[QUOTE=Dtfbigd;2170848]What should one do about references if you are just starting out?[/QUOTE]See someone who is newbie friendly. That's all you can really do.
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[QUOTE=Dtfbigd;2170848]What should one do about references if you are just starting out?[/QUOTE]See someone who is newbie friendly. That's all you can really do.
There are many well known SP's that will see a newb without a reference. Treat her well and then you will have a reference.
Here is another piece of advice. If I were picking a first time date I would pick a well known, well reviewed lady and tell her the truth, uou don't know what you are doing and hope she will teach you. I know a few SP's that would get off on that challenge.
While I am on this subject, one thing I have heard from many SP's is that there are some mongers and hobbiests that act like Jack Stud. I personally think that is stupid. Be yourself. Be nice.
Just my two cents.
C3.
[QUOTE=Dtfbigd;2170848]What should one do about references if you are just starting out?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Dtfbigd;2170848]What should one do about references if you are just starting out?[/QUOTE]The first provider I ever saw asked me for references. I told her I was new and didn't have any. She laughed and said that was fine. I guess if someone was messing with her, they would have had a better reply lined up. I think it also helped that I asked her a couple of stupid questions that no experienced monger would have ever asked.
[QUOTE=Camera3;2171063]There are many well known SP's that will see a newb without a reference. Treat her well and then you will have a reference.
Here is another piece of advice. If I were picking a first time date I would pick a well known, well reviewed lady and tell her the truth, uou don't know what you are doing and hope she will teach you. I know a few SP's that would get off on that challenge.
While I am on this subject, one thing I have heard from many SP's is that there are some mongers and hobbiests that act like Jack Stud. I personally think that is stupid. Be yourself. Be nice.
Just my two cents.
C3.[/QUOTE]Well. I did have a first time encounter a while ago. But it wasn't at all enjoyable so I stopped.
It was so bad that there was a baby in the room in a stroller. I didn't know this til after I laid the donation down and we started. That's when the baby stared crying. I felt so guilty I wanted to leave but I just paid and wasn't going to pay that much for only 15 minutes.
I should probably post a review of my experience for shits and giggles.
But yea, it should be common sense to treat the female with respect.
[QUOTE=Gh2007;2171042]See someone who is newbie friendly. That's all you can really do.[/QUOTE]If you do not have any references just use the name Benjamin Franklin and see if that works.
I have said it a million time, my best reference is to go with my gut. If it doesn't feel right don't do it.
Don't get me wrong I ask sometimes. It is all about how comfortable one make someone feel. Also even though references are something go on just because one person treated such and such way doesn't mean they will do the same for me or vice versa. Thats the YMMV.
Go with the gut instinct.
[QUOTE=Camera3;2171063]There are many well known SP's that will see a newb without a reference. Treat her well and then you will have a reference.
Here is another piece of advice. If I were picking a first time date I would pick a well known, well reviewed lady and tell her the truth, uou don't know what you are doing and hope she will teach you. I know a few SP's that would get off on that challenge.
While I am on this subject, one thing I have heard from many SP's is that there are some mongers and hobbiests that act like Jack Stud. I personally think that is stupid. Be yourself. Be nice.
Just my two cents.
C3.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Dtfbigd;2170848]What should one do about references if you are just starting out?[/QUOTE]Just look for a few of the well known, make a list, and if possible check their websites and reviews. Reading and doing the homework is a good way of getting to 'know' the provider and sheds light on her preferences towards newbies. Also be honest. If you are a newbie say so. She says no, thank her and go down the list. Believe it or not many who ask for references will clear you if you are honest, courteous, and maintain etiquette.
Be safe.
Anybody know any callgirls, BP,SW, or utr in Winter Garden?
Guys and Girls. We had a very nice discussion the other day about how we can use vetting by the girls to establish a member's credibility. Often times many of you indicate that you will only share information with Senior Members. Some girls might let their guards down if someone is a Senior Member.
All this has not been lost on LE. Lately it is obvious that some new members have arrived and are racking up posts by making me too comments or just asking for information.
Remember to always check posting histories before you give out information or ladies before you agree to a special or even to just see someone based upon their Senior Member status.
A2, I would like to ask this publicly since I know that it is not permitted to out someone as LE because how do you know for sure. But, is it permissible to point out someone's posting history?
[blue]Nope, because if they are LE, they will deny it, and 99.9999999% of the time they won't be. Doing what you suggest will just turn the flame throwers on high. This is a [b]FREE[/b] forum and that's cool from a value standpoint, but one of the things it means is that [b]ANYBODY[/b] can start posting.
The advise you post here is good advise. People that aren't already doing this I reckon deserve the Darwinian punishment they are going to get.
Trusted senior members are kind of like what the Supreme Court Justice said about pornography, if you will grant me some license to adapt his words;
"I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of members I understand to be embraced within that shorthand description ["Trusted Senior Members"]; and perhaps I could never succeed in intelligibly doing so. But I know one when I see one..." -Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart (mostly)
Everybody is individually responsible for how they evaluate and use, or not use, any information on this forum. I kind of like it like that.
A2[/blue]
I was in the mood to set up something a few days ago and Dallas really seemed to fit the bill. Texted her and she got back to me a short time later asking who I was. I replied (as I usually do when responding to a post from here) this is Eustisflman from usasg.
That was the end of the conversation. I sent another txt a few hours later and then again the next day. Dead Not sure what set her off, but damn. 3 words in my reply and it got as cold as Alaska in Jan. I know that I have been out of the game for a while. Did the rules change?
YMMV.
EFM out.
Now that usasg is moving can you guys tell me what site we will be using now??
Or pm me some good ones you also use.
K thanks!
[URL]http://orlando.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/beautiful-petit-brunette-bombshelll-22/10906256[/URL]
Dayum, I hope this one is legit. This looks for sure to be a bait and switch. Someone please prove me wrong!
[QUOTE=MicaMyka;2171941]Now that usasg is moving can you guys tell me what site we will be using now??
Or pm me some good ones you also use.
K thanks![/QUOTE]There is a link in the notice you are supposed to click on.
[URL]http://usaadultclassifieds.info/classifieds/Instructions/Registration.html[/URL]
[QUOTE=NedleyMandingo;2172057][URL]http://orlando.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/beautiful-petit-brunette-bombshelll-22/10906256[/URL]
Dayum, I hope this one is legit. This looks for sure to be a bait and switch. Someone please prove me wrong![/QUOTE]I guarantee she is not the same as in the pics. The "up all night ones" do not look like this. Prove me wrong and I'll pay for your visit! LOL.
[QUOTE=Eustisflman;2171755]I was in the mood to set up something a few days ago and Dallas really seemed to fit the bill. Texted her and she got back to me a short time later asking who I was. I replied (as I usually do when responding to a post from here) this is Eustisflman from usasg.
That was the end of the conversation. I sent another txt a few hours later and then again the next day. Dead Not sure what set her off, but damn. 3 words in my reply and it got as cold as Alaska in Jan. I know that I have been out of the game for a while. Did the rules change?
YMMV.
EFM out.[/QUOTE]I was also hoping to see Dallas but no answer when I call her and no reply to PM's. I know she has been having some problems but you would think she would at least reply to her PM's or return calls at some point. Not sure what's going on? I still want to see her if she will PM me or call.