"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Ok, so the soaps continue here. Just in case anyone else out there can learn from my poor choices in the bowl, I figured I'd give you all an update.

So I dumped SB#1 who turned real relationship, wanted marriage and kids, the entire deal. At 21 it's not going to happen. Her initial reaction was probably A-typical. She cried, pleaded, cried some more, texted me, send emails, sent photos, etc all in attempts to yank on my heart strings. I kept contact evasive, but wrote back more to "feel her out" as I knew the anger phase would hit next. And I was right. Now mommy and daddy and big bad uncle want to "have a word" with me, over how I dumped their loved one. I warned her if she went ugly, I'd run her past out in the face of everyone. Or if she meddles in my private affairs which I believe is still coming. What a mess! Why can't these young girls just go fuck someone else and move along?

So far, she has not shown up at my work or front door, but I believe she will try that next. If she does, or her family does, the gloves come off. I will take that as a threat. These people are nuts!

Learn from my mistakes brothers! I need to get past this and then get back in the bowl where I belong! .

Had date # 6 with my long distance webcam baby. I guess I will just have to be resigned to the fact that I may only get to see her a couple times a month. Too bad as she has a killer body and knows how to use it. For now she is a 8/9/9/8. Here is a promo pic from one of her videos. She is actually a very normal girl, not seeing anyone but me for now as far as I know.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2217882]Had date # 6 with my long distance webcam baby. I guess I will just have to be resigned to the fact that I may only get to see her a couple times a month. Too bad as she has a killer body and knows how to use it. For now she is a 8/9/9/8. Here is a promo pic from one of her videos. She is actually a very normal girl, not seeing anyone but me for now as far as I know.[/QUOTE]You. Lucky. F*&ng. Bastard.

This gal emails me on SA. Her profile says much older (41), but thin. We message a bit where she's brief and not very playful. She claims to exercise daily, and has a cute face, so I figure, why not, maybe she's just looking for some action. I meet her for lunch, which she shows up for. Well, gentlemen, 41 turns out to be more like 51. She must have been really hot in her 20's, but there's no denying the age factor. Lunch was uneventful as it's difficult to talk candidly in the middle of a crowded restaurant. She claimed to be late back at work and promptly bolted. She then emailed expressing an interest in pursuing, but she cannot host and her schedule does not sync with mine. I learned all this bit by damned little bit over many messages, to which I thought f-it, I'm done with her. She messaged back three days ago proposing a time that does not work for me, but I've been letting her stew on it. I have no real interest at this point. I can't imagine paying for a hotel for a woman that should pay me for sex. Wonder if I should at least find out what the action's like.

-SlowMo.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;2217829]but wrote back more to "feel her out"[/QUOTE]Dude just feeling her out is also called stirring the pot just stop LOL and she knows where you work and live ouch.

[QUOTE=SlowMo;2218155]This gal emails me on SA. Her profile says much older (41), but thin. We message a bit where she's brief and not very playful. She claims to exercise daily, and has a cute face, so I figure, why not, maybe she's just looking for some action. I meet her for lunch, which she shows up for. Well, gentlemen, 41 turns out to be more like 51. She must have been really hot in her 20's, but there's no denying the age factor. Lunch was uneventful as it's difficult to talk candidly in the middle of a crowded restaurant. She claimed to be late back at work and promptly bolted. She then emailed expressing an interest in pursuing, but she cannot host and her schedule does not sync with mine. I learned all this bit by damned little bit over many messages, to which I thought f-it, I'm done with her. She messaged back three days ago proposing a time that does not work for me, but I've been letting her stew on it. I have no real interest at this point. I can't imagine paying for a hotel for a woman that should pay me for sex. Wonder if I should at least find out what the action's like.

-SlowMo.[/QUOTE]Not if it involves paying for a room. Offer $ max if she has a killer body, all things considered. My MILF is 47 and going strong.

Got an unexpected visit from my recently broken up with but still seeing, little princess (all 100 lbs of her). She came au natural, as in no makeup, and super casual, but I can never resist her.

I had a similar experience before. After some self-struggling, I decided not to even try since I want to use my $ and energy (little head) wisely. I had experience w / a older MILF, and she paid for everything. .

[QUOTE=SlowMo;2218155]This gal emails me on SA. Her profile says much older (41), but thin. We message a bit where she's brief and not very playful. She claims to exercise daily, and has a cute face, so I figure, why not, maybe she's just looking for some action. I meet her for lunch, which she shows up for. Well, gentlemen, 41 turns out to be more like 51. She must have been really hot in her 20's, but there's no denying the age factor. Lunch was uneventful as it's difficult to talk candidly in the middle of a crowded restaurant. She claimed to be late back at work and promptly bolted. She then emailed expressing an interest in pursuing, but she cannot host and her schedule does not sync with mine. I learned all this bit by damned little bit over many messages, to which I thought f-it, I'm done with her. She messaged back three days ago proposing a time that does not work for me, but I've been letting her stew on it. I have no real interest at this point. I can't imagine paying for a hotel for a woman that should pay me for sex. Wonder if I should at least find out what the action's like.

-SlowMo.[/QUOTE]

My observation:

1) Cities have lot more choices and easy to find SB.

2) More flexibility and easy to find first timers or one timers too.

3) Small cities don't have too many choices and too much communication.

Well, I have had few out of town travel lucks recently to another big city. Wow, what an experience and easy to find a quality, young SB. Makes business travel more exciting, LOL.

[QUOTE=SlowMo;2218155]This gal emails me on SA. Her profile says much older (41), but thin. We message a bit where she's brief and not very playful. She claims to exercise daily, and has a cute face, so I figure, why not, maybe she's just looking for some action. I meet her for lunch, which she shows up for. Well, gentlemen, 41 turns out to be more like 51. She must have been really hot in her 20's, but there's no denying the age factor. Lunch was uneventful as it's difficult to talk candidly in the middle of a crowded restaurant. She claimed to be late back at work and promptly bolted. She then emailed expressing an interest in pursuing, but she cannot host and her schedule does not sync with mine. I learned all this bit by damned little bit over many messages, to which I thought f-it, I'm done with her. She messaged back three days ago proposing a time that does not work for me, but I've been letting her stew on it. I have no real interest at this point. I can't imagine paying for a hotel for a woman that should pay me for sex. Wonder if I should at least find out what the action's like.

-SlowMo.[/QUOTE]Move on. If I read correctly between the lines, you are not into her at all. Why spend the money to go to the FC and confirm that. That is funds you will not have to spend on a SB you find yourself connecting with. I would tell her thanks, but it seems our schedules are just not going to work out and leave it at that.

[QUOTE=KingGreg;2218707]My observation:

1) Cities have lot more choices and easy to find SB.

2) More flexibility and easy to find first timers or one timers too.

3) Small cities don't have too many choices and too much communication.

Well, I have had few out of town travel lucks recently to another big city. Wow, what an experience and easy to find a quality, young SB. Makes business travel more exciting, LOL.[/QUOTE]I won't do it any other way. Just the comfort of not needing to look over my shoulder makes out of town sex that much more worthwhile. I was recently walking around during a big public event with my GF, gawking at all the nice young pussy around whenever the GF turned her head and thinking about what a great SB some of them would make. In the two hours we were there, I saw one ex-GF, one near miss, and my GF saw several people she knew.

I thought about all those times I saw the profile of some nice young SB that was only 15-20 minutes away. There were a couple of times I almost caved into temptation, one of them was a 18 yr old sending me naked pics (perfect body) and even had a place she could host, but I decided against it simply because she was too close to home. I'm glad I kept thinking with the head upstairs rather than the one downstairs, otherwise I would feel like a prisoner every time I went somewhere in public with my GF.

Gents,

The older lady I previously referenced replied with her conditions for FC. I won't talk about the amount just yet because I don't know if she meant per visit or per month, but I think she means per visit, which would equate to a very nice mortgage payment. I'll check with her without expressing judgment, but I believe the girl might be insane. Or her target market is the 70 yrs old crowd who can't do younger (if there's even such a thing).

On a more positive side, I had a drink date with young gal #3. We met at a nearby furniture store and headed over for drinks. Very pretty girl, shy, obviously new at this. I didn't think she was interested at the end of the date when she offered to split the bill, and then extended her hand when we parted even though I hugged her when we met. But she confirmed her desire to press on via email. Real green I suspect. Unfortunately, she's not opened to meeting at her place. I just let her know that our next date needs to be physical. We'll see how she reacts. She's fun enough to be around, but we're not doing this to meet new friends, right? I'm starting to see why you vets don't waste any time.

I've been emailing with girls #4 and 5, but I swear neither can read. I suggested three different times / days to girl #4. She replied: let me check my schedule. That was a week ago. Today she emails asking if I'm getting her messages!? I f*&ing hate that as I'm a careful communicator with them, more so than on these forums. Likewise, I told girl #5 of my availability. Yet she's been emailing me nearly everyday asking me if I can meet, when it's black and white that I cannot. That chick will never, ever get the "substantial" (per SA) sugar she's looking for. I can't imagine anyone putting up with this nonsense. Got to kiss a lot of frogs I guess.

-SlowMo.

P.S. If this is not the purpose of this forum, please let me know. Not looking to bore you guys.

I follow this board more for the entertainment value than any thing else now. I dipped into the bowl a couple of times and found based on my experience that it was too much work for little results. Just me I guess but don't stop relating your thoughts and adventures. It does have value.

[QUOTE=SlowMo;2219972]Gents,

The older lady I previously referenced replied with her conditions for FC. I won't talk about the amount just yet because I don't know if she meant per visit or per month, but I think she means per visit, which would equate to a very nice mortgage payment. I'll check with her without expressing judgment, but I believe the girl might be insane. Or her target market is the 70 yrs old crowd who can't do younger (if there's even such a thing).

On a more positive side, I had a drink date with young gal #3. We met at a nearby furniture store and headed over for drinks. Very pretty girl, shy, obviously new at this. I didn't think she was interested at the end of the date when she offered to split the bill, and then extended her hand when we parted even though I hugged her when we met. But she confirmed her desire to press on via email. Real green I suspect. Unfortunately, she's not opened to meeting at her place. I just let her know that our next date needs to be physical. We'll see how she reacts. She's fun enough to be around, but we're not doing this to meet new friends, right? I'm starting to see why you vets don't waste any time.

I've been emailing with girls #4 and 5, but I swear neither can read. I suggested three different times / days to girl #4. She replied: let me check my schedule. That was a week ago. Today she emails asking if I'm getting her messages!? I f*&ing hate that as I'm a careful communicator with them, more so than on these forums. Likewise, I told girl #5 of my availability. Yet she's been emailing me nearly everyday asking me if I can meet, when it's black and white that I cannot. That chick will never, ever get the "substantial" (per SA) sugar she's looking for. I can't imagine anyone putting up with this nonsense. Got to kiss a lot of frogs I guess.

-SlowMo.

P.S. If this is not the purpose of this forum, please let me know. Not looking to bore you guys.[/QUOTE]Its a big numbers game to get a quality SB. Do a minimum of one or possibly 2 M and G a week if you can. I had a slam dunk FC visit tonite with a 19 year old newbie that claims she hasnt had any dick in 4 months. Just as I step out of the shower my MILF calls crying that she needs me. So I have to bang her instead. These are the quality problems you will encounter down the road. Stick with it and report back often.

[QUOTE=SlowMo;2219972]Gents,

The older lady I previously referenced replied with her conditions for FC. I won't talk about the amount just yet because I don't know if she meant per visit or per month, but I think she means per visit, which would equate to a very nice mortgage payment. I'll check with her without expressing judgment, but I believe the girl might be insane. Or her target market is the 70 yrs old crowd who can't do younger (if there's even such a thing).[/QUOTE]Just confirmed with MILF. She wants $500 per visit, which, around these parts, also get you PSE with a model. I don't think there is much value in pointing that out as it won't make me look too good. I think I'll just let her know what budget I had in mind and see. The odds of this leading to anything are quickly approaching zero. If anyone has a creative and / or delicate way to address that, I'd listen to a tip.