get to excited).
4. Note: Whatever you do, do not penetrate. Don't even let her slob on the knob.
5. After the quiz is done, just totally stop eating her out & get the answers of the quiz.
6. Then go eat or do something else quickly, while she's still dripping wet, walking around the room or hallways.
7. Then when you're out doing something up, you can bring up your arrangement and ask about how she thought to the "Activity. " Tell her you'd like to do more of those & more interesting things to bring us closer.
8. Cost Reduction Question: Then say, something like, "if we're able to continue to do this, can we set up consistently at "lower price range" (I. E. Knock of $50 to even $200).
As of right now, it has worked. I aim to do this each time at least on the 2nd date for the higher costs ones.
Other Activities I've been doing:
1. Card Games: Have a full deck of cards & found some sexual card games on Google & just simply copied the rules & change some to customize it.
2. Seconds of Ice Cube Game: Get a bucket of ice, and playing cards and a timer (phone). Each number corresponds to number of seconds to perform the task. 10, Jack, King, Queen, Ace, are all different erogenous zones of where task will be performed. Separate the 10 through ace in one pile & all the other numbers in another. You get to put ice on her, get her wet, and cold before & makes the date longer.
3. BlackJack: When I'm at casino, I'll win enough to throw the her $100 to $200 to play along side of me.
4. Roulette: I only do this game to prolong the date.
5. Slots: Try & win between a $50 & $100 & throw it her way on some slots & have her sit on your lap.
Results: I already mentioned the results of the 1st too. The 3rd was a discussion. Before she had arrived, she stated "we never discussed about the arrangement. You can throw me $300 -$400, is what you can do if ya want). Because it was a last minute type of date & she was willing to drive about 1. 5 hours to me, I was like, "yeah we can chat more about it when you get here). She wasn't fully my type (curvy, a slightly bit of that "college heavy size, not the out of shape heavy size). Since it was the first, I performed the quiz, ate her out. I was a bit ticked off, whereas, on her inner thigh, there was a scratched, large pimple. Whereas, if you saw it too, you'd have to ask before diving in, albeit with some plastic just in case. I guess it embarrassed her a bit, and she almost cried, and put her hands over her head while I was muff diving, but, I continued. Then once I was done, and she finished the quiz, I had said, yea, how about we do this consistently and we do around $200. She was like, that's great.
She immediately called me the next Sunday to plan for the next week.
Do you all have any other activities or engaging things you all do to provide some uniqueness to your nights? I'd like to make a list, and we can have this post dedicated to something about just for various activities. Things that don't cost a lot, but can result in a positive or lower cost outcomes. For me, a hippy gave me the ideas & it turned out to be quite, as them girls would say "beneficial".
Go see Lillyloveslilacs. See review a few pages back. She loves it up the hershey highway and mentioned that upfront.
[QUOTE=EuHunter;6146900]I know its a long shot but does anyone know or has had success getting to do some good anal with a SB. I'm not talking just the head. Someone that seemed to really enjoy it. I know most girls on SB if they get comftable enough with you they would but lately I've found no one other then the rt1 strip club bartender that someone posted recently about. If anyone knows someone please reach out. Private messege me if you want. I'm willing to swap also. I'm not really looking for numbers directly. A seeking url would be fine as I can and will messege them myself to see if they are interested.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Serp567;6147006]How are you guys negotiating so much bare with the girls you meet on Seeking?[/QUOTE]For me there is almost no negotiating. Most of the time the topic doesn't even come up. IF she brings up covered I tell her I have had a vasectomy and I'm clean (both true). That usually ends the concern. Occasionally they ask for proof of one or the other but that is rare. If they still want covered I pass. If that comes up when we are naked and horny I will put one on if she has one with her, but will not be seeing her again. (That only happened once).
There is no negotiation. Condoms are never discussed in 90% of the meets.
[QUOTE=Serp567;6147006]How are you guys negotiating so much bare with the girls you meet on Seeking?[/QUOTE]
I always wear protection, but from my experience most women don't care and never even mention protection.
[QUOTE=Serp567;6147006]How are you guys negotiating so much bare with the girls you meet on Seeking?[/QUOTE]