Is it fair to be blocked if you cancel once on a provider you saw several times?
I would ask this in the general reports section but that section hasnt had a post in 7 years.
So here is the situation I saw a provider 4 times. On the 5th arrangement we planned to meet at noon yesterday for an incall. She didn't respond at noon our agreed upon time. She texts me at 10 pm that she fell asleep. I told her it was ok we can try tomorrow. So we try today and she says she can't do incall it would have to be outcall. All 4 of our previous meetings were incall. I tell her I can't host. So she suggests a hotel. I tell her I'm not interested in meeting at a hotel right now. Hit me up when you can do incall at her apt again. And she blows up on me that I am fucking with her money. She needs the money now not tomorrow or another day. I wasted her time and then she blocked me.
Is what she did a fair reaction? Was I being unreasonable to you all? To get an autoblock for not seeing her once. Just wondering since I don't hear much about these kind of etiquette issues. Just in general this happens a lot to me basically the providers stand me up, double book on me, or just outright forget we had plans. I forgive them. If I ever did that kind of stuff it an autoblock or I'm wasting their time. Should I be a bit more vocal about them standing me up is messed up like the women who are vocal with cancellations? Or it best to do what I been doing either forgive or not respond back and move on.