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Apologies, my response was to Woody50. Nothing against you Eggpoacher88 but I'm not really a very political person. I can't really say which side is using which methods to achieve whatever ends. I don't see things in binary, as in left or right. What's clear is the effect that social movements have on policies and laws, and then the effect that these new laws have on the psychology of the people. No offense, but I think if I ever joined in a "March to be a man", that's the moment I would cease to be a man. One woman standing up for her right to not be harassed is not a political issue its a moral one. When 10 other women cook up stories to get a settlement, that's called lying and extortion. But lying and extortion are also not political issues, they are moral ones. Plenty of people lie. Its only when people on either side of the political spectrum say things like "only leftists lie" or "only people on the right extort" that these moral issues become political ones.

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No, only on fight threads, yes you were correct, but you forget who wrote, passed and signed Fosta/Sesta both sides of the aisle are responsible for the anti prostitution laws in the US.

Keep that red/blue nonsense on the fight threads.

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Not to be Captain Obvious this message is mostly for the newer guys coming on board here as well as some of the old guard who think their invincible.

Do not give any info to a working girl. None.

Do not use your phone or e-mail account, face book, insta-whatever. None.

Have either a burner phone or an app not connected with you at all!

You may have banged 50 women this year and have had no issue -BUT- It only takes one bad "one" to ruin your life.

At least 50% of the ads are scams. Of the scam ads some are men / women trolling solely for info just to be able to black male you. They will out you to your wife, family or work place without regard to destruction caused. They are after money and care not one whit how it is acquired.

Have you noticed all the new ads on STG, with new decent looking girls. The ads are getting smarter more sophisticated. They are listing Connecticut as a location and upgrading their approach. Be smart not cheap. Be wary of bad neighborhoods and houses. Even hotels. No lock on the door or a gf in the bathroom do not stay! Look in the bathroom, yes be nosy open the door. Trust your instincts, not your hard dick.

Trust, genteelness, caring and understanding are gone from the hobby. We are not dealing with $1000 an hour call girls here. We are dealing with the low end of the female spectrum. Now for full disclosure not all women are bad or scammers. Unfortunately enough are that you should not trust any of them!

You have been warned. Live Laugh Love just do it safely!

Poo.

[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5319035]If you are seeing only escorts that want money up front, you are obviously seeing the wrong escorts. You are, in effect, a self-fulfilling prophecy. Stop seeing them. I have seen a number escorts over the years but have always refused to pay anything upfront. I have been very picky and very careful in my choices. The forums have been very helpful with that. You very well might be right that currently, most of the providers out there are attempting to con or scamming a lot. Bottom line is, especially with all the cons and scammers, I have learned to only think with my big head. This is why I am concentrating on SA at the moment (the lack of decent SWs in Waterbury is also a factor). It sucks that the game has changed so much and makes things so hard.

Be careful out there.

Blue.[/QUOTE]Interesting topic from which I actually make my selection. First off I only got scammed by the ones who asked for the money up front. The stash is gone from the table in less than 60 secs with out you even noticing it. Big warning flag! I never volunteer money upfront anymore. That being out of the way, lets pick appart the scenarios.

If it is a first time, I can understand the lady wanting to see the good before starting. So the good are left on the dresser UNTOUCHED or showing you have it, only upon her request and a discussion about leaving it there, is the only reasonable way to deal with that. After a first contact I only get regular with the one who don't ask. They know I am straight with that and they have a 6th sense about it. It also create a more casual date.

Many never ask on the first date. One told me she can figure who will be an issue or not just thru the initial texting. The best dates is when the deal was made on text and then the donation not spoken of again during the date. I do that thing at the end. Most don't even count. That is a build of trust I am looking for being someone frequent flyer.

It came to a point where I sometimes left it first because I happened to forget about it at the end. Most deals are $ or $$ for H. I never go over. That is what an MD dental specialist charges as average per hour for a root canal.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5319897]Not to be Captain Obvious this message is mostly for the newer guys coming on board here as well as some of the old guard who think their invincible.

Do not give any info to a working girl. None.

Do not use your phone or e-mail account, face book, insta-whatever. None.

Have either a burner phone or an app not connected with you at all!

You may have banged 50 women this year and have had no issue -BUT- It only takes one bad "one" to ruin your life.

At least 50% of the ads are scams. Of the scam ads some are men / women trolling solely for info just to be able to black male you. They will out you to your wife, family or work place without regard to destruction caused. They are after money and care not one whit how it is acquired.

Have you noticed all the new ads on STG, with new decent looking girls. The ads are getting smarter more sophisticated. They are listing Connecticut as a location and upgrading their approach. Be smart not cheap. Be wary of bad neighborhoods and houses. Even hotels. No lock on the door or a gf in the bathroom do not stay! Look in the bathroom, yes be nosy open the door. Trust your instincts, not your hard dick.

Trust, genteelness, caring and understanding are gone from the hobby. We are not dealing with $1000 an hour call girls here. We are dealing with the low end of the female spectrum. Now for full disclosure not all women are bad or scammers. Unfortunately enough are that you should not trust any of them!

You have been warned. Live Laugh Love just do it safely!

Poo.[/QUOTE]It may be obvious to most long time seniors, but it's good to post things like this from time to time as a reminder. As usual Poo, you are spot on.

Be careful out there, gentlemen.

Blue.

[QUOTE=SergeG;5320014]Interesting topic from which I actually make my selection. First off I only got scammed by the ones who asked for the money up front. The stash is gone from the table in less than 60 secs with out you even noticing it. Big warning flag! I never volunteer money upfront anymore. That being out of the way, lets pick appart the scenarios.

If it is a first time, I can understand the lady wanting to see the good before starting. So the good are left on the dresser UNTOUCHED or showing you have it, only upon her request and a discussion about leaving it there, is the only reasonable way to deal with that. After a first contact I only get regular with the one who don't ask. They know I am straight with that and they have a 6th sense about it. It also create a more casual date.

Many never ask on the first date. One told me she can figure who will be an issue or not just thru the initial texting. The best dates is when the deal was made on text and then the donation not spoken of again during the date. I do that thing at the end. Most don't even count. That is a build of trust I am looking for being someone frequent flyer.

It came to a point where I sometimes left it first because I happened to forget about it at the end. Most deals are $ or $$ for H. I never go over. That is what an MD dental specialist charges as average per hour for a root canal.[/QUOTE]As BMD points out to keep in mind, that most of STG scammers are looking for a cash app prepay and that should never be done! Many of my experiences have been lie yours, Serge. Money on the dresser AFTER YOU BOTH ARE NAKED is a matter of how comfortable a read I get from the provider. Sometimes, I walk because some things just feel off. There have been times when the lady has been a sweetheart and I get good vibes, and I will do it because she says she would feel better the first time, so I do. I have never had one of those mention the money on subsequent visits. I have never been burnt, but maybe I'm lucky. I am super careful, and super picky. I rely a lot on reviews here.

Blue.

[URL]https://nypost.com/2021/04/28/durex-condom-sales-are-surging-as-covid-19-restrictions-ease/[/URL]

[QUOTE=PutNamAnthony;5325449][URL]https://nypost.com/2021/04/28/durex-condom-sales-are-surging-as-covid-19-restrictions-ease/[/URL][/QUOTE]Yet another COVID-related shortage coming? Pun intended.

The standard pink AMP rubber is way too tight and ruins it for me and I have to keep my own hidden in the car. Another hobby discovery risk.

If we could just get the AMPs to stock rubbers that actually fit and did not choke the chicken too much.

[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5320405]As BMD points out to keep in mind, that most of STG scammers are looking for a cash app prepay and that should never be done! Many of my experiences have been lie yours, Serge. Money on the dresser AFTER YOU BOTH ARE NAKED is a matter of how comfortable a read I get from the provider. Sometimes, I walk because some things just feel off. There have been times when the lady has been a sweetheart and I get good vibes, and I will do it because she says she would feel better the first time, so I do. I have never had one of those mention the money on subsequent visits. I have never been burnt, but maybe I'm lucky. I am super careful, and super picky. I rely a lot on reviews here.

Blue.[/QUOTE]We are in the same boat procedurally.

I never get into a position where I'm butt naked first and in bed waiting for her to lose her clothes or come out of the bathroom. You can also show the funds then afterwards drop it where she wants it.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5327391]We are in the same boat procedurally.

I never get into a position where I'm butt naked first and in bed waiting for her to lose her clothes or come out of the bathroom. You can also show the funds then afterwards drop it where she wants it.[/QUOTE]Yes, that works. She doesn't get the money while she is able to walk out the door with it.

Blue.

This game would be so much better if escorts did not try to raise their prices to infinity and if consumers did not try to low ball escorts to zero. If only we lived in a world where females just charged classic Backpage prices and men did not try to low ball them for service. Can that kind ecosystem exist in Connecticut? What is your opinion?

I totally agree with not making any donations up front.

This takes up front mental prep so you can ignore your little head in the moment, be prepared to walk.

A few more.

Don't go to someone's house unless you really know your safe, read a recent post in another area, the classic boyfriend scam arrives but this time with a snarling pit bull on a chain, yikes.

Hidden cameras or a laptop left open. Possibly reduce the lighting.

Besides the bathroom, check the closet too, check the shared door to another room.

Open windows on the first floor.

Use the security latch on the door.

Don't accept anything to eat or drink, the black widow scam is too common a threat in South America and it happens up here too.

Be safe out there!

If I lived in san diego I would be going to mexico every single day till my dick falls off.

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[URL]https://www.newstimes.com/dearabby/article/Dear-Abby-Wife-discovers-man-s-secret-interest-16165882.php[/URL] very good read. Wonder if the website the wife found was this one.

[QUOTE=EggPoacher88;5328140]This game would be so much better if escorts did not try to raise their prices to infinity and if consumers did not try to low ball escorts to zero. If only we lived in a world where females just charged classic Backpage prices and men did not try to low ball them for service. Can that kind ecosystem exist in Connecticut? What is your opinion?[/QUOTE]I've yet to get an escort, but it's all supply and demand. Yes, a lot of us try lowballing, but they can easily say no to them. Low-ballers are not an excuse to raise prices. I believe that with the take off of * and webcam shows, Escorting becomes something of a "premium" service. They don't need to provide physical service to make money anymore. They don't need to go from house to house anymore. All they need is a social media page and a device with a camera. I believe that many other users will agree with me when I say that collectively, we enable them to hiking the prices. I still haven't decided fully on who will take my V. It's looking like Gypsy (J) because of her price, and vibe. I've been seeing Qvs for 80,100, 120, and fuck that. There's some hippie BJ only for 80. The prices aren't going to go down. All we can do is hold that dollar, and let them know we ain't having it.

[QUOTE=DaReal86;5357795][URL]https://www.newstimes.com/dearabby/article/Dear-Abby-Wife-discovers-man-s-secret-interest-16165882.php[/URL] very good read. Wonder if the website the wife found was this one.[/QUOTE]Bad news for him! He was very stupid. Does the the in your username stand for Dear Abby?

Blue.

[QUOTE=RysePhoenix;5357873]I've yet to get an escort, but it's all supply and demand. Yes, a lot of us try lowballing, but they can easily say no to them. Low-ballers are not an excuse to raise prices. I believe that with the take off of * and webcam shows, Escorting becomes something of a "premium" service. They don't need to provide physical service to make money anymore. They don't need to go from house to house anymore. All they need is a social media page and a device with a camera. I believe that many other users will agree with me when I say that collectively, we enable them to hiking the prices. I still haven't decided fully on who will take my V. It's looking like Gypsy (J) because of her price, and vibe. I've been seeing Qvs for 80,100, 120, and fuck that. There's some hippie BJ only for 80. The prices aren't going to go down. All we can do is hold that dollar, and let them know we ain't having it.[/QUOTE]A BBBJ can be had for 60-80, or 20-40 on the street. Failing that, there's plenty of *free* porn on the net. Money is not everything but it can get you nice and nicer things.

BMD.

At the typical AMP with a standard finish I know to tip $40 which works just fine. I recently had an experience where the lady was kind enough to finish with a BBBJCIMWS with no discussions about how I would take care of her. There was a fine table shower involved with plenty of attention to getting everything clean and an hour massage that was average, at best. I was left to guess at the appropriate tip. The lady took the cash without looking at the amount and I was on my way without any feedback.

Any guidance? I'm guessing there aren't a lot of folks with experience in this area because I'm guessing this is a bit uncommon. Although it isn't where I went, I get the feeling BFS would have been provided should I have indicated that was what I wanted. . .

[QUOTE=OldeSalt;5374195]At the typical AMP with a standard finish I know to tip $40 which works just fine. I recently had an experience where the lady was kind enough to finish with a BBBJCIMWS with no discussions about how I would take care of her. There was a fine table shower involved with plenty of attention to getting everything clean and an hour massage that was average, at best. I was left to guess at the appropriate tip. The lady took the cash without looking at the amount and I was on my way without any feedback.

Any guidance? I'm guessing there aren't a lot of folks with experience in this area because I'm guessing this is a bit uncommon. Although it isn't where I went, I get the feeling BFS would have been provided should I have indicated that was what I wanted. . .[/QUOTE]If she was in the top 10% or top 20%, and you want to see her again with bfs service, I'd have tipped her the extra 20 bucks. The point is showing appreciation since not everyone finishes her way. I don't know if there's any set guideline but I'd want her to remember me and my planned return to see her, if that's your plan.

[QUOTE=OldeSalt;5374195]At the typical AMP with a standard finish I know to tip $40 which works just fine. I recently had an experience where the lady was kind enough to finish with a BBBJCIMWS with no discussions about how I would take care of her. There was a fine table shower involved with plenty of attention to getting everything clean and an hour massage that was average, at best. I was left to guess at the appropriate tip. The lady took the cash without looking at the amount and I was on my way without any feedback.

Any guidance? I'm guessing there aren't a lot of folks with experience in this area because I'm guessing this is a bit uncommon. Although it isn't where I went, I get the feeling BFS would have been provided should I have indicated that was what I wanted. . .[/QUOTE]Would you like to share the name of the MP? You can PM if you'd like. I'm curious.

[QUOTE=CarlWhite;5374757]Would you like to share the name of the MP? You can PM if you'd like. I'm curious.[/QUOTE]Yes please, send the name of the a MP. I will let you know what kind of a tip I gave.

[QUOTE=PeckerPete13;5376472]Yes please, send the name of the a MP. I will let you know what kind of a tip I gave.[/QUOTE]How generous.

[QUOTE=OldeSalt;5374195]At the typical AMP with a standard finish I know to tip $40 which works just fine. I recently had an experience where the lady was kind enough to finish with a BBBJCIMWS with no discussions about how I would take care of her. There was a fine table shower involved with plenty of attention to getting everything clean and an hour massage that was average, at best. I was left to guess at the appropriate tip. The lady took the cash without looking at the amount and I was on my way without any feedback.

Any guidance? I'm guessing there aren't a lot of folks with experience in this area because I'm guessing this is a bit uncommon. Although it isn't where I went, I get the feeling BFS would have been provided should I have indicated that was what I wanted. . .[/QUOTE]Care to send a pm of this location? Thanks.

Gentlemen Hobbist my Degenerate Brothers.

Who shall I session with this weekend?

Criteria: Non Junkie (narrows the field) Good to Great head game. Cim of course.

Cute doesn't have to be model if her skills are good. Meat on the bone. Fine. Spinners also work. Greek would be nice .GFE of course.

Somewhat budget friendly no more the a duce for the hour. Also been wanting Chocolate for a while if that helps.

Please send your thoughts and links to this post.

The raffle will be held Saturday with Polls closing Friday lunch.

I know I'm in good hands with you sick fucks.

Thanks Seekist.

I heard this evening someone was shot and killed at the "inn", the place in Shelton. I believe a young male.

Bridgeport resident Ivan Whyte, 23, was found fatally wounded in the parking lot of the Marriott Residence Inn at 1001 Bridgeport Ave. In Shelton, Conn. , around 11:30 pm Saturday, June 12,2021. Shelton Police / Contributed.

[URL]https://www.ctpost.com/news/article/Police-Bridgeport-man-fatally-shot-at-Shelton-16246733.php?src=rdctpdensecp[/URL]

SHELTON — Detectives believe the Bridgeport man found dead in the parking lot of a local hotel had showed up to meet some acquaintances who were having a "get together" in one of the rooms, according to police.

Lt. Robert Kozlowsky said the investigation is active, with information all being preliminary and subject to change as new details come to light.

Police and medics responded for a report of a man shot in the area and found Whyte outside near the back of the complex next to a vehicle, which police believe Whyte had been driving. He was pronounced dead at the scene.

The Connecticut State Police Major Crime Squad responded to process the scene.

"Officers and detectives located several individuals that were in a room at the hotel having a get together," Kozlowsky said. "None of the individuals were Shelton residents. The individuals were acquaintances of Whyte and it is believed that Whyte came to the hotel to meet them. ".

Detectives have completed several search warrants for the investigation, Kozlowsky said, adding that "several items of evidentiary value" were seized.

[QUOTE=SROnly;5398194]Bridgeport resident Ivan Whyte, 23, was found fatally wounded in the parking lot of the Marriott Residence Inn at 1001 Bridgeport Ave. In Shelton, Conn. , around 11:30 pm Saturday, June 12,2021. Shelton Police / Contributed.

[URL]https://www.ctpost.com/news/article/Police-Bridgeport-man-fatally-shot-at-Shelton-16246733.php?src=rdctpdensecp[/URL]

SHELTON Detectives believe the Bridgeport man found dead in the parking lot of a local hotel had showed up to meet some acquaintances who were having a "get together" in one of the rooms, according to police.

Lt. Robert Kozlowsky said the investigation is active, with information all being preliminary and subject to change as new details come to light.

Police and medics responded for a report of a man shot in the area and found Whyte outside near the back of the complex next to a vehicle, which police believe Whyte had been driving. He was pronounced dead at the scene.

The Connecticut State Police Major Crime Squad responded to process the scene.

"Officers and detectives located several individuals that were in a room at the hotel having a get together," Kozlowsky said. "None of the individuals were Shelton residents. The individuals were acquaintances of Whyte and it is believed that Whyte came to the hotel to meet them. ".

Detectives have completed several search warrants for the investigation, Kozlowsky said, adding that "several items of evidentiary value" were seized.[/QUOTE]Shame because this hotel was a great spot imo. I know Deb was using it for awhile. I've seen 3-4 providers there and it was always safe in / out. I hope this bullshit doesn't ruin it.

Happy Fathers Day to all your Dads..

Hello Hobbyists.

New to the forums and my very first post. This question is directed to experienced and new hobbyists like myself. When searching for hostesses (providers) on different directories, which service gives you the most confidence and safety? Do you prefer going to am P's or Hotels? I've had multiple experiences over the years. With am P. 'S, I am disgusted with the bait and switch with the photos they use in their advertisements and not providing services they claim they offer. With providers who stay at hotels, I'm always worried about sting operations by local enforcement or be confronted by a pimp or thug trying to rob me of my money.

Thanks for your input.

P.S. I'm worried about sting operations at am P. 's too. Especially when I read or hear on the t. V. How the government and authorities are cracking down. Even more after the shooting that took place in Atlanta and the media coverage it received.

[QUOTE=JackRabbit27;5417951]Hello Hobbyists.

New to the forums and my very first post. This question is directed to experienced and new hobbyists like myself. When searching for hostesses (providers) on different directories, which service gives you the most confidence and safety? Do you prefer going to am P's or Hotels? I've had multiple experiences over the years. With am P. 'S, I am disgusted with the bait and switch with the photos they use in their advertisements and not providing services they claim they offer. With providers who stay at hotels, I'm always worried about sting operations by local enforcement or be confronted by a pimp or thug trying to rob me of my money.

Thanks for your input.

P.S. I'm worried about sting operations at am P. 's too. Especially when I read or hear on the t. V. How the government and authorities are cracking down. Even more after the shooting that took place in Atlanta and the media coverage it received.[/QUOTE]Unless dealing with a very well-established provider, I think going to parlors in much safer. While the chance of a sting is not zero, the odds of you actually being in a place that is open 12 or more hours a day, six or seven days a week, when I bust goes down, are extremely small. Going to a hotel, you run the risk of being ripped off as well as being targeted by LE.

A.

I woke up to this message on my texting app this morning! Some old scam but with a slightly different twist.

Anyone know of a review site where the ladies review us?

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5423795]I woke up to this message on my texting app this morning! Some old scam but with a slightly different twist.[/QUOTE]Poo,

You better be careful. Sounds like they know where you are! Amazing!

Blue.

I can almost see you tremble with fear. Or is that laughter causing the shake? I love fucking with those clowns.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5423795]I woke up to this message on my texting app this morning! Some old scam but with a slightly different twist.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5423795]I woke up to this message on my texting app this morning! Some old scam but with a slightly different twist.[/QUOTE]I could count the crimes that joker has committed but my reply would have been three words:

"Come get me!”

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5423795]I woke up to this message on my texting app this morning! Some old scam but with a slightly different twist.[/QUOTE]Tell them you are a Hell's Angel member, that he picked the wrong iron horse and they better start paying you a disrespect fee. LOL.

So. That's the name and is that the number we can all call to harass.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5423795]I woke up to this message on my texting app this morning! Some old scam but with a slightly different twist.[/QUOTE]

With a lot of these recent fellow monger provider reviews about the scams, high donations, lackluster service, bait and switch, etc, I have an idea.

I've already been doing my part to put a disruption in their itinerary by using spoof numbers to call and set up appointments. I'll call, discuss services, and set up a time to meet. When they say okay hun, I'll text you the address, I just say tell it to me now and I'll GPS it. Then I'll call back towards the setup time and let them know I'm just about there, even though I'm still sitting at home. A third call to say hey bababe I'm here, to get room number. Great babe, I'll be right there. Hang up and go on with my day. Fuck them! Sometimes I'll use another lowlife provider's number to call another, so that way when one starts communicating with another, it really must drive them crazy. Too bad it's come to this, but stg has lost the skip, because it's mostly games on their part.

I think if more mongers did this, maybe even a concerted effort, these douche bags would get what they deserve, and that's nothing. Just wasted time. Let the fun begin.

[QUOTE=DirkyDiggy;5452121]With a lot of these recent fellow monger provider reviews about the scams, high donations, lackluster service, bait and switch, etc, I have an idea.

I've already been doing my part to put a disruption in their itinerary by using spoof numbers to call and set up appointments. I'll call, discuss services, and set up a time to meet. When they say okay hun, I'll text you the address, I just say tell it to me now and I'll GPS it. Then I'll call back towards the setup time and let them know I'm just about there, even though I'm still sitting at home. A third call to say hey bababe I'm here, to get room number. Great babe, I'll be right there. Hang up and go on with my day. Fuck them! Sometimes I'll use another lowlife provider's number to call another, so that way when one starts communicating with another, it really must drive them crazy. Too bad it's come to this, but stg has lost the skip, because it's mostly games on their part.

I think if more mongers did this, maybe even a concerted effort, these douche bags would get what they deserve, and that's nothing. Just wasted time. Let the fun begin.[/QUOTE]Definitely good and easy way to fuck with them and get them pissed off.

[QUOTE=Ayce8;5452330]Definitely good and easy way to fuck with them and get them pissed off.[/QUOTE]Once you're done screwing with them, the final text send should explain why. Otherwise, they won't get the reason why. They could think it's just 5 or 10 bad clients and not make the connection that it's their own fault for pissing us off.