Ive know her for about 2 yrs
And i think your the nut case. She very normal in all respects
[QUOTE=Studebaker]Shes a nut case[/QUOTE]
Most recent post by Mr. Studebaker
The most recent post by Mr. Studebaker highlights the danger of using nondescript terms like “she.” (I will offer that “you” also falls into that category.)
To his credit Mr. Studebaker clearly identified the post he was replying to so there is no doubt about that. But none of us know which of two women he was talking about because he used the term “she.”
The post was also unfair to both women. Mr. Studebaker stated a conclusion with no background facts. It would have been so much better had Mr. Studebaker posted what happened and included enough background detail so the rest of us would be satisfied he knew what he was talking about. And it would have been better to leave conclusions out entirely. Let the rest of us draw our own conclusion.
Example: “I met with Miss XYZ of http:/xyz.com at my hotel room. I put an envelope containing her donation on the nightstand. She arrived, greeted me warmly, picked up the envelope, said she left her rubber bands in her car, left with the donation to go to her car and did not return.”
This is so much better than posting, “Beware.” “XYZ is a thief.”
I wish Jackson would edit Mr. Studebaker's post and the posts of those who commented to remove the names of both women.
Just so you guys are aware of Catelyn . . .
Here are a couple of e-mail responses I've received today from her after my report below:
First one:
a nut case?
Thats a pretty shitty thing to say about me. A "nut case" wow!
Yes, I am a sugarbaby and yes I do have men fly me around the country and yes they pay me up to $1000 a visit. Those r all true and u r the ONLY man I have yet to complain about me and/or what I do for a living.
I do have a hot body but I have much more to offer a man than that. I have brains and experience and offer a "total package" I know how to take care of my men in my life and I do pretty good at it.
I just find ur words to be unjustified and just plain mean. If u were not happy with me, u should have not paid me a thing and left. But as I recall, u did pay and u did get off...humm
My response back to her:
Hey, all I gave was my opinion, I was not mean about it and I specifically stated that you were hot, worked hard at what you do and that it was a personality thing. If you can't handle a little review like that then I suggest you stay off the board.
What I could have stated was that you were too old for me, seemed desparate for clients at any price and were pushy about it. That's all true imo, but I left it off the board.
And her second response back:
Re: a nut case?
what???!!!! desperate??!!! U dont have a clue!!! My appointments r off the wall and can barely keep up with what I have, so u have NO IDEA!!! lol
And, how old r u??? I am a woman, not a girl but I am certainly not old and def dont look older than u lol
Maybe u just didnt want to pay the money or upset over the extra $50, but u were the ONLY man I have heard complain at all about me. The ONLY man
For the record guys, I did screw up and miscounted the donation, then made good on it prior to activities. Honest mistake, and I wasn't at all upset about her calling me on it. And it was a $40 mistake, not $50. I'm late 30's she's at least 5 years older than I. I called and set up an appointment in less than an hour. She asked me four times if I could set up a regular appointment. Each time adding that I could refer a friend to receive a freebie. Told me that once she got to know me and fall in love with me (really weird, imo) I could go bareback (that's freakin' scary) and have access to the backdoor.
If none of that resembles desperate, on top of hazing me for a respectful, honest review, then I don't know what does. But of course, YMMV.
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Can we move this . . . . ?
I appreciate Tryinagain2 and Catelyne for both sharing their side of the story. That is what this forum is about - reviews. And I think its fine for a provider to give a rebuttal to a review if she feels that it wasn't accurate.
However, these type of things often grow legs and everyone gets involved with opinions and finger pointing, etc. I know that I would love to chime in as well -- but now that both of you have posted can we start a new thread for the rest of the story? Otherwise this thread will get hijacked for the next 4 pages of he said/she said. Which in the end, does no good for anyone.
Nope. Not moving it. I'm done w/ her.
[QUOTE=Assmanoh]I appreciate Tryinagain2 and Catelyne for both sharing their side of the story. That is what this forum is about - reviews. And I think its fine for a provider to give a rebuttal to a review if she feels that it wasn't accurate.
However, these type of things often grow legs and everyone gets involved with opinions and finger pointing, etc. I know that I would love to chime in as well -- but now that both of you have posted can we start a new thread for the rest of the story? Otherwise this thread will get hijacked for the next 4 pages of he said/she said. Which in the end, does no good for anyone.[/QUOTE]
Her line is a bunch of hooey, and I could care less who believes it. Would a guy trying to rip her off leave the bills in another room for her, then let her keep it while he went to the car to get the remaining or argue about it? And if she thought that, why proceed? And if so busy, what's the need to push for more clients or discount, give freebies or even care what's said here? Hmmmm? And if I only took ten minutes, why were you late for your hair appt. It was over an hour.
If you remember, I stated very nicely that you had both a hot body and worked hard at what you do. Anyone other than a moron would have let it go at that instead of lying about the details to defend against a mostly good review. I've nothing to lose here and many know my habit of speaking well and respectfully of the providers I've seen. You're making yourself look bad her, Cat, so shutup while you're ahead. Or keep going and prove my point. Your call. . . .
I actually agree completely.
[QUOTE=Theaartisan]I was going to stay out of this, but feel like I should chime in. I saw cate long before she was ever on here. She is a nice smart attractive, sexy woman. I had a great time with her, enjoyed her company and personality, and would see her again. I have tried to see her a couple of times but our schedules haven't met up.
Miscommunication, unmet expectations may play into this but it should be let go.
I saw a popular girl recently, for whatever reason things didn't go so well, I don't blame her and won't be on here bashing on her about what happened, and will likely give it anpther go.[/QUOTE]
Seriously, I do agree. But read back. I wasn't bashing her in my original mention, other than concern that there was something a little off. I, like you just did, even offered it up as simply a personality conflict. My only negative comment was that her being a little nutty was possible, and I stated why, which was legit. I left out some things many could be concerned with, like the bareback situation, just to avoid things. Then she got nasty in a pm to me twice, and I aired it out here to let those considering seeing her know what they could be facing by doing so. IMO, that's a secondary purpose of this board, so the hobby is as safe and drama free as possible. A provider even alluding to unsafe habits is a redflag every guy ought to be aware of, imo. And one somewhat unstable, as she's proven to be by my standards, is also something to watch out for.
I'll give you another example the exact opposite. I reported back months ago after a first experience with an EXTREMELY popular provider that although I thought she was great, and would highly recommend her, I personally wouldn't repeat. This particular person, for whatever reason, felt safe enough with me to unload a bunch of personal problems on me in our appointment, shared some personal troubles which demonstrated some risk for me being at her incall, and scared me off a bit. I don't donate what these girls are asking just to be their shrink, and it was a bit of a turn off. But that girl saw my post and pm'd me. She didn't slam me, get defensive, or make shit up to save face, or even post anything on the board. She simply & very respectfully stated that she would appreciate some honest feedback so she wouldn't have similar results with new guys. That kind of maturity from a girl half (or less) Cat's age. I told her what she wanted to know and she actually thanked me for sharing. The exact opposite of what this *#&$) has been doing.
FTR, and to be fair, Cat has a hard body, and no one that likes someone in her forties is going to have any issue with her looks or performance. As I originally stated, she worked really hard to please. But the bareback comment is a legit warning for anyone to know about, and she didn't deny making it either. And if one is bothered by someone pushing for repeats, referrals and what not before activities even begin is not going to be comfortable. That's my opinion, and that's what this board is for.
Now, unless someone else has anything to say about the situation, I'll be glad to be done with it.
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