"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

As the saying goes, you only live once. Enjoy the things that you enjoy. What I also enjoy, besides a variety of pussy, is the way you occasionally post pics of some fine ass girls. Please continue to do so as it is very entertaining! Thanks. WW.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2197955]This is my only entertainment outside of work. Not into drugs or drinking. Don't really have any outside interests, hobbies or friends (all by choice). If I wasn't chasing girls I would just be watching TV. So for me its this or be bored. And I never seem to get bored of pussy. New or old as long as its tasty, wet and tight (and does what its told). I don't do the marraige, SO or GF thing so well either (they always have rules). This truly is my life.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2197914]Since work has slowed a little due to the holiday I am going to force myself to do as many M & G's as I can the next few days. At least one a day. The last 2 girls I clicked with both live far away and can't really see me that much. It's a good thing and a bad thing. You really got to have some tenacity to stay in this game.

here is tonites M&G. 5' 1" 105 23[/QUOTE]Just got back from my interview. She was pretty interesting (meaning I wanted to fuck her). But she had other ideas, like a guaranteed allowance or at least $$ a date. She didn't really care about me having multiple girls if the money was guaranteed, so it was a no go. And I am sure with her looks and professed skills someone will take her up on her offer. Just not me.

I have an dr appt in a somewhat farther away suburb tomorrow morning so I set up a date with this UTR girl that lives in that area for noon. Maybe only see her once, but who knows. Her spinner body got my attention.

I couldn't remember if this was discussed in the SB / SD forum or the escort forum but there was talk about creating a separate forum where you could talk more in depth about which SB where dating which SD. AT first I wasn't so sure if I wanted to know but I am slowly changing my mind. I would love to be able to find out if my 22 year old latina who is going to VCU is in fact fucking another SD. But the need for another forum, not sold on that yet.

If she is respectful and fucks and sucks you the way you like, why does it matter which other SD she has. I guess if you were forking out a lot of cash and paying all her bills I could see the concern a tad bit. Or instead of joining another male gossip forum why don't you ask her yourself. I never seen so many guys in the last two years, be so nosey when it comes to ladies that aren't even your gf or wife. Communication is key, always ask instead of assume or driving yourself crazy on what tatics to use if she's seeing someone else. If you want exclusive ask how she feels.

[QUOTE=Ltnric;2198731]I couldn't remember if this was discussed in the SB / SD forum or the escort forum but there was talk about creating a separate forum where you could talk more in depth about which SB where dating which SD. AT first I wasn't so sure if I wanted to know but I am slowly changing my mind. I would love to be able to find out if my 22 year old latina who is going to VCU is in fact fucking another SD. But the need for another forum, not sold on that yet.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MeowLuvStoroar;2198929]Or instead of joining another male gossip forum why don't you ask her yourself. I never seen so many guys in the last two years, be so nosey when it comes to ladies that aren't even your gf or wife. [/QUOTE]This forum is a brotherhood of SDs. If you don't like what's being written here, you might think about maybe not reading it. A male gossip group is exactly what this is, and for you to come here and pretend to give any of us advice on life is a little bit like me walking on the set of the The View, showing up without pants and wagging my balls in Jenny McCarthy's face. When in Rome, do as the Romans do. If you think you're going flip a few of us into thinking like a chick, I think maybe you should stick to what you're good at.

[QUOTE=MeowLuvStoroar;2198929]If she is respectful and fucks and sucks you the way you like, why does it matter which other SD she has. I guess if you were forking out a lot of cash and paying all her bills I could see the concern a tad bit. Or instead of joining another male gossip forum why don't you ask her yourself. I never seen so many guys in the last two years, be so nosey when it comes to ladies that aren't even your gf or wife. Communication is key, always ask instead of assume or driving yourself crazy on what tatics to use if she's seeing someone else. If you want exclusive ask how she feels.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice Meow however, and this may come as a shock to you, some of these sugar babies will actually lie to you. I agree communication is key and if you and your sugarbaby have agreed to be exclusive and if you want exclusivity and you are paying for it then it's only right that you expect her to just see you. One of the great things about this for forum is that we all stick together and help each other out. Unfortunately some of these sugar babies will lie to you because all they're interested in is money. I don't mean to sound bitter because I've met a few sugar babies on here who are really great people. I was just stating an opinion on this forum as most of us generally tend to do.

I hate when people ask what my hobbies are. LOL. No politically correct way to say "chasing pussy". LOL.

I know that is why I like following this thread and I know that is why HG posts so much on here. It's hard to find other people to share this hobby with who understand.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2197955]This is my only entertainment outside of work. Not into drugs or drinking. Don't really have any outside interests, hobbies or friends (all by choice). If I wasn't chasing girls I would just be watching TV. So for me its this or be bored. And I never seem to get bored of pussy. New or old as long as its tasty, wet and tight (and does what its told). I don't do the marraige, SO or GF thing so well either (they always have rules). This truly is my life.[/QUOTE]

I always respect the SB's until they demonstrate they don't deserve me respect. There are some genuinely nice girls on the sites and some real "be#*ches". Just like some of us SD's are real "a#*holes".

Surprising how many of these girls respond to being treated with respect when they have been treated so badly in the past. Just don't let them think because you are nice to them you can walked on. You can be nice without being weak.

[QUOTE=Ltnric;2199124]Thanks for the advice Meow however, and this may come as a shock to you, some of these sugar babies will actually lie to you. I agree communication is key and if you and your sugarbaby have agreed to be exclusive and if you want exclusivity and you are paying for it then it's only right that you expect her to just see you. One of the great things about this for forum is that we all stick together and help each other out. Unfortunately some of these sugar babies will lie to you because all they're interested in is money. I don't mean to sound bitter because I've met a few sugar babies on here who are really great people. I was just stating an opinion on this forum as most of us generally tend to do.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MeowLuvStoroar;2198929]If she is respectful and fucks and sucks you the way you like, why does it matter which other SD she has. I guess if you were forking out a lot of cash and paying all her bills I could see the concern a tad bit. Or instead of joining another male gossip forum why don't you ask her yourself. I never seen so many guys in the last two years, be so nosey when it comes to ladies that aren't even your gf or wife. Communication is key, always ask instead of assume or driving yourself crazy on what tatics to use if she's seeing someone else. If you want exclusive ask how she feels.[/QUOTE]For me its a health issue. I never had a std in my life and never used a condom in 60 years. How is that possible?. Dumb luck and also mainly screwing girls that are exclusive to me. So I personally need to know what's up. If they want to date other guys that's cool. Then just don't date me. Unless I can be convinced its your real BF. Then I just have to hope he is faithful. Luckily there are enough very busy girls that really don't have the time, energy or inclination to date multiple guys.

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;2199463]I always respect the SB's until they demonstrate they don't deserve me respect. There are some genuinely nice girls on the sites and some real "be#*ches". Just like some of us SD's are real "a#*holes".

Surprising how many of these girls respond to being treated with respect when they have been treated so badly in the past. Just don't let them think because you are nice to them you can walked on. You can be nice without being weak.[/QUOTE]Treat them with respect no matter how they treat you. If I don't get the respect I need I just go MIA. No drama. These are not the type of relationships you have to "work on". Thats for married folks.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2199583]For me its a health issue. I never had a std in my life and never used a condom in 60 years. How is that possible?. Dumb luck and also mainly screwing girls that are exclusive to me. So I personally need to know what's up. If they want to date other guys that's cool. Then just don't date me. Unless I can be convinced its your real BF. Then I just have to hope he is faithful. Luckily there are enough very busy girls that really don't have the time, energy or inclination to date multiple guys.[/QUOTE]I'm similar in that I go BB, have never had an STD, and it's also one reason I avoid high risk girls. It's not that I've never used a condom, I have, it's just that condoms represent probably 1% of my sexual history (just because I hate them). My basic strategy for disease avoidance is to be picky and select low-volume, drug free girls. How can I be sure they are low-volume and drug free? I can never be 100% sure, and I have no doubt that some of my unprotected one-night stand girls probably lost count of their sex partners. Drinking and going to bars probably put me at higher risk than SD sites, because I spend a great deal of time picking and choosing the right girl when I'm looking for an SB. I do take good care of myself with regard to exercise and diet so maybe I have a good immune system, or I'm just plain lucky. I would never bang a working girl bareback, and as far as SBs if I even suspect she is UTR sex worker, there won't even be a M&G. This is why I pay a lot of attention to the priority they place on money, or whether they are looking for more than just financial support.

However, even outside the bowl, I know for a fact some of the girls I've been with sleep around. It's just a risk of the game.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2199757]I'm similar in that I go BB, have never had an STD, and it's also one reason I avoid high risk girls. It's not that I've never used a condom, I have, it's just that condoms represent probably 1% of my sexual history (just because I hate them). My basic strategy for disease avoidance is to be picky and select low-volume, drug free girls. How can I be sure they are low-volume and drug free? I can never be 100% sure, and I have no doubt that some of my unprotected one-night stand girls probably lost count of their sex partners. Drinking and going to bars probably put me at higher risk than SD sites, because I spend a great deal of time picking and choosing the right girl when I'm looking for an SB. I do take good care of myself with regard to exercise and diet so maybe I have a good immune system, or I'm just plain lucky. I would never bang a working girl bareback, and as far as SBs if I even suspect she is UTR sex worker, there won't even be a M&G. This is why I pay a lot of attention to the priority they place on money, or whether they are looking for more than just financial support.

However, even outside the bowl, I know for a fact some of the girls I've been with sleep around. It's just a risk of the game.[/QUOTE]Outside the bowl the girls can be far riskier than inside. Forgetting escorts or utr's. SB's are looking for guys selectively as well. I have seen civi girls bang anyone that buys them enough drinks or other party favors.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2199864]Outside the bowl the girls can be far riskier than inside. Forgetting escorts or utr's. SB's are looking for guys selectively as well. I have seen civi girls bang anyone that buys them enough drinks or other party favors.[/QUOTE]True. When I was getting most of my poon from bars and clubs, often I had beer goggles on when I made judgment calls. I have no doubt some of the girls I banged led promiscuous lifestyles, but somehow I survived. It may sound arrogant or like BS, but when I'm vetting SBs, of the girls who have profiles I'm probably only interested in contacting 5-10% in a given city. After I weed out the dubious ones, the ones that have an attitude problem, the ones I get a bad vibe about, or the ones I just decide I'm not attracted to, in the second round of vetting I'm left with maybe pursuing less than 5% of those who survived the first round of cuts. That's not to say all these ladies are lined up for a date with me by any means, sometimes the ones I want most flake for various reasons, but it just means that using my keenest (and most sober) judgment I put a lot of thought into which of them I'm willing to spend my time and money on, mostly because my SB season limits my time.

With club hopping I was never that cautious. It's more like is she hot? Check. Is she willing? Check. Is it closing time and I still haven't hooked up yet? Check. Ok its on then. I will say I don't think I inadvertently banged any hardcore druggies or pros, at least all the girls seemed to have valid alibis (I. E. Were a student, or had a real job, etc). But that doesn't mean they didn't have secrets I didn't know about. I did have one once that was a recovered drug addict, but her demeanor was such that I would have never known if she didn't tell me, which just goes to show I may have misidentified a few.

Went out to meet this pretty 23 year old (about 5'8"), utr girl tonite. She was way cuter than her pics. Went straight to her FC. She does work full time and go to school, but a girls got to do what a girls got to do to make it in this city.

She was a good kisser, super friendly and we went at it for about 90 minutes before she realized how long I had been there and tossed me out. LOL. She had a cute little single that was clean and it worked out fine.

I give her a 8.5/9/9/9. Perfect little B cups and smooth skin. I might see her tomorrow. After 2 failed M&G's the odds were on my side. A hot (low volume?) UTR for a $. Works for me everytime.

Part 2 to the story. I originally hit her up with my lets party for a $ intro letter which she turned down. But I was so into her pics that about a month later I sent her my what are you looking for thoughtful letter with no mention of money and she responded. She never tried to ask for more and in the end she took the $. So I apologized for the low offer but promised I would make it up to her by seeing her once a week and also by trying to get to know her. And the truth is, that in her case, I will for now. I liked her.

None. I think the girl from yesterday got sellers remorse. Thats one of the down sides to paying $. They wake up the next day and say OMG I did what for how much? Not that paying them more would have motivated them to do a better job. Just my opinion.