Safe Sex Information and Advice

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3087979]I get that you feel violated because you caught something from a provider. But without cold hard facts one is just pushing an emotional agenda.

So to counter the claim that these are "very common. Wildly common" and "penetrative sex with a BP girl is virtually guaranteed to get one or more of these. " I'll offer statistics from the CDC. One can check out the report for them self.

[URL]http://www.cdc.gov/std/stats14/surv-2014-print.pdf[/URL]

[U]Prevelance of STDs in the USA.[/U]

[B]Chlamydia[/B] - 456.1 cases per 100,000 - [B]0.46%[/B].

[B]Syphilis[/B] - 6. 3 cases per 100,000 population - [B]0.063%[/B].

[B]Gonorrhea[/B] - 110.7 cases per 100,000 population - [B] 0.111%[/B].

Then relative to this discussion is the transmission rate for various sex acts? In other words what is the actual risk, not the "perceived risk?" Is the transmission rate 100%? 50%? 10%?

Found this info.

[URL]https://srconstantin.wordpress.com/2015/04/30/std-statistics/[/URL]

So what is "high risk?

If less than 1% of a random sample of people have an STD, then what is the potential risk of catching something? How does a transmission rate of less than 100% effect one's "risk?" What types of sex acts are more likely to transmit a STD? What groups (age, race, gender, orientation) are higher risk?

Yeah, it is terrible when one catches something and not what I'd wish on anyone. But that isn't indicative of what the reality is.

That said, covering up for sex can reduce the risk.[/QUOTE]I don't feel violated at all. I do feel I vastly underestimated the prevalence of stds among BP providers (and as an aside, find it amazing that a response to a question gets censored in the thread in violation of any forum rules. We can talk about robberies, drugs, catfishes, smells, rushing, comms, etc but not CDC numbers on diseases LOL but I digress.) You provide stats for general population on a few common diseases but leave out the two most common-- hpv and trichomoniasis. In fact the CDC states that hpv "is so common that nearly all sexually active men and women get it at some point in their lives. ".

I think it'd be a rare exception to find an active BP provider engaged in bb activities who is clean. Virtually impossible. Extrapolating CDC general population data to BP girls is dangerous and, imo, quite flawed.

Hey guys, question regarding partner notification from the government. If I do not provide my wife's name will they go and try to find her / look her up anyways for Chlamydia (reportable disease). Any dealt with this issue recently? Wife is at no risk FYI, otherwise I wouldn't be out on the loop. But I don't need to go through this headache if uncle Sam is being nosy.

[QUOTE=Drtybury;3095666]Hey guys, question regarding partner notification from the government. If I do not provide my wife's name will they go and try to find her / look her up anyways for Chlamydia (reportable disease). Any dealt with this issue recently? Wife is at no risk FYI, otherwise I wouldn't be out on the loop. But I don't need to go through this headache if uncle Sam is being nosy.[/QUOTE]You're that worried look for an anonymous clinic. There are plenty.34th

[QUOTE=Drtybury;3095666]Hey guys, question regarding partner notification from the government. If I do not provide my wife's name will they go and try to find her / look her up anyways for Chlamydia (reportable disease). Any dealt with this issue recently? Wife is at no risk FYI, otherwise I wouldn't be out on the loop. But I don't need to go through this headache if uncle Sam is being nosy.[/QUOTE]I post only when I have something real to contribute, so here goes. In the early 90's in Waterbury, I saw the same hooker repeatedly and she was always clean. She would call my office when she and her boyfriend needed money and I would drive 40 min to the Bury, do the deed and drive back to my office. About a day after an oral encounter, I noticed a sore on my dick and a dose of neosporin had no effect on it so off to the clinic I was using as a primary care physician. Tested for Herpes and Syphilis, sent across the street to drug store and immediately got drugs for both and got the penicillin shot and ointment for Herpes. Now the Doc tells me he has to report this to the State. He does, they call me and I have to go to Dept of Health in Hartford. Fill out a question aire, they interview me and then tell me my wife needs to get the shot also and I have the weekend to tell her or they will. In the meantime a diagnosis of Syphilis was confirmed and I am agahst to get it from a BJ. Worst weekend of my life. Told my girlfriend also and she was ok with it as she was married and knew she wasn't enough for me and knew about other activities. I begged female Doc who treated my wife to leave a sliver of doubt as to how I got it and that was enough to save my immediate ass. The hooker did have what I thought was a cold sore above her lip. So I caught up with her and told her she had a problem and she needed to handle it. She did and then gave Waterbury Dept of Health MY NAME. They called me in for an interview, tested me at 3 mos. , 6 mos. , and a year at which time I showed NO residual evidence because I did something about it so quickly. That's the horror story of the 90's but I think that they are more liberal today to eradicate the disease rather than screw you for getting it. Another time much later, I had a burning sensation on my sac and determined not to go through this again with second wife, Got on computer and found a Doc in Queens that would treat anonymously and went and was, in fact treated anonymously, for what turned out to be a fungal irritation and I asked him if it had been one of the STD's would it still be off the record and he said "yes".

[QUOTE=Drtybury;3095666]Hey guys, question regarding partner notification from the government. If I do not provide my wife's name will they go and try to find her / look her up anyways for Chlamydia (reportable disease). Any dealt with this issue recently? Wife is at no risk FYI, otherwise I wouldn't be out on the loop. But I don't need to go through this headache if uncle Sam is being nosy.[/QUOTE]I think the days of forced "tell us who is your partner" are over in most places. It is counter productive to wiping out the diseases: no one gets tested.

Best bet is call a few clinics and ask several questions about appointment availability, what tests are done, how long for results and THEN toss in question "IF I have something who contacts my partners?" But shoot you could always claim you went to a swing club, jumped into a group scene and screwed 10 different women, none of who you know their names. And yer buddy took you there when you were drunk and don't remember the name of the place.

Go get tested!

[QUOTE=WhenWhen;3095711]You're that worried look for an anonymous clinic. There are plenty.34th[/QUOTE]Do they take insurance?

[QUOTE=Knucklebuck;3096174]Do they take insurance?[/QUOTE]If they take insurance, then they aren't anonymous!

Getting tested regularly is all part of the price of playing. If you can't afford the testing, stay home with SO.

Look around for testing sites, it isn't hard to find. Oh yeah, might not be right in your neighborhood, but free anon testing is around. In my state the law requires you to show I'd in order to get tested. That is B#llsh*t so I have never been tested here. But 20-min to the north in a city I found free testing in the heart of the Gayborhood. Sure I had to endure some flamers that were at the check-in desk, but the medical staff was professional. Then to the west I found another county health department where one goes in and gives a name and address and phone number but no I'd required. When I first visited years ago they told me it was anonymous and mentioned they had drawers full of Mickey Mouses. So I gave them my monger name, the address of a local pub and my monger phone number.

Point is that if one looks around, they can probably find anon testing.

I have never tested positive for anything, but a buddy went to the County HD and was pos+ for Chlamydia and they gave him the treatment right there on the spot. Testing sites are trying to stop STDs, not jamb people up or turn a profit.

[QUOTE=Drtybury;3095666]Hey guys, question regarding partner notification from the government. If I do not provide my wife's name will they go and try to find her / look her up anyways for Chlamydia (reportable disease). Any dealt with this issue recently? Wife is at no risk FYI, otherwise I wouldn't be out on the loop. But I don't need to go through this headache if uncle Sam is being nosy.[/QUOTE]I think privacy laws forbid notification -- and most places address testing via email so get a private account. Real problem is that once SO has it you're going to continue to reinfect yourself until she's cleaned up.

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3096958]If they take insurance, then they aren't anonymous!

Getting tested regularly is all part of the price of playing. If you can't afford the testing, stay home with SO.[/QUOTE]No SO so I'm not worried so much about notifications, etc. I get checked regularly at my primary doc but they give me the spiel about notifying the health dept. I play pretty safe anyways. Thanks for the info.

[QUOTE=MrRaye;3110800]4 pm Dixie south of McNab. Haven't picked her up before so I scooped her up as the light rain started. Agreed upon. 25 for her time. When I took out the cover she asked if I wantes FS and I opted just for a BJ. Nothing special with her technique but seemed open to guidance. Nice firm natural tits which is my thing. Not big but nice. I think you could get FS for that as well the way she acting.[/QUOTE]Good shit, nice action captured shots and you playing safe. With what I have expirienced, I don't blame you. Thanks for your contributions.

Cali.

[QUOTE=Calizum69;3110964]Good shit, nice action captured shots and you playing safe. With what I have expirienced, I don't blame you. Thanks for your contributions.

Cali.[/QUOTE]What bad shit have you experienced about BJ's without a cover? Never had one myself.

[QUOTE=CopSareGay;3111339]What bad shit have you experienced about BJ's without a cover? Never had one myself.[/QUOTE]I first scored on my first harlot when I was 19 back in 1987. All raw from a WSW on Biscayne Blvd and 85th street when it was crawling with harlots day and night. Went to college in Tampa later in 1990 at USF and when I couldn't get me a student harlot, I go to Nebraska Ave for harlot galore. Got married in 1998 and stopped for awhile until I got divorced 5 yrs later. I was unlucky because before we separated I caught ghonerria but I want fucking my ex wife at the time so I didn't pass it to her. But first time I was scared cause my cock was dripping this yellow fluid and this was about 2001. Well fast forward to 2014 and I caught it again. Wow I had a 13 year streak where I didn't catch anything, BTW I hate covers. This time I have a side GF that I passed this bug too and I wasn't happy. Well May of this year I caught it again. Two times within two years, fuck!

We all gamble and BTW Bunny was the last girl I saw but wasn't sure if she gave it to me cause this bug can lay dormant for weeks until one gets symptoms hence the drip, I know that sucks.

Any other questions.

Oh and Ghonerria isn't the worst or the least cause HPV leaves warts on my cock. Lucky for me my immune system is strong that it keeps it in check but others are not so lucky. Google HPV and you will see worst scenarios as I'm lucky and get a small wart that it's hardly noticeable here and there.

Good luck to all mongers that go bare.

May the horny hunger force be with you.

[QUOTE=CopSareGay;3111339]What bad shit have you experienced about BJ's without a cover? Never had one myself.[/QUOTE]LOL we can write this off as a joke OR take it on serious note and spoil the mood. I'm no party poor so let me enlighten you with a fun joke. "Boy you miss 8th grade health class and then your stuck loving soccer for 10 years" . LOL get it.

Since I'm laughing so hard let me now spoil the mood. G-bug aka gonneria or chlamydia are the most common bacterial infections one gets off of bbj. Genetalia infections are easier to cure vs the mouth it is in. LOL. YA know how many tools these harlots suck. As long as your ok its ok. Miami population? Good glad you ran the numbers and know odds are never in our fav.

That said if a hoe stanks up the joint as she sits in my ride I opt for bbj / cfs. You know the smell of walking aka sweat off of her like she needs a shower real bad.

I have gotten msg "ugggghhh I cannot do CBJ oh no what am I going to do"; then shell 150 $ for doc visit and meds and keep going. Thats taking into account med insurance and we all know some hunt SW for fun but many hunt as that is all they can afford. I'll leave it on those fondest of notes.

[QUOTE=CadillaCock;3118557]Her BBBJ is phenominal since she can do it all. She can DT about 5 inches to the back of her throat but if you have more than 5 inches she can't get it down her throat but will try hard and plenty of spit and the best part is she loves the taste of man juice and will swallow every drop. Don't pull it out and mess up her face or she will be pissed off big time, LOL. As far as FS it was offered up to me and I declined BBFS for many reasons but I did use a party hat and her pussy is too small and too tight for me. When a girl says she is in pain and it hurts too much and that I am too big for her I just can't get excited so I pulled out and pulled off the party hat and had her finish me in her mouth. She reminds me of that skinny girl Jenny that used to live on Alabama Avenue. She also would do BBFS and swallow but I always wore a cover for FS and she would always scream in pain that it hurt. Felt good and tight for me but turns me off if they don't enjoy it also!! So I just decided to stick with their world class BJ's. To each their own but didn't and wouldn't do those girls BBFS and wouldn't recommend it even if they offered it up for free. They both see too many guys and offer up BBFS to unknown strangers and in my book that isn't practicing safe sex. It is almost impossible to get in trouble with BBBJ's and you cannot get HIV from a BBBJ but BBFS is a whole different ball game and yes you can get HIV from BBFS but not from a BBBJ. Everything else can be cured with antibiotics but if you get HIV you will be taking 4 or more pills a day for the rest of your life and you will be sick all the time. Just ask Magic Johnson or Charlie Sheen. Also I believe HornyasHell will back me up on that one. He has probably had a 1000 BBBJ's in his mongering career and stays clean like me. When he does partake in FS he wraps it up like I do. Am I correct on that analysis HAH?[/QUOTE]It is far more common to get a common STD from BBBJ, that is why I avoid getting them. And it is pretty hard for a cut male to get HIV from vaginal intercourse, about 3,500 to one. Using either Magic J or Charlie Sheen as examples is a poor comparison, both could have been taking it up the ass for all we know, and it is speculated online that Sheen got it from banging trannies (currently the highest risk group) and / or sharing needles with some of the girls he banged, not from fucking some girl.

[QUOTE=BusterHymen;3121449]...it is speculated online that Sheen got it from banging trannies (currently the highest risk group) and / or sharing needles with some of the girls he banged, not from fucking some girl.[/QUOTE]When you have so much money and an addiction to risky behavior.