Sugar Daddy Sites

[QUOTE=CitySlicker;6040851]What are the telltale signs that a profile is fake? Sometime from the Pix I can tell but not from profile. I also posted in the OC forum of a recent scam for $15. I am really an idiot![/QUOTE]It's very difficult to tell from a profile layout, as even one-sentence profiles with a single cropped photo can be a real hottie who will put out.

If the profile states to be local but the last login is from Venezuela or Eastern Europe, it is very likely a fake.

Oftentimes you just have to wait to hear for the money advance request to know they are scammers.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6041319]So, here are some examples. That Korean girls are very into sex and pleasing men. Hence the 'thing' of K-girl apartment escorts that merits its own thread on this site. However, on that list I linked to, Korea is particularly low on the socio sexuality measure. What is that about? And then, how about the other Asian countries? In the LA area we have lots from China in massage parlors and surely some on SA.

There are a lot of northern European / Slavic girls on these SB sites. From Russia, Estonia, other Baltic countries, either real immigrants, or just of that heritage. Again, the lore of them is that they are very into sex, but the Russians in particular are also mercenary. Definitely never let you forget it is about the $ - I had a married (mail-order bride) Russian SB for about a month, truly seemed to love the sex, but ultimately it felt too transactional for me.

Northern Europeans generally are perceived to be more open about sex. For example, this site is hosted in the Netherlands, right? Because Admin felt the need to move it because of FOSTA / SESTA. IK we don't get too much of a chance to contact Dutch SBs in LA, but there are several northern European countries (Norway #1) high on that sociosexuality ranking.

How about Mexico? Not all of the Latinas on SA are from Mexico, there are plenty of other Hispanic countries that our LA SBs come from. The lore is that they tend to be more open about Girl-Girl sex.

How about Middle Eastern? Their reputation on SA is that they have GPS but may also tend to be submissive.[/QUOTE]Now that's better. You clarified what you are curious about. Still I try not to get to much into all that. From my observations though the years and this was more true a few years ago is that black girls usually were the cheapest to get and freaks in bed. A close second years ago were Latinas for being cheapest. And pretty much all other races / nationalities had GPS. Nowadays though it seems all races / nationalities of sugar babies have GPS some a little more extreme than others. American white girls trip me out still because they've always seemed to have GPS. Not sure why, american white girls are not exotic like the other nationalities such as European or British white girls, middle eastern or even Asian girls. And just not sure why maybe could be because of that entitled mentality. I'm Hispanic myself and love all nationalities. Variety is the spice of life especially when it comes to beautiful women. What matters in the end in getting access to that variety of sweet booty is the coin you're willing to drop.

I recently had an experience when looking at the profile of someone who was older, professional, attractive. She just seemed familiar and she listed herself with a Middle Eastern heritage. IK of someone like this in my high-tech field, broadly defined. So I got on LinkedIn and looked her up, to get a good photo. Definitely the same person. So, I could not really do too much with this information, since I need to stay under the radar, I couldn't show up to meet her, she'd immediately know my real identity.

Anyone else have the experience of coming across someone YK professional on SA?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6043183]I recently had an experience when looking at the profile of someone who was older, professional, attractive. She just seemed familiar and she listed herself with a Middle Eastern heritage. IK of someone like this in my high-tech field, broadly defined. So I got on LinkedIn and looked her up, to get a good photo. Definitely the same person. So, I could not really do too much with this information, since I need to stay under the radar, I couldn't show up to meet her, she'd immediately know my real identity.

Anyone else have the experience of coming across someone YK professional on SA?[/QUOTE]That would be funny. But I have worked in almost all 95%+ male dominated industries. No basically no chance of that ever happening.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6043183]I recently had an experience when looking at the profile of someone who was older, professional, attractive. She just seemed familiar and she listed herself with a Middle Eastern heritage. IK of someone like this in my high-tech field, broadly defined. So I got on LinkedIn and looked her up, to get a good photo. Definitely the same person. So, I could not really do too much with this information, since I need to stay under the radar, I couldn't show up to meet her, she'd immediately know my real identity.

Anyone else have the experience of coming across someone YK professional on SA?[/QUOTE]Do you have your SA settings so that the girls don't see that you viewed their profile? If you have a pic in your profile they'll know who checked them out.

Also Linked in has default settings when viewing someone's profile alerting them you viewed their profile. So if you didn't turn that off. She'll see you checked her out there too.

I've had this happen a couple times but not professional contacts. Just girls I knew from a long time ago that were civie and never would think they'd try being a sugarbaby.

[QUOTE=Alxm1;6043489]Do you have your SA settings so that the girls don't see that you viewed their profile? If you have a pic in your profile they'll know who checked them out.

Also Linked in has default settings when viewing someone's profile alerting them you viewed their profile. So if you didn't turn that off. She'll see you checked her out there too.

I've had this happen a couple times but not professional contacts. Just girls I knew from a long time ago that were civie and never would think they'd try being a sugarbaby.[/QUOTE]There's zero risk to me. I have a complete made-up sugar life, including a set of photos that aren't me, but are of someone I am told I look like. There is some semblance of reality to it, some things better and some things worse than the truth. I think every guy in the bowl should have one of these, unless he is single and professionally impunible.

I keep my profile hidden from search, so that keeps all the foreign girls and pic sellers from seeing my profile. I do know that once I go to a girl's profile, though, she can see mine, even if I don't favorite or message her. So, if I look at one IK I am not interested in, or vice versa (age range below my SA age, won't see married guys, etc.), I just block the profile. I never have to look at it again. There are too many profiles to sift through anyway.

Hi there,

My inbox is getting a bit too full to chit chat with everyone so here's what I'm seeking- let me know if this would work for you easily, and if so happy to start a conversation.

Monthly 10 k, and 5 k upfront to officially begin our arrangement and all that that entails.

1 k to meet- no intimacy expected on the first date, preferably not a low effort date like coffee- however if that's all you'd have time for 500 is reasonable.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/07b1d6c8-e74f-4e74-b7fc-d620e70d4f0f[/URL]

[QUOTE=PleasantOnSun;6044635]Hi there,

My inbox is getting a bit too full to chit chat with everyone so here's what I'm seeking- let me know if this would work for you easily, and if so happy to start a conversation.

Monthly 10 k, and 5 k upfront to officially begin our arrangement and all that that entails.

1 k to meet- no intimacy expected on the first date, preferably not a low effort date like coffee- however if that's all you'd have time for 500 is reasonable.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/07b1d6c8-e74f-4e74-b7fc-d620e70d4f0f[/URL][/QUOTE]With half of that (5 k monthly) you probably will get much younger and more attractive girl. Looking at her picture I won't go more than 300 to meet and no intimacy means no money. No upfront money either until we establish the trust. I smell scam and stay away from her.

[QUOTE=CitySlicker;6039181]I think this one is a scam. Wanted $250 for massage and play. $100 upfront deposit then rest after meet. I said Never will I pay before play.[/QUOTE]I didn't get that feeling. She didn't try that with me.

She expensive though so I wanted to see if anyone had partaken and if it was worth it.

[QUOTE=PleasantOnSun;6044635]Hi there,

My inbox is getting a bit too full to chit chat with everyone so here's what I'm seeking- let me know if this would work for you easily, and if so happy to start a conversation.

Monthly 10 k, and 5 k upfront to officially begin our arrangement and all that that entails.

1 k to meet- no intimacy expected on the first date, preferably not a low effort date like coffee- however if that's all you'd have time for 500 is reasonable.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/07b1d6c8-e74f-4e74-b7fc-d620e70d4f0f[/URL][/QUOTE]5 bills for a starbucks date? Might seems reasonable to a billionaire.

Honestly, even if I were willing to pay that, this smacks of entitlement that would be pervasive in the relationship.

I know this is mysoginistic, and lord knows this is a feminist forum, but if I'm bringing the money I expect the balance of power to tilt to me. This basically screams "you will pay me, and I will make you feel like you're lucky to do so".

Yeah. No. 👎.

[QUOTE=PleasantOnSun;6044635]Hi there,

My inbox is getting a bit too full to chit chat with everyone so here's what I'm seeking- let me know if this would work for you easily, and if so happy to start a conversation.

Monthly 10 k, and 5 k upfront to officially begin our arrangement and all that that entails.

1 k to meet- no intimacy expected on the first date, preferably not a low effort date like coffee- however if that's all you'd have time for 500 is reasonable.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/07b1d6c8-e74f-4e74-b7fc-d620e70d4f0f[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6043666]There's zero risk to me. I have a complete made-up sugar life, including a set of photos that aren't me, but are of someone I am told I look like. There is some semblance of reality to it, some things better and some things worse than the truth. I think every guy in the bowl should have one of these, unless he is single and professionally impunible.

I keep my profile hidden from search, so that keeps all the foreign girls and pic sellers from seeing my profile. I do know that once I go to a girl's profile, though, she can see mine, even if I don't favorite or message her. So, if I look at one IK I am not interested in, or vice versa (age range below my SA age, won't see married guys, etc.), I just block the profile. I never have to look at it again. There are too many profiles to sift through anyway.[/QUOTE]I didn't know you could do that!

Guess what I just did.

Thank you.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6043666]There's zero risk to me. I have a complete made-up sugar life, including a set of photos that aren't me, but are of someone I am told I look like. There is some semblance of reality to it, some things better and some things worse than the truth. I think every guy in the bowl should have one of these, unless he is single and professionally impunible.

I keep my profile hidden from search, so that keeps all the foreign girls and pic sellers from seeing my profile. I do know that once I go to a girl's profile, though, she can see mine, even if I don't favorite or message her. So, if I look at one IK I am not interested in, or vice versa (age range below my SA age, won't see married guys, etc.), I just block the profile. I never have to look at it again. There are too many profiles to sift through anyway.[/QUOTE]Right on. On that last part though you really don't need to go through all that. I think I mentioned that you can switch that off in SAs settings. So when you view / visit a girl's profile you can keep it hidden so they don't know you visited their profile.

[QUOTE=Alxm1;6048316]Right on. On that last part though you really don't need to go through all that. I think I mentioned that you can switch that off in SAs settings. So when you view / visit a girl's profile you can keep it hidden so they don't know you visited their profile.[/QUOTE]You don't understand. If I have visited a girls profile, it is fine w / me that she knows that. I found her, right? The only time I don't want to have anything else to do with her is if she says that the oldest she is interested in is, say, 50 (that's common). I am much older, so there's no point in me messaging her, so I just block her profile. Likewise, a small percentage of women on the site are against seeing married guys, I do have that right on my profile, but again, I viewed them, they didn't choose me (and sometimes, they don't even realize that my profile lists that I am married). I also, in an early message, always point out to them that I am married. It saves frustration of spending a bunch of time messaging w / a girl who isn't too detail oriented, and then her deciding she's too good to bang me. Being married also limits my play time, and that is a logistical issue for some girls (working a 9-5, for example). A few weeks ago, I also posted that I have a technique I use that tends to neutralize objections to my being married. If I am going to need to use that, I want to bring it out early in the convo.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6048696]You don't understand. If I have visited a girls profile, it is fine w / me that she knows that. I found her, right? The only time I don't want to have anything else to do with her is if she says that the oldest she is interested in is, say, 50 (that's common). I am much older, so there's no point in me messaging her, so I just block her profile. Likewise, a small percentage of women on the site are against seeing married guys, I do have that right on my profile, but again, I viewed them, they didn't choose me (and sometimes, they don't even realize that my profile lists that I am married). I also, in an early message, always point out to them that I am married. It saves frustration of spending a bunch of time messaging w / a girl who isn't too detail oriented, and then her deciding she's too good to bang me. Being married also limits my play time, and that is a logistical issue for some girls (working a 9-5, for example). A few weeks ago, I also posted that I have a technique I use that tends to neutralize objections to my being married. If I am going to need to use that, I want to bring it out early in the convo.[/QUOTE]I think you are really overthinking what I said. All I'm providing is an FYI, a tip. That maybe could help you and others that maybe didn't know. That is all. No need to explain all that you just said.

I like to window shop without the girl knowing I checked her out. If I'm interested then I make contact and just go from there.

Happy hunting.