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[QUOTE=EmsKula;6083629]I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?[/QUOTE]Lead with that. Not an opener, but strike up a conversation and steer it that way if she's flirty.
[QUOTE=EmsKula;6083629]I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?[/QUOTE]That's going to be tough to try to get with her and not make yourself look like you stalking her. Good luck though because it's not going to be easy at all having this conversation.
I had this chick over. She didn't ask a single thing about me. In fact I believe the first question she asked was if the donation was going to be cash. LOL fuck that. I Know their type. Was hardly making eye contact with me either and said she had to leave within an hour of arriving. Sent that useless thot away; I'm not dealing with these ice queens. Guarantee it would have been lame CBJ and CFS at best.
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[QUOTE=EmsKula;6083629]I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?[/QUOTE]If she liked your profile you know she is interested in you. Why not talk to her online first instead of surprising her at the gym? Just hit her up online and mention you recognize her from the gym. Nothing creepy about being upfront and honest. Girls actually appreciate that. Plus, there's a good chance she already recognizes you from the gym. And if she doesn't, you will both bump into each other eventually. Then it will be awkward and creepy. The only thing I can think of that works against your favor is if she doesn't recognize you from the gym and discretion is the upmost importance to her. Then you are screwed (not in a good way).
[QUOTE=EmsKula;6083629]I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?[/QUOTE]LOL. If interested I'd be very cautious and not bring it up outside SA. She liked your profile; keep it there.
[QUOTE=EmsKula;6083629]I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?[/QUOTE]My first goal is always to get laid. After that decide if you want to continue to repeat with her. If not I wouldn't say anything, if so get comfortable with her and eventually it will come up probably very quickly after the prime objective is done. I wouldn't take a chance of spooking her before making your play. Discretion is usually a big part of this for the boys and the girls.
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This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.
[QUOTE=MinorLeague;6064230]The charge is noticeable on whatever card you use, though technically someone can also see your profile by making a sugar baby account. I've always used a personal (non-family) card since that's easier for me, and I figure risk is somewhat low in terms of that news getting out there. Note SA has a tendency to just keep charging, even if you cancel the recurring, and even if you remove a card (it takes at least two times of removing the card from your account to take effect).
More risky in my opinion than using a personal card is having your photo on your public profile. I used to keep at least one image public, but lately I've taken to making all my pictures private and including in my profile that if a girl is interested, just ask me and I'll share photos. I don't share until I check their photos / they look reasonably real and not someone I know. I started seeing girls from Tinder and Bumble on SA and in general I prioritize discretion more than something like credit card data leaks. YMMV of course.
Edit: I also used to use a fake photo I found online that reasonably looks like me for the one public photo but stopped doing that because some girls really look and they don't like when things feel off. I know some guys who like block out their face with an emoji or a cute dog but I haven't done the former and don't have a dog. PS: I hate it when girls like draw with black marker on their photos to block out some or all of their faces; looks awful.[/QUOTE]I used a photo of my back shoulders with a very slight turn of my head and they accepted it.
Better than no photo at all \.
CM.
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This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.[/QUOTE]Yea I'm not into a guy watching me / that does nothing for me. In some rare cases the second person will also rob / mug you so something to be aware of / always control the environment. I don't like her face either.
[QUOTE=Mfp79;6070408]This one wants 1 k [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6ca7a73e-4bd7-4676-a6db-b4e64cdb6353[/URL] - haven't met her nor tried to negotiate yet.[/QUOTE]I've been talking with her, she's going to be MIA starting next week because she's getting a boob job. I'd jump in at the $1 K if she were younger and her bottom wasn't as thick.
[QUOTE=Nimbus22;6063578]Is a cc safe for this??[/QUOTE]May issue is a data breech like that other ash mad dating site a while back more than charges appearing. They made up searchable data base to number, name, billing address. It was wild. Imagine putting in your zip code and getting a list of names on sa. Any hidden pic I use comes from a public social media site. Plausible deniability.
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This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.[/QUOTE]Trust your gut and if it feels off then stay away. Don't put yourself in a position to be ripped off especially for what imo is an average looking SB. Plenty of other choices to pick from and it is back to school season so it should only get better.
[QUOTE=Nimbus22;6063578]Is a cc safe for this??[/QUOTE]Ofc not but just use a CC in your name only and that has good fraud alerts. You can always tell the CC company your card was stolen and they will cancel the transactions. I was hacked the day after I signed up years ago and never renewed my subscription.
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This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.[/QUOTE]It's always some risk. . . Adding in 2 of them vs. 1 of you. . . You better really have the hots for her. IMHO she's very ordinary looking and I'd pass on that.
If you want to go for it insist on a meetup first at a coffee shop. The worst of the criminals won't agree to that.
[QUOTE=Bran001;6088346]It's always some risk. . . Adding in 2 of them vs. 1 of you. . . You better really have the hots for her. IMHO she's very ordinary looking and I'd pass on that.
If you want to go for it insist on a meetup first at a coffee shop. The worst of the criminals won't agree to that.[/QUOTE]I think she's sexy but yeah, at the very least I would meet them somewhere briefly in public first.