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[QUOTE=Cammy08;5698439]Good day all.
I have a question I've been looking to ask for advice on if you can share your thoughts.
I am 63 yrs old, married for 39 years and for the most part happy in life but lack the same in sex life with the wife. I've been seeing providers now for the better part of 5 years, estimating an annual $5 k spend (twice a month roughly). My questions to you all is.
Am I a sex addicate or is just a hobby?
[/QUOTE]You need someone with a medical degree to diagnose you as an addict, I say you are engaging in a hobby.
As long as your spending money is not crimping your married lifestyle, I think you are avoiding the biggest issue, spending money you don't have on a hobby that is illegal according to our outdated laws. Spending your time planning your next foray is just part of getting your money's worth. It would be different if you are telling us that you skipped a family wedding to see a provider, that is letting your hobby displace your priorities, or what should you your priorities.
Don't confuse the adrenaline with addiction, yes, we all feel when we are in the middle of the pursuit, the act, and the overall experience. In some ways, its better than the actual sex act. But its what makes the world go round. My own take, keep everything within budget, don't let it take over your free time, be respectful and be aware, safety first. Trust your gut reaction and if it feels off, get away in the safest way possible. No provider is worth risking your safety.
Monger on (and report back with the details).
Sites being shut down. Suggestions
Good day all.
Once again when looking to sites for providers I am seeing more and more being shut down. If any of you have a good source please DM suggestions. Brooklyn locations are slowly disappearing.
Thanks.