Good instincts or paranoid?
So I had a really weird dream the other night. In my dream I was going to see the Penny that has been reviewed on here. So I texted her, basically saying hey wanted to see what specials you had going on and if you were available tonight. The first red flag that I got was that she gave me times but never asked how long, nor gave me her donations. The second red flag is that she was available to meet 15min after my first text. So, at this point in my dream, I was getting ready to wake up and forget the whole situation but I thought,"oh what the hell, I'll meet you at XXpm. Now, based on the reviews I had read about other people's dreams, rates are very reasonable and she can usually be found in run down motels. In my dream however, she tells me to meet her at one of the nicest hotels in greater cincy. At this point in my dream, I am like f*ck this there is no way she is staying at a hotel that charges $15 a day for parking. What bothered me about the whole dream is that she has reviews and I texted the same number used in her reviews.
My questions are: 1) did I do the right thing by not meeting, or am I just a paranoid weirdo? 2) Any advise for future reference is greatly appreciated (as at this point I am a little bit of a mess and ready to give up on non long-time trusted sources).
Bad Bug: Gonorrhea strain resists all antibiotics
On MSNBC today:
"For several years, public health officials have been concerned that gonorrhea, one of the most prevalent STDs in the world, might become resistant to the last widely available antibiotics used to treat it, a class of drugs called cephalosporins. Now, it has."
Here's the link to the online text article:
[url]http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/43689581/ns/health-sexual_health/[/url]
It's not in the USA. Yet.
Experience with secure tabs
After reading several positive reviews on this site concerning the legitimacy of the my secure tabs website I went ahead and ordered a small quantity of vitamins see & v with a pre-paid visa. I am not yet over 60 my ins will not cover these medications. As most of you well know they are quite expensive without ins picking up part of the tab. I was able to get the cipla generics shipped at roughly $2 a pill and gave them a test run last night. No discernible difference from the name brand. Just wanted to share my positive experience with this company as I know there are plenty of bs sites out there that are more than willing to steal your identity and / or ship you bogus vitamins.
Cheers!
Making the Community better
I'd like some feedback from senior members & any provider that may be looking at this.
I used to frequent the AMP's, mainly because they were the safest and the routine was the same.
Over the years I've had a couple dependable providers, but for the most part providers come and go for their own assortment of reasons.
I think this website is a great resource, especially for known providers. But lets be honest, their are few dependable providers out there.
Their may be more, but there is a valid reservation in taking one for the team. Meeting a new and unknown person for the first time is very nerve wrecking.
Especially for people with more to lose, by making the wrong decision.
The major issue (in my opinion) , is the providers suffer because new hobbiest's are afraid to make the call to the unknown.
BUT, what if there was a way to verify who you were going to meet, and not just in coded phrases.
If you lurk on BP, CL, or any of your other favorite url's you will see a lot that you would like to try out. But they usually look TGTBT, they claim to be "independent" but are really.
A part of a "bait and switch" scheme, or they are LE.
My idea is a free community, where only verified providers can post, and hobbiest's can windowshop with ease and w / o worry or risk.
Providers pictures will have a watermark to indicate that the girl in the picture is the same one you will meet.
There will be no garauntee of your experience, only the garauntee that the person you set up the meeting with, is indeed the person you will meet.
Providing that sort of "peace of mind" would encourage more activity from all parties involved.
While I understand there are a few "senior members" with a list of reliable people to call, those members are in the minority, not the majority.
How great would it be to simply be able to go to a site, select your companion, and be on your way. Everyone prospers in this scenario!
I would like a few senior members & providers to contact me for more details & to let me know their thoughts or improvements on the information I've provided already.
I'm not looking to step on any toes, or get in anybody's way. But I know I would be much more involved in the hobby, if I knew exactly who was going to knock on my door everytime.
I look forward to your thoughts, ideas, and comments!
Dang, hate to hear that about Penny
I've seen Penny a couple of times as a second or third choice before as I like to stay in the Florence area. No doubt she's not top shelf, but I always got pretty decent service out of her. After this, I'll be staying away for a little while now.
Thanks for all of the input.
[QUOTE=Jay Malibu; 1239551]I agree with Getati. If a lady starts talking about rates and services, that's a big red flag. Do you homework. You'll find what you need to know. If new then plan on TOFTT since even if they would tell you, you'll likely find it different when the rubber meets the road. They may say GFE and most hobbyist will agree on what that is. Most new ladies have a different opinion if not experienced or not shown the ropes from another provider. I'll go back to quietly following the posts.
JM[/QUOTE]Discussing services is a BIG NO in my books (and red flag) , but how are you supposed to prepare a donation if you don't know what it is? I would rather know what it is and have it ready so I can sit it down at the beginning. In my opinion, it would be much riskier to show up without a donation ready. With all of the quality providers I have seen, this is never an issue. It seems that this is more of an issue with Backpage- which continues to be discouraging. This is the first time I have tried to schedule a meeting, in which, I was not given a quote for donations.
I still need to work on the format of my calls / texts, but up until now it hasn't been much of an issue.
Ahh, the adventures and learning experiences!
11 arrested in Hamilton prostitution sting
Today in the afternoon WCPO news feed. Pretty skanky looking at that! :
HAMILTON, Ohio. After receiving numerous complaints by Hamilton residents in reference to prostitution, the Butler County Sheriff's Office executed an undercover operation which resulted in the arrests of 11 people.
The sheriff's office orchestrated the operation in the early morning hours of Wednesday. Females who made offers for sexual activity to undercover agents were immediately taken into custody and transported to the Butler County Jail.
A total of eight women were arrested. Undercover female investigators were then placed on the street and within a few hours, three men were arrested for attempting to get the women to engage in sex acts.
The following people are charged with soliciting:
Tiffany Castle. 23, of Hamilton.
Peggy Whitaker. 43, of Hamilton.
Amy Webster. 22, of Hamilton.
Ashley Wheeler. 21, of Fairfield.
Anna Campbell. 29, of Hamilton
Connie Proffit. 48, of Hamilton.
Victoria Dickens. 20, of Hamilton.
Christina Riley. 35, Hamilton.
Clifton Turner. 68, of Hamilton.
Zachary Parsons. 23, of Hamilton
Adam Simon. 32, of Hamilton.
Sheriff Richard Jones said residents expressed their concern for the safety of their streets as well as the safety of children playing in the area.
General. Report. When. Just. Out. Somewhere.
I was out at a buffet restaurant, last week, and I was there with a few buddies, and what you see when you are just out is awesome.
There are some Fine, Sexy, Women out there. Some of them are just as Flirty about things as you are, and others are too defensive and uptight to be in public.
There was a young girl there that had the most Awesomely shaped body I have ever seen. She had rounded wide hips, a serious basketball full moon ass, and a waist, so small, it looked like she had a few ribs removed. Plus she was Pretty, had her own REAL long hair, and looked to be Bi-Racial, or maybe Foreign. She was eating by herself, and we were about to leave the restaurant, so we didn't have a chance to approach her, and we had at one point thought she was with someone, or at least waiting for someone. Basically she was Fine, and most impressive. I now look back and wish I had said something, even if it didn't work. I am certain she gets approached everyday by someone male or female. The only problem, by the skin tight jeans she was wearing, you could see she had kinda skinny legs and I am more a Big Legs Guy. Still, for her I would be willing to change.
One more I was at another Buffet, and this time I was by myself, and met a lady there eating with her Daughter and Mother. I first noticed her because again she was my type, with wide shapely hips, great round butt, really nice big breast, and a small waist. She did have Big Legs, and wearing heels. She was almost eye-to-eye with me and I am tall.
We managed to do a quick "I Like Look" once over, and exchanged names. We also exchanged numbers, but unfortunately she was in Cincy visiting her mom and she lives just east of Indy. I am not much of a Distant Lover, but we stay in close contact. She told me she use to be a Stripper in her younger days, she is 35y / o now, and her daughter is about 8, and a very well mannered nice kid too.
She could easily be an Escort, with a High Dollar Valve, but she is into being independent, and making her own way. I like that. And for the people who want to know "YES I HAVE" now I leave it at that.
Everytime I go to the Mall, and sometimes to the Grocery store, I see some Fine ass women out there, and they are hungry for a man, even just to have SEX with. Often you have to Talk your way through her defenses, and many times they are not looking to get married, or have a boyfriend as we think they would.
Many time most of my success comes from young girls and I am talking about girls at the age of 21-29. They are horny and bold, and have no problem asking for money for SEX. More than not they have Jobs, their own place, and have been doing this with younger or older men for years. They seem to be smart, intelligent, and looking to get whatever on their own. It is a 50/50 mix of those having kids or not, but it is always about Money, and treating them with Respect, and in the moment like they are your girlfriend for that time.
I didn't mean to take this forum to something else, but you have to know that there is a lot of Opportunity everywhere, and it often will find you. As I have told people for years, get your conversation together, and learn to hold one without being boring, weird, or disrespectful. And try not to take a freebie without her knowing you are willing to pay her for it, just to keep the boundaries clear.