USA Adult Classifieds: Advertiser Reviews

[QUOTE=VManOrl01;2640149]Dude, did you ever stop to think maybe she just doesn't want to see you. You must have done something to make her feel uncomfortable or I'm sure she wouldn't be doing this. I have been seeing Avalon for quite some time now and I know she is extremely careful about who she sees. These providers do have the right to refuse anybody that they don't feel comfortable with. When I first started in this little hobby I got refused several times because I didn't have the proper references but I do now and haven't had a problem since.[/QUOTE]Dude, she's asking for personal identifying information. I don't care if she can suck a gold brick out of my dick like a magician, she AINT getting shit!

Get the fuck out of here with letting some of these women think they're that important. It's a HOBBY.

[QUOTE=BobShh;2640730]She's also telling me provider refs are no good.[/QUOTE]BS,

It has been my experience that sometimes the ladies tells you something like this instead of the truth, that she doesn't want to see you because she just doesn't like something about you. Maybe it is something you said that reminds her of the high school football player that broke her heart or she senses some swagger that she just hates.

No means no, regardless of the stated or actual reason.

I guess you could write back and ask her who she would accept as a reference (and then go date that lady for the said purpose), but why would you want to? But, it's your call.

Just one man's opinion.

Now, for the other issue, I would NEVER send a pic of me, or my real phone number, address, place of work or anything else. There is no lady worth that breach of confidentiality. If my creds, reviews and verification on this and the couple of other sites I am on don't do it for me then it ain't gonna get done. Gruglok is right, it is JUST a hobby.

You can take that to the bank.

C3.

[QUOTE=Camera3;2640988]BS,

It has been my experience that sometimes the ladies tells you something like this instead of the truth, that she doesn't want to see you because she just doesn't like something about you. Maybe it is something you said that reminds her of the high school football player that broke her heart or she senses some swagger that she just hates.

No means no, regardless of the stated or actual reason.

I guess you could write back and ask her who she would accept as a reference (and then go date that lady for the said purpose), but why would you want to? But, it's your call.

Just one man's opinion.

Now, for the other issue, I would NEVER send a pic of me, or my real phone number, address, place of work or anything else. There is no lady worth that breach of confidentiality. If my creds, reviews and verification on this and the couple of other sites I am on don't do it for me then it ain't gonna get done. Gruglok is right, it is JUST a hobby.

You can take that to the bank.

C3.[/QUOTE]I am not sure this is Avalons normal protocol but no provider gets my work email. In the hands of the wrong provider can spell potential disaster.

I know and read about many hobbyists having problems getting verified with certain providers which left me shaking my head. Why? Because I found it was very easy with these specific providers. I am not going to speculate all the reasons why, but I am sure the way we post on here has influence. In other cases, I have encountered more than a few providers (that are known to have a strict verification process) message me on here asking why I have not seen them? In this case it doesn't mean I still won't have to go though verification. Though it implied to me that this person has already vetted me or felt comfortable enough to believe I was nothing more than a regular hobbyist.

So I believe YMMV doesn't just mean how much you will be charged or level of service you will receive but also the verification process. Jmho.

I want to revisit this and be clear that I don't have anything ill to say about Avalon because I hear she is a sweet person. I think it's worth having a constructive dialogue about screening though and what providers and mongers should expect. Mongers should never give out Personally Identifying Information. That's a non-starter. So what else can be done? Well, for one, since this forum is an extension of an advertising site affiliated with USASG, it would seem that the BEST assurance a provider could have that someone is not LE is look at how long someone has been here. Read their posts and look at how far they go back. If I was in their shoes I would trust this forum more than any other info that can easily be faked by LE.

Which brings up a point. An e-mail, phone number, company name? We already know that LE has fake e-mails, websites, phone numbers and "receptionists" to man them when they go in for sting operations so does asking for that PII even provide any assurance that you won't run into legal challenges?

As for those thinking I did something else to deserve this, her last e-mail gave me instructions on how she would verify my company email and then said "If you're willing to do this I can see you today if you want to come in between 12:30-1 pm. I already have a X pm session. Let me know, thanks!" I declined to give the info and that was that. She certainly didn't waste my time but I thought it was worth giving a reminder to think with your big head.

[QUOTE=JustJenna;2640314]If a provider does not wish too see him, that is her choice. That being said, she also needs to be up front and not waste his time. It's common courtesy.[/QUOTE]Jenna, I completely agree with you. Some providers are just inconsiderate of other peoples time but they want to be catered to when it comes to their time. GspotGinger is one of those. Replied to my first request for a possible visit with ref question. Which I gave her what she asked for. 4 messages later, over the course of a month or two, not a word one from her. No get lost, go fuck yourself or not even the common courtesy of hey I am not interested. I personally do not mind and understand the reference requests, and oblige, but at what point this the hobby turn into dating, now I have to convince her to see me? It's simple. Don't waste my time I won't waste yours and the mutually beneficial agreement can be struck. It's just Rude, and Ginger, yeah, we put return requests on messages so we KNOW you read them.

Nah bro when a woman doesn't want you she will ignore you, not ask to screen you LOL.

[QUOTE=Camera3;2640988]BS,

It has been my experience that sometimes the ladies tells you something like this instead of the truth, that she doesn't want to see you because she just doesn't like something about you. Maybe it is something you said that reminds her of the high school football player that broke her heart or she senses some swagger that she just hates.

No means no, regardless of the stated or actual reason.

I guess you could write back and ask her who she would accept as a reference (and then go date that lady for the said purpose), but why would you want to? But, it's your call.

Just one man's opinion.

Now, for the other issue, I would NEVER send a pic of me, or my real phone number, address, place of work or anything else. There is no lady worth that breach of confidentiality. If my creds, reviews and verification on this and the couple of other sites I am on don't do it for me then it ain't gonna get done. Gruglok is right, it is JUST a hobby.

You can take that to the bank.

C3.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Camera3;2640988]BS,

It has been my experience that sometimes the ladies tells you something like this instead of the truth, that she doesn't want to see you because she just doesn't like something about you. Maybe it is something you said that reminds her of the high school football player that broke her heart or she senses some swagger that she just hates.

No means no, regardless of the stated or actual reason.

I guess you could write back and ask her who she would accept as a reference (and then go date that lady for the said purpose), but why would you want to? But, it's your call.

Just one man's opinion.

Now, for the other issue, I would NEVER send a pic of me, or my real phone number, address, place of work or anything else. There is no lady worth that breach of confidentiality. If my creds, reviews and verification on this and the couple of other sites I am on don't do it for me then it ain't gonna get done. Gruglok is right, it is JUST a hobby.

You can take that to the bank.

C3.[/QUOTE]I think C3 is spot on and I think Avalon is just trying to be careful. The email thing was probably just her way to bring the discussion to an end without being rude or heartless. Look, I've had providers that get RAVE reviews on this board and for whatever reason just won't see me. My guess is it was something I said or they simply didn't feel comfortable with me for some reason. Hey, I didn't loose any sleep over it and I have since met some incredible providers and Avalon is one of them. I know too that even though we may be senior members with a gazillion posts that sometimes can hurt us. Some of these girls will not see you if you see SWs and for good reason. It's not like those girls are running to the clinic every month getting a STD test. Most of that money goes in their arms which in itself is a huge risk to any monger. Some of them won't see you if you regularly see high volume BP providers basically for the same reason. So you really can't blame these girls for wanting to be careful and I for one am very glad they are careful especially the ones that offer GFE type services. Who wants to go DATY on a girl that fucks everybody and their brother with no concern for their safety or ours? I for one stick with the girls that I know play it safe. Just this man's opinion.

[QUOTE=VManOrl01;2641421]I think C3 is spot on and I think Avalon is just trying to be careful. The email thing was probably just her way to bring the discussion to an end without being rude or heartless. Look, I've had providers that get RAVE reviews on this board and for whatever reason just won't see me. My guess is it was something I said or they simply didn't feel comfortable with me for some reason. Hey, I didn't loose any sleep over it and I have since met some incredible providers and Avalon is one of them. I know too that even though we may be senior members with a gazillion posts that sometimes can hurt us. Some of these girls will not see you if you see SWs and for good reason. It's not like those girls are running to the clinic every month getting a STD test. Most of that money goes in their arms which in itself is a huge risk to any monger. Some of them won't see you if you regularly see high volume BP providers basically for the same reason. So you really can't blame these girls for wanting to be careful and I for one am very glad they are careful especially the ones that offer GFE type services. Who wants to go DATY on a girl that fucks everybody and their brother with no concern for their safety or ours? I for one stick with the girls that I know play it safe. Just this man's opinion.[/QUOTE]I have been emailing with her and she seems very nice, professional and courteous. She is def. On the bucket list.

[QUOTE=PharmaGuy;2641433]I have been emailing with her and she seems very nice, professional and courteous. She is def. On the bucket list.[/QUOTE]I also have been in contact with Avalon and no issues very nice lady and will be trying to see her soon.

[QUOTE=MiniMan27;2641463]I also have been in contact with Avalon and no issues very nice lady and will be trying to see her soon.[/QUOTE]

With all you guys standing in line, I guess I gotta look into this lady, huh?

I hope my references are good enough.

C3.

Was hoping to line up an appointment with her this weekend, but I see all her ads have been pulled. Anyone know the deal? I'm hoping it is not a problem with her uncle. I see someone similar listed in his photo album, but, having never seen her in person, I am not sure.

[QUOTE=TomStone68;2641503]Was hoping to line up an appointment with her this weekend, but I see all her ads have been pulled. Anyone know the deal? I'm hoping it is not a problem with her uncle. I see someone similar listed in his photo album, but, having never seen her in person, I am not sure.[/QUOTE]She is okay. She'll be back next week.

Spent some time with this Orlando gem today. Paige is such a sweet, down to earth girl, on top of being super hot. Had a great time, as usual. BBBJ mish. Will repeat.

Saw sexy sophia yesterday after I fell asleep! Great massage and personality. Very understanding and relaxed. Very accommodating experience. Older lady with terrific assets. Catch this girl before she leaves my dreams and all of yours.

I recently met Frogy for the first time and it was great. I opted for a car date by my work to release some tension and Frogy did just that. She looks like her previous pics and I found her to be very friendly and laid back. The service lived up to her previous reviews and will have me back for seconds. Senior members can pm me for more info.