I've been on / off SA for about 3 years, and it seems it's more extreme than it's ever been. For example, this girl that I was just checking:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/072d6460-1502-48a5-8d8d-5ca66c6ae1a6[/URL]
I'll quote just a few parts of her bio below:
- "Marriage-minded only".
- "open to relocating anywhere in Florida for the right man the one I've been praying for."
- "wake up wrapped in your arms as we thank God for another day of building our kingdom life together."
- The man she desires is "a true alpha with a servant's heart strong in mission, generous in love, and ready to build a family grounded in God's purpose."
This girl needs a reality check badly.
I'm glad there are still a few gems to be found out there!
[QUOTE=SpecialOne8;7291429]I began to see this trend happening 3 years ago on SA. Baby Light and other buddies of mine from USA are also members there and have complained things have only gotten worse over the past 2+ years I have avoided paying the ridiculous renewal fees. Now it seems REGARDLESS of which SB site you are active on, the only thing young women seek is as you stated: "A rich older BF. " that will treat them like a wife (and not a GF with benefits). Over the past 10 years, I have had modest luck hooking up and maintaining a SB friendship here and there, but the times, they are a-changing. This is why even with all the drama I have with the last two SBs I found two years ago and am currently still seeing, I have chosen to hold onto them rather than delve back into the fray. It's just not worth the coin every month to go through the entire process and be disappointed yet again. Like I said, my current SBs have baggage and shitty families that take them for granted. I am nothing more than their safety valve when they need someone to take them away for a day so they can calm down, catch their breath, have a little fun (both outside And behind closed doors) before I have to drive them back to their own personal hell. Because I am not a Rich man, I don't have the ability to set them up in their own place and let's face it, That is what most of the young women on SB or SA (or any other site) are truly seeking..[/QUOTE]