Wanting Low Cost Providers
So the last few months have been disappointing. When I do browse around, I am getting responses like $120 or $100 for a QV. Am I wrong, but even as recent as last year the price point was a standard $60 ($50-75). Are you all seeing this too? Are you all out there paying closer to $100? The quality of providers has not changed, in fact it has gone down. Thanks.
Reports on her if you look
[QUOTE=Curiousginger;4671974]Came across this ad. Texted her, quick response. Very reasonable donation schedule. Just wondering if someone had any info on her? Thanks.
[URL]http://moline.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/if-you-give-me-ill-make-you-fe/451790541211[/URL][/QUOTE]Theres reports on here I think she's mentally retarded or something no joke. Her apartment is shitty messy dirty pizza boxes dirty dishes everywhere and theres always a walk of shame in front of her what seems like 12 roommates she'll try to get you to take your clothes off in the rooms that have no doors with people walking about just retarded.
Don't. Just don't is all I can say. Irish queen in Moline
So after deciding not to go see the "dumb blonde in Moline" after seeing some posts and having some members look out for me by DM'ing me, I decided I would try the Irish Queen in Moline. Mostly because she was at the QC Stay Inn and I work literally two minutes from there.
Communication was good. Discussed donation schedule-60/120/150 if I remember correctly. Which I hadn't seen a qv price that reasonable, so I decided to see what happens. First off, I only had half of what she was asking in cash on me. She said there was an ATM at the motel and I really didn't want to drive out of my way since she was so close. I get there and text her, she texts me the room number. I am supremely hesitant because of the advice of many members on here and make sure to survey my surroundings. When I park close to where her room is at, I don't see any cars. Weren't any people wandering around either. So I made my way up to her room slowly, at this point it's just the "I'm married do I really want to do this" nerves. I knock on the door, she answers and she is already naked wrapped up in a comforter. She is very skinny. Like meth skinny. I am as naive and inexperienced as they come for 40 year old men when it comes to noticing the little details that should throw up red flags but I could see she was obviously into drugs. I was there though and I checked the apartment, no one in the bathroom. Another thing that made me nervous was that you literally couldn't lock her apartment door. At first I thought it was because she was too damn weak it to lock but I spent a good minute (looking wonderfully dumb I am sure LOL) trying to lock this door. Couldn't. At this point I am sure there are more experienced mongers that are screaming at their screens "Get out! Leave! But this was an experience I had to live out to learn from.
The room itself, aside from being very small and cluttered, didn't smell at all. She didn't have any kind of odor coming from her, at least from what I could tell. So we get in the bed, she asks for the money and I hand her what I have. In that moment remembering I hadn't gone to the ATM to get the rest of the donation. She balked at first, saying she needed the full amount, I asked if we could fool around a bit and I would gladly go and get her the rest (I honestly would have) and she reluctantly agreed. She starts a BBBJ and I take this time to explore what area of her body is not covered by the comforter. Like I said, she is skinny, bony skinny. Very small breasts. I am an ass man so I wanted to give that a touch and that part of her anatomy was actually quite nice. She went for about 20-25 seconds, barely enough time to even get me started and stopped. Said she needed the rest of the money. It was in this moment that I decided it was time to go. I got up, got dressed and as I was putting on my shoes I conversed as if I was going to come back (no intention to come back at this point but was curious about things), I asked her if I needed a cover. She said for extra I didn't. I asked how much and she said basically whatever extra I wanted to give her. I let myself out, got in my car and drove off. Figuring the money I gave her up front was an investment in wisdom and experience.
Bottom line I would absolutely avoid this girl. Short of having a decent derriere, she offered no other physical attributes that most men would consider attractive. If you like your woman skinny and methy, then this girl is for you.
[URL]https://quad-cities.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/truckers-yesnew-pics-natural-b/580446154239[/URL]
Quick random thought. I know a lot of these girls are where they are because of their own choices but damn I couldn't help but feel true sadness for this girl. Maybe because she was a fellow ginger and I try to look out for my fellow sun haters. She is living at a run down, sketchy motel selling herself for money for drugs. She said it was just her, that she had no one. The idea that likely somewhere out there, there is a mother and a father who might have no idea their daughter is in the situation she is and that hurts me to the core, as a father of a beautiful ginger little girl. Yes, there's a good chance they know and don't care or don't live close enough to do anything. And I know I am being incredibly naive right now but man, my heart genuinely hurts for her. You only get one life. The vast majority of us mongers leave a situation like that and get into our fully working cars and drive back to our well furnished apts or houses, maybe stop and grab a starbucks or McDonalds on the way home, walk in our homes and can lock the door behind us and feel safe. Again, super naive guy here, lived a fairly sheltered life away from a lot of life's dark alleys and run down apartment complexes. It really allows for a reality check, at least for me, that I need to appreciate the many luxuries that I have in my life. And not that I needed this to realize but make sure that as a parent, I know what's going on in my children's lives. I don't ever want my son or daughter to have to put themselves in this position, ever. Rant over. Sorry for the introspective post on this Friday. So many new experiences with this hobby for me. I really appreciate having this resource to post about my experiences and read about other's experiences. To have fellow mongers reach out to me and not only give me advice and counsel, but give me recommendations so I can partake in the hobby safely is invaluable. I am truly thankful for all of you. I don't plan on stopping anytime soon. Have a great weekend guys and be safe out there.
CG.
PSA The More You Know * haha
[QUOTE=Dancing69;4673913]Please explain what she did wrong.
The only thing wrong that I see here is you didn't bring the right amount of money.[/QUOTE]And yeah you're lucky she didn't keep the half you brought and call a thug up she's got a baby by a local crack dealer so If she wanted someone to say bust up your car or rob you it'd be pretty easy for her to find someone. As a long time enthusiast of this hobby I've very rarely not had the amount I said I have and if I don't its never as much as half less than what we agreed upon I think if she yelled for something outside that you were trying to scam her and you got roughed up you might be cursing her instead of feeling pity and sorrow LOL but you love and learn.
Forgive my misdeeds. I am still learning.
[QUOTE=Broome333;4676887]I debated commenting on this for awhile and decided I would chime in.
First, the "Irish Queen" has been around for sometime. I haven't seen her and there are good reasons why, although it is fair to point out up front I have never heard of her robbing or ripping customers off. In fact the only recommendation I heard about her was positive. When I first noticed her ads she was definitely not skinny. In fact, she was bordering on chunky, maybe a bit past that border in fact. She disappeared for a few months, perhaps a year, and then started posting again with pics that showed her considerably thinner. Personally, I consider rapid, extreme weight lose in a provider a pretty big red flag. In my experience, there are two likely reasons for it and neither say "hurry up and jump in bed with this girl" to me. In her case its most likely chemical demons of one type or another. I did some checking into her after she started posting again (when I got the positive recommendation on her} and that cemented my stay away decision. Like many STG girls she has a long police record, including some felonies, and the usual list of shady acquaintances with their own records. Her friends list on social media is like a who's who of current and former QC area providers liberally sprinkled with a selection of thuggish looking dudes that I wouldn't want to find hanging out when I showed up to see her. More concerning is the trend in her news feed of going from "on top of the world" to "I just want to die" and back like a like an unstable, poorly adjusted roller coaster. More or less she is a "new day, new drama" type person and I simply don't need to get caught up in that over a roll in the hay. So for me it was a hard no then and it seems like she has gone down hill from that point.[/QUOTE]It seems that I have broken a rule or two with my last visit and I certainly am not looking to alienate myself from this board as it has provided me with invaluable information and resources. So I must ask for understanding and patience. I am still learning how to navigate this hobby and am bound to make mistakes along the way. Hoping that when I post on here about my experiences and a more experienced monger spots an inconsistency, that information can be shared in a constructive way so that we all can enjoy this hobby. I truly do appreciate any guidance.
With that being said, to the poster asking me what the Irish Queen did wrong, she did nothing wrong. I don't think I ever said anything about her doing anything wrong. I advised staying away because of the many details that were there that added up to me wanting to ultimately leave. Between the shady motel where you couldn't lock the door to protect yourself from being interrupted by someone to her physical appearance. That may sound harsh but after reading post after post about what the vast majority of mongers look for in a provider, as well as having private conversations with mongers about their personal preferences, I was merely trying to confirm that this provider was indeed underweight and likely not worth going to see. Though if you read my entire review, I did end by saying that if you are into skinny girls that looked like they were living their best "breaking bad" life, then go for it. Me leaving had absolutely nothing to do with money. The fact that I needed to go get the rest of the money gave me the opportunity to leave a situation that I felt completely uncomfortable in. I don't regret it at all. Especially after reading some of the follow up posts that talked about her having some seriously shady connections.
In regards to the whole money situation. I can assure you, my plan was not to try and go in and short change her. I have read many posts where mongers negotiate the price of the visit, even mid visit. To be completely honest, I forgot to hit the ATM because I was incredibly nervous going to see this provider, especially given where I was at. I didn't realize it until she asked for the money and I gave her what I had. I then asked her if she would be willing to engage in a single activity and then after that I would get her the rest of the money. She agreed. She then spent all of 20 secs or so doing this and then stopped and said she needed the money. I had no issue with this. But it was at this point that I decided it was best that I leave. Could I have handled it better, I would say yes but she didn't leave the situation empty handed. For those who were concerned with her eating, she was given plenty of money to get something to eat but given her appearance and likely habit, I don't think said money was going to go for food. Has no one here ever gone somewhere for a service, been unhappy with any details of the situation, and wanted to leave without wasting their money? But again, the reason I left had nothing to do with the fact that she wanted the rest of the money. It had to do with the environment and her appearance. Nothing more, nothing less. Her prices are very reasonable and if a monger is into that then have at it. It just wasn't for me.
Bottom line, if some of you felt I was out of line for leaving and only paying half of what the asking price was, I understand. You have every right to voice your opinions and I certainly appreciate you trying to help me out with that. I will certainly take what I have seen into consideration for future experiences. I want to continue to enjoy this hobby as much as I can and I know that the only way that will happen is if I am able to take advantage of this board and it's members. I appreciate any and all advice that is given. Stay safe and monger on.
CG.