Maybe, but it's an eerie coincidence
[QUOTE=Miketastic69;3092090]Bev is a 420-head. I have had a couple good sessions with her where we talked in detail and got to know each other. Then, a month later she asks me have we ever met and gives me that hard time. I think when she is smoking she has one memory and another when she's not. Study high, take the test high, and you get high scores.
Tarryn usually does not flake. I have seen her a few times. Look at my other post today and I explain a bit more. Non-GFE, but typically a reliable providers. Note. We all get spooked, mongers and providers. Most mongers don't monger 24/7 like providers do. So, when a provider gets spooked at an inconvenient time for us it sucks. For them, its survival. Tarryn must have really been spooked.[/QUOTE]I've never seen Tarryn, so I can't speak to her performance or demeanor. I contacted her once and she wanted $. 5 for the half-hour, which was out of my budget so I passed. I have seen Beverly previously and enjoyed my time with her. Then again, there was no sign or smell of 420 on the evening I saw her.
Still, it's an eerie coincidence that we had two reports of mongers being stood up in such a short period of time, regardless of the circumstances.
Bunker Buster is great at finding gems but he works hard for those rocks
[QUOTE=Miketastic69;3092438]My economic position definitely affects the level of service I seek. What's crazy is a few months ago when I got my tax refund I would only see $350-$500 providers for a few weeks. A couple were great. The rest meh. Then, back to reality $. 2 to. 5. Some of the. 2 and under were better and more GFE than some of the $$$ with 200 reviews. It's a fickle hobby.[/QUOTE]Bunker Buster: can you please chime in on how you find UTR providers with a good value? We've shared numerous experiences with talent that is above average for good prices. That's because we do research so when we find a person that looks promising. After throrough research has been done. We jump at the chance to have a session. Our monger senses and rules help guide us thru good and bad experiences. Hopefully our seniority isn't wasted and we get the best service available for a good price.
I like to consider myself a connoisseur of finding gems and a good value as I'm not picky when it comes to providers. I usually pick girls that look UTR and because of that I have had good times.
Glitzy girls charge a premium and their service usual lacks.
I don't find UTRs, just hidden gems on BP
[QUOTE=Sexingit;3093825]Bunker Buster: can you please chime in on how you find UTR providers with a good value? We've shared numerous experiences with talent that is above average for good prices. That's because we do research so when we find a person that looks promising. After throrough research has been done. We jump at the chance to have a session. Our monger senses and rules help guide us thru good and bad experiences. Hopefully our seniority isn't wasted and we get the best service available for a good price.
I like to consider myself a connoisseur of finding gems and a good value as I'm not picky when it comes to providers. I usually pick girls that look UTR and because of that I have had good times.
Glitzy girls charge a premium and their service usual lacks.[/QUOTE]What I mainly do is look through BP in gallery mode, which makes it easy to spot who looks good and who doesn't. I ignore the obvious TGTBT fake pix, then relentlessly image and number search the potential ones.
As you note, the real gems usually aren't the smoking hot girls, but the ones who look like ordinary girls who may have hit hard times (or are feeding a habit, as is unfortunately so common). The ones who are really hot know it, and usually think they're doing you a favor by letting you touch them. The ones who know they're only a 5 or 6 often try harder, and appreciate attention and being treated nicely.
The phone interview is a big part of my decision process too. If the first thing out of her mouth is "what time did you want your appointment," it's a good bet she's going to run things like a business. If she uses the word "baby" in every sentence, count on hearing "come for me, baby" two minutes after you start. Friendly, conversant, even chatty are good signs.
Ask a few questions without getting graphic, and see if she answers or keeps pushing for an appointment time. You have to rely on your own senses here of when someone seems friendly.
I just try to find someone I seem to hit it off with, after having done all of my research before even calling.
Even with all this, I sometimes end up with girls who reveal lots of rules once I'm there, or someone who flakes on me. There's no substitute for putting in the time to read the boards (Nova, DC, Maryland), look through ads, do research, and make some calls.
When you find a good one, stay in touch, and go back to see her reasonably soon so she remembers you The real key is building a rapport and having her know that you're a safe, reliable visitor who won't pull anything funny or cause problems for her.