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I have referenced this in the past, they belong to FB and R_it groups and forums and the scripts are right there posted by some "very experienced and successful" SBs. These shamwow ladies have the highest level of GPS. There are so many cut and paste scripts these days, one of the reasons I have not had a paid membership in about a year. Hopefully things change, but I doubt it.
Be safe.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;6438566]Had a few variations of the same statement.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;6438593]I have referenced this in the past, they belong to FB and R_it groups and forums and the scripts are right there posted by some "very experienced and successful" SBs. These shamwow ladies have the highest level of GPS. There are so many cut and paste scripts these days, one of the reasons I have not had a paid membership in about a year. Hopefully things change, but I doubt it.
Be safe.[/QUOTE]There's so much scripting and coaching. We really can't be mad at them because more than a few on this thread coach us and insist we keep ppm down to what they can afford. I'm basically 3-4 x $ and I'd never pay 8 x $ to see a baby. But I honestly don't have too, I'm openly sexually dominant, tattooed, attractive and into the gym. I mention in my profile that I don't want drama and crisis. I also tell them that scammers that I'll spot them and can move along. This often keeps them away. Also, I'm single, so a practice that I insist upon is a phone call before meeting. I explain that it allows both of us to feel each other out etc. If they are GPS hustlers their script comes out pretty plainly. Also there's an arrogance that comes across in a phone conversation, and it helps me avoid time wasters. I never communicate through snap or whatsapp or any of that bullshit. That's all scammer and gps go tos. Good luck guys. I'm currently fucking 2 HOT 23 year olds BB, 1 of them doesn't even charge me anymore. Not to brag but I'm just patient and spit mad game then fuck their brains out when I meet them.
[QUOTE=PhillYogynist;6438460]So I am happy to swim in both ends of the pool. This one caught my eye as she looks in great shape and was honest about her age. Unfortunately, BSC. Never got past texting, but every response was multiple pages about some aspect of her past. On topic, but way TMI. Anyhow, she blocks me after I don't text her over the weekend when I was traveling.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0be9e1b2-2825-4c96-a184-2e41e93d6d73[/URL][/QUOTE]By any chance, does her real name begin with an "L" ? If so, I think I might have dated her about 10-12 years ago for about a year. Can discuss via pm if you prefer.
Anyone have any experience with her? Met her awhile ago for a meet and greet that went great.
Unfortunately something came up for me and delayed me for awhile and I never heard back.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0e19f3cb-527e-4316-a0ef-d37913fbfeb5[/URL]
[QUOTE=Mcc110;6440541]Anyone have any experience with her? Met her awhile ago for a meet and greet that went great.
Unfortunately something came up for me and delayed me for awhile and I never heard back.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0e19f3cb-527e-4316-a0ef-d37913fbfeb5[/URL][/QUOTE]I remember seeing her on Insta, and then Tryst, a few years ago, advertising as a professional provider. I remember her being pretty expensive. Best of luck, she's sexy.
[QUOTE=EpicSD;6440899]I remember seeing her on Insta, and then Tryst, a few years ago, advertising as a professional provider. I remember her being pretty expensive. Best of luck, she's sexy.[/QUOTE]That's strange because she has on her sa profile: *Please note that I am not interested in men who are attached.
Escorts would be out of business if they didn't fuck married guys.
[QUOTE=ReadyToTumble;6441242]That's strange because she has on her sa profile: *Please note that I am not interested in men who are attached.
Escorts would be out of business if they didn't fuck married guys.[/QUOTE]If she comes from the escort world she is likely a very good actress. The jaded part of my brain thinks she is focusing on single guys who have less financial commitments and will likely fall victim to her charms and acting skills. Hoping the dude falls in love with her. She will then be able to drain their wallets and 401 ks. LOL.
This lady wants 10 k a month. Bless her heart.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/36c36f5d-62f6-4e7e-bf68-7e2935f023fa[/URL]
I renewed seeking for the first time in a while on Wednesday.
I had to call in and give then a gift card number as entering it online was rejected.
Now after two days seeking is saying I need to send a picture of a drivers license or passport. Hells no.
Anyone else run into this?
Seems like stealing $100.
Rob.
After renewing Wednesday Seeking is now requiring a picture of a government issued I'd (drivers license or passport) via Aut0 tix. Hells no!!
Seems like yet another way to steal $100.
Rob.
I renewed my seeking membership on Wednesday. Today I couldn't login to my account and it was saying that:
Your Seeking account has been temporarily put on hold.
To encourage and maintain trust between users on Seeking, you will need to confirm your identity to have your account re-activated. If approved, your account will also receive the blue verified badge. On Seeking, the badge lets people know that your account is authentic.
Seeking has partnered with [URL]Au10tix.com[/URL] to securely and privately process verification of identity. To receive the verified badge start the verification with Au10 tix where you will provide a photo of an official government issued identification document, such as your Driver's License or Passport to be verified.
No way I'm giving them a pic of my I'd.
Anyone else hit with this rip off?
Seems like they just stole $95 from me.
I haven't been able to log on for 3 weeks. Get to the sign in and a pop up says a verification code has been sent to my email. Go to my mail, check span and all, no email. Contact customer service and get a ticket number. Crickets. 6 emails to them and no reply.
So I've been trying to click on any of the links for ladies actually replying and none of them can be found. Is that just cause I'm not a premium member?
Also, how do you guys get ANY of these women to ever reply? All of them seem to make an account then ditch it after a few days or weeks. And none ever even reply to me? Seems like a bunch of dead websites.
[QUOTE=UpShift;6444360]I renewed my seeking membership on Wednesday. Today I couldn't login to my account and it was saying that:
Your Seeking account has been temporarily put on hold.
To encourage and maintain trust between users on Seeking, you will need to confirm your identity to have your account re-activated. If approved, your account will also receive the blue verified badge. On Seeking, the badge lets people know that your account is authentic.
Seeking has partnered with [URL]Au10tix.com[/URL] to securely and privately process verification of identity. To receive the verified badge start the verification with Au10 tix where you will provide a photo of an official government issued identification document, such as your Driver's License or Passport to be verified.
No way I'm giving them a pic of my I'd.
Anyone else hit with this rip off?
Seems like they just stole $95 from me.[/QUOTE]This could be the beginning of the end for SA as most mongers should refuse to send some kind of I'd. If they get 90% of dudes refusing to send ID, an revenues drop, that policy might soon change.
Then again, perhaps some form of LE got to SA and thus the change?
But hey, as the old drug advice goes, JUST SAY NO!
Who is cool with sending their ID to SA?
[QUOTE=Shampoo55;6444752]This could be the beginning of the end for SA as most mongers should refuse to send some kind of I'd. If they get 90% of dudes refusing to send ID, an revenues drop, that policy might soon change.
Then again, perhaps some form of LE got to SA and thus the change?
But hey, as the old drug advice goes, JUST SAY NO!
Who is cool with sending their ID to SA?[/QUOTE]It was already super hard to pay for membership without giving them all your billing info (which would be public if they got hacked). If they're requiring IDs then I'm giving up on them.
Honestly it might be LE, but it might also just be they're getting charged back like crazy, people saying their cards were stolen or something, in which case verifying I'd to match payment info would make that chargebacks essentially impossible.
What's the next best place to look for SBs?
[QUOTE=Glhfddka;6444881]It was already super hard to pay for membership without giving them all your billing info (which would be public if they got hacked). If they're requiring IDs then I'm giving up on them.
Honestly it might be LE, but it might also just be they're getting charged back like crazy, people saying their cards were stolen or something, in which case verifying I'd to match payment info would make that chargebacks essentially impossible.
What's the next best place to look for SBs?[/QUOTE]I usually do ppm but should I be going with an allowance? Just trying to see what the more experienced guys prefer and the pros and cons of each. I think ppm is better because you know you get something every time vs an allowance could turn into a money pit.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/436dbdbc-251a-4303-8dc9-b10f5b1c7675[/URL]
This one is greedy and stuck up. Also hunting for gifts after first meet in addition to an allowance.
Pics are old and she's hot, but definitely a bit out of date.
[QUOTE=Pookie12;6445856]I usually do ppm but should I be going with an allowance? Just trying to see what the more experienced guys prefer and the pros and cons of each. I think ppm is better because you know you get something every time vs an allowance could turn into a money pit.[/QUOTE]Always ppm at first, but mention you're open to moving to allowance if there's mutual interest to continue after a few dates. That way you don't scare off the ones that think "ppm is too transactional".
Any info?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/237016dc-3a23-4831-8f6a-96f881a766ae[/URL]
[QUOTE=Weeee;6447354]Always ppm at first, but mention you're open to moving to allowance if there's mutual interest to continue after a few dates. That way you don't scare off the ones that think "ppm is too transactional".[/QUOTE]I've only done PPM with success. Just curious about the arrangement type of arrangement. Can you learn me up on the details of what has worked for you?
This lady has a great figure, IMO. IF those pics are recent and actually her!! But the reality is, she lives near Reading and prefers to meet near there. I'm getting single mom vibes so I'm betting those pics are pre baby. Wants 4 $. Face is not attractive to me so I'm not going to travel.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/de6b8369-3af8-40e2-89fd-7962cc46aef7[/URL]
[QUOTE=UninhibitedFla;6448496]I've only done PPM with success. Just curious about the arrangement type of arrangement. Can you learn me up on the details of what has worked for you?[/QUOTE]There is no one size fits all approach. I found you have to feel your way through the situation with a girl. Requires good and honest communication.
Because most guys PROMISE an allowance to get in a girl's pants and then only see the girl one time, most girls will make sure they get funds upfront or each time. Makes sense, because sometimes a girl isn't a good fit and one moves on. But MOST guys treat girls like escorts an the girls pick up on that. IF you are able to do an allowance, talk about that during the M&G but say it comes as a reward after the 2nd or 3rd meeting.
I'd never do an allowance with a girl who doesn't have her own place where she could host, or doesn't have her own car as I'm not Ubering her around and paying for a motel, so she can show up later and perform badly.
If one isn't willing to be honest and discuss details (off SA site) then no magic phrase or approach will work.
[QUOTE=Shampoo55;6449525]There is no one size fits all approach. I found you have to feel your way through the situation with a girl. Requires good and honest communication.
Because most guys PROMISE an allowance to get in a girl's pants and then only see the girl one time, most girls will make sure they get funds upfront or each time. Makes sense, because sometimes a girl isn't a good fit and one moves on. But MOST guys treat girls like escorts an the girls pick up on that. IF you are able to do an allowance, talk about that during the M&G but say it comes as a reward after the 2nd or 3rd meeting.
I'd never do an allowance with a girl who doesn't have her own place where she could host, or doesn't have her own car as I'm not Ubering her around and paying for a motel, so she can show up later and perform badly.
If one isn't willing to be honest and discuss details (off SA site) then no magic phrase or approach will work.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the input Shampoo.
I have been doing PPM mostly because I like the excitement of variety without over extending my bank account on multiple allowances. I had one girl that held my attention long enough I thought about taking the plunge, but she moved. Your idea of meeting 2-3 times before doling out the allowance is helpful.
I always go to texting offsite if I feel it's a match. My account got locked one time for something. I forget what. I had to go through "remedial training" before my account was reinstated LOL. If a girl won't text then I drop communications and move on to the next. I don't do Uber either. I'm single so it's a lot easier meeting. I can host or go to her place. No need for hotels. If they're coming to my place I do a public meet for coffee or something just to verify they aren't some ghetto baby or wierdo. No need to hide business from a wife but I don't want my neighbors wondering WTF I'm doing with some trashy broads.
[QUOTE=UninhibitedFla;6451110]Thanks for the input Shampoo.
I have been doing PPM mostly because I like the excitement of variety without over extending my bank account on multiple allowances. I had one girl that held my attention long enough I thought about taking the plunge, but she moved. Your idea of meeting 2-3 times before doling out the allowance is helpful.
I always go to texting offsite if I feel it's a match. My account got locked one time for something. I forget what. I had to go through "remedial training" before my account was reinstated LOL. If a girl won't text then I drop communications and move on to the next. I don't do Uber either. I'm single so it's a lot easier meeting. I can host or go to her place. No need for hotels. If they're coming to my place I do a public meet for coffee or something just to verify they aren't some ghetto baby or wierdo. No need to hide business from a wife but I don't want my neighbors wondering WTF I'm doing with some trashy broads.[/QUOTE]I do ppm too with a little twist if the M & G go really well. In that case I might make an advance payment on a second meet. A lot of times this gives me a little more credibility with the potential SB. It's kind of like paying 1st and last month rent. I've done allowances in the past but I feel like I'm past that point in life. I'm at the point were I value my time alone and might choose that over meeting a sb. So feeling like I can cut it off at any time and only loose maybe one ppm is valuable to me. I would say that the advance payment only works well with a sb that has the intelligence to recognize the benefits. Some would think of it as an extra payment.
I can also host if needed but living outside of Philadelphia sometimes means the SBs have a little bit of a drive. I try to keep it to under 30 minutes for them. I can't stand to spend a night outside of my own bed though so even when I get a hotel, I'll never spend the night.
This lady wants 700/ week. She's moving to Dewey Beach Delaware soon. She's not a good fit for me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/70470d0c-8b2e-b0b6-57ca-188ae8e9e59f[/URL]
Good news, she's the girl in the pictures. Very hot and well spoken. Wears manga style contacts that give the appearance of huge pupils if you're into that. Went BCD on the second date.
Bad news, she must be an UTR pro; made all the pro mistakes to cause a disappointing session. Counted the money in front of me, brought her own baby wipes, no DATY, jackhammer BBBJ and you could set a timer by how close to 60 minutes she was in and out.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/27e0ebca-7481-44bf-bc9f-6c26a66eae66[/URL]
Did anyone here meet a girl named tara from philly, taller blonde chick. Mid to late 20's. Big boobs. I think she was from one of the suburbs originally.
Is she still around?
She's located in the Valley Forge area. Isn't available on weekdays until after 400 pm. Not a good fit for me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2aab2b07-6cba-4195-8464-5081a625b38b[/URL]
So if that's what you're looking for. " blah blah blah. Another Philly 18-21 year old that wants some tool to give her money because she's. Um. Her I guess. I hope she finds her idiot and stops wasting our time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f545fb71-1c0a-48e5-b868-219f9ffb14cf[/URL]
If anyone is on Secret Benefits I know a prospect for you. Good thing about this one is that if you are somewhat attractive, somewhat in shape and well hung I do not think its about the money with this one. I think its all about the sex. DM me if you are interested. FYI, I have her profile name but I won't give out her contact info. I have done that three times and each time the girls name went from a few contacts I messaged to being passed around the board.
[QUOTE=HardAndLucky;6459436]If anyone is on Secret Benefits I know a prospect for you. Good thing about this one is that if you are somewhat attractive, somewhat in shape and well hung I do not think its about the money with this one. I think its all about the sex. DM me if you are interested. FYI, I have her profile name but I won't give out her contact info. I have done that three times and each time the girls name went from a few contacts I messaged to being passed around the board.[/QUOTE]Tried to PM you but your mailbox is full. I'm well hung and in decent shape. I met someone on SB I've been seeing on a somewhat monthly basis but its coming to an end and am looking for someone decent and real. Thought I would take you up on your offer to share and cut through all the bs on that site. I'm very discrete and would not in anyway compromise her or you as discretion for my own reasons is my middle name. Please PM me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a622b670-ce6e-40ba-bc84-d8cf22960644[/URL]
Pitched me on videos for money. I requested a pic of her holding up a pinky as confirmation they are real. Of course the only pic they could find in whatever instagram they were stealing from was of the person holding up an index finger LOL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/511829a9-0e8e-426d-abcc-53db1de3a7d1[/URL]
Wanted me to pick her up and go to a local hotel. I'm not interested in that. If anyone else is, she's pretty sexy. We did not get to financial expectations.
This is my SB, almost 3 years now, met on SA. Just graduated college last week, wants to see me a 2nd time this week to help her for a trip she is going on to celebrate her grad.
Just saying that there are opportunities out there, but it takes months and years to find them sometimes.
[QUOTE=Jgreene006;6459458]Tried to PM you but your mailbox is full. I'm well hung and in decent shape. I met someone on SB I've been seeing on a somewhat monthly basis but its coming to an end and am looking for someone decent and real. Thought I would take you up on your offer to share and cut through all the bs on that site. I'm very discrete and would not in anyway compromise her or you as discretion for my own reasons is my middle name. Please PM me.[/QUOTE]Sorry, I cleared it now.
I had my Seeking account suspended one time and not sure if it was something I typed in a on-site message or if I was reported by someone who was disgruntled by our conversation. I have adopted a new procedure where if I come to a head with one of these girls that means I don't ever plan to meet them, I just pre-emptively block their account on Seeking. This seems to prevent them from doing a revenge report against you that could get you suspended. They can still text you if they have a change of heart, but they won't be able to disrupt your ability to meet new prospects on the site. Food for thought.
[QUOTE=EpicSD;6458996]So if that's what you're looking for. " blah blah blah. Another Philly 18-21 year old that wants some tool to give her money because she's. Um. Her I guess. I hope she finds her idiot and stops wasting our time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f545fb71-1c0a-48e5-b868-219f9ffb14cf[/URL][/QUOTE]Have you actually tried talking to her? Most times when they put "nothing sexual" it's just for plausible deniability. And it gives them an out so they can be more selective.
How much was the damage? I was not sure if she was real so I asked her to talk to me on snap. She is cute but she was asking 500 $ per meet and I declined. She did sounded like a pro. She told me she moved from NYC.
[QUOTE=PhillYogynist;6455649]Good news, she's the girl in the pictures. Very hot and well spoken. Wears manga style contacts that give the appearance of huge pupils if you're into that. Went BCD on the second date.
Bad news, she must be an UTR pro; made all the pro mistakes to cause a disappointing session. Counted the money in front of me, brought her own baby wipes, no DATY, jackhammer BBBJ and you could set a timer by how close to 60 minutes she was in and out.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/27e0ebca-7481-44bf-bc9f-6c26a66eae66[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=WillieZee914;6460195]This is my SB, almost 3 years now, met on SA. Just graduated college last week, wants to see me a 2nd time this week to help her for a trip she is going on to celebrate her grad.
Just saying that there are opportunities out there, but it takes months and years to find them sometimes.[/QUOTE]I had good luck with temple student. One lasted 3 years and another one for one year. I also had multiple one or two dates encounters with temple student. Some of them are just not sure what they want so they change their mind or ask for something unreasonable. I have also met couple girls in real life working as waitresses or bartenders. You just have to be friendly and a good tipper to get the attention. Being a regular goes a long way.
Another group I had sucked with is health care aides or nurses.
Just be polite and respectful. Don't bring up sex right away. Just ask for a date with no expectations. Yes it's not cheap that way but there are more chances of finding a good one.
So finally got to meet this lady after a year of misses. Her pics on the site are a bit dated. She's not quite as thin now as her pics. Still cute, but not stunning. More GND cute now. She wrecked the mood of the meet and greet when we were driving in my car to the hotel and she mentions that her previous long term arrangement gent was giving her 8 $ ppm. She had agreed on half that. I asked her, "should I turn around and drop you back off at your car?" Nah. She said. Maybe you'll find me so enchanting you'll up my allowance. Uh. No hun. That is unlikely.
She was a good romp but I won't repeat. That show of greed killed it for me. This pic is her closest to her face now with the added weight.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/45df3086-16a3-476c-85d1-7cea5e1a8777[/URL]