A never ending discussion
To preface my comments what you tip isn't a concern to me unless I'm one of her next few clients in which you have pissed her off and I will pay. And pay dearly. But I've been in this game since back in the mid 70's when it was much simpler. The days of the spas in Fresh Pond, Cambridge and Lowell. The days of American masseuses where service was good, the tip fair and repeat business was the name of the game.
But here is a word of wisdom or two. And you can take it or leave it. The ladies in the game nowadays don't disappear. They move around, change names or they go away for a bit just to return. And they may forget a name but they remember the face especially if you've done them an injustice. And yes they talk. To each other and their fellow ladies much more than you think. So the lady that you've stiffed might be the lady you walk into see a week or a month later in a totally different place. So is that 20 buck tip that you withheld worth it when you've laid down that 60 just to see her walk in again?
And just to reiterate the point. I've been gone (more or less) for 2 years now and my good friends that pm'd me gave me some names and places that my faves worked at before I left. And most of them have moved around. Quincy, Waltham, Braintree Boston and all points within are just one big mp family. Of course on the other hand an extra 10 buck tip has gotten me a lot of xtra lovin with some ladies on future visits.
So take the advice, debate the advice or ignore it. No matter to me. But many times the adventure you go on is from the seed you have sown. SO.
[QUOTE=PwHerman;2521038]You are that guy!
What I mean is you look for any reason to, in your own head, justify leaving a shitty tip. My guess is this extends to your real life as well, shorting the delivery guy because he stepped on your lawn, the waitress because you saw her texting instead of fawning over you, etc.
So another monger saw you, so what? Trust me that he didn't want to and now has to carry the burden of that vision, you on the table, with him. If there is a victim here it is him. Also, why not just leave, take your lumps and show your dissatisfaction by dressing and leaving? Yes you eat the house fee but it sends the right message, unlike what you did.
Lastly, as I said, I know the girl you stiffed and will visit her today or tomorrow. Since I know when you went hopefully she will remember you and I will let her know of your tipping habits. Of course she won't tell the other girls so perhaps you can try one of them. LOL.[/QUOTE]
Do something, say something
Just like the Marijuana thing, changing attitudes about puritanical mores and sex-for-pay is going to require a large group of voters saying publicly, in a palatable way, that we.
Do not want the government getting involved in who has sex with who.
There has to be a message that can everyone can get behind, or at least one that the morality squad won't go on record against.
"Sick people should not be denied their medecine" is what the pot folks did.
"Prostitution is not a crime" or "Who we have sex with is nobody's business but our own" or "Its not fair to make criminals out of sex workers".
And people need to write this on paper and mail it to state congress, town selectman, Attorneys general, and make it hard for them to shame everyone into.
Denying they would ever get a happy ending.
I have written a number of letters to the Providence city council, and the Lowell Sun (which regularly shames johns).
You should to.