Seeking Arrangements

Yeah she looked old and worn out. Admitted to having Botox and lots of fillers. And her pics were pretty hot including the ones she sent me. I was disappointed when I met her, but went through with it. Anyway, I vowed never to do that again. I'm actually going to tell any woman that I plan to meet that if they don't look like their pics, I'm going to walk immediately. This shit happens with regular dating apps as well.

[QUOTE=TheList00;6141872]I don't know all these woman have to posts old pics as if we ain't going to notice when we meet. I talked to this chick on secretbenefits because her pics were pretty hot. So I find her Facebook and the pic she posted to the secretbenefits site was taken in 2018 and in her actually pics now she looks old and worn down. I just ended up blocking her. But yeah between filters and old pics you never know what surprise your going to get when you show up for an actual meet.[/QUOTE]

Talk about gps. Sexy, but she wants 800, might talk her down to 500 for ppm And was closed minded about BBFS.

I politely declined, but maybe someone else will have better success or silly money.

[QUOTE=MamboMikea;6142563]Talk about gps. Sexy, but she wants 800, might talk her down to 500 for ppm And was closed minded about BBFS.

I politely declined, but maybe someone else will have better success or silly money.[/QUOTE]Had the pleasure of seeing her a few weeks ago. Super chill, hot as fuuuck. Yeah a bit on the pricey side compared to others in the area but we had a great time together. Amazing head, great dirty talk while fucking and some anal as well. Open to toy play if that's your thing too. Sure, covered, but that makes me more excited to see her again once you folks realize how fun she is to see.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6135562]I've also been told by almost every lady that I've met in person that I'm one of the few men that messaged them and didn't come across as a psycho, looking for something for free or flat out ghosted.[/QUOTE]The bar is very low, for sure.

[QUOTE=Wockser;6142685]Had the pleasure of seeing her a few weeks ago. Super chill, hot as fuuuck. Yeah a bit on the pricey side compared to others in the area but we had a great time together. Amazing head, great dirty talk while fucking and some anal as well. Open to toy play if that's your thing too. Sure, covered, but that makes me more excited to see her again once you folks realize how fun she is to see.[/QUOTE]Are you all really traveling that far from Boston to Maine? I've been setting my distance to 25 and 50 miles only. 2 hours of driving for tail, I'm not 100% sure. I've also been clicking on "Other Locations" to drill down to a specific city. It's been great when I hitup Foxwoods & enter "Ledyard." Filtering has been working wonders into getting more "responses" No definite finalizations yet, but, a higher response rate.

Can you explain more about how your doing your travel. Solo, Uber. Then you got to think about a hotel out there as well? What was your total outlay: $800 (for the full day, or were your relegated to hours at a time? + Gas + hotel?

Recently a friend shared a tip with me to help weed out who is real on the SB / SD sites and also to get some more information about them before making plans / meeting.

He has a free account on Fet Life that allows him to browse a directory of people into the kinky lifestyle by city and state.

A lot of the profiles will also list out specifically what they are into in the bedroom. Out of curiosity I setup an account and browsed the towns of people I tend to go after on these sites.

To my surprise. There were many matches from both Seeking / SB / WYP to FL. The profiles in a lot of cases had a lot more sexy photos of them. Which are dated from when they were posted. As well as their Do's and Don'ts in their personal sex lives.

With this info I actually started reaching out to people on SD / SB that I normally would have skipped over their profiles since I knew they were real. Got a better look at them. And also knew that what they sexually desired lined up with my interests. With this intel it makes them a lot more attractive and worth connecting with.

As a noob. I get the impression that as a single male it's a lot harder to initiate hookups through FL. Seems like attractive active females get bombarded all day and night on there. I am sure it can be a good source of free hookups in your area, but for my purposes I think it's best as a source of extra information on potential SB / SD relationships.

Not sure if this has been shared before but figured some would find it useful. I've known of the site for a long time but personally never setup an account until recently.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6135582]Just look at the pics posted by JClearman. They're all white women.[/QUOTE]Whoa.

Imani is black.

Lisa is Asian.

Liv is Indian (as in India).

Judy is Asian.

Denise is Puerto Rican.

Liza is Brazilian (as in from Brazil).

Maya is Asian.

[QUOTE=TheList00;6136231]I agree. Most woman who I meet say the same thing. Guys waste there time. Begging for pics, looking to text all day or are just cheap. If you are serious about sex like I am if you message someone, get to texting and make solid plans with a decent price tag they will meet that night or next and will remember you for repeats.[/QUOTE]This is how I do it.

I guess I stand corrected. Perhaps fair-skinned would be a better description? If Imani is black she's either mixed or something. Liv is kind of dusky, so that makes sense. Again, apologies if I over-generalized.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6142909]Whoa.

Imani is black.

Lisa is Asian.

Liv is Indian (as in India).

Judy is Asian.

Denise is Puerto Rican.

Liza is Brazilian (as in from Brazil).

Maya is Asian.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=OkWhatever;6141217]OK, mixed review on this one. She says she is 53 and she may be telling the truth. All her pics are on SA are 10+ years old and most likely filtered as well as angled in such a way as to not show her body. Communication with her was good and direct. She wanted 2 K / month which I rejected. She then asked for 500 PPM which included all holes and as along as I want including all night. Because I'm dumb and a sucker for slutty MILFs and overnight with all holes struck me as a good deal. I said yes. So after that was negotiated, she went me more pics off the site which were also 10+ years old.

Anyway, I ended up meeting her at her place before we went out for drinks / dinner.

CONS.

30+ pounds heavier than any of her pics, old pics all around, asking for way too much, she's pretty big.

PROS.

Hosts in a clean and nice apartment with street parking, safe and good neighborhood, all holes open, you can stay for as long as you want including overnight, loves her booze.

Also, she seemed very experienced. Meaning almost semi-pro. She had everything prepared at her place. Anyway, I think she may be worth it for some people. But no way I'm seeing her again for 500.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d7e8a92a-1186-4171-9f90-84935e9a645f[/URL][/QUOTE]Covered or bare?

BBBJ and covered for everything else. My choice though. She never mentioned a condom, brought them though because I always wear protection.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6142989]Covered or bare?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6142790]Are you all really traveling that far from Boston to Maine? I've been setting my distance to 25 and 50 miles only. 2 hours of driving for tail, I'm not 100% sure. I've also been clicking on "Other Locations" to drill down to a specific city. It's been great when I hitup Foxwoods & enter "Ledyard." Filtering has been working wonders into getting more "responses" No definite finalizations yet, but, a higher response rate.

Can you explain more about how your doing your travel. Solo, Uber. Then you got to think about a hotel out there as well? What was your total outlay: $800 (for the full day, or were your relegated to hours at a time? + Gas + hotel?[/QUOTE]I'm in NH, I travel everywhere. Pretty much from Foxwoods to Portland.

I never travel more than 45 minutes and my range has been mostly 200-300 plus a hotel if necessary.

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6142790]Are you all really traveling that far from Boston to Maine? I've been setting my distance to 25 and 50 miles only. 2 hours of driving for tail, I'm not 100% sure. I've also been clicking on "Other Locations" to drill down to a specific city. It's been great when I hitup Foxwoods & enter "Ledyard." Filtering has been working wonders into getting more "responses" No definite finalizations yet, but, a higher response rate.

Can you explain more about how your doing your travel. Solo, Uber. Then you got to think about a hotel out there as well? What was your total outlay: $800 (for the full day, or were your relegated to hours at a time? + Gas + hotel?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6142989]Covered or bare?[/QUOTE]I can only meet during the day!

Is it worth messaging woman that have Platonic or Mentor? I mean, what man in his right min is going to give money to a woman to be his friend.

I've seen a few hot ones that have both.