Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

I think most married guys have those thoughts, some more than others. When I was married I think I justified it in my own mind by thinking 'at least I'm not having an affair!' An affair takes some level of commitment and more time away from the family, mentally and physically. Eventually in part, the hobby spelled the end to the marriage, I liked the variety and excitement more than the wife. Don't really miss the wife, but the family life with the kids is a different story.

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;2862009]And I think of myself, generally, as a good person. But, of course, I'm taking my hard earned money, and giving it to girls from BP, and not my family. Anyone else get hung up thinking about this kind of crap?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;2862009]And I think of myself, generally, as a good person. But, of course, I'm taking my hard earned money, and giving it to girls from BP, and not my family. Anyone else get hung up thinking about this kind of crap?[/QUOTE]I quit smoking and drinking. The casinos don't interest me. Heck, I hardly ever drink soda. This is my last true vice. I've tried giving it up but I can't. At least for now, it's cheaper than getting divorced.

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Why you got this; being charged is not the same as being convicted. These douchebags routinely CHARGE chicks with that, then later amend the charges, THEN when they are running for re-election or speaking at a Rotary Club breakfast they can say "last year we charged X number, we can't help it if these liberal judges keep letting them go.

Convictions are what you need to post info like this.

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[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;2862009]And I think of myself, generally, as a good person. But, of course, I'm taking my hard earned money, and giving it to girls from BP, and not my family. Anyone else get hung up thinking about this kind of crap?[/QUOTE]Suffices to say there is a lot that can be said on this topic. Here is my attempt to distill it down: There are a myriad reasons why you spend money on yourself; this is one of them.

Stay safe.
TGM

[QUOTE=DrDave39;2861545]Full disclosure- I am in a bad mood as I type this. Set up a first meeting late last week for this AM with a well-reviewed practitioner on this board. Good communication up to last night, agreed we'd confirm this AM about an hour before to get address (I'm about 40 min from her depending on traffic). So I text at the appointed time (9 AM for a 10 AM appointment) and of course crickets. Finally about 30 min later she texts back. Says she had an appointment and should be done shortly. So I wait, my time window shrinking, and finally after another 20 minutes she asks me if we can reschedule for noon? Turns out it was an eye appointment and she's can't drive, and is waiting on a ride. After going back and forth its clear it won't work. Try for another provider but no one is available or answers. This provider has a good reputation but this was boneheaded.

My general rant has to do with this kind of sloppy and unprofessional scheduling. I am very busy and much prefer to set a time at least a day or two in advance, but I keep having providers bail at the last minute for reasons ranging from understandable but annoying (like today) to complete bullshit (Sassy last week). I'm beginning to get that there really is a difference between the 20 somethings who just don't understand that this is a business and the solid pros (Tonguetwister, Molly, Alexandria, etc.) who don't double book or cancel for bullshit reasons. I like variety but the aggravation is really getting to be too much.

Rant Off.

The good dr.[/QUOTE]Totally agree. Amen!
TGM

[QUOTE=SinfulDreams;2862760]Ok I get maybe not outing her the first time, but if you guys don't out these providers that keep doing this, then the same thing is going to keep happening. For instance, I had an appt scheduled for last Friday. Something came up last minute (it was a surprise visit from the now ex bf), and I messaged him way ahead of time to let him know. I have now told him I want to reschedule and add extra time on it at no expense for my mess up. THAT is what a provider is supposed to do. I am sorry you and the others are going through this, but there are still great providers out there.[/QUOTE]Part of it is that once you leave a bad review, you're probably not going to be able to see that girl. Unless you use multiple burners and don't provide screening information. Posting a bad review, even about inconsistent scheduling, has fallout on our end as well. Even here on this board where it's supposed to be monger-friendly. Pussy has a lot of power. The good providers will take this criticism and learn from it. Most will freak out about it or just ignore it entirely.

You're looking at it as a professional who cares about long term repeat business and not as an immature idiot who is addicted to one or many substances. Because of who you are and how you market yourself the customers aren't immediately replaceable. A lot of these girls don't see it that way. Sexy Sassy Sexy or whatever her retarded name is, for instance, apparently hasn't figured out how to treat clients with respect or manage her schedule. She's been doing this for years. It's just too complicated for her. And apparently dudes are so hard up for pussy that they swallow all their self-respect and just eat shit all day to see her.

So she'll do this as long as there are guys who will put up with it. Either because they are desperate or fixated on that provider or just enured by years of putting up with bullshit trying to get pussy from the wife.

Since it's out there yes it was me it was a situation that couldn't be helped it was offered that he come pick me up from my eye appt but already had a ride literally minutes away I totally get your frustrationand I assure to make it up everyone is right you should name those who don't give you what you want that way they can fix it I have no shame in admitting my mishaps but the appt ran longer than I anticipated and I'm sorry that your time was wasted but between school life and a job on top of everything else my schedule sometimes gets fumbled please accept my apology drdave.

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;2862009]And I think of myself, generally, as a good person. But, of course, I'm taking my hard earned money, and giving it to girls from BP, and not my family. Anyone else get hung up thinking about this kind of crap?[/QUOTE]This is the result of us guys, (the round peg,) being forced into a square hole by the church, society, and those who for whatever reason don't understand want the realities of biology to queer their ways of getting power and control over people. It is normal for guys to have more than one woman, just from a physical standpoint, but if you successfully limit guys to one woman then you get to buy the votes of the old and ugly.

Cheech.

[QUOTE=ProVid;2862854]Part of it is that once you leave a bad review, you're probably not going to be able to see that girl. Unless you use multiple burners and don't provide screening information[/QUOTE]If I leave a bad review, I [B]don't want[/B] to see the girl. Why would I care if she sees my review and doesn't want to see me?

[QUOTE=SilkyWetness;2863319]Since it's out there yes it was me it was a situation that couldn't be helped it was offered that he come pick me up from my eye appt but already had a ride literally minutes away I totally get your frustrationand I assure to make it up everyone is right you should name those who don't give you what you want that way they can fix it I have no shame in admitting my mishaps but the appt ran longer than I anticipated and I'm sorry that your time was wasted but between school life and a job on top of everything else my schedule sometimes gets fumbled please accept my apology drdave.[/QUOTE]Silky-first and foremost your apology is accepted. I didn't name you because I accepted that this one was genuinely "one of those things" and NOT due to your being thoughtless or careless. I was frustrated because I had indeed had several recent no-shows which were inexcusable, and you caught some of that. I would love to re-connect and let you show me how sorry you are- perhaps a spanking to start?

The good dr.

[QUOTE=FirstHalf;2863541]If I leave a bad review, I [B]don't want[/B] to see the girl. Why would I care if she sees my review and doesn't want to see me?[/QUOTE]You illustrate my point. If you leave a bad review, you don't want to see the girl.

But assuming you DID want to see her in spite of her bad customer service, you'd know that a bad review could make that unlikely.

[QUOTE=EloquentEven;2848176]11 posts in 2 weeks and 6 are about me and How I am DefCon4 on LE radar. I have good idea who this poster is and they can kiss my ass!! I take all precautions to make sure everyone is safe. Everyday I learn and get better at what I do.

With EE you don't have to worry about cash and dash, being ripped off, guys lurking around, rushed or poor service, fake pics, poor incall, upcharging, unsolicited texts, etc. And if something negative does happen I will try my best to make it up to you.

Thank you again to Moderators for a great site and to all the people who actually believe in EE and use it regularly. Have a great weekend everyone. EE.[/QUOTE]Spoken like a true salesman. Not going to debate any point in your advertisement, but facts are facts, and you are not telling people the full story about why you are so risky. This ain't personal, it's about everyone's safety and peace of mind, not just a piece of pussy.

Doing business with you is like driving drunk. It all feels good right until the moment you get pulled over an you are like oh shit how could I have been so stupid. Only worse.

Silk is a class act for outing herself. Thought it's worth mentioning here. This woman gets it.

[QUOTE=SilkyWetness;2863319]Since it's out there yes it was me it was a situation that couldn't be helped it was offered that he come pick me up from my eye appt but already had a ride literally minutes away I totally get your frustrationand I assure to make it up everyone is right you should name those who don't give you what you want that way they can fix it I have no shame in admitting my mishaps but the appt ran longer than I anticipated and I'm sorry that your time was wasted but between school life and a job on top of everything else my schedule sometimes gets fumbled please accept my apology drdave.[/QUOTE]