Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=DeadLiftSpray;4401066]Got hit with the perma ban. I don't care about the money, got plenty of contacts to last me a while. But this site has been an absolute gold mine and would love to come back. My question is, can I just create a new account?

- Prepaid card, fake name.

- New IP (VPN).

- New picture.

- New name.

Anything else I should do? Thanks guys.[/QUOTE]What site? If it's seeking, just created a free account to double check the ban doesn't apply to your MAC address.

Then create a different username, diff DOB, use an alias. Vanilla gift cards that have been register with a CT zip code work. Has to be registered tho. Use completely different pics from before.

She wants 600 per meet to drink wine and hook up. She says that is what her last daddy gave her before he moved away. Posts in Old Saybrook. Another delusional.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4399948]Anybody seen this one??

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f8e19c71-616f-468e-89a1-1775456383d9[/URL]

Have a meet for this weekend, want to avoid wasting my time.[/QUOTE]Did a meet and greet, made out a little afterwards. She didn't have time for a FC visit but indicated we should do it next time.

This one classifies as a BBW, can suck a dick.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40de7298-65ee-4a37-beda-f39499132c7a[/URL]

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4401872]This one classifies as a BBW, can suck a dick.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40de7298-65ee-4a37-beda-f39499132c7a[/URL][/QUOTE]She's a sweetheart. But the fact that she counted her envelope as soon as she saw it solidified my decision to not see her again. Head game is good. But no cim.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4401286]What site? If it's seeking, just created a free account to double check the ban doesn't apply to your MAC address.

Then create a different username, diff DOB, use an alias. Vanilla gift cards that have been register with a CT zip code work. Has to be registered tho. Use completely different pics from before.[/QUOTE]Yeah, SA. So just create a new account on the same browser and let it sit for a few weeks and see what happens? And then if nothing happens do that, and then if something happens probably would need VPN?

Thanks.

Posts on both plus 2 others. WRP EliLilmama23 Bored Sun an so was she Went to Middletown for lunch at Orourkes Headed south to Haddam to a neat place she knew right on Ct river.

Spread a blanket she had brought. Totally private except if someone came by boat. Had brought some wine coolers. It was unusual, relaxed an totally fun. This was the fourth place I had ever gone to enjoy the outdoors. All of them suggested by others. Cape Cod wildlife preserve in Mashpee. Sand dunes on a deserted remote Hawaii beach, Hiking trail NW hills of Ct. All in all a good time.

Ended up at an outdoor reast on the Ct river in Old Saybrook next to the bridge for some lobster. I also had Jr exercised on the way back up Rt 9 on the way home manually. I paid double what I usually give her. Not the kind of day I expected.

[QUOTE=Joatb;4405178]When you talk then down or tell them hell no you won't pay $500 for pussy they turn around and spitefully report you to SA as soliciting.
[/QUOTE]You could have avoided this all together by not talking about arrangements on the site in it's messenger. I do Negotiations face to face period, with maybe some preliminaries in text. Absolutely no talk of money or sex in that sites messenger. By doing so I have avoided catfishers, those trying to sell videos, premium snap chat BS and send me money for whatever nonsense scammers alike. All of them never want to meet. No meet, no money.

[QUOTE=Joatb;4405178]I personally use Express VPN. Its alittle easier because you can just change your location. When I signed up, I also included fake names and a fake address. Could be anywhere. I used an old address of a friend in Virginia.

Also, I bought a regular Visa Gift Card off Amazon. $100 gift card is all you need.

I was actually banned a long time ago from SA when I first signed up and didn't really know what I was doing. Some of the girls are spiteful. When you talk then down or tell them hell no you won't pay $500 for pussy they turn around and spitefully report you to SA as soliciting.

So when something doesn't work out with a girl on there, and I feel she was trying to scam me, I instantly report her for whatever I suspected the scam was. I used to be reluctant to do it, because I told myself nothing would happen, but it works. They get banned too if enough people report them. How do I know? You see the same girl come back who been on the site since 2015, and she is now a "New" member that started a few days ago! LOL!

So I used to not want to report them, but these girls have no problem reporting you. So report them as well. Especially if you feel she is trying to scam you. What happened to you mate, is that probably a few spiteful girls reported you because they were mad you gave them the hell no.[/QUOTE]LOL thanks, this is great. I think I'm going to wait a little while and the re. Up on it. I had a face picture up, so would a new face picture be fine? Learnt my lesson, going to take it to the hushed app phone number as soon as possible. .

-VPN (new browser too).

- Visa Gift Card.

- New name and address.

- New username of course.

I would like to sign up in the next few weeks again, it is prime time since school is starting. .

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/891881a3-67d6-4ade-9fc0-7c4ca4c2e2e0[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/17cd69c3-31fe-4a30-aa01-fce58d13e770[/URL]

I've been chatting this one up for well over a month. Told me everything I wanted to hear. BBFS, bbbjcimnqns, 150 every meet.

I'm thinking I've struck gold. Set a date and just before she sends me pics from a hospital bed.

Meet gets delayed and delayed because of supposed health issues. Finally, she's better and healthy and having money troubles cause of copays. Wants to meet.

Asks, could we go over specifics. I send over screen shots of what she has agreed too. Nope, none of that works now. Things change.

I just block her. No point wasting anymore time and effort on this one.

Just wondering if anyone has tried the site secret benefits. I have noticed a few girls on there that are on wyp & sa. Thinking of giving it a try.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;4407386]Just wondering if anyone has tried the site secret benefits. I have noticed a few girls on there that are on wyp & sa. Thinking of giving it a try.[/QUOTE]In terms of numbers, both real and fake profiles, reach, UI, and ease of use. Seeking is really the only choice. They have cornered the market and the others just don't have the saturation in the CT area.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4407238][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/891881a3-67d6-4ade-9fc0-7c4ca4c2e2e0[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/17cd69c3-31fe-4a30-aa01-fce58d13e770[/URL]

I've been chatting this one up for well over a month. Told me everything I wanted to hear. BBFS, bbbjcimnqns, 150 every meet.

I'm thinking I've struck gold. Set a date and just before she sends me pics from a hospital bed.

Meet gets delayed and delayed because of supposed health issues. Finally, she's better and healthy and having money troubles cause of copays. Wants to meet.

Asks, could we go over specifics. I send over screen shots of what she has agreed too. Nope, none of that works now. Things change.

I just block her. No point wasting anymore time and effort on this one.[/QUOTE]She's been on the site for almost 2 years. She's a seasoned PRO at the sugar games by now.

[QUOTE=Joatb;4411668]Guys, I know alot of you won't like what I'm about to say.

But Seeking is a scam.

Yes, OF COURSE, alot of you has had success with dating on the site. I get that. But they are a scam. They posted record profits from robbing guys like you and me with membership.

They get you to sign up and when you pay and message a few girls and ask if they would be willing to meet for drinks or dinner, SA bans you for "soliciting" and refuses to refund your money.

I NEVER asked any girl for Sex. I even specifically said I wanted to meet and get to know you.

SO either seeking is a scam, or these girls are reporting guys with lies once you don't seem like the type who will send them money to "go shopping" as quite a few asked me to send them money through paypal, of which I blocked and reported them.

I can only think that this site is taking advantage of men looking to meet girls.

This site is a scam guys. We should try something else.[/QUOTE]There are plenty of us here who've had great dates and got what we wanted. Repeatedly!

It's another source for mining gems. You win some, you lose some.

Know the game before you play and do your homework from prior posts before you post.

BMD.

[QUOTE=Joatb;4411668]Guys, I know alot of you won't like what I'm about to say.

But Seeking is a scam.

Yes, OF COURSE, alot of you has had success with dating on the site. I get that. But they are a scam. They posted record profits from robbing guys like you and me with membership.

They get you to sign up and when you pay and message a few girls and ask if they would be willing to meet for drinks or dinner, SA bans you for "soliciting" and refuses to refund your money.

I NEVER asked any girl for Sex. I even specifically said I wanted to meet and get to know you.

SO either seeking is a scam, or these girls are reporting guys with lies once you don't seem like the type who will send them money to "go shopping" as quite a few asked me to send them money through paypal, of which I blocked and reported them.

I can only think that this site is taking advantage of men looking to meet girls.

This site is a scam guys. We should try something else.[/QUOTE]LOL, I have F*cked over 30 18 yo girls off seeking in the last year, that's just the 18 yos. It's not a scam, you're just doing it wrong. You need to get them off the site and onto text as soon as possible. Then you can say whatever you want.

Sure they have banned me. I file a complaint, threaten to dispute the charge and get a refund plus a permanent ban. So I make a new account and get 45 days for the price of 30.

If you want to turn out 18-21 year old high school and college girls it's the only game in town.

[QUOTE=Tomb8871;4401265]You good to go, assuming you change obvious ones like phone and email. What did you do to get banned?[/QUOTE]I'm convinced that I only get banned based off the reports. Because I took one chick to text and she says how much per meeting and I said" $100 for head and $150 for sex" and she said goodbye, blocked me on the site and I was gone like an hour ago. So idk.

[QUOTE=DeadLiftSpray;4412864]I'm convinced that I only get banned based off the reports. Because I took one chick to text and she says how much per meeting and I said" $100 for head and $150 for sex" and she said goodbye, blocked me on the site and I was gone like an hour ago. So idk.[/QUOTE]You're being ham handed. 95% of the girls on that site won't respond to a solicitation like that. For the most part, they like to believe that they aren't selling themselves for cash. There is a game they need to play to have them feel comfortable. I've never been banned but I take all discussions to text and never throw out the first offer. If they ask what my offer is I engage them in a conversation about my flexibility in that regard and get them talking about what they might find acceptable while trying to keep it open for conversation at a first meet.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4413127]You're being ham handed. 95% of the girls on that site won't respond to a solicitation like that. For the most part, they like to believe that they aren't selling themselves for cash. There is a game they need to play to have them feel comfortable. I've never been banned but I take all discussions to text and never throw out the first offer. If they ask what my offer is I engage them in a conversation about my flexibility in that regard and get them talking about what they might find acceptable while trying to keep it open for conversation at a first meet.[/QUOTE]So. Are you saying that we shouldn't talk to a girl who wouldn't be think of walking the streets or putting an ad on Erotic Monkey like we would a common SW? Hmmmmmm. Interesting idea. LOL.

Blue.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4413127]You're being ham handed. 95% of the girls on that site won't respond to a solicitation like that. For the most part, they like to believe that they aren't selling themselves for cash. There is a game they need to play to have them feel comfortable. I've never been banned but I take all discussions to text and never throw out the first offer. If they ask what my offer is I engage them in a conversation about my flexibility in that regard and get them talking about what they might find acceptable while trying to keep it open for conversation at a first meet.[/QUOTE]Ok good tip, it finally caught up to me because I do this all the time.

[QUOTE=Joatb;4411668]Guys, I know alot of you won't like what I'm about to say.

But Seeking is a scam.

Yes, OF COURSE, alot of you has had success with dating on the site. I get that. But they are a scam. They posted record profits from robbing guys like you and me with membership.

They get you to sign up and when you pay and message a few girls and ask if they would be willing to meet for drinks or dinner, SA bans you for "soliciting" and refuses to refund your money.

I NEVER asked any girl for Sex. I even specifically said I wanted to meet and get to know you.

SO either seeking is a scam, or these girls are reporting guys with lies once you don't seem like the type who will send them money to "go shopping" as quite a few asked me to send them money through paypal, of which I blocked and reported them.

I can only think that this site is taking advantage of men looking to meet girls.

This site is a scam guys. We should try something else.[/QUOTE]Mydick is telling me its not a scam. My mind has been telling me for 3 years to find the gems an don't waste time on goldiggers. Sun morningI met one of my 25 YO regulars. She was wearing short short red pants up to her crotch an sleevless white tee. Slim tall an fit. About an hour later my dick told me. "Ron this is no scam" got to believe my dick on this one. Just my 2 cents.

[QUOTE=BuckCock;4406172]You could have avoided this all together by not talking about arrangements on the site in it's messenger. I do Negotiations face to face period, with maybe some preliminaries in text. Absolutely no talk of money or sex in that sites messenger. By doing so I have avoided catfishers, those trying to sell videos, premium snap chat BS and send me money for whatever nonsense scammers alike. All of them never want to meet. No meet, no money.[/QUOTE]This also avoid doing it in text because when they report you they can upload proof screenshots of messages etc. As BC said, do it face to face.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;3956604]She'd better put out for that amt! I declined a few that wanted 1 k. They're dreamers. NYC wannabes but not even close to the sleek ones in NYC.

Vivaxitalia - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7a611967-dd6b-4420-ad2a-b39ae0bf85b2[/URL] in Htfd area.

Sugarbaby_sx89 - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1eba6ac7-1c5e-4428-af75-79eaeea51530[/URL] Htfd area.

BMD.[/QUOTE]Can confirm she is still hawking big prices, up to $1,000.

[QUOTE=Kumail80;4363458]Its hard to tell from the pics with tons of make-up on, but looks like a girl who used to post on CL about 4 years ago. Was near highland lake in Winsted. Moved to Terryville last I knew.[/QUOTE]Yep that is her.

She got arrested lately and moved south. I used to dream with her BBFS for $100.

[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4411859]LOL, I have F*cked over 30 18 yo girls off seeking in the last year, that's just the 18 yos. It's not a scam, you're just doing it wrong. You need to get them off the site and onto text as soon as possible. Then you can say whatever you want.

Sure they have banned me. I file a complaint, threaten to dispute the charge and get a refund plus a permanent ban. So I make a new account and get 45 days for the price of 30.

If you want to turn out 18-21 year old high school and college girls it's the only game in town.[/QUOTE]How do you make a new acct and get 45 days for $30?You lost me there.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4362893][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5e3fdb6a-5100-4f42-ab6c-0a34705dab6f[/URL]

I'm only looking for amateur girls. She calls herself a pro escort. She's not. Uses the lingo, doesn't drive. BBFS is negotiable, would not tell me how much.

Charges extra for an extra cup of coffee. From just her texting I could tell how our visit would go.

I pay to much to put up with that hassle.

Located in Bristol.

I.

But. Those tits.

Still not enough for me to lower my expectations.

Don't mention me, I already got blocked.[/QUOTE]I ended up with this one a year or so ago. When she wasn't happy with my donation she caused quite a stir, threatened to call the cops saying I was engaging in prostitution unless I gave her more money. I called her bluff and nothing happened. Avoid!

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4401872]This one classifies as a BBW, can suck a dick.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40de7298-65ee-4a37-beda-f39499132c7a[/URL][/QUOTE]Was it BBBJ and that's it? No FS? More details?

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;4415969]Was it BBBJ and that's it? No FS? More details?[/QUOTE]I fucked her, but cause of her size, I opted just for mish. She's tight but there's a lot of cushion for the pushing even with her legs pushed back as far and as wide as they go. Sweet girl, but not for me.

[QUOTE=SamSonOV;4415013]How do you make a new acct and get 45 days for $30?You lost me there.[/QUOTE]If they refund me the price after using it for half a month, then I get 45 days for the price of 30 days when I make a new account.

Talking hourly 300 to me.

[QUOTE=MrGopher;4417286]Talking hourly 300 to me.[/QUOTE]Hourly? Just block and move on. You already know how that first hour is going to go.

Anyone know an anonymous way to pay? Got banned for saying "incall" and my new account got banned as well. Not sure how they knew it was me but was probably the same payment option. Someone mentioned google play before but it now looks like that don't accept that?

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;4415969]Was it BBBJ and that's it? No FS? More details?[/QUOTE]All holes available.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4417859]All holes available.[/QUOTE]YMMV.

She saw me and said absolutely not to greek.

[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4416064]If they refund me the price after using it for half a month, then I get 45 days for the price of 30 days when I make a new account.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up, they are refunding me half.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4418472]YMMV.

She saw me and said absolutely not to greek.[/QUOTE]I didn't ask permission.

Sorry fellow Mongers about my lax of posting but I have been lazy lately. So, not to long in the distant past (since my last post) I have had several fun encounters with the ladies of SA.

My most memorable evening was when a sweet 20 something came all the way up from the Norwich area just to visit me. She was built, large breasts and hips but not fat. If I was a critic I would say she could use to loos about 15 pounds but I am not, and it didn't stop me at all. We had a drink at a local pub, engaged in a bit of flirting, then I took her to my trailer. Her clothing was off within thirty seconds and I was ravishing her perfect DD's. My cock was throbbing with anticipation as she stroked me to even greater hardness. Finally, when I couldn't take it any longer I jumped on top of her and started pumping like I was an 18 year old with his first woman. In and out as fast as I could. Her moans and movements drove me to an even faster pace. I tell ya that young stuff is like crack!

I regained my control after the first two min. Thankfully I didn't explode early. My head stopped spinning and I once again took control of the situation putting her through the paces. Doggy, side, top, other side and back to missionary. It was a good 30 min when she finally asked me when I was going to cum. I told her I was holding out for her pleasure wanting to make sure she was happy. She said that she had already cum three times and now " I want to taste yours"!

A gentlemen never argues with a woman so I indulged her request and pumped her mouth full of my German sour kraut which she said tasted sweet. We lay together cuddling and touching, laughing and making future plans to see each other again real soon. She dressed and I asked her how much would she like for our time together and she requested 200 which I happily paid. She had a 1. 5 hour drive each way and spent 2. 5 hours with me. She was definitely worth the price of admission. Unfortunately our schedules have not aligned since but I am still hope full to see her again soon. She left at 9:30.

At 9:45 my Bat phone beeps. It's another friend who I had been chatting with earlier in the day. She had a free evening and wanted to know if she could spend the night. WTF? When it rains it pours. Nadda for the past four days then bam. A second offer.

Now this young 23 year old is the quintessential example of Tiny, Tight (OMG Tight) and White. Perfect ass, small a cups and cute as an innocent virgin which she was not. She arrived at 10:30 and was from the Bristol area. We sat for a bit getting acquainted and comfy with each other. I to be honest was stalling giving my self time to recoup. It gets harder the second and third times when your in your 60's.

With my batteries recharged and juices refilled I took her up to my remade bed. Yes I wanted her to feel special and WoW, she felt special. I took my time with the fore play tasting every part of her lilly white sweet body. Perfect, smell, taste, sequels. All delightful. I had her wet creamy and ready for me. I entered s l o w l why. She was tight. Probably one of the tightest kitties I 'v ever pet. Self control is / was the key to my ending up deep inside of her. Once she loosen up I was able to pound her with as much enthusiasm as I did with my earlier friend. She came loudly so I pulled out just to taste her sweet juices. It was like being in a candy store when your 12. Fucking awesome barely covers it.

After I has my fill of sweetness I re-entered one of my now most favorite places and filled her with what ever I had left in my sack. To my surprise she went down on me tasting our combined wetness. She said she thinks doing that is hot. She wasn't as experienced in the sack as I would have liked I was in control of every movement. I prefer a woman who has some intuitiveness of what my need are. I am certain she will eventually learn.

We feel asleep cuddling. I was awoken at 3 am by he tiny hand pulling on my hard cock. Uggggg, I was tired but already hard so I took charge again and rolled on top of her. I did the lazy pump until she started complaining I was a bit heavy so I rolled her to her side and fucked her like a Rock Star until I came. Poor girl was complaining it hurt, but she was wet and didn't ask me to stop. She made an excuse to have to go home at 3:30 which was fine by me because my shift at the fire house started in a few hours and my hose needed cleaning before I went in.

She took all that I had left in my wallet which was 170. She seemed happy, I know I was. It was a good night! Mrs. Poo was away at Bible camp, I had the trailer to myself and made two new friends!

Poo. Loving life one new friend at a time!

ExoticbrunetteK [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d071fea0-86bf-4148-adb2-ed4aac1f9c9a.[/URL] Not sure if anyone of you guys have seen her yet. I started messaging and then it went to text. And now she texts me every two or three days saying when are we getting it together giving me sob stories. She said that I can come to her work and meet her during her break out in the parking lot for fun she text me a day ago and says I need $280 for rent can I borrow it from you? She's very desperate highly doubt those are her pictures. Caref with this one guys I think she is a little off her rocker.

Hey all. So, my Premium membership expired (the $90. Mnth, is downright silly), I was able to view my inbox messages I recieved while I was a Premium member for a few days after expiration. Now I cannot view the message. "upgrade to read". Seeking does this to us?. Delete our previous privileges that we had paid for?. TIA.