Non Pro's

I'm not a veteran but I've had success on the site, so I can comment.

You answered most of your own questions. In general, it helps to look good (decent pics), be interesting, and don't treat them like providers. If you're used to the other board, it will be an adjustment but you might find what you're looking for if you know how to carry a normal conversation and not come off like a creep.

Most of the women you're after will not be actively seeking you out. The pool of women who are down for short term ppm are limited, a lot have been talked about on here. But 500 ppm will get you access to some hot 20-somethings. Just don't expect them to be consistent LOL. They get hit up by guys daily so you have to set yourself apart. That's as specific as I will get, this is a public board and I don't want to give strategies to assholes / creeps.

[QUOTE=NYTransplant1;6372448]1. Anecdotally hear that most guys are using cropped photos without face for public, and either the uncropped versions of those or other face pictures in private. Or should be prepared to pretty quickly provide when moving to text. I am a single guy without much to hide, so I have face photos (and all photos) publicly available with good success.

2. I have about 3 sentences in each of the two sections. Don't think this is terribly important. The women you are looking for are not using this as a dating site looking for the one. Would say stick to something normal with decent punctuation and grammar and you're likely fine. No need to overthink it.

3. I almost only talk to women who are premium / verified. These are usually college girls (. Edu email addresses get free premium, I believe) or ones who are willing to vouch for their photos at a minimum. Anything to help pare down on the number of scammers. YMMV.

4. Do not buy diamond, LOL.

5. I do not think you will have nearly the amount of success if you are not willing to at least cover a hotel room if you cannot host. Taking them to the tubs or a fleabag motel is sort of the opposite of what these girls want. Which is usually a nice dinner / nice out, some cash, and a good banging. Shattering that illusion of 'dating up' for them is going to scare away most of (what I, anyway) consider the worthwhile women on there. I would personally never let them host, do not want to see their hovels / deal with roommates / etc. , and most are not comfortable at all doing so for safety reasons. If a woman offered to host I would consider that suspicious / desperate.

All of the above just my 2 c. Good luck. I suspect your ppm target is a bit low (400-600 probably significantly better success rate) but who knows. I target high-end.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the detailed response. Your answers were pretty much what I expected and planned to do, and yeah, I don't mind booking if it comes to that.

[QUOTE=Darkhosis;6372769]I'm not a veteran but I've had success on the site, so I can comment.

You answered most of your own questions. In general, it helps to look good (decent pics), be interesting, and don't treat them like providers. If you're used to the other board, it will be an adjustment but you might find what you're looking for if you know how to carry a normal conversation and not come off like a creep.

Most of the women you're after will not be actively seeking you out. The pool of women who are down for short term ppm are limited, a lot have been talked about on here. But 500 ppm will get you access to some hot 20-somethings. Just don't expect them to be consistent LOL. They get hit up by guys daily so you have to set yourself apart. That's as specific as I will get, this is a public board and I don't want to give strategies to assholes / creeps.[/QUOTE]Yeah, the adjustment is something that I probably noticed first and foremost as the other board is more mechanical in nature with communications and meetups. Honestly I'd be down for any length of term ppm so long as there isn't a commitment like allowances or expectations of X amount of meetups. Just dislike being tied down in any way. I do think I can set myself apart with communication at least (age / height also helps), but we'll see how far that gets me. Heard many a story of how bad the average guy is at messaging, even on the other board -- though I know it goes both ways.

Also just read that premium allows you to set primary / secondary locations, so I guess it doesn't matter much what you choose for yourself so long as they're all close.

Jess,

She does massages out of her apartment, but I met her on SA and she open to FS arrangements, easy to chat with and set up a date.

Met for sushi, went to her place fooled around.

Gave her 3.

Body more mommy damage then I like.

Doesn't like to give head, due to a jaw issue.

Not a into kissing but let me hammer her any other way I wanted.

One and done for me.

[QUOTE=NYTransplant1;6372448]All of the above just my 2 c. Good luck. I suspect your ppm target is a bit low (400-600 probably significantly better success rate) but who knows. I target high-end.[/QUOTE]With that being said, the best sex I've had thru seeking was 300 ppm with some very attractive college age women. This is amateur world, it shouldn't be more expensive than a service provider. Lucky for me, my types aren't suburban princesses or horse girls, aka high-end, LOL.

[QUOTE=Darkhosis;6374391]With that being said, the best sex I've had thru seeking was 300 ppm with some very attractive college age women. This is amateur world, it shouldn't be more expensive than a service provider. Lucky for me, my types aren't suburban princesses or horse girls, aka high-end, LOL.[/QUOTE]Hell, I'm fine with just cute and experienced, even if it means going a little older. I feel like high end will be hard to find, starfish in bed, or way out of my ppm range.

[QUOTE=PoonHound1969;6374080]Jess,

She does massages out of her apartment, but I met her on SA and she open to FS arrangements, easy to chat with and set up a date.

Met for sushi, went to her place fooled around.

Gave her 3.

Body more mommy damage then I like.

Doesn't like to give head, due to a jaw issue.

Not a into kissing but let me hammer her any other way I wanted.

One and done for me.[/QUOTE]Got a link by any chance?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ee81778a-d2ed-4a3b-9841-5706d97cc338[/URL]

Your run of mill ask for deposit scam. The pic on the profile is fake but the girl on the other side of the texts is pretty hot (sent some verification pics). Wants lowish ppm but asks for $100 deposit before meeting.

[QUOTE=BoBroBgobs;6376418][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ee81778a-d2ed-4a3b-9841-5706d97cc338[/URL]

Your run of mill ask for deposit scam. The pic on the profile is fake but the girl on the other side of the texts is pretty hot (sent some verification pics). Wants lowish ppm but asks for $100 deposit before meeting.[/QUOTE]SA is just filled with fakes though you may get lucky but it's work.

But I will never and highly recommend, never give a deposit regardless of all the hot chat and pics and even videos shared.

Pimps on the other side are pulling these stunts and clearly seems to be working therefore people are falling for it.

I've offered $200 to meet at a coffee spot and the person responding turns down $200 over wanting a deposit for $50. LOL.

Some will offer you the address almost immediately, agree to meet and schedule a time, but then will follow up for a deposit just before the meet. DON'T do it!

[QUOTE=DickMountain;6375517]Got a link by any chance?[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/6aa94a62-42ac-4fe3-900a-45d0689a1ba8[/URL]

[QUOTE=PoonHound1969;6377454][URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/6aa94a62-42ac-4fe3-900a-45d0689a1ba8[/URL][/QUOTE]That's a link to a message.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;6377587]That's a link to a message.[/QUOTE]Damn it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d05d281c-3d53-4577-96e2-33ed60e94cc5[/URL]

She is interested in some daytime MFM fun. PM if you are interested.

Another pic and content seller.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7bd0793-fbd2-4ab4-ba9b-ad50b83c74d6[/URL]

[QUOTE=PoonHound1969;6374080]Jess,

She does massages out of her apartment, but I met her on SA and she open to FS arrangements, easy to chat with and set up a date.

Met for sushi, went to her place fooled around.

Gave her 3.

Body more mommy damage then I like.

Doesn't like to give head, due to a jaw issue.

Not a into kissing but let me hammer her any other way I wanted.

One and done for me.[/QUOTE]Yes I see her since pre-covid. It's a drive but worth it. She never gives head because she says she had her jaws broken by her ex.

She is very sweet and accommodating. Aways cip multiple shots with massage in next room after round one.

Awesome girl and clean apartment.

[QUOTE=TallOral69;6378634]She is interested in some daytime MFM fun. PM if you are interested.[/QUOTE]I have not seen her in years, pre covid.

How she looking?

I will have a hotel in Tacoma on Thursday.