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They told me to pass the word around if they are offering specials all weekend long. They also told me to give out their numbers. They are getting bombarded with a bunch of nonsense calls in Texts plus MJ's number is wrong and Ash has a new phone number they wanted me to pass them out. They also told me that they will definitely text you back before they contact back anybody else if you tell them P you yes just like the letter P in the alphabet. First number that I wasn't supposed to be MJ's she permitted me to pass out her new number [blue][Telephone Number deleted by Admin][/blue]. Because she is locked out of her to change her number. Second number is for Ashley her old phone is acting up real bad so she got a new one and she also asked me to pass her phone number out [blue][Telephone Number deleted by Admin][/blue] If you're looking for some great satisfaction without your prices. These are you go to and like I said they have given me permission to pass the number out so they can get some regular clientele. First picture is of MJ second picture is of Ashley.

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[QUOTE=PitMan187;6733672]They told me to pass the word around if they are offering specials all weekend long. They also told me to give out their numbers. They are getting bombarded with a bunch of nonsense calls in Texts plus MJ's number is wrong and Ash has a new phone number they wanted me to pass them out. They also told me that they will definitely text you back before they contact back anybody else if you tell them P you yes just like the letter P in the alphabet. First number that I wasn't supposed to be MJ's she permitted me to pass out her new number 443-883-6070 . Because she is locked out of her to change her number. Second number is for Ashley her old phone is acting up real bad so she got a new one and she also asked me to pass her phone number out 443-960-0836. If you're looking for some great satisfaction without your prices. These are you go to and like I said they have given me permission to pass the number out so they can get some regular clientele. First picture is of MJ second picture is of Ashley.[/QUOTE]Trying to send you a DM but inbox is full. Could you message me via DM once it's cleared?

[QUOTE=AbsoluteSavage;6733388]Good luck bro, I haven't seen a white chick on here in years (besides Dream and apparently she's gone) that I'd go out of my way to see.

It's funny, if you read most of the reports lately most people are looking for something specific, everyone's looking for different things but very few people actually hit home runs.

In theory there's a bunch of women posting, but the games changed so dramatically from when I started 20 some years ago.

You're looking for a white chick, I'm trying to find a reliable thicc black chick with big tits and a big ass who allows DATY and is reliable and doesn't give me the run around.

Mystique is a safe bet but she's way out of my way now and often busy. I used to see a girl named Sweetzcheekz, hands down my favorite provider. Exactly what I wanted physically and we got along really well, then she just disappeared. I saw her profile on Facebook one day, thought about reaching out but figured maybe she left the life behind and didn't want to be reminded of it, also I didn't want her having my real name LOL.

Even the thin black girls I like are gone. Jewel was one in a million but she's walking the streets last I heard an a wreck. I had a good time with a girl named Smurf a couple years back but she turned crazy and tried to set me up.

Oh well, nature of time and the game I guess. If anyone knows any sane, reliable and friendly black providers who are fine with DATY and are ok with white guys, let me know. Too much bullshit and time wasters out there now. I'd love to find a low key chick I could be a regular with, I don't mind trying new providers but it gets to be a letdown after a while when you pay good money for mediocre service from someone whos good looking but thinks she way hotter than she is, has GPS and doesn't even pretend to get into it.[/QUOTE]You hit the nail on the head my friend. None of them deliver an experience like we're used to from 15-20 years back. Back then there were plenty of affordable chicks that did this work as a career choice instead of a means to get a fix. Those providers aimed to please and put effort into making your fantasy come true. Now, it's a huge cost and a huge attitude, a huge NO list, and a huge rush to get you out the door and very little effort to make you happy. This has been going on for so long now that most guys think if they just get some head and some wet p_ssy and a smile they found a gem. It's sad.

Shooter.

[QUOTE=PitMan187;6733672]They told me to pass the word around if they are offering specials all weekend long. They also told me to give out their numbers. They are getting bombarded with a bunch of nonsense calls in Texts plus MJ's number is wrong and Ash has a new phone number they wanted me to pass them out. They also told me that they will definitely text you back before they contact back anybody else if you tell them P you yes just like the letter P in the alphabet. First number that I wasn't supposed to be MJ's she permitted me to pass out her new number. Because she is locked out of her to change her number. Second number is for Ashley her old phone is acting up real bad so she got a new one and she also asked me to pass her phone number out. If you're looking for some great satisfaction without your prices. These are you go to and like I said they have given me permission to pass the number out so they can get some regular clientele. First picture is of MJ second picture is of Ashley.[/QUOTE]Hey dude, first. Thanks very much for trying to pass along good info and intel but for some of us that don't know Ash or MJ, these pics aren't exactly telling a good story. Not your fault but wondering if you may have a link to an old post like on STG or Sumo or some site that caches those old posts? If I recall the name MJ, she's the one in her 50's with flattering pics but the in-person is less than desirable. Please correct me if I'm wrong. As for Ash, there are several providers out there that go by Ashley or Ash so it's hard to see who that really is. Once again I thank you for your post and contribution to the brotherhood just hard to figure out who these ladies are.

[QUOTE=MjThrill42;6732295]What's the story on the house on Winston Ave? Is it safe to see a girl there? I've seen mention of it a few times that various girls have hosted from there and I went there once myself a few years ago but got chased out by some dude while I was in the middle of nutting in some chick I don't even remember anymore LOL.[/QUOTE]Yeah bro, that place has had it's day in the sun, so to speak. It's had a lot of provider traffic and the knuckleheads that live upstairs have reached their peak knuckleheadedness. Yeah, that's right, I said knuckleheadedness. Haha I used to visit that place a lot back in the day. But places like that, especially houses have a shelf life before dumb shit happens. I've vowed not to go back, even if the provider is hot and or giving out free greek lessons. Sometimes you just got to let a place go. LOL The provider will show up at another location in a few weeks I'm sure.

Shooter.

[QUOTE=CollegeParkBoy;6732316][URL]https://listcrawler.eu/last_phone_post/6674146539[/URL]

Goes by Mocha. Decent comms through text to start. Quoted $ for SS, $. 5 for Half, $$ for Hr. Get the address and head up. No "are you LE?" check but texts me to bring protection. Has her own place in middle river (far as fuck) it's a quiet area. Text her I'm 10 min out. No reply. Text that I'm out front. No reply. Ok. 10 min timer started. No reply so I leave. About 20-30 min after I leave I get a few texts from her asking "was you here? "you here? And the good old "fell asleep I'm sorry" bullshit. Haha. I told her I was there then left and even sent a picture of the leasing office in case she thought I was bluffing. Told her not to contact me and have a good night. Of course she text back. Said that isn't her place (which I never said it was) and we had a pointless back and forth. She said everybody calls (I don't care we text the whole convo / I told you my eta (which she said was ok)/ gave updates on eta so miss me with that) and she sent a picture of the front of her place (which is legit) but I already stopped caring. In my eyes she is real though I do not recommend nor plan on trying again. She's poor business / customer service in my eyes. YMMV whoever hits I hope they enjoy.[/QUOTE]Damn dude, that sucks. Those pics definitely make me want to grab and squeeze those assets. Maybe she just got a bad feeling and got a bit paranoid or scared and reacted on that feeling. Get a new burner number and try again. I bet it's a better experience then.

Shooter.

[QUOTE=ShootAndRoll;6343305]Set something up with Layla late Saturday afternoon to avoid check out time related issues. No reviews. Seen her ad for a while with the same number ending with 8111. Low end hotel with an 8 in the name. Laurel / Jessup area. She asked me to contact her when I was 10 minutes away. Spoke on the phone when I was close by. Told me to text when I got to the parking lot. When I arrived, she told me she needed a few more minutes as she just got out of the shower. Told her I was going to head to the Exxon up the street to get a drink. I never like waiting in parking lots. 20 minutes goes by no text. I sent her a message telling her I'm going to leave the area. About 30 minutes later, I get a text, saying her phone died, and she fell asleep. I get it stuff happens. Girls over book. It's all part of the game.

I'm over at the McDonald's grabbing a bite to eat before my trip home. So it's no big deal to go back. Didn't realize there is a prison across the street. I don't respond Immediately back to her so she calls my phone number. We talk on the phone a little bit. I'm suspicious She has a handler because of the hotel and the activity I saw going on outside when I arrived. She apologizes for the mistake. I tell her it's no big deal it happens and I'm on my way back to the hotel. Tells me to text her when I get to the parking lot.

When I get back to the hotel, I tell her the clothes I'm wearing and I'm standing outside of my truck. She doesn't respond back in a timely manner. I try to buy some time by pretending to look through my truck. Still no text. I get in my truck to leave in my phone rings again. I ask her if she's playing games she said she was on the phone with her family. At this point I'm really suspicious of what's going on. I try to Prolong the phone conversation to see if she's wasted, but she sounds very sober. When I ask her for the room number, it sounded like in the background. I heard a guy telling her to send me to the steps that lead to the bottom two hotel rooms. If you've ever been to this hotel, you'll know what I'm talking about.

At this point I'm thinking setup or robbery. I would highly suggest proceeding with caution. There's a possibility I'm wrong but there's way too many red flags. The guy whispering in the background made it sound extremely dangerous. Think with the big head.

[URL]https://listcrawler.eu/last_phone_post/2405748111[/URL]#.[/QUOTE]Damn dude, smart move. Never ever let them see your ride or describe yourself. Whenever a provider even asks for that information, I move on to my backup.

[QUOTE=FatMan89;6733615]Do you happen to know her digits? I saw her once a year ago but idk if her number is the same. Search for winter wonderland on Listcrawlers Escort Alligator menu. Snowflakes ad should be the first search result. It seems like she's been using more than one phone number. Before you contact her look for the number on her most recent ad. If you are like me and dislike car play ask her if she's able to host before you make an appointment.

Allii used to be in the Glen Burnie area. Some might remember her in the McDonalds Parking lot. She's hasn't posted in 8 months. Anyone know what happened to her.

[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/maryland/baltimore/128962242[/URL]

[QUOTE=CousinSkeeter;6733828]Do you happen to know her digits? I saw her once a year ago but idk if her number is the same. Search for winter wonderland on Listcrawlers Escort Alligator menu. Snowflakes ad should be the first search result. It seems like she's been using more than one phone number. Before you contact her look for the number on her most recent ad. If you are like me and dislike car play ask her if she's able to host before you make an appointment.[/QUOTE]I'm exactly the same way. I'm not a big car play person.

[QUOTE=HeyShooter;6733787]Damn dude, smart move. Never ever let them see your ride or describe yourself. Whenever a provider even asks for that information, I move on to my backup.[/QUOTE]Reading my comments, I look pretty foolish. Her number changed constantly. When I find a new provider I want to visit. I always look at the ad history if they're not on the list crawler site I send them a text that way I have a record of the phone number and their name. Then I just pay attention to what happens. If the numbers changing constantly, and there's never any comments or reviews, it's a hard pass for me.

[QUOTE=HeyShooter;6733757]Hey dude, first. Thanks very much for trying to pass along good info and intel but for some of us that don't know Ash or MJ, these pics aren't exactly telling a good story. Not your fault but wondering if you may have a link to an old post like on STG or Sumo or some site that caches those old posts? If I recall the name MJ, she's the one in her 50's with flattering pics but the in-person is less than desirable. Please correct me if I'm wrong. As for Ash, there are several providers out there that go by Ashley or Ash so it's hard to see who that really is. Once again I thank you for your post and contribution to the brotherhood just hard to figure out who these ladies are.[/QUOTE]Can someone instruct me how to post a link.

[QUOTE=PitMan187;6733977]Can someone instruct me how to post a link.[/QUOTE]Copy the web address from your web browser. There's a few ways to do this, but you were going to use the copy function and then the paste function. You have to select the information in its entirety that you want to copy.

[URL]https://youtu.be/egEPPxiTt4k?si=NjGPh1wg87zo3sBu[/URL]

Got off early and was going to drive through for a quick Kiara check. There's was something going on at Payson and McHenry with police cars and yellow tape so the coast was clear.

Saw something's interesting happen while I was parked on Ramsey across from the church. I nice looking thick white girl dressed nicely standing with her coat up over her face. She got in a vehicle with a Mexican dude and drove off, she came back a little later, got out, adjusted her pants and got in what I assumed was her vehicle, drove off and stopped at the corner on bentalou in front of the dope boys.

You can guess the sceneroi. May was on the corner steps watching all this with me so I asked about the girl, she said she'd never seen her before. I haveore details about the vehicle and her physical appearance but, it's obvious she's on the down low so, I won't go into more detail.

If anyone actually knows who this girl might be, PLEASE PM me.

If you don't know anything, don't PM me asking questions, I won't respond!

Hey I appreciate the info. Just saw MJ. She doesn't look too bad on all fronts. Spot was neat and clean and she was fresh as well. Did a QV but didn't finish. Not a clock watcher and real friendly. Will be seeing her again for sure. DMG $100.

[QUOTE=Shock55;6733890]Allii used to be in the Glen Burnie area. Some might remember her in the McDonalds Parking lot. She's hasn't posted in 8 months. Anyone know what happened to her.

[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/maryland/baltimore/128962242[/URL][/QUOTE]Pretty sure she is locked up at the moment. She ghosted me one random night. Turns out it was because she got pinched with a pharmacy on her.

[QUOTE=TheMadasian;6734260]Pretty sure she is locked up at the moment. She ghosted me one random night. Turns out it was because she got pinched with a pharmacy on her.[/QUOTE]Damn that's Sad to hear. I still have the vid of the last time I saw her. Hope she stays around when she is out.

[QUOTE=FatMan89;6734167]Hey I appreciate the info. Just saw MJ. She doesn't look too bad on all fronts. Spot was neat and clean and she was fresh as well. Did a QV but didn't finish. Not a clock watcher and real friendly. Will be seeing her again for sure. DMG $100.[/QUOTE]I am glad that you had a good time I just wish when I was a regular member that someone will throw me a few good bones with some meat. This board is about helping each other have a better experience not to hold all the information to ourselves and be selfish. These women are not our wives. We pay for a service. And it's all about customer service we all want to be pampered like kings and treated as such. I will continue to report any new findings that I can to help us improve our quality. Because some of the women that are mentioned on this page should actually be classified and listed as Street walkers because they look as such. And have been very disappointing dates. Such as ivory, Desiree, and a few others I can't think of at the moment not only did they look really bad but they also had horrible service too. I don't care how good you look if your service sucks and you are very mechanical, rude, obnoxious and a clock watcher your prices are too high you will not get any money from me. For me it's more about the experience. Happy Hunting guys.

Sorry I can't post the link yet, I am figuring out per instructions that were given on here. So I had been trying to get a hold of this girl, advertised cim, anal for one bill. Texted her a few times and immediately told me there is an upsell on everything. One bill for service was bumped up to two bills and I'm suprised that she didn't pull the bait and switch and not render the above info. Upon examination of her pictures, I zoomed in because it's obvious that filters are being used. Saw some sort of sores on her neck area. I had to skip, too many red flags. Anyway if anyone has had any better of an experience with this chick please post. She's a black girl probably in thirties if I had to guess.

[QUOTE=PitMan187;6734359]I am glad that you had a good time I just wish when I was a regular member that someone will throw me a few good bones with some meat. This board is about helping each other have a better experience not to hold all the information to ourselves and be selfish. These women are not our wives. We pay for a service. And it's all about customer service we all want to be pampered like kings and treated as such. I will continue to report any new findings that I can to help us improve our quality. Because some of the women that are mentioned on this page should actually be classified and listed as Street walkers because they look as such. And have been very disappointing dates. Such as ivory, Desiree, and a few others I can't think of at the moment not only did they look really bad but they also had horrible service too. I don't care how good you look if your service sucks and you are very mechanical, rude, obnoxious and a clock watcher your prices are too high you will not get any money from me. For me it's more about the experience. Happy Hunting guys.[/QUOTE]Careful some guys are crudballs and will try to backdoor you (pause) or fuck up your good name. Happened to me in SW thread with an UTR. I'd say be selective who you kick out ya go to girls number too. I think most of us just want to have a great experience and go home safe and then you have people with other "alternatives". Good luck bro you seem like a good dude who uses the forum for what it's for. Peace.

[QUOTE=PitMan187;6733977]Can someone instruct me how to post a link.[/QUOTE]Hey can you pm me Ashley's number? Your inbox is full and I can't find her ad.

What do you do if you encounter a baby or kids in the room?

Leave. Its 2024 ain't got time for shit like that no more. Leave it in 2023 rofl.

[QUOTE=Lilmills13;6735645]What do you do if you encounter a baby or kids in the room?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Poppy44;6735677]Leave. Its 2024 ain't got time for shit like that no more. Leave it in 2023 rofl.[/QUOTE]I left it in 2023. Walked in and there's a baby sleeping in a playpen, that's a hard pass for me.

[URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/baltimore/female-escorts/exotic/kinda-bored-hit-me-up-to-have-/851968060465[/URL]

Girls will act like it's nothing wrong. I think it is. I think it subconsciously ruins a child to be anywhere near their mom while she's doing her work in a game like this.

[QUOTE=Lilmills13;6735690]I left it in 2023. Walked in and there's a baby sleeping in a playpen, that's a hard pass for me.

[URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/baltimore/female-escorts/exotic/kinda-bored-hit-me-up-to-have-/851968060465[/URL][/QUOTE]

Is she still around? Anyone heard from or still talk to Zella? What happened to her or does she still have a working number?

Phyuck!

[QUOTE=FatMan89;6733615]Do you happen to know her digits? I saw her once a year ago but idk if her number is the same.[/QUOTE]Or you can just try searching her name, Snowflake. An ad currently shows up for the snowflake you're asking about, I think.

[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/maryland/baltimore/162777789[/URL]

[QUOTE=Lilmills13;6735645]What do you do if you encounter a baby or kids in the room?[/QUOTE]That happened to me twice both times they were babies in the cradle on the second bed in the hotels however I was too horny to care and still fuck the women while their kids were still in the room. I even asked one of the women "What's it like being a bad mother?" while we were in the doggy position and she denied it saying "I'm not a bad mother" which was clearly not the case. LOL.

Anyone see this one (staying in BWI).

[URL]https://www.adultlook.com/p/2963950[/URL]

She has a lot of ads and seems to travel the country a bit. I'm just surprised there are only 2 TER reviews from over a year ago. Looks pretty good, otherwise. But my spidey senses are tingling.

[QUOTE=Lilmills13;6735645]What do you do if you encounter a baby or kids in the room?[/QUOTE]When kids are involved it's better to be safe than sorry. Catch her another time when she has a sitter.

[QUOTE=Poppy44;6735704]Girls will act like it's nothing wrong. I think it is. I think it subconsciously ruins a child to be anywhere near their mom while she's doing her work in a game like this.[/QUOTE]I'm really not sure what the issue is if the kid's asleep. If the kid's in a crib, they are probably too young to know what's happening if they woke up. I do agree if the kid's 2 and older, it does not seem right to be fucking in the room if the are awake. But if they are asleep, damage is only done if they awake in the middle of the act. But I can't see how babies get affected subconsciously if they are awake when they don't even know what is happening.

[QUOTE=DontBanme;6735597]Hey can you pm me Ashley's number? Your inbox is full and I can't find her ad.[/QUOTE]Check your PMS.

Forgot to add a pic. But what happened to her?

Phyuck!

[QUOTE=PhyuckYiu;6735771]Is she still around? Anyone heard from or still talk to Zella? What happened to her or does she still have a working number?

Phyuck![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Fuzby69;6734962]Sorry I can't post the link yet, I am figuring out per instructions that were given on here. So I had been trying to get a hold of this girl, advertised cim, anal for one bill. Texted her a few times and immediately told me there is an upsell on everything. One bill for service was bumped up to two bills and I'm suprised that she didn't pull the bait and switch and not render the above info. Upon examination of her pictures, I zoomed in because it's obvious that filters are being used. Saw some sort of sores on her neck area. I had to skip, too many red flags. Anyway if anyone has had any better of an experience with this chick please post. She's a black girl probably in thirties if I had to guess.[/QUOTE][URL]https://listcrawler.eu/last_phone_post/4439879560[/URL]

If it's this one I had reached out when her ad said 100 bbj / cim / facial but I wanted FS. She text me "upcharge 300 HH 600 HR" told her to have a good night. The video of "her" riding was what had me but after seeing two bad pics (one of her sticking out her tongue that shit looked so unhealthy I strapped up just from looking at it, and the second her nipple looked like it had what coulda been a sore / breakout on / around it) I had to pass. Photos to me suggest she at the el dump. If I ever decide to dream about it I'd have to double strap up for the whole dream. Later.

[QUOTE=CollegeParkBoy;6736634][URL]https://listcrawler.eu/last_phone_post/4439879560[/URL]

If it's this one I had reached out when her ad said 100 bbj / cim / facial but I wanted FS. She text me "upcharge 300 HH 600 HR" told her to have a good night. The video of "her" riding was what had me but after seeing two bad pics (one of her sticking out her tongue that shit looked so unhealthy I strapped up just from looking at it, and the second her nipple looked like it had what coulda been a sore / breakout on / around it) I had to pass. Photos to me suggest she at the el dump. If I ever decide to dream about it I'd have to double strap up for the whole dream. Later.[/QUOTE]You may be interested in this provider (who has a similar, but significantly better body frame): [URL]https://escortbabylon.net/image_list/2028071688[/URL].

That provider is all the way in Largo though. I have not personally seen her, so can't confirm how accurate her pictures are.

What's the closest you've come to "falling in love" or "catching feelings" for a provider? What lead to this? What was the ultimate outcome? Any advice for avoiding this?

[QUOTE=CollegeParkBoy;6736634][URL]https://listcrawler.eu/last_phone_post/4439879560[/URL]

If it's this one I had reached out when her ad said 100 bbj / cim / facial but I wanted FS. She text me "upcharge 300 HH 600 HR" told her to have a good night. The video of "her" riding was what had me but after seeing two bad pics (one of her sticking out her tongue that shit looked so unhealthy I strapped up just from looking at it, and the second her nipple looked like it had what coulda been a sore / breakout on / around it) I had to pass. Photos to me suggest she at the el dump. If I ever decide to dream about it I'd have to double strap up for the whole dream. Later.[/QUOTE]Yeah, that's the one, I always zoom in on those online photos. Those open sores on the neck looked bad, but when dealing with many providers on Pulaski, that's always the norm. Thanks for sharing your info.

[QUOTE=PhyuckYiu;6736474]Forgot to add a pic. But what happened to her?

Phyuck![/QUOTE]I met her a few times around Landsdowne. If I remember correctly she was going steady with a new "boyfriend" (LOL) but will date for the right price. She takes it in the ass like a champ and is a very sweet girl so treat her right and shell do right by you. I've got the last number I contacted her on if anyone interested.

I respectfully disagree. A provider should definitely have another party there to take care of their kid in another room. The kid SHOULDN'T be in the room at all. I think about it as if it was my kid. Shit's wrong and weird on so many levels in my opinion. Its not like kids stay asleep either.

If you got the kid for the day, get someone who can watch over them in another room or see if someone can pick them up until you're done seeing clients for the night. That's a legit security concern.

[QUOTE=OldChineseGuy;6736372]I'm really not sure what the issue is if the kid's asleep. If the kid's in a crib, they are probably too young to know what's happening if they woke up. I do agree if the kid's 2 and older, it does not seem right to be fucking in the room if the are awake. But if they are asleep, damage is only done if they awake in the middle of the act. But I can't see how babies get affected subconsciously if they are awake when they don't even know what is happening.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Bwier;6736712]What's the closest you've come to "falling in love" or "catching feelings" for a provider? What lead to this? What was the ultimate outcome? Any advice for avoiding this?[/QUOTE]Trust me when I tell you this. You're not her white night. You're not there to save her. If she wanted to be saved, she would do things differently on her own. The providers there for the Fantasy. If she makes you feel good, then she's done a great job. If you start falling in love with your provider, there's a possibility you're going to turn into the creepy stalker dude. Maybe you should only see providers that you're not really attracted to. You're there to get some and get out. Nothing wrong with being polite and respectful. Don't confuse the situation with love. You gotta be careful because some of the providers might take advantage of you. You'll figure it out.