Massage Parlor Reports

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[QUOTE=MickeyMic;3409208]I read that white and yellow chrysanthemums are for funerals in their culture.[/QUOTE]That makes since then. BTW they don't like yellow roses either.

[QUOTE=MedJohnson;3408375]Went this weekend. New girl Kelly. Had a great time. Left very happy.
Med.[/QUOTE]Asian Remedy is one of my ATF, and fail-safe option. Until the recent reviews. I must have been there like 20 times, and disappointed with the service only 3-4 times. Glad that there is some hope for the shop still.

My first, and quite good AMP was Eden on SW cary. But one bad experience, first ripoff, left me avoiding that place, and the place eventually closed (I think). I have tried multiple AMPs in Cary, and Asian Remedy had better consistency, and right services at right price.

I've been using this forum for a couple of years and figured it was time to begin contributing. Went by 0012 and it was completely gutted and gone. Went by 0038 today and the open sign was off and seemed to be closed. The decor was still in the windows but nothing happening.

I have been using the forum for a couple of years now and figured it was time to begin contributing. Went by 0012 last week and it was completely gone, sign and all. Drove by 0038 today and the decor was still in the windows but the open sign was off and there didn't seem to be anything happening inside. These places are dropping left and right it seems. I hate it because I loved going to 0038! Thanks for all of the help in the past! I hope I can help in the future.

I saw Nancy a little while back. I have been to her many times over the past couple of years but it seems with each appointment I get yet another reason to not go back. This past time, everything just felt rushed, although I got my full time. It's just tough to put into words. Even though I got my full time, the whole experience just felt rushed and mechanical, almost like she was just trying to get through the appointment. She is cute and sweet however, the AMP in Clayton became my go to spot until I went today and the sign was off. I sure wish someone / some place with the sensuality and massage skill we all want would open up on this side of Raleigh.

[QUOTE=DTS87;3412676]I saw Nancy a little while back. I have been to her many times over the past couple of years but it seems with each appointment I get yet another reason to not go back. This past time, everything just felt rushed, although I got my full time. It's just tough to put into words. Even though I got my full time, the whole experience just felt rushed and mechanical, almost like she was just trying to get through the appointment. She is cute and sweet however, the AMP in Clayton became my go to spot until I went today and the sign was off. I sure wish someone / some place with the sensuality and massage skill we all want would open up on this side of Raleigh.[/QUOTE]I stopped visiting because although the massage is good, there is zero sensuality for the finish. Just a jackhammer. That spoils the finish for me. I think she feels that it is part of the massage in order to keep clients happy rather than enjoying it a little herself and having some fun with it.

Just for context, I hit numi spa when it was first open and got the standard handshake. Well, I guess I was due for a bomb and it happened today. Sweet, no English gal (tina) that wanted to please, but had no skill set. Not a good massage, no tease at all, and definitely no handshake.

It's like she didn't even know the deal. I left. 4 on the table before the massage which is my standard practice. I left with it there because I didn't want to be a dick even though it was the worst experience I've had in the years I've been doing this.

Oh well. Lesson learned. Makes be think about Mimi or Amy and I really miss them now.

This does happen. Some girls actually don't know what they are getting into. Some have recently arrived from China or were actually brought over by a friend who is working there. They come from the farm or factory to earn money in America for her family. It's hard to believe but some are not told what to expect, don't understand, or just play dumb. I once got the first massage ever given by one. If they are lucky their friend or one of the other girls will help them the first few times. This used to happen a lot more a couple of years ago when the popular places needed to have 4 or 5 girls working at once. It can actually be fun or strange at least. Just use your phones translator to tell them what you want. The reactions can be priceless.

[QUOTE=MythMan2010;3413470]Just for context, I hit numi spa when it was first open and got the standard handshake. Well, I guess I was due for a bomb and it happened today. Sweet, no English gal (tina) that wanted to please, but had no skill set. Not a good massage, no tease at all, and definitely no handshake.

It's like she didn't even know the deal. I left. 4 on the table before the massage which is my standard practice. I left with it there because I didn't want to be a dick even though it was the worst experience I've had in the years I've been doing this.

Oh well. Lesson learned. Makes be think about Mimi or Amy and I really miss them now.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MythMan2010;3413470]Just for context, I hit numi spa when it was first open and got the standard handshake. Well, I guess I was due for a bomb and it happened today. Sweet, no English gal (tina) that wanted to please, but had no skill set. Not a good massage, no tease at all, and definitely no handshake.

It's like she didn't even know the deal. I left. 4 on the table before the massage which is my standard practice. I left with it there because I didn't want to be a dick even though it was the worst experience I've had in the years I've been doing this.

Oh well. Lesson learned. Makes be think about Mimi or Amy and I really miss them now.[/QUOTE]I went to this place the first couple weeks it opened and they had 2 girls there that gave a good Rub and Tug my favorite one of the two Linda I think left first. She was the most attractive and playful, then the replacements started rotating. I saw one there nice rack big thick girl and actually managed to do daty to that fat poontang the first time with her. Went back about two weeks later thinking we were bonding but she would not remove nothing and the touching was limited. I figured her boss must have read or heard something and had a talk with the staff. Speaking of the boss if I remember correct she spoke very good English and was pretty hot looking always sat up front. I'm thinking the owner knows this business well and keeps a short leash on these girls and is probably very selective who she hires especially if she has an American spouse that is aware of reviews such as here. All that said somehow they are still there and paying the bills for now. Based on how nice the store is I just have a gut feeling an American is involved somehow, not all but most Asians do the bare minimum constructions a store, this one seems a little different. JJ is right though many girls fresh off the plane in LA or Flushing NY have no idea. Sure they learn fast and some that step off the plane already have a nasty streak. But I personally have had to explain to individuals what the word's hand job, blow job, full sex, happy ending means, however they are a natural at learning the tip scale. Yes you would think their co-worker or boss would teach them but there are many terms about the business they don't have a clue about, like JJ said the expression on their face is shock the first time a newbie sees a guy point's to her lips then his dick. So when this guy laid 40 on the table before the massage she may not have had a clue, is it a tip? Will he put it in his pocket later?. And of course there is the shitty massage you just paid for and you are thinking oh shit an hour of this. I could be wrong but with the changes that has happened around here the experienced girls that demand a big pay check that know how to service and massage are leaving and the owners are getting rookies to take their place. Example 0001 & 0037 fits this scenario

Thanks Jim and Hippie. I think you both expressed what was in the back of my head. I just had the sense that this girl was straight off the plane and no one told her the deal.

I did notice the cutie English speaking girl that rung me up. I would suspect she's the operator and the other girls do the heavy lifting.

Either way, you hope they figure things out else that place won't last long, even with the lack of competition.

And just as a side note, it's only $60 and $40 so no big loss. It's sucks to pay for that bullshit but I just count it as the cost of doing business in a shady industry. I've walked in with a [URL]backpage.com[/URL] girl, paid and after just not feeling it without my cash. I just bail and call it a day.

Thanks again for the great responses.

[QUOTE=Jimjim77;3413580]This does happen. Some girls actually don't know what they are getting into. Some have recently arrived from China or were actually brought over by a friend who is working there. They come from the farm or factory to earn money in America for her family. It's hard to believe but some are not told what to expect, don't understand, or just play dumb. I once got the first massage ever given by one. If they are lucky their friend or one of the other girls will help them the first few times. This used to happen a lot more a couple of years ago when the popular places needed to have 4 or 5 girls working at once. It can actually be fun or strange at least. Just use your phones translator to tell them what you want. The reactions can be priceless.[/QUOTE]A lot of these girls come from the rural areas of China and they are lured to the US by ads for nanny 's or housekeepers. They all stay in Flushing in these apartments where there are at least 10 beds per room and the girls who stay there work in all aspects of services most at low wages. They find out from the massage girls that they bring home alot more money so they make a career change even though they know nothing about what goes on in a massage parlor. This is where girls like Wendy come in they charge these girls $500 to teach them how to give a massage. Right now we don't have any Wendy's to teach them so its on the job training. Alot of these girls are raised old school Chinese and are very sheltered. It took me months to get my SO to walk next to me instead of 3 steps behind.

Met Michelle from CL last week end. She provides decent massage and amazingly sensual. Will finish with swallow. She claims to be 28, I guess she is closer 35. Has some tattoos. Slim, white. She provides out calls only. Worth the 1. 2 if you have a safe place to meet. I believe she is open for FS also, didn't check it as that was not what I was looking for. I found the post removed today. There is no direct email or phone in the ad and the ad is pretty short. I would recommend if you are looking for a good massage with finish.

Hey Mythman if you think you didn't get a good service, put a part of the money back in your pocket (even though you laid it out in the open). You can leave some amount if you want but not necessarily 40 $.

Asian people communicate with their peers about money / tips. She will figure out why that happened and she will learn to provide a better service next time. I appreciate what they do and their hard work and their boldness to come to a new country and try this out for various reasons, but 20 $ tip for a bad massage is not being a dick. She will survive.

I also have a report to contribute. I went to 0045 (2945 S Miami). My experience was similar to the report by other mongers (generally good). I saw both the women there. One was a 6 like somebody else pointed out, and another may be 7. Among the two women, one of the women is back in Raleigh after a couple of years of rotation elsewhere. Some veterans might know who I am talking about.

[QUOTE=MythMan2010;3413871]Thanks Jim and Hippie. I think you both expressed what was in the back of my head. I just had the sense that this girl was straight off the plane and no one told her the deal.

I did notice the cutie English speaking girl that rung me up. I would suspect she's the operator and the other girls do the heavy lifting.

Either way, you hope they figure things out else that place won't last long, even with the lack of competition.

And just as a side note, it's only $60 and $40 so no big loss. It's sucks to pay for that bullshit but I just count it as the cost of doing business in a shady industry. I've walked in with a [URL]backpage.com[/URL] girl, paid and after just not feeling it without my cash. I just bail and call it a day.

Thanks again for the great responses.[/QUOTE]

I had a few "training" sessions with Wendy and a new girl. It was always fun, and Wendy always brought them along.

[QUOTE=Tee98;3414032]A lot of these girls come from the rural areas of China and they are lured to the US by ads for nanny 's or housekeepers. They all stay in Flushing in these apartments where there are at least 10 beds per room and the girls who stay there work in all aspects of services most at low wages. They find out from the massage girls that they bring home alot more money so they make a career change even though they know nothing about what goes on in a massage parlor. This is where girls like Wendy come in they charge these girls $500 to teach them how to give a massage. Right now we don't have any Wendy's to teach them so its on the job training. Alot of these girls are raised old school Chinese and are very sheltered. It took me months to get my SO to walk next to me instead of 3 steps behind.[/QUOTE]