The Value of an Education
[QUOTE=GlennBobb;3182760]Picked up a girl named Ashley a few weeks back. Small, white, Italian looking, around K&A. We talk about going back to her place in NE Philly but when we get there her junky roommate starts trying to hit me up for money as I'm about to give Ashley some. Tells me he loves her and they have a special bond of their dope ritual. I said let me go to the ATM and never came back. She has texted me a few times and I do want to sample the goods (at a location of my choosing this time). Is she worth it?[/QUOTE]Yeah, OP is right she lead you into a potentially dangerous situation. BTW. What were you thinking? Rules #9 & #19 in the second set of "rules" (third post in thread!) AND Rule #13 in first post.
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Now that said, (and hoping you memorize and internalize ALL of those rules) IF you can manage the risks she presented last time, then go for a second date. BUT, if it were me, I would arrange to scoop her up during the day, some place public where a rip-off or set up isn't gunna happen. THEN I would take her to one of the NoTels that I chose, like le Carlyle Hotel. If you control the scoop and date location you eliminate the risks you encountered last time. Of course that doesn't eliminate all of the risks involved, so get those rules down and follow them.
Come back and ask questions about techniques or modifications to the rules!
Stay safe,
CL.
[I]Mongering looks easy, good, consistently safe mongering is anything but easy![/I]
Risk Management. Reject Fear!
Successful mongering is about taking risks and managing the level of risk one takes.
One "learns" either by "book learning" (reading threads here or posting & asking questions) or through the "School of Hard Knocks" which is always available on the streets 24/7.
[b]One approach[/b] is to take no risk at all or just "stay away!" That has a 100% chance of never being ripped off. But it does nothing to cure one's blue B*llz!
[b]Another approach[/b] is to use the rules on this forum to become a better monger and to learn some techniques on how to manage risk. Will that keep you "safe" 100% of the time, no! But following the "rules" should keep you from getting ripped off, your windshield smashed or most STDs.
[b]It is easy to get overwhelmed by FEAR as there are many risks[/b]. Shoot when I first started I was terrified of EVERYTHING. But after some time and "learning" I was able to set fear aside. If one does not know what to do in a certain situation, then fear seeps in. The problem is that IF you show fear on the streets the streets will eat you alive!
So one has a choice when deciding to monger: Learn the techniques needed for success, stumble along and let the streets "teach" you or succumb to fear and just stay away!
CL.
[I]Mongering looks easy, good, consistently safe mongering is anything but easy![/I]