No one ELSE has an opinion on this??
[QUOTE=Boston Guy 57]Well, I club in Providence (though I don't go to CH anymore),do mostly booth dances and get extras and full service to varying degrees. The last time a dancer asked me for money up front was in Philly a few years ago if memory serves. Now, I don't approach a lot of new dancers, I stick with regs who have proven that they know what I want. I'm also not asking women to risk their lives by having sex with me.
You may not think that what you are asking these women to do has a bearing on your problem. I maintain that the type of service you are asking for is only going to be performed by desperate women of less than average intelligence who are more likely to want cash up front and more likely to try to rip you off. Simply put, that is what cheap dumb hookers do...[/QUOTE]You made your point (several times now). Now: IS THERE ANYONE ELSE besides Boston Guy 57 who has never (or rarely) been asked to pay for "standard" booth services (e.g., BBBJ, CFS) up front?
My expectations too high?
A few nights ago after work, having some freedom, decided to stop in at Desires. I hadn't been there is years. The place was pretty busy, girls were pretty and pleasant.
After siting there for awhile a heavy(ish) blonde comes up and starts chatting me up. Can't remember names very well..lets just say she had somewhat of a southern accent. We went through the pricing for the dances and, as always first time through, I opted for the cheaper ones in the open area.
Well...suffice it to say, I could have danced with myself better..the only really benefit was playing with her abundant boobs. At the same time she didn't push anything or stall....when the 1st song was done she got up and thanked me......mmmmm. Maybe I was too old for her.
Then a younger spiner came by, turns out iy was her very first day.....had 3 dances from her, touching alowed everywhere. Sorry guys, but as I said I suffer from CRS (can't remember shit).
But overall, I wasn't too thrilled.
Cheaters Latest experience
I was at Cheaters yesterday from 4:30 pm to about 7:30 pm yesterday. The place was crowded. There were plenty of girls also. It might be because the football season has started. I had a pretty good experience - went for a lapdance with 6 grils. In particular one girl had a huge butt and went for some dances with her. I tried to negotiate and went for multiple songs. All in all a good experience. Was offered extras but was not interested.
Always Asked to Pay Upfront
[QUOTE=Doctor Love]So here are the questions--consider it an informal poll, if you will--YES or NO questions, for guys with some experience with BJ and FS in the Cheaters booths:
(1) At Cheaters, are you usually asked to pay up front for the girl's services, for BJ or FS (if it is a girl that you have not been with yet)?
(2) At Cheaters, have you ever been RIPPED OFF by a girl that you paid up-front for a specific service, but she did not deliver?
C'mon, all you guys that I have discussed this with by PM! Chime in here! Lets get some info about how widespread this problem really is![/QUOTE]But really... if you didn't pay on the way out, how well would that work out for you? Yeah, you'd be bounced, and it wouldn't be a friendly escort to the door with a "see you next time"! Even if you refused to pay for bad service, how far would that get you.
I have always been asked to pay up front (new girl everytime) -- I consider it the thrill of the game, if she stiffs me (in the bad way), oh well - what choice do I have.
For the record, FS at CH has always ranged from $1.6 - $$. I've managed 1 CBJ there for $1+door.
Seriously, someone answer me, what choice do I have?
CF extended 'special' hours
Had the day off work on Tuesday and decided to take the drive down from MA and hit a club or two. I don't go to PP anymore, and have never had fun a CL, so CF was all that came to mind, even though I'd be willing to try CL again sometime based on the reports of the Brazilians there. I don't go to a club for FS, i do like to have some contact fun though.
I was pleasantly surprised to to find that starting this week m-f noon-6pm is 2 for 1 dances all week long!! I normally only go to CF on Sunday evenings for the discount but this opens up more opportunities to have some contact fun. No mention of this being just for a few weeks, seems like the economy must be affecting them, the girls I spoke to didn't like it much though.
Quality of the dancers on the day shift was never above 7, but brazilians are my thing and it didnt take long for one to find me ;) B***** was her name and i ended up taking 2 sets of the 2for1s with her, would have done more but her contact was fairly aggressive and i didnt last longer than 4 dances , oops. Good thing i always have a towel in car with me. Nice figure, great legs but fake t!ts was a little disappointing.